https://www.nairaland.com/8123552/lady-dumps-man-white-man


I came across this thread and I saw the way many people were emotional on that thread.

You see, keep your emotions. It is useless in real life.
In my own opinion and in the grand calculus of the universe. The lady in question has not done anything wrong.

It is not a crime in this life to be selfish. It is never a crime to always look out for your own self. It is never a crime to want to survive.
We must all survive and people take different measures to persist their survival.

The problem most of you have is this thing called the "Entitlement Mentality". And not only women have this, but even men too.

So, you think because you've invested lots of money, time and strength into a relationship, then you've automatically turned the lady into a robot that must only answer to you? You gotta be kidding.

Unless there is a written contract. If you liked, train a lady from birth until she gets a PHD. There is no constitutional law that says she must marry you. Whatever you guys are doing is solely based on romantic feelings. And romantic feeling is the most useless feeling in the world.

Why do you leave a place of work and apply to other firms? Isn't it the same about survival and greener pasture?
If you're in at a firm where your salary is 200k monthly and another opportunity opens up in a different firm where the salary is 1M. Even you as a man, won't you monkey branch? So why should you blame a woman for wanting a better life for herself?

In life, we have different things we are looking for, and you can't blame me for not looking for what you are not looking for.

Stupid sons of idiots , earthly bastards of men are the ones looking for love. Women are looking a provisions. Now it would be so unfair, barbaric, exasperatingly stupid to insult women for not wanting what we men are looking for.

But men love to deceive themselves. They want to believe in that their tiny brains that they are one very special demigod, one awesome creature , so awesome that a woman would want to be with. Oh lala! Better wake from the la-la land.

That's why I don't follow the redpill. The redpill is a waste of time. They make men believe that they are the price(lol). Which price? Who is hosting the competition?

The benefit you have to offer a woman is the only thing you have as a priced possession. As a man you are very invisible to a woman that can't benefit nothing from you.

Think about this. Let's say you have a girlfriend and your asset is worth about 10M with 200k monthly income, and there is this other dude who wants your girl but he is worth 1M in asset with 100k monthly income, and there is this other dude who wants your girl and he is worth about 300Mils with 2M monthly income.

Let's say, you three are legit hustlers with decent personalities.

It would be so stupid for any lady in this life to choose you or the other guy who earns less.
Now! It would be so, so foolish and wicked to blame the girl for dumping your ass . I mean, you would also resign at a place where the salary is low and take a job at where there is a better income.
If at the end of the day she picked you out of such luxurious options, she'd end up regretting it.
This is what brings resentment in marriages most time. And no one talks about it.
The woman will one day regret not choosing the rich guy and it will cause her to regret and rebel.


Stop playing stupid. There is no crime in looking out for one'self. Any lady who dumps a guy for a more richer guy wouldn't be doin' anything bad. Everyone is trying to survive.

You'll be the wicked one and an enemy of progress.

Once you see a rich boy with your GF, respect yourself and give them chance to avoid stories that touch. Life no be Nollywood.

One thing I'll never understand in this my life is how some men think they need a romantic relationship in this 21st century. Not to even talk of broke men.

• If you're a man and you need a woman who is not a relative to love you. You are very stupid and you are a waste of sperm.

• If you're a man and you need a wife to keep your home in order. You are very stupid. What happens to getting a maid.

• If you're a man and you need a woman to build with. You are useless and you are stupid.

• If you're a man and you need a woman for emotional stability. You are useless and worthless.

• If you're a man and you think you need a woman to have a good home. Haa! Your father has failed.

• If you're a man and you need financial assistance from a woman who is not a relative. Well! You are not a man, you are maybe a maggot or a bedbug.

• If you're a man and you need love. You are sick in the head and unfortunate. What will a man do with love?

The only things a man should get from a woman is sex and kids.

If you're a lady who is with a broke guy when there are rich guys available unto you. I have just one word for you.
YOU ARE VERY STUPID AND SENSELESS, it's like you want your kids to end up suffering.
THERE IS NO LOYALTY IN SURVIVAL.

No allow anyone reason you foolishness, you must be unapologetic about survival. Use that your fish brain head for once.

It's about time we told ourselves the truth. We can't keep treating life as a joke.

Werey

FRANCISTOWN:
https://www.nairaland.com/8123552/lady-dumps-man-white-man


I came across this thread and I saw the way many people were emotional on that thread.

You see, keep your emotions. It is useless in real life.
In my own opinion and in the grand calculus of the universe. The lady in question has not done anything wrong.

It is not a crime in this life to be selfish. It is never a crime to always look out for your own self. It is never a crime to want to survive.
We must all survive and people take different measures to persist their survival.

The problem most of you have is this thing called the "Entitlement Mentality". And not only women have this, but even men too.

So, you think because you've invested lots of money, time and strength into a relationship, then you've automatically turned the lady into a robot that must only answer to you? You gotta be kidding.

Unless there is a written contract. If you liked, train a lady from birth until she gets a PHD. There is no constitutional law that says she must marry you. Whatever you guys are doing is solely based on romantic feelings. And romantic feeling is the most useless feeling in the world.

Why do you leave a place of work and apply to other firms? Isn't it the same about survival and greener pasture?
If you're in at a firm where your salary is 200k monthly and another opportunity opens up in a different firm where the salary is 1M. Even you as a man, won't you monkey branch? So why should you blame a woman for wanting a better life for herself?

In life, we have different things we are looking for, and you can't blame me for not looking for what you are not looking for.

Stupid sons of idiots , earthly bastards of men are the ones looking for love. Women are looking a provisions. Now it would be so unfair, barbaric, exasperatingly stupid to insult women for not wanting what we men are looking for.

But men love to deceive themselves. They want to believe in that their tiny brains that they are one very special demigod, one awesome creature , so awesome that a woman would want to be with. Oh lala! Better wake from the la-la land.

That's why I don't follow the redpill. The redpill is a waste of time. They make men believe that they are the price(lol). Which price? Who is hosting the competition?

The benefit you have to offer a woman is the only thing you have as a priced possession. As a man you are very invisible to a woman that can't benefit nothing from you.

Think about this. Let's say you have a girlfriend and your asset is worth about 10M with 200k monthly income, and there is this other dude who wants your girl but he is worth 1M in asset with 100k monthly income, and there is this other dude who wants your girl and he is worth about 300Mils with 2M monthly income.

Let's say, you three are legit hustlers with decent personalities.

It would be so stupid for any lady in this life to choose you or the other guy who earns less.
Now! It would be so, so foolish and wicked to blame the girl for dumping your ass . I mean, you would also resign at a place where the salary is low and take a job at where there is a better income.
If at the end of the day she picked you out of such luxurious options, she'd end up regretting it.
This is what brings resentment in marriages most time. And no one talks about it.
The woman will one day regret not choosing the rich guy and it will cause her to regret and rebel.


Stop playing stupid. There is no crime in looking out for one'self. Any lady who dumps a guy for a more richer guy wouldn't be doin' anything bad. Everyone is trying to survive.

You'll be the wicked one and an enemy of progress.

Once you see a rich boy with your GF, respect yourself and give them chance to avoid stories that touch. Life no be Nollywood.

One thing I'll never understand in this my life is how some men think they need a romantic relationship in this 21st century. Not to even talk of broke men.

• If you're a man and you need a woman who is not a relative to love you. You are very stupid and you are a waste of sperm.

• If you're a man and you need a wife to keep your home in order. You are very stupid. What happens to getting a maid.

• If you're a man and you need a woman to build with. You are useless and you are stupid.

• If you're a man and you need a woman for emotional stability. You are useless and worthless.

• If you're a man and you think you need a woman to have a good home. Haa! Your father has failed.

• If you're a man and you need financial assistance from a woman who is not a relative. Well! You are not a man, you are maybe a maggot or a bedbug.

• If you're a man and you need love. You are sick in the head and unfortunate. What will a man do with love?

The only things a man should get from a woman is sex and kids.

If you're a lady who is with a broke guy when there are rich guys available unto you. I have just one word for you.
YOU ARE VERY STUPID AND SENSELESS, it's like you want your kids to end up suffering.
THERE IS NO LOYALTY IN SURVIVAL.

No allow anyone reason you foolishness, you must be unapologetic about survival. Use that your fish brain head for once.

It's about time we told ourselves the truth. We can't keep treating life as a joke.

what if after a lady marries a rich man,the man becomes poor or financies decline

OP, I support you 100 percent.

If you are a lady and your boyfriend is broke and you meet “a man that offers you 1m for sex” and you reject it, you are senseless.

hkidola00:
what if after a lady marries a rich man,the man becomes poor or financies decline

The lady should divorce the man and find herself another rich man for her to survive.

A rich man who also wants to survive must never marry or date a divorce or single parent.

That is natural wisdom, but some men are born by stupidity,of stupidity and with stupidity.

hkidola00:
what if after a lady marries a rich man,the man becomes poor or financies decline

She should pack out and look for another rich man to marry. Rich men are everywhere according to the OP.

Sonnobax15:

My father na Werey

Regards

Carcholce:
OP, I support you 100 percent.

If you are a lady and your boyfriend is broke and you meet “a man that offers you 1m for sex” and you reject it, you are senseless.

I like people who embrace reality. Not people who like deceiving themselves.

FRANCISTOWN:

I like people who embrace reality. Not people who like deceiving themselves.

You mean you didn’t notice the sarcasm in my comment?

This guy is serious!

No wonder women no dey accept to marry op

Carcholce:


You mean you didn’t notice the sarcasm in my comment?

This guy is serious!

I like people who embrace reality. Not people who like deceiving themselves.

I blame men that dates girls that all they have to offer is only their V

Why dating a liability in the first place

FRANCISTOWN:

I like people who embrace reality. Not people who like deceiving themselves.

In your reality, women are being used for rituals and organ harvesting because they are chasing after money

Carcholce:


In your reality, women are being used for rituals and organ harvesting because they are chasing after money

I'm only responsible for what I've said, and not what you imagine.

FRANCISTOWN:

I'm only responsible for what I've said, and not what you imagine.

What if you tell your daughter the same thing, You should not be held responsible if anything bad happens to her when she’s hunting for the big pockets and sacrificing her sacred body that you spent years raising and nurturing?

Carcholce:


You mean you didn’t notice the sarcasm in my comment?

This guy is serious!

and to him, other people have fish brains, buhh he himself is the big brained one who knows all, and whose principles everyone else must follow because he's always right.
To himself, he's of the rigid opinion he can never be wrong, even when the erroneousness and lacunas in his idiosyncrasies are very glaring and pellucid.

Perspectives and views which are contrariwise to his own are striked out, deemed irrelevant and considered asinine.
See megalomania at it's core!

Carcholce:



What if you tell your daughter the same thing, You should not be held responsible if anything bad happens to her when she’s hunting for the big pockets and sacrificing her sacred body that you spent years raising and nurturing?

My daughter can never have a survival problem. That's been well taken care of

TheBlueDiamond:



and to him, other people have fish brains, buhh he himself is the big brained one who knows all, and whose principles everyone else must follow because he's always right.
To himself, he's of the rigid opinion he can never be wrong, even when the erroneousness and lacunas in his idiosyncrasies are very glaring and pellucid.

Perspectives and views which are contrariwise to his own are striked out, deemed irrelevant and considered asinine.
See megalomania at it's core!

Keep shaking the foundations of NL with your big grammar.
My advice is for rich people and for broke people with brain.

Well, since you want to encourage selfishness then you have no right to blame politicians and armed robbers.

I know a former neighbour who divorced his wife and left her with 3 kids. The man ran to USA with the plan to re marry in order to get papers. This is also selfishness that you preach. If the old wife was your daughter, your words would be different.

Na wa ooo



Everyone is entitled to his or her own opinion.


The only advice, I will give to any man or guy here is; Never in your life cage yourself to one Kpekus all your life.
Weather your wife or girlfriend is faithful, caring, honest or not, never make such mistake as a man.

If you have money sleep with as much women you can and even lost count of them. Am not talking to hustlers but am talking to
established men.

As a broke guy know this and know peace, Your girlfriend or wife thinks she is doing you a favor in that relationship.
You can say my own girl is different, but to be honest with you, they is NO difference between your wife or girlfriend from others.
As far as she has two boobs and one p*ssy she can be f*cked and her a*ss can get smacked like a hoe by a guy with lot of cash, with game or can fake game, or know how to lie very well

It is rooted in the woman psychology to respect and honor a man with abundant P*ssies. Modern society frowns on Polygamy
but promote gay and adultery.

Have you ever asked yourself why is divorce more common in monogamy than in polygamy?

Since I love and cherish my Queen (Wife) so much and can't break her heart by marrying more women, I made sure I f*ck the best succulent and classy chicks available. And I made sure she never finds out, but some foolish people have been reporting me to her, very stup!d jealous, busy body Id!ots.

Those born by mistake id!ots are reporting me to someone far away in Sweden??
Stup!d and Mumu people don't know that my Sweet wife is telling me everything they told her about me

An excessive love of money makes people lose their morality and pushes them into low behavior, it is not a trait any right thinking person will champion.

FRANCISTOWN:

Keep shaking the foundations of NL with your big grammar.
My advice is for rich people and for broke people with brain.

what you present as facts are counterproductive.
They're deeply rooted in parochialism and myopia.

Even if the marriage gets certified as valid according to your entrenched principles, it's the same principles that would orchestrate it's annulment.

keep being the ultimate imperator in your microcosm of mirage!

yomi007k:
Well, since you want to encourage selfishness then you have no right to blame politicians and armed robbers.

I know a former neighbour who divorced his wife and left her with 3 kids. The man ran to USA with the plan to re marry in order to get papers. This is also selfishness that you preach. If the old wife was your daughter, your words would be different.

Can u help me with murny pls?

Like 30k?

@op if you're broke while typing this then you're USELESS. if u don't earn 6000$ monthly then you are not a man but a DUMBASS and your dad should've used a condom cause u could be out there working instead of showing how foolish you are.
@op if u get married and your spouse indulge in infidelity and you get upset then you are nothing but a DICKHEAD

TheBlueDiamond:



what you present as facts are counterproductive.
They're deeply rooted in parochialism and myopia.

Even if the marriage gets certified as valid according to your entrenched principles, it's the same principles that would orchestrate it's annulment.

keep being the ultimate imperator in your microcosm of mirage!

Wait bro! I can't remember mentioning you on my thread.

If my opinion didn't sit well with you. Do yourself the honour of seeing yourself out.

I don already dey vex. I no wan insult anybody today.

yomi007k:
Well, since you want to encourage selfishness then you have no right to blame politicians and armed robbers.

I know a former neighbour who divorced his wife and left her with 3 kids. The man ran to USA with the plan to re marry in order to get papers. This is also selfishness that you preach. If the old wife was your daughter, your words would be different.

Your politicians are taking what belongs to the citizens (everyone)for themselves. That is stealing.

Armed robbers are taking what doesn't belong to them for themselves. That is also stealing.

These two cases can't be used as a measuring stick for dumping a broke sorry ass dude.

In the above scenario. I'd only blame the man if he refused to be financially responsible for his children. A devotion to your kids and relatives is the number one responsibility a man must shoulder.

The man didn't do anything wrong by leaving the wife, but everything wrong by leaving the kids. Unless if he's got a special plan for the kids.

This is some blunt red pills tho. Funny enough. Most guys will find this post annoying when in reality if they were gal's themselves they won't settle for a broke guy.

Everyone is out for survival (especially if you from a struggling family).... It is what it is

ReacherSaidNoth:
An excessive love of money makes people lose their morality and pushes them into low behavior, it is not a trait any right thinking person will champion.

Okay na. Tell this to your politicians.

Seems like this one just came out of yabaleft perhaps he isn't totally healed I guess.

RedfolkActivist:
@op if you're broke while typing this then you're USELESS.

I agree.

RedfolkActivist:

if u don't earn 6000$ monthly then you are not a man but a DUMBASS and your dad should've used a condom cause u could be out there working instead of showing how foolish my father is.

Whao! Interesting.

RedfolkActivist:

@op if u get married and your spouse indulge in infidelity and you get upset then you are nothing but a DICKHEAD

Go chop your warmed eba quietly.

MikeofKd:
Seems like this one just came out of yabaleft perhaps he isn't totally healed I guess.

Frustrations of a man who is comfortable being poor.

Johnson225:
This is some blunt red pills tho. Funny enough. Most guys will find this post annoying when in reality if they were gal's themselves they won't settle for a broke guy.

Everyone is out for survival (especially if you from a struggling family).... It is what it is

This is the highest level of maturity anyone can attain in the relationship scene.
This is real life. Everybody is trying to survive.

Now that we see news of how husbands sell their wives to organ harvesters. Some, delusional niggas are still thinking a woman will stay with their broke ass. So funny.