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Re: Wife Insists On Having Separate Bedrooms After Wedding by Sapasenator: 1:48am On Jun 09
TOPMAN4LIFE:

What has elders in your family achieved compared to what pastor adeboye has achieved.
Mention the name of your father if he knows beyond your village
I know you are from tribe that insult your father and elders.
The insults you throw at pastor adeboye who is Old enough to be your grandparents will come for you at your old age.
Younger children will also mock you and insult you at your old age
You are sowing insults elders today, you reap it in multiple folds later in your future

The elders in his family have actually worked for their money, Adeboye never worked but lived off of the money of others, he is part of the reason the country is in a mess and other god of men like him, he has achieved nothing but enriched himself at the expense of others. God will surely judge him and his likes. I have zero regard for him.
Re: Wife Insists On Having Separate Bedrooms After Wedding by omoredia: 2:43am On Jun 09
TOPMAN4LIFE:

What has elders in your family achieved compared to what pastor adeboye has achieved.
Mention the name of your father if he knows beyond your village
I know you are from tribe that insult your father and elders.
The insults you throw at pastor adeboye who is Old enough to be your grandparents will come for you at your old age.
Younger children will also mock you and insult you at your old age
You are sowing insults elders today, you reap it in multiple folds later in your future

If achieve through criminality and deceit what's the point? There is something called good success. Don't be fooled.
Re: Wife Insists On Having Separate Bedrooms After Wedding by omoredia: 3:32am On Jun 09
TOPMAN4LIFE:

What has elders in your family achieved compared to what pastor adeboye has achieved.
Mention the name of your father if he knows beyond your village
I know you are from tribe that insult your father and elders.
The insults you throw at pastor adeboye who is Old enough to be your grandparents will come for you at your old age.
Younger children will also mock you and insult you at your old age
You are sowing insults elders today, you reap it in multiple folds later in your future

A liar and a blasphemer that claim to drink tea with God. If not that his member are fools that respect a liar more than God he should ideally be hanged for blasphemy
Re: Wife Insists On Having Separate Bedrooms After Wedding by jayce232: 7:25am On Jun 09
Mariangeles:
Separate bedrooms in marriage is nonsense!
Couples who have separate bedrooms will hardly be able to resolve issues in their marriage (quickly).
Whoever wants a separate bedroom in marriage is selfish and simply not ready for marriage.
But most of our parents stayed in separate rooms though. Since the moment i started having sense as a child i never saw my parents share room, they stayed in separate rooms & I can confidently tell u their marriage was for better than that of this generation.
Re: Wife Insists On Having Separate Bedrooms After Wedding by jayce232: 7:28am On Jun 09
LilMissFavvy:
I didn't know issue of room can be a problem to a man. Most men who build houses usually include a room for their wife. Some who can afford renting enough space give madam a room, but here is a man, whining over nothing. Way back, my mum had her room, so the so called tradition that couples must share a room is not true. Lack of money is what make couples squeeze themselves into one room.
I thought I was the only one at bold
Kind of surprising to me seeing a man complaining about this.

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Re: Wife Insists On Having Separate Bedrooms After Wedding by jayce232: 7:35am On Jun 09
strangest:
Na you suppose dey make that move... It's good though
I'm honestly surprise a man is kicking against this idea.

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Re: Wife Insists On Having Separate Bedrooms After Wedding by folake4u(f): 7:57am On Jun 09
Her reasons are very valid.

I'd also like to have a separate room for myself when I get married. It's a MUST for me.

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Re: Wife Insists On Having Separate Bedrooms After Wedding by Mariangeles(f): 9:17am On Jun 09
jayce232:

But most of our parents stayed in separate rooms though. Since the moment i started having sense as a child i never saw my parents share room, they stayed in separate rooms & I can confidently tell u their marriage was for better than that of this generation.

That is odd. Very odd.

No disrespect, but I doubt there was a bond between them (which they were probably okay with).

At the end of the day, what people want in a relationship determines the dynamics.
Re: Wife Insists On Having Separate Bedrooms After Wedding by Proserpina: 10:01am On Jun 09
Not a big deal.

Mom had/has her separate room but spends 70% of her time in "their" bedroom. She hardly sleeps in her room self grin grin . She observes her quite time there. Lol .

The lady should wait till she's pregnant and nursing nah the husband go dey beg her with room grin grin grin . No need for fight grin
Re: Wife Insists On Having Separate Bedrooms After Wedding by TOPMAN4LIFE: 6:23pm On Jun 09
omoredia:


A liar and a blasphemer that claim to drink tea with God. If not that his member are fools that respect a liar more than God he should ideally be hanged for blasphemy
Peter walked on water during the time Jesus Christ was here in this world as it's written in the Bible, people like you would have said it's not possible,
When you commit your life to the devil, how will you experience miracles, signs and wonders with God.
I believe, in your tribe, that is how you insult your elders,
From now till your old age, younger ones will also insult and abuse you for no reason the same way you are doing to pastor Adeboye
Re: Wife Insists On Having Separate Bedrooms After Wedding by TOPMAN4LIFE: 6:32pm On Jun 09
omoredia:


If achieve through criminality and deceit what's the point? There is something called good success. Don't be fooled.
You keep your father and grandfather that have not achieved anything for humanity in your village and insulting someone that has achieved greatness for himself, his family, country and the whole world.
All the repercussions of insults against the man of God await you from those who are younger to you .
What have you or your generation achieved for yourself, family or the country that you have the guts to insult who God has blessed.
I know you are for the Devil, that's why you are attacking man of God
Re: Wife Insists On Having Separate Bedrooms After Wedding by TOPMAN4LIFE: 6:36pm On Jun 09
omoredia:


If achieve through criminality and deceit what's the point? There is something called good success. Don't be fooled.
Did he even take any Kobo from you, what do you know about good success.
You are just bitter against someone God has blessed, and you can't be blessed by hating someone God has blessed.
I pay my tithes and offerings in his church without being forced.
You choose to use your own money to drink beer, carry prostitute and play bet and you are still bitter for how others spend their money with pastor.
You really need deliverance
Re: Wife Insists On Having Separate Bedrooms After Wedding by TOPMAN4LIFE: 6:52pm On Jun 09
Sapasenator:


The elders in his family have actually worked for their money, Adeboye never worked but lived off of the money of others, he is part of the reason the country is in a mess and other god of men like him, he has achieved nothing but enriched himself at the expense of others. God will surely judge him and his likes. I have zero regard for him.
Who asked you to have regards for him, when people that are great and well to do from vice chancellor, doctors, engineers, captain of industries, Gov and presidents show him high regards.
You that's not known any where is talking of withholding regards.
you people have problems, you are not part of the people that pay tithes and offerings in church, and you are complaining bitterly.
We that pay money in the church are happy doing so.
You decide to use your money to drink beer, carry ashewo, play betting etc and you are here complaining about we that spend our money for the things of God.
Since you refuse to spend your money for God, you will surely spend it for Satan.
You that are poor and not known any where is saying you don't have regards for who God has blessed.
Pastor Adeboye has built houses and bought car, and he was a lecturer in UNILAG by age 30years before God called him into ministry.
I know your bitterness is because you are doing the work of your father the devil against men of God.
I'm not surprised, you are from region where you don't respect your elders.
That's why you chose a criminal like kanu as your leader
Re: Wife Insists On Having Separate Bedrooms After Wedding by omoredia: 6:56pm On Jun 09
TOPMAN4LIFE:

Did he even take any Kobo from you, what do you know about good success.
You are just bitter against someone God has blessed, and you can't be blessed by hating someone God has blessed.
I pay my tithes and offerings in his church without being forced.
You choose to use your own money to drink beer, carry prostitute and play bet and you are still bitter for how others spend their money with pastor.
You really need deliverance


That doesn't change that he is a fraudster. The worst people on earth are those that are pretenders and lack integrity. Adeboye is a curse to himself and a shame to the church
Re: Wife Insists On Having Separate Bedrooms After Wedding by TOPMAN4LIFE: 7:01pm On Jun 09
omoredia:



That doesn't change that he is a fraudster. The worst people on earth are those that are pretenders and lack integrity. Adeboye is a curse to himself and a shame to the church
You are just being bitter because he didn't say people should vote for your candidate.
You will continue to be bitter because your bitterness will not make your candidate to bcom president
Re: Wife Insists On Having Separate Bedrooms After Wedding by omoredia: 7:19pm On Jun 09
TOPMAN4LIFE:

You are just being bitter because he didn't say people should vote for your candidate.
You will continue to be bitter because your bitterness will not make your candidate to bcom president


Ok the candidate he supported how far has the country been for his members because of him?. U see a man of Tinubu and u idiots call him a man of God. Shame
Re: Wife Insists On Having Separate Bedrooms After Wedding by TOPMAN4LIFE: 10:04pm On Jun 09
omoredia:



Ok the candidate he supported how far has the country been for his members because of him?. U see a man of Tinubu and u idiots call him a man of God. Shame
So because he didn't support your candidate, does it mean he supports another.
Bitterness has really beclouded your sense of judgement.
Show me any proof he supported Tinubu,
Before the election, peter Obi came to his church on invitation and Tinubu did not even come,
And you are still attacking the man of God despite being fair to all.
Even peter Obi knows the truth and has moved on by attending programme organised by pastor Adeboye in Port Harcourt.
But you are still bitter against the man God continues to bless when you are dwelling in poverty.
A hungry man is an angry man, I believe you are venting out your anger caused by poverty on the man of God.
You can't be blessed by God if you continue to hate who God loves and bless
Re: Wife Insists On Having Separate Bedrooms After Wedding by omoredia: 8:30am On Jun 10
TOPMAN4LIFE:

So because he didn't support your candidate, does it mean he supports another.
Bitterness has really beclouded your sense of judgement.
Show me any proof he supported Tinubu,
Before the election, peter Obi came to his church on invitation and Tinubu did not even come,
And you are still attacking the man of God despite being fair to all.
Even peter Obi knows the truth and has moved on by attending programme organised by pastor Adeboye in Port Harcourt.
But you are still bitter against the man God continues to bless when you are dwelling in poverty.
A hungry man is an angry man, I believe you are venting out your anger caused by poverty on the man of God.
You can't be blessed by God if you continue to hate who God loves and bless

Does Adrboye and Tinubu not eat together? Was Tinubu wife despite being married to a Muslim not made a pastor in rccg? Padi padi criminal calling himself a pastor. Shame
Re: Wife Insists On Having Separate Bedrooms After Wedding by TOPMAN4LIFE: 12:50pm On Jun 12
omoredia:


Does Adrboye and Tinubu not eat together? Was Tinubu wife despite being married to a Muslim not made a pastor in rccg? Padi padi criminal calling himself a pastor. Shame
So it's not good for pastor Adeboye to associate with Tinubu but you will be happy if he associate with Peter Obi.
Your rants, bitterness and double standard will not make ur peter Obi become president .
You are just displaying the anger of an hungry man
Re: Wife Insists On Having Separate Bedrooms After Wedding by omoredia: 6:09pm On Jun 12
TOPMAN4LIFE:

So it's not good for pastor Adeboye to associate with Tinubu but you will be happy if he associate with Peter Obi.
Your rants, bitterness and double standard will not make ur peter Obi become president .
You are just displaying the anger of an hungry man


He should associate with a fool that can stand up right and not falling face flat like a slowpoke
Re: Wife Insists On Having Separate Bedrooms After Wedding by TOPMAN4LIFE: 8:11pm On Jun 12
omoredia:



He should associate with a fool that can stand up right and not falling face flat like a slowpoke
You that are not a fool, what have you achieved in your life time.
You are abusing Tinubu that was a successful accountant in a reputable company called Mobil and pastor Adeboye that got PhD in mathematics in his mid thirties while being a lecturer at reputable University of Lagos.
Tell me what you have achieved for yourself or family than to be ranting online.
You need to check your head
Re: Wife Insists On Having Separate Bedrooms After Wedding by omoredia: 10:45pm On Jun 12
TOPMAN4LIFE:

You that are not a fool, what have you achieved in your life time.
You are abusing Tinubu that was a successful accountant in a reputable company called Mobil and pastor Adeboye that got PhD in mathematics in his mid thirties while being a lecturer at reputable University of Lagos.
Tell me what you have achieved for yourself or family than to be ranting online.
You need to check your head


Hehe u can steal anything but it doesn't make it yours. First class fool he has turn out to be
Re: Wife Insists On Having Separate Bedrooms After Wedding by TOPMAN4LIFE: 10:18am On Jun 13
omoredia:



Hehe u can steal anything but it doesn't make it yours. First class fool he has turn out to be
Do you think he schooled in Nigeria where everything goes .
Even till today, anyone that works in Mobil passes through rigorous screening and examination
Mobil don't employ any how
Re: Wife Insists On Having Separate Bedrooms After Wedding by omoredia: 10:20am On Jun 13
TOPMAN4LIFE:

Do you think he schooled in Nigeria where everything goes .
Even till today, anyone that works in Mobil passes through rigorous screening and examination
Mobil don't employ any how


He is a fooi. U didn't school in Nigeria but all ur associates are thugs, area boys and miscreants
Re: Wife Insists On Having Separate Bedrooms After Wedding by TOPMAN4LIFE: 9:04am On Jun 14
omoredia:



He is a fooi. U didn't school in Nigeria but all ur associates are thugs, area boys and miscreants
See the one calling a great man in all aspects a fool.
You that are wise, what does wisdom achieve for you.
Maybe you don't know the meaning of fool
Re: Wife Insists On Having Separate Bedrooms After Wedding by omoredia: 1:24pm On Jun 14
TOPMAN4LIFE:

See the one calling a great man in all aspects a fool.
You that are wise, what does wisdom achieve for you.
Maybe you don't know the meaning of fool


U can steal ur way to any position but it will show in the end

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