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What do you guys gain from rubishing and shaming our women?

To every Nigeria girl/ladies/women out there, you guys are the best and I really appreciate all your love and sacrifice.

2buffagain:
That they obsess over money or that they are sensible?

obsessed with money

Makunahatata:
na Olosho and armed robbers plenty pass among Colombian women, den go set u up, but den get beautiful body curves sha especially if u like bubbly ass.... Nigerian women dey learn work if u compare.

sadly, you are very far from the truth. although Colombian women love money, majority wont rob you. its the foolish foreigners who get robbed but its a small percentage. you have 100times more robberies in Lagos than you would have in Medellin.
the difference between Colombian women and Nigerian women is that, Nigerian women will not be subtle about asking for money (aka they go straight to the point and ask money as if its a duty to give them) while Colombian women will play it out like their fridge is empty or they lost their phone or their mother is in hospital.... Russians would go straight to the point too.

Zooposki:
Ok. A woman with great character(regardless of she can cook or not, take care of the house or not, etc) is what most men should also look out for. She can learn to do all those but a character she cannot.

anybody can learn how to cook and/or clean.... but its ALMOST IMPOSSIBLE to teach someone how to be caring/respectful/honest etc

chrisxxx:

It is not all Nigerian women. It is women from a particular tribe the prioritises money over all things. Even in their husband's house offer them good money they will bed you. They think that there God given asset is for Monday making. I never mentioned any tribe. There are over 200 tribes in Nigeria.

Exactly, that particular tribe are also known for being dirty and having big smelling derrières 😂

Their women are so cheap and promiscuous to the extent they had to use local charms called magun to be following their women around 🤡

It is a Nigerian societal malaise.


Do you know who I am

If u no get money, hide your face

30 billion in the account ooo

If she no 4o, she no s0ck, who go give her handbag

And you say Nigerian women. It is the country itself. We like material things and worship money.

Tellmeastory:
On a recent business visit to the UK, I met an Ethiopian professional guy in London, and we had a conversation in which I stated half-jokingly that I would love to visit Ethiopia to get myself a nice, beautiful Ethiopian woman.

He erupted in laughter, and said that I was most welcome to visit Addis Ababa anytime, as the city is filled with beautiful women who are also very humble.

He then said that he liked Nigerian women, but that the only problem based on his experience with them is that the only thing they care about is money, and that that was why he doesn’t like dating them.

I was so embarrassed.

Why are our women like this?

It’s terrible.

Their reputation for money obsession is now international.

They need major reorientation, so that they can understand that life is not just about money and wealth.

And the funny thing is that they are the most church-obsessed women in Africa, yet the most highly materialistic.

A tragic irony, and a clear sign that they are only deceiving themselves with that ‘Jesus’ stuff, because no one is fooled, least of all the Most High.

Our men are like that too! Majority of Nigerians worship money

BlackyOne:


One one hand you said Nigerian women, and on the other hand you said these Nigerian women are deceiving themselves with "Jesus stuff", therein lies your bias!

Are all the women in Nigeria believing in Jesus Christ or being Christians?

How about the Muslim women with their "Mohammed stuff", or the Atheist women with their " whatever stuff", or the pagan women with their "kayanmata juju stuff"? Or aren't these group of women Nigerians too? And if they're Nigerians don't they like money too or you deliberately left them out based on your own bias? And if they don't like money, why can't you go for them or refer them to your Ethiopian friend?

How do you categorise this post - inductive or deductive reasoning, or both or none of it?

Savedday2:
What the guy is trying to say is that, 9ja girls are ashawo. Some do it openly the others do it codedly.

The bottom line is that, they are all ashawo. The fact that you haven't caught your girlfriend/sister/wives, doing ashawo work doesn't mean she is not an ashawo. They are all the same.

Is nice visiting Imo state, Nkechi Abeg bring that your useless kpekus make I scatter B4 I enter Warri 2moro. No time!

Damn...

If you like let your sister marry a poor man. Na you go take care of all them. No borrow yourself brain hustle well make you get money. You way dey talk you no like money?

Let him give us the names of those he had dated and we will inform the town council of their activities.

Zooposki:


Women should make sure they date men that can comfortably take care of them and any future children they have together. Don’t let any man broke shame you. Look for husband material, same way they look for wife material.

When women broke shame men....men also have the right to call women gold diggers .... u cant say women should look for men to take care of them...that's an old adage , when women dint go to school or work ....when women were all housewives... now that women go to school and also work .... women have lost that privilege of men taking care of them solely.... the world have evolved . We can't ask men to accept evolution, when it only favours women... while we women don't wanna accept evolution that favours men

Zooposki:


Women should make sure they date men that can comfortably take care of them and any future children they have together. Don’t let any man broke shame you. Look for husband material, same way they look for wife material.

Ethiopia women are the best anyday anytime

Zooposki:


Yeah, same as men. They should learn to look after themselves in their marriages and not wait for the women to cook, do their laundry, take care of their children etc.

Social media has destroyed u... so u don't want to take care of the children...u dont want to cook or clean ?? Are u that lazy or u are just rebellious... what a shame ... so what will u now be doing in marriage?? If he cools and cleans , will u be responsible for the generator and cars issues?? ...Will be responsible for the electrical and security issues at home... we have gender roles , but unfortunately, u have allowed demons take over ur mentality to destroy u ....

Zooposki:


Don’t also use women as slaves.

Look at the nonsense u copied .... don't women also enjoy sexual encounters ?? Don't women also want babies ?? Calling cooking and cleaning, slaving ?? Wudnt u cook and clean if u were staying alone ?? So how is it slaving ?? So the man that goes out to suffer and hustle, only to return to feed u is not slaving for u too abi?? If we use ur logic ... men risk their lives daily to provide for a woman , is that not slavery as well...if we use ur logic , or stupid peoples logic... pls have sense , don't allow wokeness to destroy u

Benzigler:








Nigeria women are no different from other women around the world ...... in fact they are better than most countries, my wife is not a Nigerian, i think we need to stop painting our women bad on this forum and other places, it's disgusting, white women are even worst, could took everything you have labored all yourself for one useless mistake, are you woman or man?

Nigerians will do same, even worse if our law were the same with their law...

Zooposki:


Oga, who no like fvck? You no like fvck? Stop the shaming of a gender. Everybody can go and fvck however they like. Your colleagues wey like to fvck, what do we now call them?

Oh ...so u like 4k , but u also said men use women to satisfy their sexual urge, making it seem like women suffer during sex

mu2sa2:
How do you categorise this post - inductive or deductive reasoning, or both or none of it?

Both

Cabalgeneral:


Ethiopia women are the best anyday anytime

Same women that discriminate against you and call you monkies? Hmmm, ok.

MrBrownJay1:


anybody can learn how to cook and/or clean.... but its ALMOST IMPOSSIBLE to teach someone how to be caring/respectful/honest etc

All I’m saying is that if you want women to contribute towards the finances of the home, then you should not expect a traditional wife. You the man must also contribute towards the everyday boring tedious work like the cooking, the cleaning, the laundry work, looking after the kids etc.

Zooposki:


Same women that discriminate against you and call you monkies? Hmmm, ok.

Where?

Never heard of that!

You must be living under a rock.

Loads of Nigerian guys have Ethiopian women. Travel out and see.

In fact if a Nigerian man visits Addis Ababa, he will have his fill of beautiful Ethiopian women who absolutely love Nigerian men, just like their fellow women across Africa.

Tellmeastory:


Where?

Never heard of that!

You must be living under a rock.

Loads of Nigerian guys have Ethiopian women. Travel out and see.

In fact if a Nigerian man visits Addis Ababa, he will have his fill of beautiful Ethiopian women who absolutely love Nigerian men, just like their fellow women across Africa.

Lol.

Zooposki:


Lol.

Women ALL OVER THE WORLD love Nigerian men.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=x2rEqPTt8Vo?si=ark048UYd3nUYFYc

Beverlyjean:


When women broke shame men....men also have the right to call women gold diggers .... u cant say women should look for men to take care of them...that's an old adage , when women dint go to school or work ....when women were all housewives... now that women go to school and also work .... women have lost that privilege of men taking care of them solely.... the world have evolved . We can't ask men to accept evolution, when it only favours women... while we women don't wanna accept evolution that favours men

I like you already

Beverlyjean:


When women broke shame men....men also have the right to call women gold diggers .... u cant say women should look for men to take care of them...that's an old adage , when women dint go to school or work ....when women were all housewives... now that women go to school and also work .... women have lost that privilege of men taking care of them solely.... the world have evolved . We can't ask men to accept evolution, when it only favours women... while we women don't wanna accept evolution that favours men

Don't mind those useless gender. I wonder what people are raising these days in the name of female children.

Tellmeastory:
On a recent business visit to the UK, I met an Ethiopian professional guy in London, and we had a conversation in which I stated half-jokingly that I would love to visit Ethiopia to get myself a nice, beautiful Ethiopian woman.

He erupted in laughter, and said that I was most welcome to visit Addis Ababa anytime, as the city is filled with beautiful women who are also very humble.

He then said that he liked Nigerian women, but that the only problem based on his experience with them is that the only thing they care about is money, and that that was why he doesn’t like dating them.

I was so embarrassed.

Why are our women like this?

It’s terrible.

Their reputation for money obsession is now international.

They need major reorientation, so that they can understand that life is not just about money and wealth.

And the funny thing is that they are the most church-crazed women in Africa, yet the most highly materialistic.

A tragic, stunning irony, and a clear sign that they are only deceiving themselves with that ‘Jesus’ stuff, because no one is fooled, least of all the Most High.

You can't give orientation to millions of girls born in poverty.

Tellmeastory:


Women ALL OVER THE WORLD love Nigerian men.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=x2rEqPTt8Vo?si=ark048UYd3nUYFYc

Hmmm. Ok

Beverlyjean:


Social media has destroyed u... so u don't want to take care of the children...u dont want to cook or clean ?? Are u that lazy or u are just rebellious... what a shame ... so what will u now be doing in marriage?? If he cools and cleans , will u be responsible for the generator and cars issues?? ...Will be responsible for the electrical and security issues at home... we have gender roles , but unfortunately, u have allowed demons take over ur mentality to destroy u ....

I have been following your arguments with Zooposki from the start and my conclusion is that you're both correct, you both raised issues that could lead to the breakdown of a healthy marriage.

If I understood her correctly she said if both the woman and man are out there working to provide for the family then the man must also help with house chores. Let's say you both spend 8 hours at work , when you come home you can't have the woman alone running around cleaning, doing homework with the kids, cooking etc. Whilst the husband is sitting around watching TV. This will lead to resentment in the end.

You're correct about gender roles and there are things that come naturally to both genders , but just like the women are helping in providing ( male *traditional duty*.... then the man should also help her out with hers to ease the burden on her as well.). There is is no script for marriage especially in today's world so everyone needs to be flexible , you cannot have one person carrying 70% of the burden and think that will make a happy home. Again with gender roles; it makes sense that on weekends the man will be busy with much more *mascular * home activities like maintaining the yard,cars etc....while the woman will be doing laundry and other house chores. But I think what I got from her posts is that there needs to be cooperation; where you see your partner is overwhelmed, you come in and assist. The same way that if a woman isn't working and the man is struggling to meet the Bills, she has to think on her feet and find ways to help...be it hairdressing, trading etc ...just to help ease the burden on the man.

With that being said , if a man is the sole breadwinner then I don't see why a woman would complain of slavery if he requests of her to do all the house chores.... now that's being silly and selfish .

Lionessza6:



I have been following your arguments with Zooposki from the start and my conclusion is that you're both correct, you both raised issues that could lead to the breakdown of a healthy marriage.

If I understood her correctly she said if both the woman and man are out there working to provide for the family then the man must also help with house chores. Let's say you both spend 8 hours at work , when you come home you can't have the woman alone running around cleaning, doing homework with the kids, cooking etc. Whilst the husband is sitting around watching TV. This will lead to resentment in the end.

You're correct about gender roles and there are things that come naturally to both genders , but just like the women are helping in providing ( male *traditional duty*.... then the man should also help her out with hers to ease the burden on her as well.). There is is no script for marriage especially in today's world so everyone needs to be flexible , you cannot have one person carrying 70% of the burden and think that will make a happy home. Again with gender roles; it makes sense that on weekends the man will be busy with much more *mascular * home activities like maintaining the yard,cars etc....while the woman will be doing laundry and other house chores. But I think what I got from her posts is that there needs to be cooperation; where you see your partner is overwhelmed, you come in and assist. The same way that if a woman isn't working and the man is struggling to meet the Bills, she has to think on her feet and find ways to help...be it hairdressing, trading etc ...just to help ease the burden on the man.

With that being said , if a man is the sole breadwinner then I don't see why a woman would complain of slavery if he requests of her to do all the house chores.... now that's being silly and selfish .

Yes, you got it just right. 👍🏽👍🏽 African men tend to expect a trad wife that bring in the money, while they don’t want to deviate from their own role of only bringing in the money. They should also be helping with the everyday boring house chores.

1Sharon:
Not an ethiopian talking.

You nose it . Very cowardly attack .

Tellmeastory:
On a recent business visit to the UK, I met an Ethiopian professional guy in London, and we had a conversation in which I stated half-jokingly that I would love to visit Ethiopia to get myself a nice, beautiful Ethiopian woman.

He erupted in laughter, and said that I was most welcome to visit Addis Ababa anytime, as the city is filled with beautiful women who are also very humble.

He then said that he liked Nigerian women, but that the only problem based on his experience with them is that the only thing they care about is money, and that that was why he doesn’t like dating them.

I was so embarrassed.

Why are our women like this?

It’s terrible.

Their reputation for money obsession is now international.

They need major reorientation, so that they can understand that life is not just about money and wealth.

And the funny thing is that they are the most church-crazed women in Africa, yet the most highly materialistic.

A tragic, stunning irony, and a clear sign that they are only deceiving themselves with that ‘Jesus’ stuff, because no one is fooled, least of all the Most High.

I feel this a Nigerian trait rather than a female one