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Re: 'Don’t Make Yourself A Parent To Your Girlfriend - Man Advises His Son by freeborn02: 11:59am On Jun 13
Acekidc4:


I bet you wish to be Tinubu errand boy🙄😎

No. Never. I'm doing well for myself without pushing drug like tinubu
Re: 'Don’t Make Yourself A Parent To Your Girlfriend - Man Advises His Son by Acekidc4(m): 12:50pm On Jun 13
freeborn02:


No. Never. I'm doing well for myself without pushing drug like tinubu

👍!👍!Good for you
Re: 'Don’t Make Yourself A Parent To Your Girlfriend - Man Advises His Son by Joy2dworldxyz: 1:10pm On Jun 13
tiswell:
mkpo aba o

Eyen eka imemke.,....

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Re: 'Don’t Make Yourself A Parent To Your Girlfriend - Man Advises His Son by Joy2dworldxyz: 1:13pm On Jun 13
Kelly2713:

Where in akwa ibom are u from?
Am from ikot ekpene

Ami nto Essien Udim, Adiasim precisely
Re: 'Don’t Make Yourself A Parent To Your Girlfriend - Man Advises His Son by imustsaymymindo: 1:39pm On Jun 13
Love800:
And who told you all parents would teach it?
Cant you be a hero to someone!

The baseline is, if the person has some atoms of hardworkingness together with ready to learn, i will stay but if not then is like pouring water into a basket.

You are a husband/wife/boyfriend/girlfriend.

You are not a hero.

Even in the slimest chance you succeed, you would not be seen as a hero. Because you are not. You are a husband/wife/boyfriend/girlfriend.

That's how false expectations begin.

If you stay to help, you have given the power to the other party to decide whether it's like pouring water into basket. Not you. Because even in the slim chance the person improves, the person has a choice to stay with you or not after.
Re: 'Don’t Make Yourself A Parent To Your Girlfriend - Man Advises His Son by Love800(m): 1:46pm On Jun 13
Alright

I love your post too.

I appreciate every word.
imustsaymymindo:


You are a husband/wife/boyfriend/girlfriend.

You are not a hero.

Even in the slimest chance you succeed, you would not be seen as a hero. Because you are not. You are a husband/wife/boyfriend/girlfriend.

That's how false expectations begin.

If you stay to help, you have given the power to the other party to decide whether it's like pouring water into basket. Not you. Because even in the slim chance the person improves, the person has a choice to stay with you or not after.

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Re: 'Don’t Make Yourself A Parent To Your Girlfriend - Man Advises His Son by Idadurun: 2:32pm On Jun 13
FreeStuffsNG:
All these theory sef. Smh.

There's no way you will not both fill the roles of parent to each other at some point in time.

When the man is at his lowest ebb, he will first explain his predicaments to his wife and will rely on her for a measure of parental nurturing and vice versa for the wife too.

When spouses are celebrating milestones, the most important person they look out for in the audience is his or her spouse. That's the role children put their parents o.
are we talking about spouse or girlfriend? Please read again
Re: 'Don’t Make Yourself A Parent To Your Girlfriend - Man Advises His Son by Idadurun: 2:32pm On Jun 13
FreeStuffsNG:
All these theory sef. Smh.

There's no way you will not both fill the roles of parent to each other at some point in time.

When the man is at his lowest ebb, he will first explain his predicaments to his wife and will rely on her for a measure of parental nurturing and vice versa for the wife too.

When spouses are celebrating milestones, the most important person they look out for in the audience is his or her spouse. That's the role children put their parents o.
are we talking about spouse or girlfriend? Please read again.
Re: 'Don’t Make Yourself A Parent To Your Girlfriend - Man Advises His Son by megamank(m): 3:34pm On Jun 13
FreeStuffsNG:
All these theory sef. Smh.

There's no way you will not both fill the roles of parent to each other at some point in time.

When the man is at his lowest ebb, he will first explain his predicaments to his wife and will rely on her for a measure of parental nurturing and vice versa for the wife too.

When spouses are celebrating milestones, the most important person they look out for in the audience is his or her spouse. That's the role children put their parents o.

What the father meant was for girlfriend and not wife… he as specifically talking about unmarried relationships
Re: 'Don’t Make Yourself A Parent To Your Girlfriend - Man Advises His Son by maasoap(m): 4:17pm On Jun 13
FreeStuffsNG:
All these theory sef. Smh.

There's no way you will not both fill the roles of parent to each other at some point in time.

When the man is at his lowest ebb, he will first explain his predicaments to his wife and will rely on her for a measure of parental nurturing and vice versa for the wife too.

When spouses are celebrating milestones, the most important person they look out for in the audience is his or her spouse. That's the role children put their parents o.

The man said girlfriend, you're mentioning wife in your comment. Are you wiser than the man? Try to read and understand the words he used first
Re: 'Don’t Make Yourself A Parent To Your Girlfriend - Man Advises His Son by NothingDoMe: 6:35pm On Jun 13
Acekidc4:


From girlfriend to wife, is that not how it works 🤔🤨 abi you go just see girl tell am say you wan marry am just like that Oga use your brain na🤨
A wife should naturally have more privileges than a girlfriend. That's the gist of what the father is saying. Life has phases. When she becomes a wife, she can then enjoy that phase with all the privileges that come with it.

Haven't you heard the phrase: "Walk out and tell him, "If you like it, then you should have put a ring on it."? Meaning there's no commitment, so she can walk out anytime.

What's wrong with this generation sef?
Re: 'Don’t Make Yourself A Parent To Your Girlfriend - Man Advises His Son by Kelly2713(m): 6:57pm On Jun 13
Joy2dworldxyz:


Ami nto Essien Udim, Adiasim precisely

Woow. Nice to meet you. So are u staying there at?
Re: 'Don’t Make Yourself A Parent To Your Girlfriend - Man Advises His Son by Kobojunkie: 7:12pm On Jun 13
NothingDoMe:
■ A wife should naturally have more privileges than a girlfriend. That's the gist of what the father is saying. Life has phases. When she becomes a wife, she can then enjoy that phase with all the privileges that come with it. Haven't you heard the phrase: "Walk out and tell him, "If you like it, then you should have put a ring on it."? Meaning there's no commitment, so she can walk out anytime. What's wrong with this generation sef?
Stop spewing tripe! Any "privilege" that renders you a parent-figure to your own wife is nonsense! Better learn from those before you who did that only to end up disgraced and dismissed as eejits.
Re: 'Don’t Make Yourself A Parent To Your Girlfriend - Man Advises His Son by NothingDoMe: 7:22pm On Jun 13
Kobojunkie:
Stop spewing tripe! Any "privilege" that renders you a parent-figure to your own wife is nonsense! Better learn from those before you who did that only to end up disgraced and dismissed as eejits.
You've said nothing. Your words are shiny like the Nigerian kobo, but just as worthless.
Re: 'Don’t Make Yourself A Parent To Your Girlfriend - Man Advises His Son by Kobojunkie: 7:28pm On Jun 13
NothingDoMe:
You've said nothing. Your words are shiny like the Nigerian kobo, but just as worthless.
Again, Stop spewing tripe! Any "privilege" that renders you a parent figure to your own wife is nonsense! Better learn from those before you who did that only to end up disgraced and dismissed as eejits. It will of course not make sense to you because many of you are notoriously incapable of learning even with millions of examples showcasing the major outcome of such decisions all around you.
Re: 'Don’t Make Yourself A Parent To Your Girlfriend - Man Advises His Son by Joy2dworldxyz: 7:29pm On Jun 13
Kelly2713:


Woow. Nice to meet you. So are u staying there at?

I dey Eastern Obolo right now, what about you, what's your current location?
Re: 'Don’t Make Yourself A Parent To Your Girlfriend - Man Advises His Son by NothingDoMe: 7:41pm On Jun 13
Kobojunkie:
Again, Stop spewing tripe! Any "privilege" that renders you a parent figure to your own wife is nonsense! Better learn from those before you who did that only to end up disgraced and dismissed as eejits. It will of course not make sense to you because many of you are notoriously incapable of learning even with millions of examples showcasing the major outcome of such decisions all around you.

Re: 'Don’t Make Yourself A Parent To Your Girlfriend - Man Advises His Son by Acekidc4(m): 10:46pm On Jun 13
freeborn02:


No. Never. I'm doing well for myself without pushing drug like tinubu

Tinubu is pushing the drug while you, you're selling the drug abi🤨 cos na criminal dey always identify criminal💯🤔
Re: 'Don’t Make Yourself A Parent To Your Girlfriend - Man Advises His Son by Kelly2713(m): 11:35am On Jun 14
Joy2dworldxyz:


I dey Eastern Obolo right now, what about you, what's your current location?

Am in ikot ekpene. I have been to eastern obolo before
Re: 'Don’t Make Yourself A Parent To Your Girlfriend - Man Advises His Son by Joy2dworldxyz: 11:53am On Jun 14
Kelly2713:


Am in ikot ekpene. I have been to eastern obolo before

Oh nice... How is Ikot ekpene?
Re: 'Don’t Make Yourself A Parent To Your Girlfriend - Man Advises His Son by Kelly2713(m): 3:55pm On Jun 14
Joy2dworldxyz:


Oh nice... How is Ikot ekpene?
Is calm and you?
Re: 'Don’t Make Yourself A Parent To Your Girlfriend - Man Advises His Son by freeborn02: 8:10am On Jun 15
Acekidc4:


Tinubu is pushing the drug while you, you're selling the drug abi🤨 cos na criminal dey always identify criminal💯🤔

Lolz. What a senseless reasoning.

Everyone saw the document where tinubu was challenged in court for narcotics funds in his account. You don't have to be a drug dealer to have eyes that can see.

Or is ur head too stupid to reason that out?
Re: 'Don’t Make Yourself A Parent To Your Girlfriend - Man Advises His Son by Acekidc4(m): 10:21pm On Jun 16
freeborn02:


Lolz. What a senseless reasoning.

Everyone saw the document where tinubu was challenged in court for narcotics funds in his account. You don't have to be a drug dealer to have eyes that can see.

Or is ur head too stupid to reason that out?

Your great grand father head is too stupid where ever he may be. He now pass the stupidity to your grandfather who in turn pass it to your Stupid father who now gave birth to a stupid useless motherfucker like you. (YOU GET THE POINT NOW🤨) Like i said earlier, it's only a stupid criminal like you that will identify a fellow Criminal.........I think your Stupid father should go for a DNA test ooooo cos your own level of Stupidity is clearly out of this world. Mumu Criminal like you🤨
Re: 'Don’t Make Yourself A Parent To Your Girlfriend - Man Advises His Son by freeborn02: 5:34am On Jun 17
Acekidc4:


Your great grand father head is too stupid where ever he may be. He now pass the stupidity to your grandfather who in turn pass it to your Stupid father who now gave birth to a stupid useless motherfucker like you. (YOU GET THE POINT NOW🤨) Like i said earlier, it's only a stupid criminal like you that will identify a fellow Criminal.........I think your Stupid father should go for a DNA test ooooo cos your own level of Stupidity is clearly out of this world. Mumu Criminal like you🤨

Going by your logic, a judge that condemns a criminal and sentence him to prison based on presented evidence must also be a fellow criminal. grin

Have you seen how very stupid your logic is?

You can't defend tinubu and not sound stupid
Re: 'Don’t Make Yourself A Parent To Your Girlfriend - Man Advises His Son by wizrose(m): 7:22am On Jun 17
Gistmedia10:
A father shared a golden rule of life with his son, advising him to avoid taking on unnecessary responsibilities in his relationship.

“Don’t make yourself a parent to your girlfriend,” he cautioned. “Don’t take responsibilities that are not yours.” shocked

The father's wise words aim to guide his son in navigating the complexities of romantic relationships and maintaining healthy boundaries.


Was he right?


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oHZiTP-OmeQ

Love can even make you do beyond that its part of life expect if you are poor... if their is money i can even go beyond that just to take care of her
Re: 'Don’t Make Yourself A Parent To Your Girlfriend - Man Advises His Son by Acekidc4(m): 11:21am On Jun 17
freeborn02:


Going by your logic, a judge that condemns a criminal and sentence him to prison based on presented evidence must also be a fellow criminal. grin

Have you seen how very stupid your logic is?

You can't defend tinubu and not sound stupid

Which stupid evidence your papa get🤨🤔 your people are always doing as if you know more than the court of law that exonerate him on those bogus useless accusations 🤨 Rubbish!! Keep wailing while Tinubu keep working hard🥱

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