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Re: Wife Insists On Having Separate Bedrooms After Wedding by EmmyMaestro(m): 4:38pm On Jun 07 |
Her reasons sound valid but it is still a no for me. It is good the argument came up before the marriage if not if it came later e no go funny. Besides, i thought that separate rooms are for polygamous homes where all the wives will have their own rooms then when it is time for the meeting, Oga can tell anyone of the wives "I will see you tonight" or they can tell the man "your attention is needed" |
Re: Wife Insists On Having Separate Bedrooms After Wedding by xtianchris(m): 4:39pm On Jun 07 |
Mariangeles:There's a motive behind every action |
Re: Wife Insists On Having Separate Bedrooms After Wedding by ednut1(m): 4:39pm On Jun 07 |
Woman load fit contain one room Let her have her own room na. Then she sleeps in yours 2 Likes |
Re: Wife Insists On Having Separate Bedrooms After Wedding by AskNgige2: 4:40pm On Jun 07 |
Jeon:LMAO π€£π€£π€£π€£ u |
Re: Wife Insists On Having Separate Bedrooms After Wedding by freeman67: 4:41pm On Jun 07 |
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Re: Wife Insists On Having Separate Bedrooms After Wedding by AskNgige2: 4:42pm On Jun 07 |
Reason why I suppose to abolish marriage, But we can have kids, knack but live our separate ways.. Try friends with benefits and see how peaceful it is.. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Wife Insists On Having Separate Bedrooms After Wedding by Ishilove: 4:42pm On Jun 07 |
Mariangeles:I don't quite agree. I grew up in a family where my parents had separate bedrooms. It is when I started visiting social media that I discovered some couples have just one bedroom to themselves. All my childhood friends grew up with parents with similar ideals and all of them, my parents included are still waxing strong till date 8 Likes |
Re: Wife Insists On Having Separate Bedrooms After Wedding by Harddiskng(m): 4:42pm On Jun 07 |
Jeon: Is either you are planning to get married to a dirty human or youβre already married to one. |
Re: Wife Insists On Having Separate Bedrooms After Wedding by Lexusgs430: 4:43pm On Jun 07 |
He should allow her ........ It's a blessing in disguise......ππ€£ 1 Like |
Re: Wife Insists On Having Separate Bedrooms After Wedding by jaxxy(m): 4:44pm On Jun 07 |
She doesn't need her own room for any of that. if she needs alone time she can temporarily use a guest room not have her own room. The man doesn't want to marry a stranger. However to defense after cohabiting in same room after these issues become obvious or unbearable they both can workout a solution or agree on her having her room but it will be both their decision not just hers or else soon she will be asking for privacy that's completely abnormal in marriage. |
Re: Wife Insists On Having Separate Bedrooms After Wedding by faithfull18(f): 4:45pm On Jun 07 |
To each, his own. |
Re: Wife Insists On Having Separate Bedrooms After Wedding by hammer567: 4:46pm On Jun 07 |
MY BROTHER, AT LEAST THIS WAY, NOBODY GO TAKE KNIFE CUT YOUR PRICK, IF U DEY SLEEP. MAKE SURE U LOCK YOUR DOOR WITH BOT AND KEYS. NO MORE SLEEPING WITH ONE EYE OPEN AFTER U AND MADAM FIGHT. 3 Likes |
Re: Wife Insists On Having Separate Bedrooms After Wedding by Obierika(m): 4:47pm On Jun 07 |
Negroid001: Really? |
Re: Wife Insists On Having Separate Bedrooms After Wedding by MASTAkiLLAh(m): 4:47pm On Jun 07 |
Argument that never happened. No man will ever complain if his house has enough rooms and madam wants her separate corner, we all know they'll hardly sleep there except once in a while. It's usually women who insist on staying in master bedroom and rejecting the idea of their own rooms. You bloggers and content creators should stop lying for Africa 6 Likes |
Re: Wife Insists On Having Separate Bedrooms After Wedding by spiceadole: 4:49pm On Jun 07 |
I SUPPORT separate bedroom in marriage. My parents had it and still do. My husband's parents still do. There is ABSOLUTELY nothing wrong with separately bedrooms. My husband and I have separate bedrooms. Some times,we sleep In each other's room but we maintain our separate rooms. Marriage is not bondage. Sometimes, breathing space is required. 11 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Wife Insists On Having Separate Bedrooms After Wedding by LeeSmart: 4:49pm On Jun 07 |
Omor before i met my wife i use to date the daughter of the current CoS to the gov. of benue state, she told me daht if i eventually get married to her daht we're going to have our seperate bed rooms nd she was serious about, no be me u go do daht kind play with. Daht was how the relationship died a natural death. |
Re: Wife Insists On Having Separate Bedrooms After Wedding by Theoarhics: 4:49pm On Jun 07 |
Make the husband no give her toilet infection 1 Like |
Re: Wife Insists On Having Separate Bedrooms After Wedding by hafeeanubasy: 4:51pm On Jun 07 |
LilMissFavvy:Exactly! Its not traditional. Infact,Its western and whitish. I grew up seeing my mum and dad staying in different rooms.I got married and I maintained it! 6 Likes |
Re: Wife Insists On Having Separate Bedrooms After Wedding by spiceadole: 4:51pm On Jun 07 |
Ishilove: Same with me My parents still have separate bedrooms. Many of my uncles and aunts operate same with their spouses. It's this age of social media that makes it look abnormal. 1 Like |
Re: Wife Insists On Having Separate Bedrooms After Wedding by nwakibie3(m): 4:51pm On Jun 07 |
But when they were into courtship they shared one bedroom anytime he visits the guy abi she no dey mensurate then She has something to hide jare |
Re: Wife Insists On Having Separate Bedrooms After Wedding by freeman67: 4:53pm On Jun 07 |
That's your opinion and it's not bad. I think the husband should have his own separate room too. Where he will have his own lone time and arrange his own stuff since he is not clumsy and like his stuff arranged. The masters bedroom will be like a stadium for match when needed. That way, no one goes to each others room. His own sibling too will not have any reasons to come the masters bedroom. Whenever he wants his space he can just go there and be on his own. That is what is missing here. |
Re: Wife Insists On Having Separate Bedrooms After Wedding by Didi2d(m): 4:54pm On Jun 07 |
It's a no no for me. I have said it several times, any woman that clamor for separate room from her husband cheats. She needs that privacy, that late night time, to call and probably do video chats with her boy friend or man friend. Period! |
Re: Wife Insists On Having Separate Bedrooms After Wedding by McLizbae: 4:54pm On Jun 07 |
Two rooms for the couple is fine for many reasons. What I do not want is one calling it his/her room. It's just better be called a functional name such as work roomnor something. |
Re: Wife Insists On Having Separate Bedrooms After Wedding by descarado: 4:55pm On Jun 07 |
All people that matters have separate bedrooms including our parents. The advantages outweighs the disadvantages unless you live in 1 or 2 bedroom apartments, you have no reason packing yourselves in one room 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Wife Insists On Having Separate Bedrooms After Wedding by Negroid001(m): 4:56pm On Jun 07 |
Obierika: Yeah bro. |
Re: Wife Insists On Having Separate Bedrooms After Wedding by Niok: 4:58pm On Jun 07 |
Well growing up we lived in a four bedroom flat in Lagos My mum and dad had separate bedrooms I only had vivid knowledge of My mum going to my dads room whenever they want to make love hahaha |
Re: Wife Insists On Having Separate Bedrooms After Wedding by ElevationD: 4:58pm On Jun 07 |
Mariangeles: The person already included divorce when she signed on the wedding day. She has things to hide that she does not want her husband to find out. She may be gay and wants privacy with her gay partner. Menstrual cramps generally cease after childbirth, so the excuse is not valid. Her love or commitment is incomplete. She will neither be loyal nor obidient. |
Re: Wife Insists On Having Separate Bedrooms After Wedding by geewean(m): 4:58pm On Jun 07 |
So you like this no get body smell, breath and you no dey fart? Nigerian women so so dramatic and na why I dey happy Una dey meet Una match. So what is marriage to you? Did your parents live in desperate rooms? All these ghetto girl in shanty towns will demand a lifestyle their father never gave them from another man. No wonder organ harvesters use you guys to cash out well . Na organ harvesters go give you separate room and you wake up on day see say your kidney don disappear. Na front page we go dey see Tori Tori Una no wan learn.I won't be shocked if you just finished writing NECO exams today ......ππππ Jeon: |
Re: Wife Insists On Having Separate Bedrooms After Wedding by Etosha: 5:00pm On Jun 07 |
If you are not a deep sleeper and you marry someone that snore heavily... Well. |
Re: Wife Insists On Having Separate Bedrooms After Wedding by timmyblue(m): 5:01pm On Jun 07 |
Most lesbians or bisexual as we have here in naija always want separate bedroom... She wan dey hide make calls and do rubbish |
Re: Wife Insists On Having Separate Bedrooms After Wedding by descarado: 5:01pm On Jun 07 |
spiceadole: Anybody who will cheat will cheat. What people don't know is that too much closeness breeds suffocation and nobody wants that. Let your husband or wife breath. As for sex, it will always happen in any part of the house at any time, not necessarily at night. Heaven help you if your partner is the farting or snoring type 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Wife Insists On Having Separate Bedrooms After Wedding by Babastrong(m): 5:06pm On Jun 07 |
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