Kyng1:



It's because of the baby, that I'm frustrating her and she might have complications that she has landed on the hospital 4 times now because of me and it's affecting her baby that if anything should happen to the baby after her antinental scan on Friday which is tomorrow, she'd send me to the afterlife.

As much as I’m one of the strongest advocates of taking violent threats seriously, did you really post this thinking you’d be blameless?

I don’t even need to say anything. The fact even your fellow men are telling you that you’re not doing well should be enough for you

You're shameless.
Grow up.

brain54:

And she wasn't angry...?

Didn't your foul words make her loose herself too.

You both are guilty of the same doings!

Don't mind him.

Nice2023:
U are simply not a good man to that woman.

I started feeling bad from the way and manner u may have frustrated that lady.

Is it even a crime to be a wife.

Treat that woman well,a breastfeeding mother at that.

Stop using curse words on ur wife and family...u are the head of the home. I wonder what would make a man to tell his wife to go and Bleep stone.

Apologise to her and start making your marriage work.

I blame u for everything because u don't know ur role as the Head. I have never abused my wife of 9years not even by mistake.

Seriously,I don't know how u guys are doing it.

Lastly,do not destroy ur home...rather rediscover yourself and make amends to make ur marriage work.

I blame ur wife for a exchanging words with u in such a tensed situations.

This,I will say here is exactly what I will tell my brother/son in the absence of his wife.

Be a good man my brother.

Good luck to u as u guys amend and live in harmony thereafter.

God bless you for this.

Bros,
That threat was made out of frustration and can be carried out if anything happens to the baby.

Honestly, the bulk of the blame is on you, pregnancy comes to some level of 'madness' - I mean the hormones screw most women during pregnancy and made them act nuts, you need to understand this and support them rather than fuel their aggressions.

The threat can be averted; weather you love her or not, atleast una done marry and there is a child growing between you too. So this is my advise for you. Please go back home, apologise for all you caused her and promise to support her through it all. Use the opportunity to highlight things that piss you up with her so she can redress. It is obvious she loves you deeply. After this initial discussion, go to the hospital for the antenatal check up with her. Have an appointment to see una pastor or alfa or a family mentor that both of you respect and have a discussion on the issues with including the life threats so there is a witness should anything go south in the future. You both promise each other to be of utmost behaviour and support each other going forward. These steps will help quil the threats.

Whether you love her or not, guy you gat to stop doing bad to this lady and support her through this pregnancy. You are toying with two or more lives here.

Na waa o. Indeed no husband for outside again. See wetin person marry say husband... carried your whole family business and drop outside like this... if you know the spiritual implications of the marriage u are playing with like this, you will repent in tears and go build your home.

Kyng1:



I wasn't ready boss, her pregnancy lead to the marriage, I wasn't in anyway ready. The love isn't there also.

You're a fool

When you know, you're not ready

Why did you have sex with her without condom

Uneducated fools everywhere

Well

Women are "act first and think later"
this a clear case of two irresponsible people in marriage.

The guy is probably a street guy and the lady a street girl.

I wish her safe delivery and only God can make the marriage peaceful.

A wicked foolish boy you are OP.

Mom007:
wetin person marry say husband... carried your whole family business and drop outside like this...

Funny enough, I've seen about 3 monikers who were advising the OP whereas they themselves are unmarried.

Anybody wey carry him marital affair come Social Media, anything him see, make him take am like that. Since all those online In-laws don scatter Yul Edochie marriage, shebi dem don rest.

From the writings, you dont know the psychology of women when they are pregnant. give her a chance and stop posting holistically what you discussed with your wife. you edited it to suit you. why are your responses fewer than her own? Or you were setting her up, since you know you will post it. I beg be man enough, you have caused a lot of trauma to this woman and she is carrying your baby for crying out loud !!!!

Some of the things a man should know about PREGNANCY;

1- Pregnancy can make women moody hence you should allow them insult the hell out of you or even break stuff in the house. It's not them, it's the hormones.

2- Pregnancy can make them nauseous, voracious or even crave unusual (odd) meal. e.g Using the water that was used to boil goat meat to make them pap (ogi). At least my wife requested for it when she was pregnant with our first baby.

3- Pregnancy makes them lazy. Hence, you may return home only to find out that they haven't had their bathe since morning. The whole house is messed up and their hair looks that they just escaped from a mental asylum.

4- Being pregnant can be very frustrating hence they may lose themselves or their beauty in the process.

5- Pregnancy can make them crave d1ck or not ever be in the mood for d1ck, It depends. Whichever divide your wife falls, so help you God with the strength. At least I'm speaking from experience.

However, if pregnancy doesn't stop your wife from being on her phone all day doing TICKTOK, INSTAGRAM, FACEBOOK or watching BB9JA. Bros, na whyne she dey whyne you.

If the OP understands how this relates to his question, then, he's a REAL NIGGAR.

She wan dey bomb for you on Facebook.

Chai! See as I dey laugh in public.

OP and him babe na the same thing jare 😢.

See as them dey use swear take bath.

oko so u and ur wife nor fit dey communicate face to face for same house
na SMS una dey send,,,,,,, omo the enemity strong o

always do as ur mind tell u b4 she go puff u

Man, you share too much information! it would have been better to summarise all those screenshots in words rather than post that many private messages in the public.

Three of the things I can deduce are:

1. Your lady is pregnant.
2. Both of you are reckless with words.
3. You don't really like the lady that much; you also stated it.

These combined to produce the outcome that you have on your hand.

I heard that pregnant women can be temperamental. If that's the case, she might not really mean the threat. You should know by her overall (usual) nature whether she meant that or not, but you probably don't care that much to give attention to that.

Ah, I see.
Still a mess.

Kyng1:


I pray someone doesn't threaten to take your someday, foul language would be a child's play on what you'd have done.

for the sake of your child make peace. I know you are angry but just forgive and forget

One idiot, two phones

Kyng1:



I wasn't ready boss, her pregnancy lead to the marriage, I wasn't in anyway ready. The love isn't there also.

So y u come marry her when the love wasn't there in the first place?

No wonder u dey treat her badly..

U could have just waited for her to deliver ur baby, and take it after nurturing period is over.

I am sorry this back and forth go still continue....

Don't u know that pregnancy make women misbehave?

I wonder wetin u go do when u hear the one she go tell u for labour room during her labour.

To whom it may concern(Husband),Na God and Devil go punish you.You run cause your wife threaten you and now see as she Dey ask for forgiveness,But you still Dey show yourself!.Na God again go punish.

And you shamelessly come online to tell us, mumu man, what do you want us to do now

Fu. K u , n your ugly street urchin wife and all other epistles up there. Idiot

Mister man, why did you marry a woman you do not like and respect? Why?

You practically hate her now.

See the way you are talking to her. Some people treat their dogs better than you are treating her. Why won't she get angry.

Anyways if you have any brain matter in your skull just know that if anything should happen to that woman or the child in her womb due to your hard heartnedness and vile anger, she will end you. Even if she dies, her spirit will torture you till you join them.

If you love yourself, you had better find a way of chilling out and pampering that woman till she is okay. If you want to leave her after then, it's up to you.

You are a narcissistic idiot to even bring it here thinking people are going to support you. Believe me, if any of her family members see this post and something later happens to her you are a goner.

I hope you don't get away with treating someone child like this. Useless demonic imp

Some men shouldn't be husbands talk more fathers.

Daniel, the grass is not greener on the other side.

This lady loves you, if u throw that away, u gonna regret it for the rest of your life.

Oga go back to your loving wife and fix things up. You should have known in the first place that marriage is not a bed of roses. It's commitment from both parties that makes it work o. She's apologized and let that be the end of it, but you know you're guilty of everything you're accusing her of sha. You pushed her to the extent she went, it's not nice at all, women are very emotional and not quite logical like we men. She doesn't mean any of these threats trust me on that. You can't be doing this to a pregnant wife, just be the man you ought to be you'll see how much she really loves you.

Oga. She is pregnant. Pregnancy comes with all kinds of emotions. They become like mad men so only a fool quarrels with them. You should be petting her and overlook a lot during the pregnancy period. They are not normal that period.

You even get better wife wey dey beg you to suck your prick. Follow that woman carefully and with love. Nurture what you have now. Plenty women like your wife wey get soft heart no dey again ooo! Na agbero full outside. You don't know what God has done for you.

Guy calm down.

Ndi social media like love and some insecure partner will be there comparing a great relationship with this social media pipo

Nemesis0147:
Bomb Facebook ke😂😂
You guys were clearly not ready for this marriage 😂

Oga your wife is simply a good woman. You are just the problem. I have gone through your profile and saw where you even had sex with a prostitute and got infected. You have probably not seen your wives under in months and your wife is obviously constantly frustrated by your lack of care towards her. Your wife was simply angry as any human being can be and passed a wrong message out of the anger you obviously propelled. She couldn't have threatened to kill you of you didn't say something very bitter and heavy towards her. That she is your wife doesn't make her your puppet or your slave. You married her because your loved her or so you could live with her forever, why now frustrate her? You're the man of the family and it is expected you take the back seat when things get very heated because as a man you should be more intelligent and you should know that anything can escalate to what nobody would wish for their home. I see you might no longer find your wife attractive which is normal for some partners after many years marriage or fvcking the same pvssy, but please try to pretend to still find her attractive as before and above all love your wife because she became your other half that moment your exchanged vows with her on the alter. Loving your wife is like loving yourself because you can never ignore whatever that is going on her end, her problems are yours and yours are hers. Be wise. Sometimes let go of your manly ego and allow her say all her rubbish because that is naturally her 95% of women show they are hurt. Your duty is to after her blabbing in a cool and lovely way talk sense into her, she will 100% listen and take corrections. Don't mind what redpill idiots say online. Love your wife and appreciate the fact she is your home maker. Without her you would have no children that makes up a home neither would you have in most cases anyone to care for your kids and inculcate values into then. BE WISE AND DON'T BE FOOLISH!

I can bet this are new couples. I swear d lady don't mean half of what she said,the guy is just using the situation to run away. Go home to your wife n let peace reign. I can tell she loves you deeply from what I read. Av bn married for 11yrs so I know when a woman is in love. Don't ever destroy your home cus of this n know that most words said in depression,no one meant it. Including the one u said.next time,when she is ranting,just close the chat. Allow her send 1million message n u delete. Don't read. Except u r mature in heart. Resist d urge to reply her as e de hot. Make up n have a good sex. Trust me marriage is indeed a wonderful institution

blackbone989:
I can bet this are new couples. I swear d lady don't mean half of what she said,the guy is just using the situation to run away. Go home to your wife n let peace reign. I can tell she loves you deeply from what I read. Av bn married for 11yrs so I know when a woman is in love. Don't ever destroy your home cus of this n know that most words said in depression,no one meant it. Including the one u said.next time,when she is ranting,just close the chat. Allow her send 1million message n u delete. Don't read. Except u r mature in heart. Resist d urge to reply her as e de hot. Make up n have a good sex. Trust me marriage is indeed a wonderful institution

I learnt the hard way after the girl I loved left me for another man. The signs where there that she loved me but I took her outbursts so serious without knowing that was the time she needed my care and kind words the most. Now the girl I built to my taste is now another bachelor's (a pastor) girlfriend. And she looks to be really in love/happy with him by her social media activities. Never again will I fvck up a relationship that we really love each other.

In your definition sir, how do you know when a girl really loves you?

It was written in the Marriage Diary

Your wife go threaten you with death

My guy no panic

All is well