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Re: Black American Woman Abandoned In Lagos by 1Sharon(f): 3:04pm On Jun 10 |
nairaman66: Okay. I hear you. Seems like the sister was jealous. 1 Like |
Re: Black American Woman Abandoned In Lagos by nairaman66(m): 3:06pm On Jun 10 |
1Sharon: That’s their business. One thing right is that, one has to be careful whom he or she wants to settle down with. Stuffs are going on 3 Likes |
Re: Black American Woman Abandoned In Lagos by Emmanuel909090: 3:36pm On Jun 10 |
TheTravelingOne: If you are interested we can start new. |
Re: Black American Woman Abandoned In Lagos by 1Sharon(f): 3:41pm On Jun 10 |
Emmanuel909090: Buziness101:Scammers. Everything you claim Nigerian women are, is exactly what you are. Your leaching nature manifests when you encounter foreign women. 3 Likes |
Re: Black American Woman Abandoned In Lagos by TheTravelingOne(f): 3:55pm On Jun 10 |
NO IM NOT OVERWEIGHT. I’ve lost too much weight from all the stress. Homeboiy: 2 Likes |
Re: Black American Woman Abandoned In Lagos by TheTravelingOne(f): 4:01pm On Jun 10 |
Exactly as I will do. I’m still shocked that a man can abandon his American woman and relocate to another country. Then tell me to marry his brother. Maybe I’m just naive to what men can do. When I found the girl he is dealing with over there, I contacted ALL of her family & told them she was a hoe & this pissed him off severely. I hurt his real girl I guess, when he was just telling me he loved me. It’s not for the visa I offer, if it were, he would have pushed me to do it for him over the past 4 years. & he hasn’t. We were in love. This girl bit seems changed everything for him. I guess that’s life. Just a hard pill to swallow Yxxx: 1 Like |
Re: Black American Woman Abandoned In Lagos by TheTravelingOne(f): 4:02pm On Jun 10 |
All these guys emailing me. Please stop. I’m not interested. 1 Like |
Re: Black American Woman Abandoned In Lagos by Sapasenator: 4:07pm On Jun 10 |
TheTravelingOne: Go back to the the US and forget the guy, he never loved you. You will have more support system available than in Nigeria. 5 Likes |
Re: Black American Woman Abandoned In Lagos by 1000Capacity: 4:12pm On Jun 10 |
TheTravelingOne: I understand you are broken because of the level of commitment you have made. You came all the way down here based on love. That's alot. Some times, it's best to cut people off and salvage what you can. Do let anyone emotionally manipulate you. If the family was good enough, they would councel the Son to quit misbehaving. I am sure the same mother in law that acts like she is caring mocks you behind your back... 3 Likes |
Re: Black American Woman Abandoned In Lagos by 1000Capacity: 4:13pm On Jun 10 |
TheTravelingOne:I sent one |
Re: Black American Woman Abandoned In Lagos by udomonday: 4:16pm On Jun 10 |
Sometimes in life,the person you think is your body and soul and you fall head over heels in love with is not the one for you,he is just a channel for you to meet someone that is truly meant for you.just pick your self up,and decide on what to do about yourself.if you choose to settle in Nigeria ,then think of how to get your self useful and independent either by doing business or finding a job,take good care of yourself and free your mind from the stress you have been through.go out and meet people and gradually get your life back,I bet you lots of men out there are praying everyday to meet a woman like you. 8 Likes |
Re: Black American Woman Abandoned In Lagos by Bliztzer: 4:22pm On Jun 10 |
TheTravelingOne: Where ever he is, the heavy hands of recompense will bring him to kneels. However, you must do one thing, forgive and let God do his job. There is nothing here in nigeria, please Go back to America and start anew. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Black American Woman Abandoned In Lagos by Buziness101: 4:28pm On Jun 10 |
TheTravelingOne: Forget about him dear, I'll marry you instead and we live happily ever after... He does not deserve a good woman like you. U deserve better. Please contact me 08113259274 |
Re: Black American Woman Abandoned In Lagos by Sapasenator: 4:43pm On Jun 10 |
Buziness101: Just like that? Na so them dey marry? Oturu Kpeke! 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Black American Woman Abandoned In Lagos by danzaki63: 4:46pm On Jun 10 |
Show us her Picture now !!!! Maybe i can manage her and marry her immediately, No waste time. |
Re: Black American Woman Abandoned In Lagos by descartes400: 5:01pm On Jun 10 |
stacyadams: I do not agree with the embolden above! That's a betrayal no one, either male or female should forgive! He cheated and has absconded to chase more pu55ies. He even have the audacity to pass her off to his elder brother? WTF! There's no point for her to stay in Nigeria, she's better off returning home and to her family. 5 Likes |
Re: Black American Woman Abandoned In Lagos by Lucian565: 5:03pm On Jun 10 |
It Must have been one of those fraudsters wr have in lagos, I'm sure you were sending him money before you moved down, well he is a shallow minded fellow and couldn't see the bigger picture, but what the guy did is wickedness of the highest order, kindly find your way home...May God heal your heart and be with you... 🌹 TheTravelingOne: 1 Like |
Re: Black American Woman Abandoned In Lagos by TheTravelingOne(f): 5:16pm On Jun 10 |
I’m very tempted to post a picture. I know everyone thinks I’m a monster but really I’m not. & I’m not interested in anyone any time soon. I’m hurt, hurting, wounded and not even sure how to breathe at the moment danzaki63: 2 Likes |
Re: Black American Woman Abandoned In Lagos by Came4amod: 5:17pm On Jun 10 |
TheTravelingOne: Just move on .. don't let love put u in a wrong place .. Nigeria is not even safe .. move back to America.. remove sentiments .. 1 Like |
Re: Black American Woman Abandoned In Lagos by Curious345: 5:22pm On Jun 10 |
Tales by moonlight 1 Like |
Re: Black American Woman Abandoned In Lagos by Sapasenator: 5:23pm On Jun 10 |
TheTravelingOne: We don't need your picture. There are zillions of pictures online. You have to work on your decision making skills, very poor I must say, who leaves her life and job behind to go meet someone they met online, except you had nothing going on for you in the US. A visit would have sufficed to check things out but common, liquidating your life in the US for an online bf. The guy is an idiot but you need to move on. 6 Likes |
Re: Black American Woman Abandoned In Lagos by Fireoflife: 5:40pm On Jun 10 |
TheTravelingOne:don't, just try to be a better version of the person you were before. You'll need to, if you want to live without regrets. By the way i think the guy is a low life and you're better off without him. If you really want to get back to him then ignore his entire existence and watch him run back to you 1 Like |
Re: Black American Woman Abandoned In Lagos by TheTravelingOne(f): 5:42pm On Jun 10 |
See you’re assuming. I visited him Several times before I moved to Nigeria. I had a good job, new BMW and a nice apartment. I gave all of it up for love and connection. And only after 2 years of long distance. Sapasenator: 1 Like |
Re: Black American Woman Abandoned In Lagos by Sapasenator: 5:57pm On Jun 10 |
TheTravelingOne: So what's your next step? I will advise you return to the US, to your family for support until you are back on your feet. Consider this a huge life lesson. Love is an emotive feeling that comes and goes. Never give away your livelihood for love no matter the circumstances. Even in marriage, never give away your individuality and Identity for love. No one can help you on NairalandLand. 5 Likes |
Re: Black American Woman Abandoned In Lagos by imagrg(m): 5:58pm On Jun 10 |
Come let me show you what true love is. Hope your toto is still in tact? |
Re: Black American Woman Abandoned In Lagos by Ajoself(m): 6:00pm On Jun 10 |
My best advice to you is to try and leave this goddamn country. It is getting worse every now and then, and it may tamper with your mental health. I understand it's not easy to be betrayed but just try and gather yourself back. He will regret his action but you will be better than he left you. 1 Like |
Re: Black American Woman Abandoned In Lagos by Ajoself(m): 6:03pm On Jun 10 |
If your story is really true and not made up. Don't mind anyone here trying to play Mr nice guy, they are all for the money or probably to leave Nigeria together. 2 Likes |
Re: Black American Woman Abandoned In Lagos by Sapasenator: 6:08pm On Jun 10 |
Yxxx: Why waste her time any further planning his deportation from SA. Makes no sense whatsoever |
Re: Black American Woman Abandoned In Lagos by TheTravelingOne(f): 6:33pm On Jun 10 |
I’m not expecting anyone to help me on here. I’m just In shock honestly. Sapasenator: |
Re: Black American Woman Abandoned In Lagos by elmagnifico411(m): 6:54pm On Jun 10 |
nairaman66:this gist pain me aswesrigad, nad I no know if to sorry for your guy or not.. we men still never get this japa thing clear.. why would u spend so much and still be d dependant? Why kain nonsense be that? Why didn't he go for the masters himself? How person go throwey him life like that? Which kain love be that? All the money he worked for, and it could be that he borrowed some of the money, all for one woman to cime treat am like thrash? He pain me oh, but I no fit cry for/with am. I love my wife yea, but I can't take such risk of. UK na yeye place to be with all those stupid laws enslaving black men. How can I suffer so much for the family and loose everything? The long and short of it is, this japa thing isn't for everybody . It's really annoying. 5 Likes |
Re: Black American Woman Abandoned In Lagos by Sirhush(m): 6:56pm On Jun 10 |
Life no balance waiting one person dey find another man dey run away from am. Just work on your self and pray for better man |
Re: Black American Woman Abandoned In Lagos by advanceDNA: 6:58pm On Jun 10 |
Fireoflife: Lol... |
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