FuckingMachine:


Then he will go to jail as a nice guy.
His 2nd marriage plan is dead on arrival.
He will lose his properties and certain privileges at the end of this ordeal.

Nothing will happen. I am not supposed to have an opinion on this for personal reasons, but I detest dishonesty. I am here to state that NOTHING WILL HAPPEN. Jarus is a Yoruba man living in Lagos - a Yoruba state. He is a Muslim. In Islam, a man is entitled to marry four wives provided he can take care of them. He is a rich man who has worked in the oil and gas industry for MANY YEARS. This man earned more than 40 million naira per annum when the naira was strong. He is a strong APC supporter.

Please stop lying. Nothing will happen to Jarus. You don't have to like him. But saying his properties would be lost is a BIG FAT LIE!

cococandy:
People really believe it’s their right to marry other spouses even though the person they are currently married to is unhappy about it?

Hmm

Yes. It is permissible in Islam. Any woman who marries a Muslim MUST accept it. It is Islamic. You don't like it?

- Convert to a different religion
- Marry a non-Muslim.

The dishonesty in this matter is nauseating. A Muslim man has the right to marry FOUR WIVES. What is wrong with that?

Gerrard59:


Nothing will happen. I am not supposed to have an opinion on this for personal reasons, but I detest dishonesty. I am here to state that NOTHING WILL HAPPEN. Jarus is a Yoruba man living in Lagos - a Yoruba state. He is a Muslim. In Islam, a man is entitled to marry four wives provided he can take care of them. He is a rich man who has worked in the oil and gas industry for MANY YEARS. This man earned more than 40 million naira per annum when the naira was strong. He is a strong APC supporter.

Please stop lying. Nothing will happen to Jarus. You don't have to like him. But saying his properties would be lost is a BIG FAT LIE!

lagos state government said they will investigate him. He is done for

ednut1:
lagos state government said they will investigate him. He is done for

Story! Someone who has Lamido Sanusi's number on speed dial? A friend to El-Rufai? A friend to Seyi Tinubu?

Nothing will happen.

ednut1:
lagos state government said they will investigate him. He is done for

Nothing will happen.

1. He will cool off on the 2nd wife talk.

2. Settle out of court, na family affairs, that is what Lagos authorities will hear from the black eyed wife.

3. Bribe her heavily. Screw the hell out of her after drinking agbo jedi. Cunninglingus is a must, eat her out like his life depends on it.

4. Grow some balls.

5. If na me, I will marry not just 2nd, I will marry 3rd and 4th. Make sure I cut you out of the Will. I NEVER tolerate betrayal. I can even divorce you on my death bed.

ednut1:
lagos state government said they will investigate him. He is done for

Nothing will happen. In the next two weeks, we will not remember this case again.

They will reconcile and move on. I do not support or condone domestic violence.

Sapasenator:


Nothing will happen. In the next two weeks, we will not remember this case again.

They will reconcile and move on. I do not support or condone domestic violence.

The most clownish aspect of this is all is people questioning a Muslim man's right to marry another woman. It is nonsensical! The dishonesty on social media is nauseating. Islam permits its men to marry up to four wives. So, why are people suddenly shocked that a rich Muslim man in his dominant environment wants to do so?

This is why it is good to reside in your dominant environment. If it were Canada or the UK, then something might happen. Let me see what would happen to a rich Yoruba Muslim man in Lagos.

Any woman who marries a Muslim MUST accept his right to be polygamous. You don't like it? Don't marry a Muslim. It is that simple.

Gerrard59:


The most clownish aspect of this is all is people questioning a Muslim man's right to marry another woman. It is nonsensical! The dishonesty on social media is nauseating. Islam permits its men to marry up to four wives. So, why are people suddenly shocked that a rich Muslim man in his dominant environment wants to do so?

This is why it is good to reside in your dominant environment. If it were Canada or the UK, then something might happen. Let me see what would happen to a rich Yoruba Muslim man in Lagos.

Any woman who marries a Muslim MUST accept his right to be polygamous. You don't like it? Don't marry a Muslim. It is that simple.

I am moving back to Nigeria soon and no where is like home my brother.

Even the wife of the dude was aware of the islamic doctrine of the dude's ability to mary up to 4 wives. Why she dey para.

Sapasenator:


I am moving back to Nigeria soon and no where is like home my brother.

Even the wife of the dude was aware of the islamic doctrine of the dude's ability to mary up to 4 wives. Why she dey para.

Today's events have reinforced my decision to have residential properties in Nigeria. Both on my father's side and my mother's side. Thank God no property has been sold. I will do what I want to do. In the same way Chinese men do theirs in Macau and Hong Kong and Japanese men do theirs in Tokyo, I will do mine in my dominant environment.

Anyone who does not like can go and die!

Gerrard59:


Today's events have reinforced my decision to have residential properties in Nigeria. Both on my father's side and my mother's side. Thank God no property has been sold. I will do what I want to do. In the same way Chinese men do theirs in Macau and Hong Kong and Japanese men do theirs in Tokyo, I will do mine in my dominant environment.

Anyone who does not like can go and die!

You are echoing my mind. I sold of properties decades ago and relocated and recently I am having a crisis moment and begining to realize these people are using us to build their countries. That the main purpose for seeking migrants.
I also see myself as a second class citizen here despite a foreign passports and education.

I an in negotiations for properties already on the Islands and once done, home here I come.

Beremx:
Blogs have carried the news sef. I think Jarus is under pressure to marry a second wife. What does he want again in another woman? He has three kids I think. What else does he want abeg? Whatever issues he has with his wife he should sort it out.
I saw how he praised and adorned his wife on Facebook. Dude doesn't joke with his family.

Na wa o! I feel for his wife sha. 😭😭😭

Excuse me ma'am, he needs tighter pussy .

Personally, polygamy is a recipe for disaster from observation in Muslim homes. It's a no no for me.

Women don't take that second wife talk easy and mellow if you threaten her. But stamping your feet is a declaration of war.

Sapasenator:


You are echoing my mind. I sold of properties decades ago and relocated and recently I am having a crisis moment and begining to realize these people are using us to build their countries. That the main purpose for seeking migrants.
I also see myself as a second class citizen here despite a foreign passports and education.

I an in negotiations for properties already on the Islands and once done, home here I come.

I wrote on this in a reply to someone, but the mods deleted the thread.

As men, we live to reside in a place where we command respect and authority. No matter how much a black man has while residing abroad, he cannot have greater psychological power than the native men. That is the reality. The bold is something many Africans, not African-Americans as their case is different, are facing. They sense a ceiling or discomfort living in the abroad, but cannot return to sub-Saharan Africa because of the terrible economic and security situation.

It is going to get worse as the demographics in the West change and social culture wars continue. Elections in the Netherlands and France tell us where things are going. White men see a resurgence in Donald Trump. It is why I have been preaching that the only solution for black men is to develop Africa to an enviable standard so that no one dictates how to live your life. This does not happen to the Chinese. As White American elites toughened laws against China and seemingly against the Chinese, Chinese men are leaving for China, Singapore and cultural cousins such as Japan, Korea and Malaysia. A prosperous Africa is the only solution to the black man's woes. Jarus is in Lagos, Yoruba land, let me see what would happen to him. They think Lagos is the UK! A Muslim man for that matter?! Four wives are his undeniable right. Anyone who does not like it should drink rat poison!

As for buying a property, good luck with that. Preferably do it in your dominant environment.

I think what’s dishonest is people saying “oh if you don’t like it don’t marry a Muslims or leave the religion”. Let us BFFR for a moment please.

Like it’s so easy to leave a religion that all your family, friends and support system practice. Like women aren’t killed for dishonoring their families by leaving a religion.

Oh are we also going to act like some of them aren’t married off early enough (even if at a legal age ) but still too early that they haven’t grown into their full adulthood hence are unable to do any of these daunting things like leaving or defying their parents and everything/everyone they’ve known their whole lives?

What you guys are saying is that you’re perfectly okay maltreating your partners because you all have created a religion that makes it permissible to do so. How convenient. And if they don’t like it, they can leave. All the while running a social system that makes sure they’re trapped.

Well if they the women like it, I love it for them. But something tells me they don’t. Because I see enough of them on their private TikTok accounts consoling each other when their husbands go out to marry again.

I always side eye anyone who’s okay with unfair practices simply because a religion tells them they can.

And that’s all I’m going to say on this matter before I end up crying more than the bereaved

Gerrard59:


Yes. It is permissible in Islam. Any woman who marries a Muslim MUST accept it. It is Islamic. You don't like it?

- Convert to a different religion
- Marry a non-Muslim.

The dishonesty in this matter is nauseating. A Muslim man has the right to marry FOUR WIVES. What is wrong with that?

What if she divorces him first?

One can only stipulate though. We don’t really know what any of them are going to do

I wish my Nigerian sisters would get more comfortable with divorce. They would be spared A lot of the BS they tolerate

TheChameleon:


5. If na me, I will marry not just 2nd, I will marry 3rd and 4th. [b]Make sure I cut you out of the Will. I NEVER tolerate betrayal. I can even divorce you on my death bed. .

cococandy:
I think what’s dishonest is people saying “oh if you don’t like it don’t marry a Muslims or leave the religion”. Let BFFR for a moment please.

Like it’s so easy to leave a religion that all your family, friends and support system practice. Like women aren’t killed for dishonoring their families by leaving a religion.

There is so much freedom in today's world for any woman that does not like Islam to leave the religion. In Nigeria, this means moving from Kano to Lagos or Cross River. Cut-off communication if need be.

Oh are we also going to act like some of them aren’t married off early enough (even if at a legal age ) but still too early that they haven’t grown into their full adulthood hence are unable to do any of these daunting things like leaving or defying their parents and everything/everyone they’ve known their whole lives?

What you guys are saying is that you’re perfectly okay maltreating your partners because you all have created a religion that makes it permissible to do so. How convenient. And if they don’t like it, they can leave. All the while running a social system that makes sure they’re trapped.

Well if they the women like it, I love it for them. But something tells me they don’t. Because I see enough of them on their private TikTok accounts consoling each other when their husbands go out to marry again.

That is the business of Muslims and not anyone else. If the women want the religion to be reformed the way they want, they should do so. That is how it was with other religions, notably Christianity. But Christians trying to dictate to Islamists how to run their religion does not sit right with me. Alternatively, they should not marry Muslim men. Again, so much freedom. They have the right to choose. In South Korea, women are deliberately refusing to marry men because of what they claim to be toxic misogyny from Korean men. That is how you revolt and demand for change. No one forced Korean women to do what they did. Not China, the US or Japan. Korean women did what they are doing. If Muslim women are tired of Islam, they should seek reformation. However, as long as they marry Muslim men, they MUST accept the fact that these men have the undeniable right to marry up to four wives. The religion is explicitly clear that a man who can take care of his wives should go ahead. You don't have to like Islam or Muslims, but it is clearly stated. So, you must respect its rules.

Rules are rules. Don't change the goalpost in the middle of the game.

I always side eye anyone who’s okay with unfair practices simply because a religion tells them they can.

The options available are:
- Remain single
- Reform the religion the way you want.
- Convert from Islam
- Marry a non-Muslim

You have the right to choose, not to dictate.

You merely repeated everything I already responded to. No new information. so see my earlier reply as it still applies.

Thanks

Gerrard59:


There is so much freedom in today's world for any woman that does not like Islam to leave the religion. In Nigeria, this means moving from Kano to Lagos or Cross River. Cut-off communication if need be.



That is the business of Muslims and not anyone else. If the women want the religion to be reformed the way they want, they should do so. That is how it was with other religions, notably Christianity. But Christians trying to dictate to Islamists how to run their religion does not sit right with me. Alternatively, they should not marry Muslim men. Again, so much freedom. They have the right to choose. In South Korea, women are deliberately refusing to marry men because of what they claim to be toxic misogyny from Korean men. That is how you revolt and demand for change. No one forced Korean women to do what they did. Not China, the US or Japan. Korean women did what they are doing. If Muslim women are tired of Islam, they should seek reformation. However, as long as they marry Muslim men, they MUST accept the fact that these men have the undeniable right to marry up to four wives. The religion is explicitly clear that a man who can take care of his wives should go ahead. You don't have to like Islam or Muslims, but it is clearly stated. So, you must respect its rules.

Rules are rules. Don't change the goalpost in the middle of the game.



The options available are:
- Remain single
- Reform the religion the way you want.
- Convert from Islam
- Marry a non-Muslim

You have the right to choose, not to dictate.

cococandy:
What if she divorces him first?

One can only stipulate though. We don’t really know what any of them are going to do

I wish my Nigerian sisters would get more comfortable with divorce. They would be spared A lot of the BS they tolerate

She wouldn't. I can bet anything.

Read what the foolish simp was offering. I wouldn't ever offer her shiit. Would do exactly what I said.

She can't ever get it elsewhere and she knows it deep down.

You're wasting your time, if you say what you said to her, i can bet she will respond with violence and call you a hater or a vulture - those trying to ruin her precious marriage. High value men always get away with a lot, even murder. Ask the Kennedys.

TheChameleon:


She wouldn't. I can bet anything.

Read what the foolish simp was offering. I wouldn't ever offer her shiit. Would do exactly what I said.

She can't ever get it elsewhere and she knows it deep down.

You're wasting your time, if you say what you said to her, i can bet she will respond with violence and call you a hater or a vulture - those trying to ruin her precious marriage . High value men always get away with a lot, even murder. Ask the Kennedys.

The rest of your post is balderdash IMO but I think you might be right about the boldended

cococandy:
You merely repeated everything I already responded to. No new information. so see my earlier reply as it still applies.

Thanks

Convert to Islam and be the change you wish for.

Do have a great day.

cococandy:


The rest of your post is balderdash IMO but I think you might be right about the boldended

Yeah. It's beyond your IQ level so you wouldn't understand.

Told you exactly what would happen.

This woman with a black eye will curse " everyone who wants to ruin her marriage".

I don't care if you like it or not. That's the bitter truth.

Women in Nigeria have stupid and unrealistic expectations in marriage while the men have selfish and self centered expectations.

I can't understand why it's so hard for the average Nigerian man to have sympathy for their women and why it's also hard for the mumu women to stop valuing marriage so much and stop placing the men on pedestals and simply realize that their men hate them.

I don't even pity the jarus or whatever he calls himself. Let him cook, I don't pity selfish self centered men at all. Disregarding the feelings and emotional wellbeing of his wife of 14 years just because he has made money and so wants to taste a newer, younger woman.
If a woman divorces her poor husband after she becomes rich she would be called all sorts of names even though she is well within her rights to leave the marriage whenever she feels like. I don't pity him. Serves him right.

I dont understand. Doesnt the wife know as a muslim man hes entitled to 4 wives and Jarus is a rich and high value man by Nigerian standards. I dont support domestic violence but a cleric today said its permitted in islam. Why is everyone crying more than the bereaved?

derico:


What is witchcraft in it?
The man exercised his Islamic right to marry multiple, and she exercised her fundamental right to worship- and went the traditional way.


It's just unfortunate that people who practice African traditional religion still do it in secrecy.
If you're trying out traditional worship, do it with pride...as long as you ño go keeee person.

My former landlord had bantè on the wall of the entrance of his flat.
Confirm Muslim Alhaji, yet he doesn't hide the traditional practice.

See, this case shows that
1) Rights do not come from religion and

2) if traditional worship was good, it would be done openly and it is known all over the world thst your so called "traditional worship" can kee person.

3) your former openly shows the world that he is both a muslim and a traditional worshipper so that clearly warns everyone what good/evil to expect from him, so also should traditional worshippers show in advance that they are witches and juju people make problem no dey.

I have low IQ for agreeing with you on this exact part of your post?

This forum is wild.
I can’t make this up

TheChameleon:


Yeah. It's beyond your IQ level so you wouldn't understand.

Told you exactly what would happen.

This woman with a black eye will curse " everyone who wants to ruin her marriage".

I don't care if you like it or not. That's the bitter truth.

That’s why they’re so hateful towards anyone with a feminist mindset.

Because it teaches women to value themselves outside of their roles as wives and moms. To see that they are worthy regardless of a man’s opinion of them. Stuff like that makes it so that such women understand that a good marriage is great but being single is better than a terrible marriage.

Imagine if most women are okay with leaving bad husbands. The whole reality for these men would shift.
That’s why they hate it so much

CHoccolaTE:
Women in Nigeria have stupid and unrealistic expectations in marriage while the men have selfish and self centered expectations.

I can't understand why it's so hard for the average Nigerian man to have sympathy for their women and why it's also hard for the mumu women to stop valuing marriage so much and stop placing the men on pedestals and simply realize that their men hate them.

I don't even pity the jarus or whatever he calls himself. Let him cook, I don't pity selfish self centered men at all. Disregarding the feelings and emotional wellbeing of his wife of 14 years just because he has made money and so wants to taste a newer, younger woman.
If a woman divorces her poor husband after she becomes rich she would be called all sorts of names even though she is well within her rights to leave the marriage whenever she feels like. I don't pity him. Serves him right.

ahnie:
Who remember sienna and Esther ati miss Mercedes



Like I said....lots of popular nairalanders are having shaky homes



Who da feck reported jRH to the authorities?


Modified....he reported himself unconsciously.

Aunty me!✋🏾

cococandy:
What if she divorces him first?

One can only stipulate though. We don’t really know what any of them are going to do

I wish my Nigerian sisters would get more comfortable with divorce. They would be spared A lot of the BS they tolerate

This where government has a part to play. To provide that social net to support women when they make this decision.

Free early years childcare and education..at least that would render the men powerless if they think they can withhold money for school fees as a weapon of control.

The woman can go out to hustle in that case whilst the kids are at school.

Enforce the notion of marital property, that way all these " send her packing" ish would be DOA.

I mean dude already has 3 kids and would probably have more with the new squeeze. In this era where world population is already 8 billion with ever diminishing resources to support the human race.

God, if I were to ever rule that country, there would be stiff financial penalties that would disincentivise these reckless inhumane actions.

shaybebaby:

Aunty me!✋🏾

Bebe ki lode

ahnie:

Bebe ki lode

I was answering the question of who remembered ni. Oya clap for me.

shaybebaby:

I was answering the question of who remembered ni. Oya clap for me.

Kpa kpa kpa kpa kpa and kpa.

ahnie:

Kpa kpa kpa kpa kpa and kpa.

😂😂
Thank you.