EreluRoz:
I see you marrying a mother of four

God forbid you.

Dizzyyish:
1. Her baby daddy has imprinted on her. As a woman, she is more invested in him as she has his baby but you'll be invested in her going forward:
Baby Daddy < Her < You.

2. Baggage.

3. Her child will ALWAYS have a higher priority than you.

4. You're simply there to provide for the child and herself. You'll know this someday when you try to discipline the child.

Women do not love, but your love has a sedative and blinding effect. Once it clears hope you won't see yourself lying wrapped up on a spider's web.

Deep!

Zonefree:

God forbid you.

The universe has a way of bringing to you what you so condemn unjustly

nkemjacob2:
U took porn poster as an advice.

What porn poster? How is the message depicted on the image related to porn?

Are you confusing the logo on the image with pornhub? look again!

She dey irrational...

Because she has a baby?

For all he knows he might be the only one she ever slept with in her life which resulted in her having a baby.

What About other girls who have had numerous sexual partners in the past or those with numerous abortions?

Are they still irrational? Or not because they have no "evidence" of their waywardness?

I don't see where being irrational comes in this situation Sha.

Many people commit fornication... You can't single her out because she probably didn't want to terminate her pregnancy as being irrational.

OP if you love her and she has a good character then go ahead.

Do not stereotype her as being irresponsible because "baby mamas are".

Take your time to know your woman. If you like what you see... And feel you can cope with the baggage that comes along with the relationship - which is her child in this situation then go ahead and wife her!

nkemjacob2:
Pls i need an advice I am in love with a girl she is a baby mama. But I am finding hard to battle the metal stress of her been a baby mama of a boy. Pls I need your advice to over come this. I truly love her and I want to marry her. Pls no jokes

If she all that you need in a woman,go with her but dont let outward appearance and sex take away your sense of reasoning o. Talking about a life partner,pray about it.

immortalcrown:
Some baby mamas are good, some are bad. All baby mamas are not the same because not the same situation made them baby mamas.

My advice to you will be based on the situation that made your crush a baby mama. How and at what age did she become a baby mama?

Japaaaaa oOoOO, e get why men dey avoid them. Widow is far better

nkemjacob2:
Pls i need an advice I am in love with a girl she is a baby mama. But I am finding hard to battle the metal stress of her been a baby mama of a boy. Pls I need your advice to over come this. I truly love her and I want to marry her. Pls no jokes

If she was a good woman, she won't have ended up as a baby mama in the first place

nkemjacob2:
she got deceived by a guy that promised her marriage 5 years ago. She was ignorant then. But the guy still takes care of the boy. But they are no more

Deceived kó received nì . She was enjoying raw sex with the manchi. Nothing wrong in dating a single mom though as long as you not taking care of her child

Ok

Go for her if you truly love her

nkemjacob2:
Pls i need an advice I am in love with a girl she is a baby mama. But I am finding hard to battle the metal stress of her been a baby mama of a boy. Pls I need your advice to over come this. I truly love her and I want to marry her. Pls no jokes

If she adding value to your life and ready to add family to the family, then proceed on your procedure. Pickin no be sin, na God blessing

You love her to bang or to marry?


If you just one knack her, abeg no add to her already psychological stress but if you want to marry her then be ready for your own psychological stress, a baby mama that the baby daddy is still alived maybe unmarried too is not safe

Congratulations!!!

How you go love second hand woman wey don born pikin. All your things wey you get for house including your car, clothes and shoes na second hand. Dem take second hand swear for you?

nkemjacob2:
Pls i need an advice I am in love with a girl she is a baby mama. But I am finding hard to battle the metal stress of her been a baby mama of a boy. Pls I need your advice to over come this. I truly love her and I want to marry her. Pls no jokes

. Don’t do it, don’t ever try it or else’s the ex husband is dead! If that guy is alive please run! I’ve been there, you have 99% of crying in that trap called love!

nkemjacob2:
Pls i need an advice I am in love with a girl she is a baby mama. But I am finding hard to battle the metal stress of her been a baby mama of a boy. Pls I need your advice to over come this. I truly love her and I want to marry her. Pls no jokes

Think twice before you lose yourself

Ategberoson:
You love her to bang or to marry?

boat of dem

We already have a lot of things to think about rather than this.
Try and send in something that is more reasonable than this.

Error401:
. Don’t do it, don’t ever try it or else’s the ex husband is dead! If that guy is alive please run! I’ve been there, you have 99% of crying in that trap called love!

the guy no go listen to you. Na so Wunmi take kill Mohbad

nkemjacob2:
she got deceived by a guy that promised her marriage 5 years ago. She was ignorant then. But the guy still takes care of the boy. But they are no more

Scoffs***


Same old same old bullshiit.. They always get deceived . 95% of them usually tell that story ..

Sob story wey don cast ...


Op, na you sabi ooo

nkemjacob2:
she got deceived by a guy that promised her marriage 5 years ago. She was ignorant then. But the guy still takes care of the boy. But they are no more

Hahahahahahahaha.....

Can u imagine this guy...

Ficeo:
We already have a lot of things to think about rather than this.
Try and send in something that is more reasonable than this.

like the price of Ata rodo and tomatoes in the market

After marriage within one yr u will come back here for advice

MASTAkiLLAh:
If she makes you happy then stay with her but if you can't accept the innocent boy from your heart then, let her go. I see nothing wrong with baby mamas most of the time, they're more matured when it comes to love. The only problem could be if you're not financially capable to take care of the kid but like I say, if you're not ready to love and accept the boy from your heart then let her go

Best response so far because baby mama areore matured due to their failed relationship so they I'll want to build this to be a perfect one in disguise 💗🥸

Unlike those small small pikin wey their beauty don block their sense 💢

One word: RUN!!

omoadeleye:



If she was a good woman, she won't have ended up as a baby mama in the first place

I tell you

Sonnobax15:

You should consider your peace of mind first,and not the opinions of total strangers...

If she's giving you peace of mind,and as well being the understanding type,then you shouldn't hesitate to do the needful which is marrying her ASAP...

Na baby mama she be,she no kill person

opinions matters though… he has a higher chance of failing

EmperorCaesar:


This life is too short for humans to go about seeking for advice on what they plan to do
Gen engaged with her, if u fail, u learn and if it goes well,you will be happy....either way it ends, the joy and sorrow that comes with wont last that long except say u wan marry her

We cant be too sure of how it might turn out to be in the end

I like to make stereotypic statements alot, its either blue or black for me and if i were in your shoes, I'd never go for her

No match starts at 0-1 no matter the sound reason u tryna use justify that abnormality

Well since the grown ass human couldn't learn this until this stage of his existence, especially on matters like this, thanks mate for educating him.

Ah, wetin even concern me, some child just gave me the middle finger on my mentions for speaking against the actions of his Lord Netanyahu...smh

Emu4u2c:
I'm in one currently.. I love the girl but she is all shade of wrong and every Day I see reasons why everyone is against single mothers...One thing I observed about the single mother in my care..She fights me and disrespects me but you should see the respect she gives to the baby daddy...gets me confused then Why didn't he cope with her bad character..And believe me sometimes I feel like I'm her dump load where she off-loads all her rubbish...Why am I still in such relationship?.. Well I have access to free kitten why it last....I won't say I'm a Red piller..no.. but at least I'm not mentally and emotionally locked to her...so I'm taking advantage of the situation...Are we getting married?.... That's Left for God to decide and well I'm awaiting his direction but I will enjoy the moment while it last

You Should value your time.

That's your problem if you like be in love with a widow.

Emu4u2c:
She fights me and disrespects me but you should see the respect she gives to the baby daddy......Are we getting married?.... That's Left for God to decide and well I'm awaiting his direction but I will enjoy the moment while it last

I don’t know if anyone has ever told you this, but you are a morön.

If I'm the first person to tell you this, you need to change your circle of friends.