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5 Reasons Some Wives Cheat On Their Husbands by Magicalsineros(f): 4:16am On Jun 11
Before, once a young woman is going into marriage, it's a subconscious believe that her body is strictly for her husband alone, but over the years, the narrative has changed. Most husbands have abused this grace and so many men have pushed Their women to the wall, that today, the consciousness and sanctity of matrimonial bliss is gradually going into extinction.

In as much as I am not supporting cheating in a marriage where the man is good to his wife the following are my opinion

1. Lazy husband
When a woman is married to a lazy man who can't provide, always giving excuses and manipulative. He keeps pushing her to handle all the responsibilities. She has to pay all the bills all in the name of the man is jobless,
this particular wife will likely cheat on her man, because women generally love to see their men being the head that provides for the family.

2. Se.xaul Need
Some men are so clueless. You don't care about her feelings, during se.x, once you're satisfied, that's all. You don't even want to know if she is satisfied too.
This particular wife will definitely be longing for a day someone will make her feel it to the fullest. The person might not be you.

3. Companionship
It's generally proven, once you have someone you can tell everything to without feeling ashamed or scared, the possibility of you comfortably having se.x with him is very high and if that person is not your husband, then you have cheated.

That's why most people ended up sleeping with their bestie or childhood friends.
When there's too much empty space in a marriage where the both parties don't experience that companionship, once she find it in someone else, either at work or anywhere, she will cheat on her husband.

4. Ungrateful human
This particular wife, does not keep record of any good thing her man do to her. She's an ungrateful human, she's selfish and a bad person. No matter who you are to her, no matter what you do, she will always focus on herself alone.

5. Revenge
The man is cheating and hurting her. So, to have her sanity back, she cheat back.
Some women cheat on their husbands to feel better from feeling of hurt and bitterness from their husband's bad behavior. Some will go as far as sleeping with your best friend, house boy, gate men, your Boss at work to make you feel disrespectful.
Evil they said brings evil. Good beings good as well

Add yours, so we can keep learning

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Re: 5 Reasons Some Wives Cheat On Their Husbands by Thundafireseun: 4:32am On Jun 11
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Re: 5 Reasons Some Wives Cheat On Their Husbands by duruZed(m): 5:27am On Jun 11
Also a woman/man that do not have regard for God is more likely to cheat.

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Re: 5 Reasons Some Wives Cheat On Their Husbands by Magicalsineros(f): 6:18am On Jun 11
duruZed:
Also a woman/man that do not have regard for God is more likely to cheat.
Yes. You're very right. Some people don't see se.x as anything anymore. They believe it can happen anytime, with anyone available and anywhere.

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Re: 5 Reasons Some Wives Cheat On Their Husbands by DonroxyII: 1:58am On Jun 13
Very Captivating & Enriching !!

The Psychological Needs,

Sensual Needs

Street(Wild-Madness) Needs

Sexual Needs

Physical Presence

All affect Stability in a Home ....

Unfortunately, Most Men are Only Good on "Money-Making" Due to Poverty Background & The need to Become Rich is as Important as Air We Breathe But All Others Needs are Abandoned Meanwhile, Most Women Couldn't Managed "Gap"/Lacuna" in a Man Especially in this Well exposed Contemporary Realities, Otilor ... It's Gone wink

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Re: 5 Reasons Some Wives Cheat On Their Husbands by Magicalsineros(f): 10:30pm On Jun 16
DonroxyII:
Very Captivating & Enriching !!

The Psychological Needs,

Sensual Needs

Street(Wild-Madness) Needs

Sexual Needs

Physical Presence

All affect Stability in a Home ....

[b]Unfortunately, Most Men are Only Good on "Money-Making" Due to Poverty Background & [/b]The need to Become Rich is as Important as Air We Breathe But All Others Needs are Abandoned Meanwhile, Most Women Couldn't Managed "Gap"/Lacuna" in a Man Especially in this Well exposed Contemporary Realities, Otilor ... It's Gone wink
Yeah. Very right
Re: 5 Reasons Some Wives Cheat On Their Husbands by Elephs: 3:47pm On Jun 18
Wow
Re: 5 Reasons Some Wives Cheat On Their Husbands by BodyCount: 3:47pm On Jun 18
No reason except the fact that!

YOU MARRIED A WHÓRE !!!

A GIRL WITH MORE THAN 2 BODYCOUNT ALREADY WILL HARDLY GIVE YOU LOYALTY AND FIDELITY, IMAGINE NOW MARRYING A GIVE WITH
+10 BODYCOUNT
A GIRL WITH MANY EX
A GIRL THAT HAS BEEN PASSED AROUND
A GIRL THAT HAVE EVEN DATED MARRIED MEN
A GIRL THAT HAS DONE SEVERAL ABORTIONS
ALL THESE ATTRIBUTES ARE JUST WHAT AN AVERAGE MORE THAN GIRL POSSESS. AND I MEAN IT WHEN I SAY AVERAGE.
IRRESPECTIVE OF CLASS AND RELIGION.


We live in a generation of WHÓRES, failed parents, useless and good-for-nothing girls. Most took this pattern from their irresponsible mothers because if not, WHY DOESN'T IT SEEM LIKE OLD FASHIONED TI INSTILL MORALS INTO CHILDREN, ESPECIALLY GIRLS THESE DAYS?

HOW MANY MOTHERS RAISE THEIR GIRLS TO MARRY AS VIRGINS TODAY?



If she's not a virgin
If she has multiple ex
If you don't know her true BODYCOUNT etc and you marry her, SHE'LL MOST LIKELY CHEAT ON YOU.

SOMEONE WHO DOESN'T RESPECT HERSELF TO THE EXTENT OF SPREADING LEGS FOR MULTIPLE MEN CAN NEVER RESPECT YOU AS HER HUSBAND.

IF YOU THINK YOU'RE SPECIAL, THEN YOU'RE JUST A DELUDED FO0L.

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Re: 5 Reasons Some Wives Cheat On Their Husbands by BodyCount: 3:47pm On Jun 18
CHOOSE VIRGINS, E GET WHY...
NED AND OTHERS ARE NOT FO0LISH...


Don't get me wrong, virgins too can become a whoré but the chances are usually small.

It takes a lot for a grown and because girl of this generation to respect her self, to have good moral and keep her chastity. WHEN YOU SEE VIRGINS, RESPECT THEM BECAUSE E NO EASY...

Women have pattern behaviour, A WHORÉ WILL FOREVER REMAIN A WHORÉ.
THEY CAN ONLY PRETEND TO CHANGE OR CIRCUMSTANCES OF LIFE WILL FORCE THEM TO CHANGE, BUT REMOVE THAT CIRCUMSTANCES, A GIRL THAT USE TO CHEAT BEFORE MARRIAGE WILL MOST LIKELY STILL CHEAT IN MARRIAGE IF THE OPPORTUNITY PRESENTS ITSELF.

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Re: 5 Reasons Some Wives Cheat On Their Husbands by tunjijones(m): 3:47pm On Jun 18
Once an ashawo is always an ashawo.

Even if you give an ashawo woman every thing she go still cheat on you.

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Re: 5 Reasons Some Wives Cheat On Their Husbands by Zxcvbnmghtr: 3:47pm On Jun 18
There is this salon I go to make my hair. In the salon, there was this young guy who infact is better than all of the female hairstylist. Very creative . He was a corp member of the NYSC. He was telling us his experience with married women who are sexually frustrated by their husbands. He got involved with them out of sympathy because they practically begged him with tears rolling down their cheeks for at least a smooching that will lead to making them feel like a woman. The first lady introduced him to her many friends who suffer the same torture from their husbands who have no time for them except from one business trip to another.

Their husbands hardly touch them for months. Sex is a big deal in marriage especially for we women unless you want us to cheat on you or seek for divorce, just like one of Dangote's wife did because he had no time for her and so she asked him for a divorce.

The sad news again is, majority of you men have refuse to give head abi?! Okay nah. Likewise most of you suffer from weak erection and have refused to work on your selves through controlling what you eat and regular exercise instead you are into sexually enhanced drugs which makes sex feel so awful and very painful like one being stabbed with a stick.

SEXUAL FRUSTRATION IS REAL AND IT IS DESTROYING MARRIAGES. WHAT IS YOUR RESPONSIBILITY AS A HUSBAND IF YOU DON'T MAKE SEX AS ONE OF YOUR PRIORITIES BECAUSE THAT MARRIAGE IS WHERE YOUR WIFE IS EXPECTED TO FULFILL ALL HER SEXUAL CRAVINGS AND NOT OUTSIDE LEADING TO INFIDELITY.

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Re: 5 Reasons Some Wives Cheat On Their Husbands by masterfactor(m): 3:48pm On Jun 18
@magicalsineros, All what you wrote up there is rubbish, A wife is not suppose to cheat, if she is tired of the marriage or the relationship, an exit door is always available, no one is forced to be in an unproductive union.There is no reason why a woman should cheat on her man, Let call a spade a spade and not a farming tool.

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Re: 5 Reasons Some Wives Cheat On Their Husbands by sacajawea: 3:48pm On Jun 18
Get something to do with your life...
What a stūpid Article.

We suppose don pass all this level by now, abi?

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Re: 5 Reasons Some Wives Cheat On Their Husbands by DamnnNiggarr: 3:48pm On Jun 18
shocked

Magicalsineros:
Before, once a young woman is going into marriage, it's a subconscious believe that her body is strictly for her husband alone, but over the years, the narrative has changed. Most husbands have abused this grace and so many men have pushed Their women to the wall, that today, the consciousness and sanctity of matrimonial bliss is gradually going into extinction.

In as much as I am not supporting cheating in a marriage where the man is good to his wife the following are my opinion

1. Lazy husband
When a woman is married to a lazy man who can't provide, always giving excuses and manipulative. He keeps pushing her to handle all the responsibilities. She has to pay all the bills all in the name of the man is jobless,
this particular wife will likely cheat on her man, because women generally love to see their men being the head that provides for the family.

2. Se.xaul Need
Some men are so clueless. You don't care about her feelings, during se.x, once you're satisfied, that's all. You don't even want to know if she is satisfied too.
This particular wife will definitely be longing for a day someone will make her feel it to the fullest. The person might not be you.

3. Companionship
It's generally proven, once you have someone you can tell everything to without feeling ashamed or scared, the possibility of you comfortably having se.x with him is very high and if that person is not your husband, then you have cheated.

That's why most people ended up sleeping with their bestie or childhood friends.
When there's too much empty space in a marriage where the both parties don't experience that companionship, once she find it in someone else, either at work or anywhere, she will cheat on her husband.

4. Ungrateful human
This particular wife, does not keep record of any good thing her man do to her. She's an ungrateful human, she's selfish and a bad person. No matter who you are to her, no matter what you do, she will always focus on herself alone.

5. Revenge
The man is cheating and hurting her. So, to have her sanity back, she cheat back.
Some women cheat on their husbands to feel better from feeling of hurt and bitterness from their husband's bad behavior. Some will go as far as sleeping with your best friend, house boy, gate men, your Boss at work to make you feel disrespectful.
Evil they said brings evil. Good beings good as well

Add yours, so we can keep learning

I know it will be a woman that will write this.
So, tell us reasons why husbands cheat on their wives, if there's any.

Instead of cheating in the marriage, why not walk away if you can't condone his/her shortcomings anymore.

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Re: 5 Reasons Some Wives Cheat On Their Husbands by Konquest: 3:48pm On Jun 18
Magicalsineros:
Before, once a young woman is going into marriage, it's a subconscious believe that her body is strictly for her husband alone, but over the years, the narrative has changed. Most husbands have abused this grace and so many men have pushed Their women to the wall, that today, the consciousness and sanctity of matrimonial bliss is gradually going into extinction.

In as much as I am not supporting cheating in a marriage where the man is good to his wife the following are my opinion

1. Lazy husband
When a woman is married to a lazy man who can't provide, always giving excuses and manipulative. He keeps pushing her to handle all the responsibilities. She has to pay all the bills all in the name of the man is jobless,
this particular wife will likely cheat on her man, because women generally love to see their men being the head that provides for the family.

2. Se.xaul Need
Some men are so clueless. You don't care about her feelings, during se.x, once you're satisfied, that's all. You don't even want to know if she is satisfied too.
This particular wife will definitely be longing for a day someone will make her feel it to the fullest. The person might not be you.

3. Companionship
It's generally proven, once you have someone you can tell everything to without feeling ashamed or scared, the possibility of you comfortably having se.x with him is very high and if that person is not your husband, then you have cheated.

That's why most people ended up sleeping with their bestie or childhood friends.
When there's too much empty space in a marriage where the both parties don't experience that companionship, once she find it in someone else, either at work or anywhere, she will cheat on her husband.

4. Ungrateful human
This particular wife, does not keep record of any good thing her man do to her. She's an ungrateful human, she's selfish and a bad person. No matter who you are to her, no matter what you do, she will always focus on herself alone.

5. Revenge
The man is cheating and hurting her. So, to have her sanity back, she cheat back.
Some women cheat on their husbands to feel better from feeling of hurt and bitterness from their husband's bad behavior. Some will go as far as sleeping with your best friend, house boy, gate men, your Boss at work to make you feel disrespectful.
Evil they said brings evil. Good beings good as well

Add yours, so we can keep learning
If you are tired of your spouse's ways and have become attracted to another man, then leave the relationship instead of cheating right in his house or right under his nose. If he finds out, there's a fifty-fifty chance that he'll get physically violent and commit murder. Most men prefer that you ASK for a divorce with concrete reasons than to cheat on them with another man (who was probably a woman's first love back in high school or college) which they find deeply humiliating because men are very territorial.

Don't try to eat your cake and still have it... Just get gone. Period.

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Re: 5 Reasons Some Wives Cheat On Their Husbands by SimpleDan3: 3:49pm On Jun 18
She was ones olosho. Especially those home service olosho no dey fit dey faithful in marriage.

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Re: 5 Reasons Some Wives Cheat On Their Husbands by Nastrademus(m): 3:49pm On Jun 18
A girl once told me she cheated on her man to see what it really feels like, believe me when I tell you that a woman who's a cheat will cheat for no just reason, fear that gender

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Re: 5 Reasons Some Wives Cheat On Their Husbands by omooba05: 3:49pm On Jun 18
Wotowoto loading for Fubara and his militant tomorrow.. We don set.. We good know who get Rivers tomorrow..hahahahaha... Creek vs Creek.. Nobody dey run for Nobody
Re: 5 Reasons Some Wives Cheat On Their Husbands by ravensckar(m): 3:49pm On Jun 18
I'm not as foolish as all those who will be tempted to comment on this thread. Therefore, I won't type anything.

wink wink wink

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Re: 5 Reasons Some Wives Cheat On Their Husbands by Military0001: 3:49pm On Jun 18
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Re: 5 Reasons Some Wives Cheat On Their Husbands by MrProlific95: 3:49pm On Jun 18
Shame on this thread. I pity rhe husband of this op

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Re: 5 Reasons Some Wives Cheat On Their Husbands by promise4wonders: 3:49pm On Jun 18
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Re: 5 Reasons Some Wives Cheat On Their Husbands by Tizmamoney: 3:49pm On Jun 18
Mtchewwww

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Re: 5 Reasons Some Wives Cheat On Their Husbands by TGreatGatsby: 3:50pm On Jun 18
There is no justifying it infidelity is wrong from either of the sex in marriage.

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Re: 5 Reasons Some Wives Cheat On Their Husbands by Calenikan(m): 3:50pm On Jun 18
Hmmm
Re: 5 Reasons Some Wives Cheat On Their Husbands by Sonnobax15(m): 3:50pm On Jun 18
lipsrsealed
There's no justification for a house wife to cheat.....If you like,create more than a thousand reasons why a wife opens her like a danfo's door,a wife who has got the cheating blood encrypted in her DNA will still cheat....

I can't even forgive GF who cheated on me let alone the wife whom I spent a Whooping big amount of money just to pay her pride price cheat on me.......Her father house must get set to accept her back lipsrsealed

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Re: 5 Reasons Some Wives Cheat On Their Husbands by SeriouslySense(m): 3:51pm On Jun 18
grin grin the comments are loading for harvest.
Re: 5 Reasons Some Wives Cheat On Their Husbands by motionarena: 3:51pm On Jun 18
Why giving excuse
Any woman wey dey cheat na Olosho

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Re: 5 Reasons Some Wives Cheat On Their Husbands by oz4real83(m): 3:52pm On Jun 18
Cheating is more peculiar with modern day women, no matter what the husband does or is. It only became worse with the issue of men having equal rights with women in modern era, women now feel they can cheat as long as the man cheats, unlike before when there was that established african mindset that men can marry many wives or date as many women as they want.

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