descarado:

I am shocked you are against domestic violence.
Hmm.
That's so good to know.
Respect for this.

Mind if I know why you're shocked?

Once u see them using lawyers they are trying cover up something

Oh....................sorry fine woman. who else noticed that

Augustine2244:
Why women remain stuck in abusive marriages and relationships should be a compulsory course of study in Nigerian higher educational institutions.
Seriously!
The whole thing baffles me beyond imagination.
An antelope would spot a lion walking lazily not in its direction and still it would scamper for safety at once without hesitation.
Even the sight of well fed lions lazing in the sun or coolness of the tree shade would set an antelope or zebra in discomfort and nervousness, and the readiness to flee at the slightest movement.
But women would see blatant red flags in a man showing signs of an abusive behaviour, and yet remain either out of indecision, unnecessary fear,or outright blatant stupidity.

I won't generalize the whole thing for all women in the world.

Let me just talk about our women here in Nigeria... A large number of them don't mind the abusive relationship/partner as long as they benefit financially.
It's so evident in our societies these days... Even alot of our ladies don't mind if their husbands/boyfriends cheat, as long as they still get money for this or that.

Few days ago my younger sister was saying as long as money comes in, she doesn't mind if her guy cheats. It's so crazy that our girls have these kind of mentality!!


Our girls don't mind if you are a wife beater or cheat.... Just have Money, they'll keep on enduring.

Lastly, if you are a wife beater or engage in any form of domestic abuse.. Your days are numbered!!

If you are a woman going through this.. Please speak up and don't die in silence!!

Jestin:
How some people raise their hands to hit someone they claim to love still beats my imagination.

I also wonder the same

If you look ham well, nah the woman mouth go make the man beat her very well

Blessedarethepe:
Oh....................sorry fine woman. who else noticed that

Noticed what?

Jestin:
How some people raise their hands to hit someone they claim to love still beats my imagination.

How some people will raise their voice to dehumanizing another still beat my imagination. Men learn learn it's a trap, never raise ur hands on a woman, there is no justification and no one will reason with you even if there is a reason, I understand how you feel. The truth is, even if you don't they will still lie that you did so please, stop hitting them. Not all women are evil but majority are. Self control is also power. Women of this days should learn to be women, men are not angels. One love to all good suffering men.

tishbite42:
Na my classmate aunty o
SPC 4 Life

You be patrician?

Mindlog:


Whatever women are capable of doing in their homes, is never a justification for the harm inflicted.

get away there, maybe you are married to a good one

Delta women are stubborn and nags a lot, it takes the grace of God not to beat them

anyway, I think the best thing the man should have done is to send her away if she is provocative. some men too are hot tempered and very violent.

We can only judge when we hear from both sides. Don't always be quick to take sides with women!

Obierika:


Noticed what?

that she is a fine woman

Augustine2244:
Why women remain stuck in abusive marriages and relationships should be a compulsory course of study in Nigerian higher educational institutions.
Seriously!
The whole thing baffles me beyond imagination.
An antelope would spot a lion walking lazily not in its direction and still it would scamper for safety at once without hesitation.
Even the sight of well fed lions lazing in the sun or coolness of the tree shade would set an antelope or zebra in discomfort and nervousness, and the readiness to flee at the slightest movement.
But women would see blatant red flags in a man showing signs of an abusive behaviour, and yet remain either out of indecision, unnecessary fear,or outright blatant stupidity.

Lets pretend you are not aware of the stigma attached to divorcees and the children

This is bad walahi

K! Deal with d woman also? Women were evil!

ObalendeCMS:
Delta women/wives can be very stubborn!

I think she deserves it!

Very foolish comment.
Sounds like a statement from an illiterate mind.

mariovito:


You be patrician?

Yep

StopTheBan:

I won't generalize the whole thing for all women in the world.

Let me just talk about our women here in Nigeria... A large number of them don't mind the abusive relationship/partner as long as they benefit financially.
It's so evident in our societies these days... Even alot of our ladies don't mind if their husbands/boyfriends cheat, as long as they still get money for this or that.

Few days ago my younger sister was saying as long as money comes in, she doesn't mind if her guy cheats. It's so crazy that our girls have these kind of mentality!!


Lastly, our girls don't mind if you are a wife beater or cheat.... Just have Money, they'll keep on enduring.
..... But it sucks!!!!

Why are you deliberately being dishonest and making it about greed? Swear you are not aware of the stigma attached to divorcees. Worse off they become single moms by nature of divorce. Go to romance section, every eke market day they is a thread to bash single mothers. If you are in such situation how easy will it be to walk out of your marriage?

Plus men like gerrard59 that encourages men to be adulterous as their birth right, it looks bleak for African women sha

Its high time we start celebrating men who do not touch their wives in a violent manner cos these women and wives of this days can push you into becoming a beast you never wished for.

Without laying a single finger on the man they can do you many many things with just their mouth and certain attitudes.

If you know you know.

However kindly desist from domestic violence it does far more damage than good. Even though sometimes these women will act like they wanted it.🤣

tishbite42:

Yep

I be Patrician too

98_04

Tightpussy2024:

Why are you deliberately being dishonest and making it about greed? Swear you are not aware of the stigma attached to divorcees. Worse off they become single moms by nature of divorce. Go to romance section, every eke market day they is a thread to bash single mothers. If you are in such situation how easy will it be to walk out of your marriage?

Plus men like gerrard59 that encourages men to be adulterous as their birth right, it looks bleak for African women sha

Why are you deliberately trying to hide from the truth?? I'll repeat it again Majority of our women here don't care if you are a cheat or wife beater.. Just have money!!


By the way, there's nowhere in my write up where i encourage men to be Cheats or Wife beaters........ It doesn't change the fact i mentioned "majority of our women don't care if their husbands are cheats or wife beaters,as long as they are being provided for."

At least we all know there's a large number of ladies who wish to be in chioma's shoes.. They won't care even if Davido cheats on them, as long as he can provide for them they will continue to endure it.

mariovito:


I be Patrician too

98_04

You na big Boss o
🙌🤲🙏
I'm a member of the Class of '11
Primus Inter Pares
Veritas in Caritate

Alaga2222:
If you look ham well, nah the woman mouth go make the man beat her very well

Even if it's like that.... It still doesn't requires beating

Lovit:


get away there, maybe you are married to a good one

Delta women are stubborn and nags a lot, it takes the grace of God not to beat them

anyway, I think the best thing the man should have done is to send her away if she is provocative. some men too are hot tempered and very violent.

We can only judge when we hear from both sides. Don't always be quick to take sides with women!

Go on, it will take the 'Grace of God" to convince a Judge that it is your right to beat your wife and
not end up, locked up.

Tightpussy2024:

Lets pretend you are not aware of the stigma attached to divorcees and the children

They know.


They switch mouths as it suits them.

As him what he thinks of the Jarus situation and you’ll see him blaming the wife for speaking up. Now he’s claiming he doesn’t know why women stay with abusive men.

Bunch of confused hypocritical people

Augustine2244:
Why women remain stuck in abusive marriages and relationships should be a compulsory course of study in Nigerian higher educational institutions.
Seriously!
The whole thing baffles me beyond imagination.
An antelope would spot a lion walking lazily not in its direction and still it would scamper for safety at once without hesitation.
Even the sight of well fed lions lazing in the sun or coolness of the tree shade would set an antelope or zebra in discomfort and nervousness, and the readiness to flee at the slightest movement.
But women would see blatant red flags in a man showing signs of an abusive behaviour, and yet remain either out of indecision, unnecessary fear,or outright blatant stupidity.

Becayse there was no abusive marriage here.

Two loving couples that had issues and had settled.

Everyone recognises where they came from and the contribution of each other and forgave.

An isolated case of misunderstanding between couples.

If I was abusive, we won’t be here after 14 years. People that were our neighbours (including tenants who lived with us in same compound) would have come forward.

We made mistakes in this very one, but hey, this is not an abusive marriage. An isolated incident that unfortunately escalated is not enough.

She would tell you she married the kindest man! I would tell you I married a most compassionate woman. I speak highly of her a lot on social media.

One issue of fallout and heyyy, her husband must be wrecked by external parties. No, she knew the machinations.

Make eveybody face front

Why is she still in that marriage? This thing call marriage is not a do or die thing. If your husband is molesting u leave the marriage. If your wife is frustrating you send her packing without second thought. Nonsense!

ObalendeCMS:
Delta women/wives can be very stubborn!

I think she deserves it!

What type of idiotic generalized comment is this one?

Spewing trash and feeling funky about it!

If your husband is physically abusing you leave the marriage except the woman is not telling the whole truth. If your wife is frustrating you send her packing without second thought.

ObalendeCMS:
Delta women/wives can be very stubborn!

I think she deserves it!

Why did he not start by beating his fellow men?
You are a disgrace

Who is anybody to judge, when you don't know what and how it happened, don't get me wrong on me picking sides.
They are both in the marriage I hope they can sort it out amongst themselves, even the police should not be involved in a civil matter like this.
If the worst happens they will both regret their actions forever.
I pray they can work it out by God's grace, let's pray for them.

God abeg o, this kind man beating woman shey na oga at the top cause this one?

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omooje1:
Who is anybody to judge, when you don't know what and how it happened, don't get me wrong on me picking sides.
They are both in the marriage I hope they can sort it out amongst themselves, even the police should not be involved in a civil matter like this.
If the worst happens they will both regret their actions forever.
I pray they can work it out by God's grace, let's pray for them.

someone wrote something like this and I replied

papyjaypaul:


I disagree with you on this. What you describe here is an animal. Even when we dey primary school dat time, we go de abuse girls say na mouth dem get to provoke, your friends go abuse you if you follow woman fight. Wetin u de talk Why you think say men de comot house when woman vex dem for house?

I fit say man go lose temper but never ever justify beating women. Men no de do dat thing. Na 1 of the first things dem go teach u when u wan reason woman mata. Their mouth sharp but no fall for am

Persin wey u go do kerewa for night, u com de beat am. How u wan take enjoy am Na slave or BDSM

I know, women can set you up, until you get to the details, you can not make judgment because in their manipulative tactic, they can make up stories. But it still does not justify any man beating a woman. There are cases where women will tie your shirt, hold you down and tell you to beat her. Some men have fallen for that trap. Men must know how to handle the female species, it is part of being a man. Truth will come out at the end.

Some women will harass men, beat him, do different things for hours and the man will not say one word, when he takes just one move to defend himself, the story will be that he beat her. It will never start from the beginning. It is wrong to hit a woman but this id where men must have sense to escape women's traps. We have seen cases where the woman is beating herself and crying loud but they say it is the man. The issue should be addressed in total. I cannot judge by social media until we see the full story.