cococandy:
You can’t be serious

I honestly couldn't find the energy to respond to him because it is clear where his tendencies lie. Glad we are seeing people's true colours as a result of this case. DV committers and enablers all outing themselves.

Gerrard59:


NOTHING WILL HAPPEN.

If you don't like it, go and sue him in court. When she climbed on his head nko? What if he died? Are you saying he has no right to defend himself? See, this is the innate dishonesty I hate in Nigerians and the hypocrisy of so-called modern women. You are seeing A and calling it B. This is a Yoruba Muslim who says he wants a second wife and the first wife objected. He placated her, which she refused. Is he the first Yoruba Muslim man to seek another wife? When she was doing juju in his house nko?

Call me Fish Brain whatever, but NOTHING WILL HAPPEN TO HIM. He is entitled to FOUR WIVES as a MUSLIM man. If you don't like it, go to hell! Who the fvck do you think you are to dictate to a RICH (yes, he's rich!) Yoruba Muslim man to marry? Huh?! Are you a Muslim? What do you know about Islam?

Look, if it pains you so much, book a ticket to MMIA. It is six hours from the UK where you reside. Go to the courts to challenge a Muslim man from marrying another wife. Do it! Make Islam proud!

Imagine the temerity! If nothing happened to Bebex, NOTHING WILL HAPPEN TO JARUS!

Period!

She was not referring to the post on his marriage but beating of his wife

FuckingMachine:


Why was this post hidden?
https://www.nairaland.com/8139184/wife-seun-osewas-friend-shares/2#up

What rule did it break?
Why are you protecting a domestic abuser?

You should be thankful that you weren't given a lengthy ban.

Tightpussy2024:

That is why I said he will be made to compensate his wife heavily. I don't see that woman parting with less than 10m and a property. She should re-package herself and remarry( in Islam women can remarry as much, even grand mothers)

He did this already, which she declined. He respected her choice. Why not respect his?

Las las na gold diggers win the game of love . good woman no dey pay.mistresses are living better than wife . since time immemorial. A side chick gave Nigeria the name we have . this women are trained, groomed from birth.

Target top 20% of men in your youth, extract money from them and give your generation unborn a good life. They will refuse , with the "but no man will marry me after being the mistress or baby mama to rich man". Even if you don't want to go that route, become a fifth wife to a rich man. At least when he leaves you for a younger woman when your time expires , it will not pain you, because you didn't build. Why are ned nwokos wife not complaining? Because they didn't build. Just as you men believe that not all women deserve commitment, not all men should procreate . These dustys of men should not be given a chance to procreate.

Me? Waste my youth and money to build then another woman will come and enjoy? Similar to raising another man seed than having the real father come to claim. Naija women wise up. Package yourselves, tosh up . don't ignore your hypergamous nature with the hope of men ignoring their polygamous nature.

Actually, I have written extensively that Nigerian women should charge their men for sex. It is something I have written extensively. Nigerian men LOVE sex, so charge them very high.

For the first bold, good luck with that in a poor country. How many financially comfortable men are in Nigeria? Alternatively, they can remain single or marry a woman. I will support that right. I have mentioned countless times on Nairaland that if modern day women don't like what men do, they should not marry these men. Korean women are doing it. So, yes, Nigerian women can copy them.

Second bold, women have ALWAYS been hypergamous. There is nothing new under the sun. In fact, Nigerian women's hypergamy is small. Japanese and Singaporean women do theirs for a living. If they don't see financially comfortable men, they remain single for life. The same women are supporting Sharon Ooja for marrying a serial divorcee who divorced just two years ago. Very good decision by her. My own is that they should be consistent in their utterances. Don't criticise a Muslim man for exercising his right, legally and religiously permissibly, to another wife, but you frolick with a married man. That is exactly what one of Odanz's side chic did. People have to be consistent and honest. Don't change the goalpost.

That dirt-poor guy you are struggling with,is too poor to avoid polygamy. Let small change enter his hand and he will suddenly notice your stretch marks. You will suddenly find them in the DMs of girls they spend their youth criticizing .
Who are the women men are importing as second wives nowadays? You think it is the virtuous women they always applaud ? It is those hard gold diggers,hook up girls with plastic butts, divorcees and single moms! Are men not paying the school fees of divorcees and single mothers children while their wives are struggling to collect money from them?
A word is enough for the wise.

Oh yes, I support everything you have written here. The Right to Choose will always be supported by me. Just don't criticise or try to restrict them from exercising them.

Iamblessed85:


1. What Jarus represents at his best moments is way more impactful than the damage he has done at his worst. How have you impacted your immediate society other than rallying fellow women to seen themselves as victims of men? Do you know what the guy has done for people including your gender?

you’re trying to get me and Jarus into a dick measuring contest? Tell us what’s so special he did that gives him a pass to be a violent abuser? Only a brainless doofus like you will see someone advocating for women as encouraging them to be victims. That’s why no one takes y’all seriously. You don’t understand the concept of anything that’s outside of your egotistical bubble.

And oh my what good little fan boy you are. Someone told me no one worships “rich men” more than internet bros and it’s so disgusting to see.

2. A ritualist is 100x worse than someone who hit a woman. This is why it is easy for me to ignore the DV part.

just because you termed it ritual doesn’t make it so. And even it were a ritual, your religion has its own rituals too. Don’t switch up now. live and let live

3. If he were your Son or brother, would you honestly be happy with that woman? Which would bother you more, the fact he gave her a few slaps or the fact she has a shrine in her house?

anyone my kids marry can practice whatever religion they wish to practice. I’m not as deluded as some of you

4. Yes she is entitled to her religion but that was not the agreement at the time of marriage. He would not have wifed her if he knew she is a diabolically inclined person. I’m not against her religion, but I am aggressively against her practicing it deceitfully.

touché. Hopefully next time you run face first into the point, you’ll get it that time

5. How would you react if you discover that your own husband is giving spiritualists your personal info?

if I chose to break his heart by marrying another man while still married to him? Then it’s fair.

6. If your husband were to decide to marry again, would u recourse to ritualists?

no. Simply because I don’t believe they have any power. I believe in physical power and that’s how I’d solve any problems that require physical solution. If I believed there’s any power in all those supernatural stuff and I feel threatened, then I’ll use it to defend myself. She did what she thought was her best defense.

Notice how i’m trying to personalize this so that i can help you view this without the lens of gender. To you, it’s a random monicker or male but to someone else, it’s their friend/brother/son

You really thought you did something there 😏

The woman fell from the sky. No one loves her. She’s no one’s friend/sister/daughter.

But who am I kidding? Most of you lack the ability to see women as humans. That’s why you are so detached in supporting hurt and violence against women

PrinceofAgoAre:
they seem to be both nutjobs .


I wouldn't ignore the possibility though..

The other day, i saw FatherChristmas parading himself as a mathematician and i was shocked

Does he mean mathematical beggar or what?

cococandy:
No. slavery hasn’t been outlawed by Christianity.

Slavery was outlawed by the secular state. The government which is separate from the church outlawed. It wasn’t done on a religious basis.

Bigamy which is the act of marrying more than one wife is also outlawed by the secular state but people like you make excuses for Muslims who practice an illegal act simply because their religion permits it. As if their religion comes above the law of the land.But Christian religion doesn’t.

What you’re saying is the same as when someone reads the law against owning slaves and then turns around to say they support a Christian doing it because their religion permits it. You really don’t have an argument. We made a law but chose to exclude Muslims because we’re afraid they’ll rise up in violence. But the law against slavery will pertain to Christians because obviously people like you only support Muslims right to choose. Lol

Coco,

Please convert to Islam and be the change you seek. I will support you wholeheartedly.

Gerrard59:


Coco,

Please convert to Islam and be the change you seek. I will support you wholeheartedly.

I never told you I sought any change to Islam

I merely called your dismissive post that wasn’t made in good faith.

However I’m glad you have no rebuttal to that last point.

Gerrard59:


NOTHING WILL HAPPEN.

If you don't like it, go and sue him in court. When she climbed on his head nko? What if he died? Are you saying he has no right to defend himself? See, this is the innate dishonesty I hate in Nigerians and the hypocrisy of so-called modern women. You are seeing A and calling it B. This is a Yoruba Muslim who says he wants a second wife and the first wife objected. He placated her, which she refused. Is he the first Yoruba Muslim man to seek another wife? When she was doing juju in his house nko?

Call me Fish Brain whatever, but NOTHING WILL HAPPEN TO HIM. He is entitled to FOUR WIVES as a MUSLIM man. If you don't like it, go to hell! Who the fvck do you think you are to dictate to a RICH (yes, he's rich!) Yoruba Muslim man to marry? Huh?! Are you a Muslim? What do you know about Islam?

Look, if it pains you so much, book a ticket to MMIA. It is six hours from the UK where you reside. Go to the courts to challenge a Muslim man from marrying another wife. Do it! Make Islam proud!

Imagine the temerity! If nothing happened to Bebex, NOTHING WILL HAPPEN TO JARUS!

Period!

@Dr Gerrard59, after reading the previous response of the moniker you quote, I lost interest in whatever further response the guy had to give. He's foul-mouthed, dumb, disrespectful and arguing from an emotional POV.

You see, like what you've been saying Nigeria has some of the worst set of hypocrites in the world. Nigeria's version of Wokeism is just to nonsensical. Just of recent in the previous Eid, so of them that do patronize Chicken Republic to eat Rice and Chicken were faulting Muslims for slaughtering Rama during Eid.

Jarus can easily claim self-defense. Obviously, someone sitting on your head and choking you is out to exert serious damage or kill you. I've known Jarus and his story for years.

Whoever knows him will attest to the fact that he's a good son, husband and father, no disputing that. Every human has his weaknesses and I'm not saying he's a saint, but Jarus scores far above the pass-mark when it comes to his family's welfare.

Is it not clear enough that not monogamy can not work for everyone, same with polygamy. As a matter of fact, some prefer to marry more than one wife, rather than to sneak around and commit adultery around, which is rampant.

Baby Mamaism is celebrated, but Polygamy is condemn. Aren't Wokeist very confused?

Like you said, NOTHING and I repeat, NOTHING will happen to Jarus.

Gerrard59:


He did this already, which she declined. He respected her choice. Why not respect his?



Actually, I have written extensively that Nigerian women should charge their men for sex. It is something I have written extensively. Nigerian men LOVE sex, so charge them very high.

For the first bold, good luck with that in a poor country. How many financially comfortable men are in Nigeria? Alternatively, they can remain single or marry a woman. I will support that right. I have mentioned countless times on Nairaland that if modern day women don't like what men do, they should not marry these men. Korean women are doing it. So, yes, Nigerian women can copy them.

Second bold, women have ALWAYS been hypergamous. There is nothing new under the sun. In fact, Nigerian women's hypergamy is small. Japanese and Singaporean women do theirs for a living. If they don't see financially comfortable men, they remain single for life. The same women are supporting Sharon Ooja for marrying a serial divorcee who divorced just two years ago. Very good decision by her. My own is that they should be consistent in their utterances. Don't criticise a Muslim man for exercising his right, legally and religiously permissibly, to another wife, but you frolick with a married man. That is exactly what one of Odanz's side chic did. People have to be consistent and honest. Don't change the goalpost.



Oh yes, I support everything you have written here. The Right to Choose will always be supported by me. Just don't criticise or try to restrict them from exercising them

Nigerians may be poor but the poverty level is exaggerated. Go to clubs and see men splashing 12m in one night on drinks. If such a man have 6 women whose lifestyle he is sponsoring.very well then. Look at all the governors, politicians and their aides. If they have 5-6 women they are sponsoring. I am a personal friend to ned nwokos baby mama.
If women are wise enough to get the money of these women, start a business or travel abroad.Then a younger girl comes over. These unions rarely last years. In a rich man lifetime he will have at least 30 women he gave large sums to. The average woman should have a share of rich men if she is smart and half as beautiful. It makes sense.
I don't mean odanz side chick that was fnncking for 10k. E better make I sell groundnut than that one, chai, wasted sin...tufiaakwa

Obviously, not every woman will be this lucky. But why does it have to be me that gets the middle or bottom barrel?

But they will keep looking back like lots wife, hoping to settle down and secure the commitment of chibuike the civil servant, starting a monogamous relationship with him.

At the bolded, its high time you tell naija men, to stop a hysteria on women natural tendencies. We should stop making a national issue or state of moral decay or societal problem when women primal instincts come in. Not just in case of hypergamous but in procreation.

Women should be allow to procreate with whom they want. Talmabout paternity fraud. Sounds very harsh ba? This is what acting on primal instincts leads .We don't want to carry the babies of the man we marry. He was only convenient for us. All is fair in love and in war.

This is the anger of redpill, rejection of female nature and an outcry towards it, yet they want us accepting men nature!

Divorce her and Marry another

hyzich:
Sir Jarus ignorantly admitted to domestic violence while explaining why he’s taking second wife. Lagos DSVA has also weighed in. See pics below

https://x.com/SegunAdeni51298/status/1806690374154416323?t=xfpSoxpKRukUcTaSUg-iHQ&s=19

Mods ( royalroy ) please push to frontpage

So this is Sir Jarus?? Chai!!!

The guts all these Nlnd men have, talking women down and acting like they are some kind of superior beings. Meanwhile this one is nothing but a tout, marrying an even bigger tout!

Shameless men everywhere!

Gerrard59:

The same women are supporting Sharon Ooja for marrying a serial divorcee who divorced just two years ago. Very good decision by her.

Just for correctness of information.

Husband filed for divorce in 2019, married again 2022, the husband got divorced the 3rd time last year 2023 and then now another marriage 2024. Under 6months too, so it is less than 2 years.

cococandy:
you’re trying to get me and Jarus into a dick measuring contest? Tell us what’s so special he did that gives him a pass to be a violent abuser? Only a brainless doofus like you will see someone advocating for women as encouraging them to be victims. That’s why no one takes y’all seriously. You don’t understand the concept of anything that’s outside of your egotistical bubble.

And oh my what good little fan boy you are. Someone told me no one worships “rich men” more than internet bros and it’s so disgusting to see.

just because you termed it ritual doesn’t make it so. And even it were a ritual, your religion has its own rituals too. Don’t switch up now. live and let live
anyone my kids marry can practice whatever religion they wish to practice. I’m not as deluded as some of you

touché. Hopefully next time you run face first into the point, you’ll get it that time

if I chose to break his heart by marrying another man while still married to him? Then it’s fair.

no. Simply because I don’t believe they have any power. I believe in physical power and that’s how I’d solve any problems that require physical solution. If I believed there’s any power in all those supernatural stuff and I feel threatened, then I’ll use it to defend myself. She did what she thought was her best defense.



You really thought you did something there 😏

The woman fell from the sky. No one loves her. She’s no one’s friend/sister/daughter.

But who am I kidding? Most of you lack the ability to see women as humans. That’s why you are so detached in supporting hurt and violence against women

Do you have the energy to argue with a man that believes praying or doing whatever possible to secure her marriage is ritualism? If she had done it for his promotion at work or ease his ill health will he refer to It as ritualism?

I don't believe racism towards black men exist, people didn't just wake up and decide that a black man is inferior. Go to quora and other Caucasian dominated forums and spaces. And the quality of comments you will wonder if its the same God that created naija men and western men.

As I talk to you there is a thread on this forum discussing why rape is not a big deal and not as painful as women claim

He took the advice of the RED PILLERS here serious.
Most people post rubbish here just to catch cruise but Mr Jarius took them serious and went home to unleash terror on his wife.
Say NO to domestic violence

ahnie:
We all know you're silentgroper why the pretence

You guys are not even smart,you cloned my Acct with (Ahnie)when every smart person knows my monicker starts with local case alphabets (ahnie)

He didn't clone your account. He quoted another person and changed the username to yours. When you click on the supposed comment you made, it takes you to the original comment, which wasn't by you. It is a simple, but malicious thing to do on NL.

izzou:
All this one you people are talking about is not my business. I will marry a second and third wife once the time is right. The first doesn't have to do anything. It is my right as a man. Men are superior to women. Deal with it!

The above is your comment, but I changed the username and post. You get?

Thank you lady pocohantas.... because I remember the only time I ever dropped my account details on here was on one thread where Mr snowland was gifting nairalanders giveaway..... Mariaangeles won the slot,but for reasons best known to her decided to allocate her slot to me,hence snowland prompting us to drop our account details which we all did and it ended there.

pocohantas:


He didn't clone your account. He quoted another person and changed the username to yours. When you click on the supposed comment you made, it takes you to the original comment. Which wasn't by you. It is simple to do on NL.



The above is your comment, but I changed the username and post. You get?

Bobo is pained that I made them LOCKED HIS SILENTGROPER ACCOUNT.

Cc: PRINCEOFAGORE alias Silentgroper ,I didn't called you doofuz for nothing. Go and drink zobo

pocohantas:


He didn't clone your account. He quoted another person and changed the username to yours. When you click on the supposed comment you made, it takes you to the original comment, which wasn't by you. It is a simple, but malicious thing to do on NL.



The above is your comment, but I changed the username and post. You get?

izzou ehen so you too dey form like odanz

Gerrard59:


NOTHING WILL HAPPEN.

If you don't like it, go and sue him in court. When she climbed on his head nko? What if he died? Are you saying he has no right to defend himself? See, this is the innate dishonesty I hate in Nigerians and the hypocrisy of so-called modern women. You are seeing A and calling it B. This is a Yoruba Muslim who says he wants a second wife and the first wife objected. He placated her, which she refused. Is he the first Yoruba Muslim man to seek another wife? When she was doing juju in his house nko?

Call me Fish Brain whatever, but NOTHING WILL HAPPEN TO HIM. He is entitled to FOUR WIVES as a MUSLIM man. If you don't like it, go to hell! Who the fvck do you think you are to dictate to a RICH (yes, he's rich!) Yoruba Muslim man to marry? Huh?! Are you a Muslim? What do you know about Islam?

Look, if it pains you so much, book a ticket to MMIA. It is six hours from the UK where you reside. Go to the courts to challenge a Muslim man from marrying another wife. Do it! Make Islam proud!

Imagine the temerity! If nothing happened to Bebex, NOTHING WILL HAPPEN TO JARUS!

Period!

Gong gong gong.
Online warriors and supporters.
Whenever push come to shove, we always tear race or deny the person.
No be here again

pocohantas:


He didn't clone your account. He quoted another person and changed the username to yours. When you click on the supposed comment you made, it takes you to the original comment, which wasn't by you. It is a simple, but malicious thing to do on NL.



The above is your comment, but I changed the username and post. You get?

She claimed she used a small case "a" for her moniker .
. that's it right there in the screenshot..
.2. how on Earth did her account number get into the so called malicious post. .


If she didn't do that herself ... Who else would've..

GloriousGbola:


izzou ehen so you too dey form like odanz

That is the way it is. Edit, take a screenshot and start hounding the person.

ahnie:
Thank you lady pocohantas.... because I remember the only time I ever dropped my account details on here was on one thread where Mr snowland was gifting nairalanders giveaway..... Mariaangeles won the slot,but for reasons best known to her decided to allocate her slot to me,hence snowland prompting us to drop our account details which we all did and it ended there.





Bobo is pained that I made them LOCKED HIS SILENTGROPER ACCOUNT.

But you're a plilanthropist . You paid his school fees .. he asked you to show receipt, you failed too .. funny enough you're mistaking him for me .. but that's a story for another time ...

Right now we want to know why a billionaire philanthropist that pays people's school fees here and there is seen begging on NL ..

Are you a fake or are you a scammer ..

ahnie:
Thank you lady pocohantas.... because I remember the only time I ever dropped my account details on here was on one thread where Mr snowland was gifting nairalanders giveaway..... Mariaangeles won the slot,but for reasons best known to her decided to allocate her slot to me,hence snowland prompting us to drop our account details which we all did and it ended there.





Bobo is pained that I made them LOCKED HIS SILENTGROPER ACCOUNT.

Cc: PRINCEOFAGORE alias Silentgroper ,I didn't called you doofuz for nothing. Go and drink zobo

you're still yet to explain this ..

Poco's theory is just a mere theory .. the best you can do is manipulate the user's post but not the moniker ..

Her moniker is right there glaringly ..

Pocohantas if you think that's possible, do it and make a screenshot.. prove us wrong ..

pocohantas:


That is the way it is. Edit, take a screenshot and start hounding the person.




You are welcome. Just thought to let you know what happened. ✌️

He's even pained that I m living my life,balling and presenting evidence (pictures)to the extent of stalkinge down to my diary.


Silentgroper alias princeofagore you're pained that I have a car....I cannot be like your siblings nau...

I dey hustle for my money,I dey get ham,I dey flex ham, because I nor lazy .
I m not a billionaire,I m a normal hardworking
Delta lady
It's in our genes....

Next time do better with the FAKE/Aba screenshots,they look lame like your destiny


Baba go and horn your talent.

Cc:
Princeofagore alias Silentgroper.

Princeofagore alias Silentgroper,I hereby place your silentgroper account on 2 years Ban


I paid your school fees and I m happy you're living with that QUILT.





Court....Arise!!!


YOU can now comfortably swim in your MUD.

ahnie:

He's even pained that I m living my life,balling and presenting evidence (pictures)to the extent of stalkinge down to my diary.


Silentgroper alias princeofagore you're pained that I have a car....I cannot be like your siblings nau...

I dey hustle for my money,I dey get ham,I dey flex ham, because I nor lazy .

Next time do better with the FAKE/Aba screenshots,they look lame like your destiny


Baba go and horn your talent.

you should horn your talent at being a fake philanthropist .. silentgroper asked you to drop receipt of the school fees you paid ..

Pls drop it , let u see and keep us quiet for ever ..

I'm waiting ..


Whilst waiting, pls explain to us how you have a car, live a comfortable life and is seeing begging on NL ..

What are you trying to achieve?? Are you not just a cheap scammer

ahnie:
Princeofagore alias Silentgroper,I hereby place your silentgroper account on 2 years Ban


I paid your school fees and I m happy you're living with that QUILT.





Court....Arise!!!


YOU can now comfortably swim in your MUD.

you paid his school fees yet you're begging..

Post the receipt of the school fees.. you're a no show ...

Why are acting what you're not on a face less forum ..

Bloody cheap scammer ...

Are your kids even real ??

I won't be surprised if you're a kidnapper too

Use this picture to console yourself,e nor easy to present FAKE SCREENSHOTS


Cc: princeofagore alias silent gropher.


Abeg in your next failed attempt to indict me,edit mercychen comments and put my monicker there ...make sure you get it right this time

Same thing you did to samatha123 that south African babe



For the records...
I dey work hard for my money,same way I de ball after making the money,with pictures as evidence to pepper you.
Na Grace wey big pass you be that.


Nor be me say make your life bend like this


I expect you to resurface with tons of your alt3rnates accounts to
Attack me.

Ciao.

DonroxyII:
May Your Brain Be Honoured as I'm Tired of African Entitlement Mentality!

Thanks, the fact is glaring.

People mix up all sorts of ideologies together and are eventually entangled in confusion. Physiological wise, woman is more than man as the size of the womb is actually bigger and functionally complex than that of the scrotum that might be its equivalent in man, and its able to nurture a microscopic sperm cell from cellular organ to completely formed and deliverable entities.

God is awesome and he proofs himself so amazing in the complexity of the female version of the species of animal kingdom. That is the honour and respect that society bestowed on women, that you should not beat a woman if you are in your right senses. Even in our animal husbandry, we don't quickly sell the female, because its like you are letting go of your source of fortune so to say.

The only time a woman is weak is when she is pregnant. Otherwise, woman as a weak vessel is social construct to avoid raising tomboy. The narrative or social expectation that woman is to be effeminate enables family breeding. If we have the orientation that they should be warlike, that's what we'll have. But that would affect population growth. So family involves leadership and division of labour.

Its never about weakness at all.