"Until a man has married you, he is not obligated to be responsible for you. Whatever he does is out of the generosity of his heart but you should never feel entitled to his money

If you make yourself a parent, the fool is on you ......😂

The guy ado ata useme sef

FreeStuffsNG:
All these theory sef. Smh.

There's no way you will not both fill the roles of parent to each other at some point in time. When the man is at his lowest ebb, he will first explain his predicaments to his wife and will rely on her for a measure of parental nurturing and vice versa for the wife too.

When spouses are celebrating milestones, the most important person they look out for in the audience is his or her spouse. Thats the role children put their parents o.

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Most times,like 99% of the time, the guy is expected to play the role of a provider,while the girl just sit back and be collecting.

Son, listen to your father. Stop asking dump questions.

2 of my homiez did and they keep calling my nos to beg for tips. When i told u to abort,u say na god do am like that. So u go bear am.
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The nos u have dialed is swiftched off,pls no try again later. I change sim quick

FreeStuffsNG:
All these theory sef. Smh.

There's no way you will not both fill the roles of parent to each other at some point in time. When the man is at his lowest ebb, he will first explain his predicaments to his wife and will rely on her for a measure of parental nurturing and vice versa for the wife too.

When spouses are celebrating milestones, the most important person they look out for in the audience is his or her spouse. Thats the role children put their parents o.

You said wife. Girlfriend is different from wife

FreeStuffsNG:
All these theory sef. Smh.

There's no way you will not both fill the roles of parent to each other at some point in time. When the man is at his lowest ebb, he will first explain his predicaments to his wife and will rely on her for a measure of parental nurturing and vice versa for the wife too.

When spouses are celebrating milestones, the most important person they look out for in the audience is his or her spouse. Thats the role children put their parents o.

Girlfriend not wife

Daddy God will bless you for the words of wisdom.
But I pray make the boy hear word cos make we no lie there is power in kpekus.
You go Dan do am before you know say you do am.
The only animal I fear most in this life God create na woman.
Iba fun awon iya wa.

Free massage at illash private beach resort and buffet
Which spa are offering that.
DM if you have any idea.

I had some people Discussing about it today.

oya Nairaland resident Ol***o nd Evening newspapers.. food is ready

FreeStuffsNG:
All these theory sef. Smh.

There's no way you will not both fill the roles of parent to each other at some point in time. When the man is at his lowest ebb, he will first explain his predicaments to his wife and will rely on her for a measure of parental nurturing and vice versa for the wife too.

When spouses are celebrating milestones, the most important person they look out for in the audience is his or her spouse. Thats the role children put their parents o.

Egbon mi give yourself a break



You're not wise than the man, he's talking from experience, that's an Alpha male talking not a SIMP


The last time I carried responsibility for my head I suffer am for 2yrs, abi make the lady get make we spend am together. No be say I go overwhelmed myself with burden of responsibility and the woman go move on after one don kpai


The owner of the house I'm staying is late, his wife remarried already and handover the care of the house in the hand of her new husband brother, what a man hustle to build?



No guide yourself, dey talk nonsense

LordIsaac:
UK men would have benefited from this counsel: “Don’t sharpen a spear that does not belong to you, because one day, it might be used on you!”😊

God bless you brother

A word is sufficient for a wise

SyrusdeHansome:

The man advised his son abt acting as a father to his girlfrnd nd u`re here writing abt husband/wife relationship. Nsuto inawang idom?

The stuff ukpa fien idem 😂
That guy is an APC supporter, they reason abnormally.

Gistmedia10:
A father shared a golden rule of life with his son, advising him to avoid taking on unnecessary responsibilities in his relationship.

“Don’t make yourself a parent to your girlfriend,” he cautioned. “Don’t take responsibilities that are not yours.”

The father's wise words aim to guide his son in navigating the complexities of romantic relationships and maintaining healthy boundaries.


Was he right?


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oHZiTP-OmeQ

So if my wife is in distress, she will feel more comfortable running to her parents than to me. Dey play. Me that hate people pokenosing into my affairs.

In other words, Don't marry into a family into which they will attach a smallie to your wife when she is moving in with you and you will train that to secondary school level. Thereafter, they will replace that one and bring another smallie for you to train from primary school to secondary school again. By then, you don nearly reach 50.

Joy2dworldxyz:
I no understand o

See what Tinubu and APC has brought upon Nigerians!

Nsuto mpo inam owo ntom?

Where in akwa ibom are u from?
Am from ikot ekpene

FreeStuffsNG:
All these theory sef. Smh.

There's no way you will not both fill the roles of parent to each other at some point in time. When the man is at his lowest ebb, he will first explain his predicaments to his wife and will rely on her for a measure of parental nurturing and vice versa for the wife too.

When spouses are celebrating milestones, the most important person they look out for in the audience is his or her spouse. Thats the role children put their parents o.

Girl friend he said. Please, read before commenting

FreeStuffsNG:
Smh. You are not beholden to a girl who is your friend, especially platonic, what he is implying made no distinction between altar- bound relationships and even platonic relationships and if you are wise and starts with the end in mind, you will know relationships that will likely made a wife out of your special relationship with a girl. To that special girl, you will at some point in time be her 'parent' likewise she to you.

BTW, you don't need to understand for now. Serious relationships take commitments and sacrifice and those two are the essential ingredients in parenting so anyone telling you that you will not make exceptions for that special one is not being realistic. Love , when you really fall in love, will make you trusting and vulnerable. If you're not then you are not in love. Maybe you are suggesting that he tells his son to never fall in love with a girl niyen.

There is nothing like love, it all about personal interest and choice. However, there is great sense in your write up. Except we are deceiving ourselves, only a stupid desperate lady will marry someone who she can not rely on, and the best way to know this by the women during courtship is by seeing you showing little commitment like a married person does.

They will claim king Kong on faceless forum but begging for simplest of attention in real life.

Well, Africans and hypocrisy are like 5&6.

FreeStuffsNG:
All these theory sef. Smh.

There's no way you will not both fill the roles of parent to each other at some point in time. When the man is at his lowest ebb, he will first explain his predicaments to his wife and will rely on her for a measure of parental nurturing and vice versa for the wife too.

When spouses are celebrating milestones, the most important person they look out for in the audience is his or her spouse. Thats the role children put their parents o.

He said girlfriend not wife. Read at times

FreeStuffsNG:
All these theory sef. Smh.

There's no way you will not both fill the roles of parent to each other at some point in time. When the man is at his lowest ebb, he will first explain his predicaments to his wife and will rely on her for a measure of parental nurturing and vice versa for the wife too.

When spouses are celebrating milestones, the most important person they look out for in the audience is his or her spouse. Thats the role children put their parents o.

Did you hear wife in all that the man said??

FreeStuffsNG:
All these theory sef. Smh.

There's no way you will not both fill the roles of parent to each other at some point in time. When the man is at his lowest ebb, he will first explain his predicaments to his wife and will rely on her for a measure of parental nurturing and vice versa for the wife too.

When spouses are celebrating milestones, the most important person they look out for in the audience is his or her spouse. Thats the role children put their parents o.

the topic says girlfriend. you are saying wife and spouse. is girlfriend the same thing as wife/spouse?

The first duty a Parent has to the child is to teach character.

If you end up having a spouse/girl/boyfriend where you are the one having to teach character. Then you are in for a long ride.

That's the deeper lesson for me to this.

[quote author=FreeStuffsNG post=130436175]All these theory sef. Smh.

There's no way you will not both fill the roles of parent to each other at some point in time. When the man is at his lowest ebb, he will first explain his predicaments to his wife and will rely on her for a measure of parental nurturing and vice versa for the wife too.

When spouses are celebrating milestones, the most important person they look out for in the audience is his or her spouse. Thats the role children put their parents o.

They are talking about a GIRLFRIEND! Not a spouse (wife). There's a BIG difference.

Fryx:


So if my wife is in distress, she will feel more comfortable running to her parents than to me. Dey play. Me that hate people pokenosing into my affairs.

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Even after u saw girlfriend.
U still dey zuor

A word is enough for only the wise

young boys if you like, no listen....body go tell u.

FreeStuffsNG:
All these theory sef. Smh.

There's no way you will not both fill the roles of parent to each other at some point in time. When the man is at his lowest ebb, he will first explain his predicaments to his wife and will rely on her for a measure of parental nurturing and vice versa for the wife too.

When spouses are celebrating milestones, the most important person they look out for in the audience is his or her spouse. Thats the role children put their parents o.

He said girlfriend and not spouse, why twist the advice?

Kobojunkie:
That na rubbish abeg! The moment you begin parenting your spouse, you cease to be a married couple and become a parent/child situation! That should not even occur for any reason.

When a man is at his lowest, he should call his parents to talk to them!!!👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿

Wise word: don't sharpen any spare that doesn't belong to you because one day it might be used against you.