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Re: 5 Reasons Some Wives Cheat On Their Husbands by emmanuel596(m): 3:52pm On Jun 18
Once a bitch always a bitch

You can't turn a hoe to a wife

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Re: 5 Reasons Some Wives Cheat On Their Husbands by AishaDant(f): 3:52pm On Jun 18
I am not the type of female to cheat but doing it as revenge is something I can do...

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Re: 5 Reasons Some Wives Cheat On Their Husbands by franchasng: 3:53pm On Jun 18
Magicalsineros:
Before, once a young woman is going into marriage, it's a subconscious believe that her body is strictly for her husband alone, but over the years, the narrative has changed. Most husbands have abused this grace and so many men have pushed Their women to the wall, that today, the consciousness and sanctity of matrimonial bliss is gradually going into extinction.

In as much as I am not supporting cheating in a marriage where the man is good to his wife the following are my opinion

1. Lazy husband
When a woman is married to a lazy man who can't provide, always giving excuses and manipulative. He keeps pushing her to handle all the responsibilities. She has to pay all the bills all in the name of the man is jobless,
this particular wife will likely cheat on her man, because women generally love to see their men being the head that provides for the family.

2. Se.xaul Need
Some men are so clueless. You don't care about her feelings, during se.x, once you're satisfied, that's all. You don't even want to know if she is satisfied too.
This particular wife will definitely be longing for a day someone will make her feel it to the fullest. The person might not be you.

3. Companionship
It's generally proven, once you have someone you can tell everything to without feeling ashamed or scared, the possibility of you comfortably having se.x with him is very high and if that person is not your husband, then you have cheated.

That's why most people ended up sleeping with their bestie or childhood friends.
When there's too much empty space in a marriage where the both parties don't experience that companionship, once she find it in someone else, either at work or anywhere, she will cheat on her husband.

4. Ungrateful human
This particular wife, does not keep record of any good thing her man do to her. She's an ungrateful human, she's selfish and a bad person. No matter who you are to her, no matter what you do, she will always focus on herself alone.

5. Revenge
The man is cheating and hurting her. So, to have her sanity back, she cheat back.
Some women cheat on their husbands to feel better from feeling of hurt and bitterness from their husband's bad behavior. Some will go as far as sleeping with your best friend, house boy, gate men, your Boss at work to make you feel disrespectful.
Evil they said brings evil. Good beings good as well

Add yours, so we can keep learning
The only reason a woman will cheat on her husband is if the woman does not have the fear of God in her.

Any woman that does not have a personal relationship with God will cheat on her husband once the opportunity presents itself.


No matter what, a woman that fears God and have a personal relationship with God will never cheat on her husband, come rain, come shine

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Re: 5 Reasons Some Wives Cheat On Their Husbands by 1MILLIONLiGHTS(m): 3:54pm On Jun 18
THERE IS NO REASON EXCEPT THE ONE SATAN GAVE. STOP JUSTIFYING WICKEDNESS.
Re: 5 Reasons Some Wives Cheat On Their Husbands by ChiefS(m): 3:54pm On Jun 18
6. High libido - Some women have abnormally high libido. Such women are likely to cheat on their husbands especially those who were runs girls before getting married

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Re: 5 Reasons Some Wives Cheat On Their Husbands by omoredia: 3:55pm On Jun 18
If cheating pays u then go ahead and cheat

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Re: 5 Reasons Some Wives Cheat On Their Husbands by Kobojunkie: 3:56pm On Jun 18
duruZed:
Also a woman/man that do not have regard for God is more likely to cheat.
Nonsense! Your many pastors and imams wey dey cheat up and down, na because dem know to use tongue talk say dem regard God? Abegi! undecided

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Re: 5 Reasons Some Wives Cheat On Their Husbands by SeriouslySense(m): 3:56pm On Jun 18
nawa o.
Re: 5 Reasons Some Wives Cheat On Their Husbands by vengertime: 3:57pm On Jun 18
Magicalsineros:
Before, once a young woman is going into marriage, it's a subconscious believe that her body is strictly for her husband alone, but over the years, the narrative has changed. Most husbands have abused this grace and so many men have pushed Their women to the wall, that today, the consciousness and sanctity of matrimonial bliss is gradually going into extinction.

In as much as I am not supporting cheating in a marriage where the man is good to his wife the following are my opinion

1. Lazy husband
When a woman is married to a lazy man who can't provide, always giving excuses and manipulative. He keeps pushing her to handle all the responsibilities. She has to pay all the bills all in the name of the man is jobless,
this particular wife will likely cheat on her man, because women generally love to see their men being the head that provides for the family.

2. Se.xaul Need
Some men are so clueless. You don't care about her feelings, during se.x, once you're satisfied, that's all. You don't even want to know if she is satisfied too.
This particular wife will definitely be longing for a day someone will make her feel it to the fullest. The person might not be you.

3. Companionship
It's generally proven, once you have someone you can tell everything to without feeling ashamed or scared, the possibility of you comfortably having se.x with him is very high and if that person is not your husband, then you have cheated.

That's why most people ended up sleeping with their bestie or childhood friends.
When there's too much empty space in a marriage where the both parties don't experience that companionship, once she find it in someone else, either at work or anywhere, she will cheat on her husband.

4. Ungrateful human
This particular wife, does not keep record of any good thing her man do to her. She's an ungrateful human, she's selfish and a bad person. No matter who you are to her, no matter what you do, she will always focus on herself alone.

5. Revenge
The man is cheating and hurting her. So, to have her sanity back, she cheat back.
Some women cheat on their husbands to feel better from feeling of hurt and bitterness from their husband's bad behavior. Some will go as far as sleeping with your best friend, house boy, gate men, your Boss at work to make you feel disrespectful.
Evil they said brings evil. Good beings good as well

Add yours, so we can keep learning

So on your number 1,

does that mean that since my wife is lazy and I am the provider does that mean I can cheat too?

What is good for German shepherd should also be good for Bingo

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Re: 5 Reasons Some Wives Cheat On Their Husbands by SeriouslySense(m): 3:57pm On Jun 18
grin this comments ehn, poster abi Magicalsineros, what have you got to say.
vengertime:


So one your number 1, does that mean that since my wife is lazy and I am the provider does that mean I can cheat too?
Re: 5 Reasons Some Wives Cheat On Their Husbands by loswhite(m): 4:00pm On Jun 18
Magicalsineros:
Before, once a young woman is going into marriage, it's a subconscious believe that her body is strictly for her husband alone, but over the years, the narrative has changed. Most husbands have abused this grace and so many men have pushed Their women to the wall, that today, the consciousness and sanctity of matrimonial bliss is gradually going into extinction.

In as much as I am not supporting cheating in a marriage where the man is good to his wife the following are my opinion

1. Lazy husband
When a woman is married to a lazy man who can't provide, always giving excuses and manipulative. He keeps pushing her to handle all the responsibilities. She has to pay all the bills all in the name of the man is jobless,
this particular wife will likely cheat on her man, because women generally love to see their men being the head that provides for the family.

2. Se.xaul Need
Some men are so clueless. You don't care about her feelings, during se.x, once you're satisfied, that's all. You don't even want to know if she is satisfied too.
This particular wife will definitely be longing for a day someone will make her feel it to the fullest. The person might not be you.

3. Companionship
It's generally proven, once you have someone you can tell everything to without feeling ashamed or scared, the possibility of you comfortably having se.x with him is very high and if that person is not your husband, then you have cheated.

That's why most people ended up sleeping with their bestie or childhood friends.
When there's too much empty space in a marriage where the both parties don't experience that companionship, once she find it in someone else, either at work or anywhere, she will cheat on her husband.

4. Ungrateful human
This particular wife, does not keep record of any good thing her man do to her. She's an ungrateful human, she's selfish and a bad person. No matter who you are to her, no matter what you do, she will always focus on herself alone.

5. Revenge
The man is cheating and hurting her. So, to have her sanity back, she cheat back.
Some women cheat on their husbands to feel better from feeling of hurt and bitterness from their husband's bad behavior. Some will go as far as sleeping with your best friend, house boy, gate men, your Boss at work to make you feel disrespectful.
Evil they said brings evil. Good beings good as well

Add yours, so we can keep learning
You guys should go and sleep. Always blaming men for your uselessness.

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Re: 5 Reasons Some Wives Cheat On Their Husbands by pretydiva(f): 4:00pm On Jun 18
masterfactor:
@magicalsineros, All what you wrote up there is rubbish, A wife is not suppose to cheat, if she is tired of the marriage or the relationship, an exit door is always available, no one is forced to be in an unproductive union.There is no reason why a woman should cheat on her man, Let call a spade a spade and not a farming tool.

A wife is not suppose to cheat, but the husband can cheat. Make it make sense pls

I don't condone cheating regardless of the gender. If you cant stay faithful to your partner, then you have no busy getting married. What is good for the goose is also good for the gander
Re: 5 Reasons Some Wives Cheat On Their Husbands by Pastoshizzy(m): 4:05pm On Jun 18
Cheat na.
No be you get your body?
Your future.. your life?

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Re: 5 Reasons Some Wives Cheat On Their Husbands by BigJoe19: 4:06pm On Jun 18
pretydiva:


A wife is not suppose to cheat, but the husband can cheat. Make it make sense pls

I don't condone cheating regardless of the gender. If you cant stay faithful to your partner, then you have no busy getting married. What is good for the goose is also good for the gander
Where in the write up of the person you quote wrote men can cheat, una too like attention and trouble.

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Re: 5 Reasons Some Wives Cheat On Their Husbands by BigJoe19: 4:08pm On Jun 18
Pastoshizzy:
Cheat na.
No be you get your body?
Your future.. your life?
I tire ooo, make she carry speaker they announce am na, men sef are adjusting to their bullshit, nothing to admire in women of this generation.

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Re: 5 Reasons Some Wives Cheat On Their Husbands by Anguldi(m): 4:10pm On Jun 18
This justifies when men scream OLOSHO undecided

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Re: 5 Reasons Some Wives Cheat On Their Husbands by pretydiva(f): 4:11pm On Jun 18
BigJoe19:
Where in the write up of the person you quote wrote men can cheat, una too like attention and trouble.
Abeg swerve if you have comprehension problem.
Re: 5 Reasons Some Wives Cheat On Their Husbands by Allenmuller(m): 4:12pm On Jun 18
If she can't align with me an plan 2geda ,the we're done . Period

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Re: 5 Reasons Some Wives Cheat On Their Husbands by Lezzlie(m): 4:13pm On Jun 18
Magicalsineros:
Before, once a young woman is going into marriage, it's a subconscious believe that her body is strictly for her husband alone, but over the years, the narrative has changed. Most husbands have abused this grace and so many men have pushed Their women to the wall, that today, the consciousness and sanctity of matrimonial bliss is gradually going into extinction.

In as much as I am not supporting cheating in a marriage where the man is good to his wife the following are my opinion

1. Lazy husband
When a woman is married to a lazy man who can't provide, always giving excuses and manipulative. He keeps pushing her to handle all the responsibilities. She has to pay all the bills all in the name of the man is jobless,
this particular wife will likely cheat on her man, because women generally love to see their men being the head that provides for the family.

2. Se.xaul Need
Some men are so clueless. You don't care about her feelings, during se.x, once you're satisfied, that's all. You don't even want to know if she is satisfied too.
This particular wife will definitely be longing for a day someone will make her feel it to the fullest. The person might not be you.

3. Companionship
It's generally proven, once you have someone you can tell everything to without feeling ashamed or scared, the possibility of you comfortably having se.x with him is very high and if that person is not your husband, then you have cheated.

That's why most people ended up sleeping with their bestie or childhood friends.
When there's too much empty space in a marriage where the both parties don't experience that companionship, once she find it in someone else, either at work or anywhere, she will cheat on her husband.

4. Ungrateful human
This particular wife, does not keep record of any good thing her man do to her. She's an ungrateful human, she's selfish and a bad person. No matter who you are to her, no matter what you do, she will always focus on herself alone.

5. Revenge
The man is cheating and hurting her. So, to have her sanity back, she cheat back.
Some women cheat on their husbands to feel better from feeling of hurt and bitterness from their husband's bad behavior. Some will go as far as sleeping with your best friend, house boy, gate men, your Boss at work to make you feel disrespectful.
Evil they said brings evil. Good beings good as well

Add yours, so we can keep learning
The carefully worded excuses of a hoe to other hoes.

There's no excuse for a wife to cheat. There's no reason for a wife to cheat.

A cheating wife is just a dirty slut with no character, integrity or pride.

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Re: 5 Reasons Some Wives Cheat On Their Husbands by Denko2721987(m): 4:14pm On Jun 18
Zxcvbnmghtr:
There is this salon I go to make my hair. In the salon, there was this young guy who infact is better than all of the female hairstylist. Very creative . He was a corp member of the NYSC. He was telling us his experience with married women who are sexually frustrated by their husbands. He got involved with them out of sympathy because they practically begged him with tears rolling down their eyes for at least a smooching that will lead to making them feel like a woman. The first lady introduced him to her many friends who suffer the same torture from their husbands who have no time for them except from one business trip to another.

Their husbands hardly touch them for months. Sex is a big deal in marriage especially for we women unless you want us to cheat on you or seek for divorce, just like one of Dangote's wife did because he had no time for her.

The sad news again is, majority of you men have refuse to give head abi?! Okay nah. Likewise most of you suffer from weak erection and have refused to work on your selves through controlling what you eat and regular exercise instead you are into sexually enhanced drugs which makes sex feel so awful.



SEXUAL FRUSTRATION IS REAL AND IT IS DESTROYING MARRIAGES.

Head k!ll you there.. angry

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Re: 5 Reasons Some Wives Cheat On Their Husbands by Lemos14: 4:15pm On Jun 18
pretydiva:

Abeg swerve if you have comprehension problem.

He asked you a simple question where did he justify men cheating, you turned it around to gaslighting that he has comprehension issues...you young ladies of this generation are really brainless and dont have shame,...that's why young men are not even eager to marry you lots unlike before.

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Re: 5 Reasons Some Wives Cheat On Their Husbands by Lilwurd24: 4:15pm On Jun 18
Forget that thing woman wey won cheat go cheat 😡

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Re: 5 Reasons Some Wives Cheat On Their Husbands by BigJoe19: 4:17pm On Jun 18
pretydiva:

Abeg swerve if you have comprehension problem.
If there is anyone with comprehension problem it's obviously you, my honest advice to you learn how to be civil.

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Re: 5 Reasons Some Wives Cheat On Their Husbands by Zxcvbnmghtr: 4:17pm On Jun 18
Denko2721987:


Head k!ll you there.. angry

Head is sweeter than that your 8 inches pen!s you better know this. I come in peace.
Re: 5 Reasons Some Wives Cheat On Their Husbands by Lemos14: 4:18pm On Jun 18
BigJoe19:
If there is anyone with comprehension problem it's obviously you, my honest advice to you learn how to be civil.

Leave them, set awon saidaboj gang

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Re: 5 Reasons Some Wives Cheat On Their Husbands by RodgersAkpafu: 4:19pm On Jun 18
whether you like it or not
the OP has a point

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Re: 5 Reasons Some Wives Cheat On Their Husbands by wonder233: 4:19pm On Jun 18
Let me expand the net and add the following reason :
Conquest: A loyal, dotting, loving man is a conquered man. The woman feels no spark as you've become predictable. In no time she will become "bored" of you and start getting irritated with every little thing. Then, convince herself that you're the one making her unhappy, then in walks that new male colleague of hers, she then starts a needless friendship and be forming he is a confidant, without you knowing what's going on. Then, she will eventually sleep with him. If you don't ever get to find out, the marriage just continues like nothing happened. But if you coincidentally get to find out, she will cry down the heavens begging you and vowing with her father's grave to be the most faithful wife to you going forward etc etc... If you're a wise, man, you will end the marriage. The begging will then turn to frustration and anger cos she thought you were a soft conquered man and after quarrelling and even insulting you for not being man enough to handle a woman and all other jabs at your ego, you will still stand your ground, she will turn nasty, then later back to begging... But you're resolute.
Then after she eventually leaves, you take your time, meet someone new and start a new relationship. This time, you habe learnt. Some people, especially ladies will try to coax you into making the same mistake by saying you are now bitter, that all women are not the same... But they are and you're not making a mistake, You are simply paying attention to the psychology of relationships.
In this new relationship, you ensure you are not conquered, by maintaining a healthy balance at all times. For instance, nothing wrong in your wife seeing other women desire you, as against you behaving like a pope. Nothing wrong in being a little traditional as against you behaving like a simp in the name of being a modern man, etc etc.

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Re: 5 Reasons Some Wives Cheat On Their Husbands by RodgersAkpafu: 4:20pm On Jun 18
Lezzlie:
The carefully worded excuses of a hoe to other hoes.

There's no excuse for a wife to cheat. There's no reason for a wife to cheat.

A cheating wife is just a dirty slut with no character, integrity or pride.

really?
Re: 5 Reasons Some Wives Cheat On Their Husbands by tiswell(m): 4:20pm On Jun 18
There is high probability that if you marry a non virgin girl,she will cheat on you,no matter how you tried to satisfy her.


Basically,women are insatiable.



As a man,do not do pass yasef,if you catch her cheating,send her cheating as* to the streets and live long

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Re: 5 Reasons Some Wives Cheat On Their Husbands by Pastoshizzy(m): 4:20pm On Jun 18
BigJoe19:
I tire ooo, make she carry speaker they announce am na, men sef are adjusting to their bullshit, nothing to admire in women of this generation.
Das why I dey church dey pray 24 for my own children. Their is sanctity in marriage if the two have come to terms with consequences (the fear of God).
Some couples are just wary of karma.
It's not about body counts, ego does not exist in unity. Humility, respect, resilience, prudence are virtues that God gives by living right.
One life is worthy of emulation if well lived.
Re: 5 Reasons Some Wives Cheat On Their Husbands by Denko2721987(m): 4:21pm On Jun 18
Zxcvbnmghtr:


Head is sweeter than that your 11 inches pen!s that would reach the depths of your soul so you better know this. I come in peace.
cool
Re: 5 Reasons Some Wives Cheat On Their Husbands by BigJoe19: 4:22pm On Jun 18
Lemos14:


Leave them, set awon saidaboj gang
It's honestly sad to see how low women in this part of the world have degraded lipsrsealed

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