Jarus is even already catching cruise on Twitter while people are worried or killing themselves over his matter here.

On to the next one pls.

TheSuperX:
You must be a female from your post, don't worry let your husband marry another wife and you do anyhow, you will get series of slaps, lol. 😂

It's how low most of you men rate women yet you believe you deserve unconditional love respect and loyalty from them. It's because of comments like this that I no longer care about this paternity fraud of a thing, make una continue to raise bastards dey go. Lord knows that's what you lot deserve

PrinceofAgoAre:
she paid the herbalist to go through with whatever she asked him to do..


That's enough proof..

So according to you, the law recognizes the effect of traditional religion AKA juju?


Hahahahaha

IQs like yours on this forum is why I've been laughing for 18hrs straight now

ThierryJay:
Jarus is even already catching cruise on Twitter while people are worried or killing themselves over his matter here.

On to the next one pls.

Hushpuppi's cruise was more.
It's a defense mechanism borne out of shame & guilt.
Deep down, he's crying profusely.

dominique:


It's how low most of you men rate yet you believe you deserve unconditional love respect and loyalty from them. It's nevauyof comments like this that I no longer care about this paternity fraud of a thing, make una continue to raise bastards dey go. Lord knows that's what you lot deserve

Why was this post hidden?
https://www.nairaland.com/8139184/wife-seun-osewas-friend-shares/2#up

What rule did it break?
Why are you protecting a domestic abuser?

FuckingMachine:
Nairaland supports domestic violence against women.

As an advocate for women, this hurts me deeply & I will refer to this whenever I stumble across any domestic violence thread here. I hope these same people will quote ALL of these arguments in defence of the perpetrator.

I'm terribly disappointed in Seun, Mynd44 and dominique.

"Nairaland supports domestic violence against women."


So does it against men ..

So potato potahto...

PrinceofAgoAre:
"Nairaland supports domestic violence against women."


So does it against men ..

So potato potahto...

So we can agree that Nairaland supports domestic abuse. Pleasing.

dominique has fled the thread

Las las they re going to settle the matter as family,I believe the woman will not be that callous to watch while her husband goes to prison.

FuckingMachine:


So according to you, the law recognizes the effect of traditional religion AKA juju?


Hahahahaha

IQs like yours on this forum is why I've been laughing for 18hrs straight now

This is Nigeria, not USA ..

Juju is known and rampant in the country which can be used for either good or bad ..

The police has made a lot of arrest in case of one using juju to do harm to another .. so if our judicial system doesn't recognize it then the judicial system is shiit ..

Well as long as people are being convicted for doing juju for harm on another in this country then your question has been answered...

ahnie:
Las las they re going to settle the matter as family,I believe the woman will not be that callous to watch while her husband goes to prison.

Just taking notes for the next sexual abuse/rape/domestic violence thread to hit FP when you hypocrites swarm out baying for blood.


Just taking notes...

Ensa777:


Polygamous ke? The woman has left and Twitter descended on the lady he was to marry.She was always advertising herself on twitter and saying how she can even be a 2nd wife on every rich man's post.well her net caught Jarus .

I for bring her pic but she deactivated quickly.

My sister I saw her pictures and was disappointed. First wife is prettier than the second. Jarus dropped a comment on her post asking her if she was single? Na there the wahala start. Because Islam permits polygamy for that reason he wants to break the heart of a woman who stood by him for 14yrs? Tinubu and Buhari that married only one wife, they're waxing strong in their marriages.

Nonsense and polygamy

FuckingMachine:


So we can agree that Nairaland supports domestic abuse. Pleasing.

you said it .. I didn't..

PrinceofAgoAre:
This is Nigeria, not USA ..

Juju is known and rampant in the country which can be used for either good or bad ..

The police has made a lot of arrest in case of one using juju to do harm to another .. so if our judicial system doesn't recognize it then the judicial system is shiit ..

Well as long as people are being convicted for doing juju for harm on another in this country then your question has been answered...

Quote one court conviction for using juju.

cococandy:


I don’t blame you.

They drew the first blood. Nothing women can do or say to men will even slightly make up for all the things they did and keep doing to us. I feel like even they know it too. at least the ones who can be fair minded know it.

Women allow that. Wonder why. When you allow society to rule your life. When your man thi is that the only value you have is incubation,house manager and sex.
What the hell.

Women value yourselves.

I love our Women outside the shores of Nigeria. They are very selfish.
Any small thing, you will hear, "me time".
They are learning and adjusting well.
After carrying the family for head like gala, na second wife you go get or your things thrown out like they are garbage.
Some will build house on the husbands name and still get thrown out.

NO ONE IS PERFECT
All I see here from page 1 and till now is just people struggling to bring a man down because he responded to a troll.

When the Twitter posted first came up yesterday in the EPL thread, it was easy to see what some kind of people are. Always looking for a way to bring others down.

It ends online anyway

But this guy is a Muslim? I understand that anybody who practices Islam knows polygamy is lawful. You be Muslim, come marry Muslim join so why raise dust if he wants another wife?
Domestic violence is still not the way. It has never solved any marital issue.

FuckingMachine:


Just taking notes for the next sexual abuse/rape/domestic violence thread to hit FP when you hypocrites swarm out baying for blood.


Just taking notes...

she's female 😂😂

RealityKings:
NO ONE IS PERFECT
All I see here from page 1 and till now is just people struggling to bring a man down because he responded to a troll.

When the Twitter posted first came up yesterday in the EPL thread, it was easy to see what some kind of people are. Always looking for a way to bring others down.

It ends online anyway

Ok.
Let's free all the murderers, scammers, rapists and drug dealers in prison. They are imperfect too - just like Jarus. Right?

PrinceofAgoAre:
she's female 😂😂

I know.
Read my comment again.

FuckingMachine:


Quote one court conviction for using juju.

you know how to use Google your self..

PrinceofAgoAre:
you know how to use Google your self..

I don't know how to use Google for a non existent claim.
If you can't provide evidence then all your arguments are invalid.

pocohantas:


Nobody advised him, he did what he wants to do. If you read his post, you will see his actions were premeditated. He was already done with it before even telling the wife.

The problem with this is, there would always be women who think they are different. So say whatever, they would still make choices that will shock you. I don't even stress it anymore. Marry whatever you wanna, but don't tell me your problems. Na my own be that.

it is well o! You can imagine? Polygamy wouldn't stop him from cheating anyway. Las las he will marry four wives. The lust he used in marrying a second wife, he'll use it to marry a third and fourth.

Nonsense

hyzich:


Egbon screw up tbh, he is someone I really respect and I do take his advices seriously

No Human is Perfect Bro ... Egbon is a Corporate Guru, Career Guru & Educations Guru no Mean He is gonna be a Marriage Guru...


What's wrong with Our People, Despite Knowledges Gained from Big Educations Our Ancestral Stupidities is still Very Active in Our Gene On Wives & Saudi Arabia Doctrines Of Four Wives ...

The Day Average Muslims Separate Arabians Culture From Islamic Culture is the Day Peace would Truly Gained Dominion ... Islam was used to civilised Arabs because Arabs wouldn't have anything to do with whatever is "Jew" ...

Two wives in 2024, who does that ... If you can't managed the Emotional stability of One Woman how could you manage Two, Three, Four then Many ...

Throwing Cash & Gifts/Assets Around is never the answer because the wife knows sharing her husband with another Woman could Never-Ever make their relationship to being the same again ...

She just want her Man fully to herself(I wouldn't blame her because she has to Protect Her Children's Interests too as Polygamy Dilutes Father's attentions Where they have to be fighting for space they ain't used to fighting for) & for her to visit Herbalist shows how desperate she wanna achieved her agenda ...

Would You Blame Her, Most Polygamous Families is a Bane of Witches & wizards because everyone is competing with another
... she is from Ilorin so, she just launched her Ancestral Warrioress in Protecting Her Corners ... What does Egbon Expect ... It is What the Game is ... We are Yorubas, Any Slight Thing Average Yoruba Families Goes to Ifa/Oracle's House or Their Pastor/Imam .... Because she would believed Egbon has been bewitched by the Game in Question !

That's shows Egbon has not adequately Prepared-Readied her Mindsets & deriving positive/Semi-Positive responses ...

Your job as a Polygamy Man is to Take her Out of Such Reverie & if You Can't Then You Failed The Polygamy Doctrines which states "Equity & Equality" ..

I wonder how you wanna achieve that

Egbon has been Brainwashed !!

Woman are Never-Ever wrong to Me, Na You no do Your Man Job Well ... If You Can't Deal with Her Then Quit, Let Another Capable hands take Over !

Gerrard59:


Yes. It is permissible in Islam. Any woman who marries a Muslim MUST accept it. It is Islamic. You don't like it?

- Convert to a different religion
- Marry a non-Muslim.

The dishonesty in this matter is nauseating. A Muslim man has the right to marry FOUR WIVES. What is wrong with that?

I will respond to this because I believe you are one of the few people with balanced view on this forum. Lol I don't "chook" mouth in family matter but at the same time there's a need to correct this notion.

The only dishonesty here is you neglecting the effect of taking up a second wife on a woman. And you expect a woman to be just fine with it because religion permits it. I have a question. Do you do or accept everything your religion dictates? Do you flitter out what you think is not right and acceptable while you stick with what you seem doable? Do you renounce Christianity and switch to other religion? If you don't live 100% a Christian but still maintain the religion while do you think a Muslim woman who can't live 100% a Muslim should renounce her religion? Hypocrisy much? This is me assuming you are a Christian because of your name.

Point 2. Let's say you go into partnership with a very good friend of yours to start a business on a 40-60 profit sharing percentage. After 14 years of sacrifice and labour and the business is finally paying off your friend decided bring in another partner who will invest little to nothing but share your 40% profit with you.Note your friend brings in this new partner not for financial/ business contributions but for personal reasons. How would you genuinely feel? Accept it without making any fuss? To make this more relatable, Partnership= Marriage, A good friend of yours = Jarius , Business= Home/Family , New partner= Second wife. I hope you understand why women don't easily accept second wives even if they had been told before they were born.

According to some account online, J's first wife had been there for him when he had nothing. He mentioned a case of selling her gold to celebrate a festival or something. That shows how much this woman loves and sacrifice for her husband, are you saying she shouldn't have gone that far and held some of her love, support and kindness since she's aware a new wife would join later so she won't get hurt? . Maybe y'all don't see the implications of what you type here. Here's your logic. "As a Muslim woman don't be 100% devoted to your husband because he is not for you alone" .

I see both J and wife are very advanced in age. They are from the time where genuine love and companionship exist instead of them to cherish that, they want a 22 year old faargin to ruin what they have. Lol Their choice really... I don't care. My problem is , don't downplay a woman's feelings and emotions because you believe a religion gives you the permission to be selfish. She's right to object and hurt. If you want to exercise your Islamic right do it when you had nothing so you all can build together. That's my grouse.

FuckingMachine:


I know.
Read my comment again.

you called her a hypocrite.. I'd like to know why..

1PornHUB:


All your life you have been in the habit of pulling other people down. Other nairalanders have called your attention to it.
Alot of people can see you for what you are

Hahahaha.... you're not smart...my monicker starts with small letter .


This one here starts with CAPITAL LETTER

Try again with you failed smeared attempts

Period!

descarado:

Women allow that. Wonder why. When you allow society to rule your life. When your man thi is that the only value you have is incubation,house manager and sex.
What the hell.

Women value yourselves.

I love our Women outside the shores of Nigeria. They are very selfish.
Any small thing, you will hear, "me time".
They are learning and adjusting well.
After carrying the family for head like gala, na second wife you go get or your things thrown out like they are garbage.
Some will build house on the husbands name and still get thrown out.

ahnie:

Hahahaha.... you're not smart...my monicker starts with small letter .


This one here starts with CAPITAL LETTER

Oga is that not your account number?
Is that not you begging aggressively?

PrinceofAgoAre:
you called her a hypocrite.. I'd like to know why..

Where is the conviction on juju you claimed up there?
Not even a single conviction?
Does this mean Jarus' wife committed no crime and he is guilty?

Kindly clarify.

FuckingMachine:


I don't know how to use Google for a non existent claim.
If you can't provide evidence then all your arguments are invalid.

it's non existent to you doesn't mean it's non existent to others ..

Take a social experiment and visit each police station you know of

. If you happen to know one or two policemen,
Ask them .

Or better still, use Google ..