Tightpussy2024:

If only you put half as much effort in researching the adverse effects of adultery. Well. I understand, people wish to see only what they wish to see

On the contrary, I have asked myself "Why do men love to have sex so much?" It led me to the answer which is basic biology. The presence of testosterone - the male hormone, not a mo.ron - is behind the urge for men to continually seek avenues to have sex, especially when they are younger. On the social side, many young men don't have as much sex because women are the gatekeepers. Since time immemorial, women have been hypergamous - gravitating towards brawny men - those days' means to earn good income - or brainy - these days' conditions to earn good money. In return, the men who qualify for these women's requirements get to marry them and have a continuous and stable source of sexual comfort. Young men have noticed that while their female contemporaries offered sex to the highest bidders at the same time denigrated their male agemates. I am sure many men at some time while growing up had their female agemates telling them "I don't date my agemates", "you are not my class" etc. I recall when I was in my final year first-semester discussing marriage with my female classmates, one told me to my face that "My wife dey SS1, not even SS3".

Also, my sister admonished me for asking about her friends just to know about them. The reason? I don't have money, so why am I interested in women? When young men hear and see this, it only means one thing: women have tied sexual access to material comfort. In return, we should not be tied to one woman when that material comfort is attained. And to me, this is fair. The popular adage goes: "A society that tells young men that they don't deserve women because they don't have money cannot tell those men to stick to one woman when they have the money".

Moreover, even in marriage, which is unfortunate, women use sex as a bargaining power for a wide range of reasons. When a woman deliberately deprives a man of sexual conjugal rights, that woman is merely telling the man to sort himself elsewhere. As mentioned earlier, testosterone is a hormone, not a mo.ron. My parents own hotels which I managed for a few years. I have met men who told me that their wives refused them sex, which is why they patronise hotels. I have had pastors, politicians, businessmen, doctors, engineers, lawyers etc., who are regular clients. Men love sex, more so Nigerian men. Here: https://www.nairaland.com/7496716/what-exactly-does-one-enjoy
The major reason why Nigerian men see the country as a place to enjoy life as a rich man is because of cheap sex. That thread could be taken as a mini-study.

See married Nigerian men narrating their experiences of their wives deliberately refusing them sexual conjugal rights: https://www.nairaland.com/7888125/wife-constantly-denies-me-sex

See how much Nigerian men spend on sex and sex workers; https://www.nairaland.com/7304604/what-highest-amount-paid-sex

It is because of these "mini studies" and experiences, that I don't condemn sex work, aka prostitution. I believe it is normal and men perpetuate it. I defend sex workers any day, any time. They are essential service providers. I have constantly criticised men, especially on Nairaland, who demonise sex work. I find it very hypocritical for patrons to condemn their service providers. I have protected sex workers from apparent danger and kidnap.

See here: https://www.nairaland.com/7684230/how-reduce-hook-ups-nigeria and here: https://www.nairaland.com/8064135/hook-up-girls-earnings-expenses-pictured

See the basic research which shows that men produce more testosterone than women: https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/22552705/#:~:text=Sexual%20desire%20is%20typically%20higher,in%20studies%20of%20sexual%20desire.

Any species which produces enough testosterone MUST demand a continuous supply of sexual pleasure. Thus, adultery or however it is called will continue to thrive.

LordReed:


The Republicans, if it wasn't clear enough.

Biden would have been piled on even without the debate.

You live in a cocoon. All those democrat shenanigans last few years and you say republican are worse? Including impeaching Trump for wanting to know why Hunter was being paid by Ukraine. Yet democrats are doing everything to eliminate Trump in an election year.

IbeOkehie:


A major split in the Black electorate is along GENDER lines. Most of the rising support for Trump among Black Americans is coming from the men. A good entree into this is what happened in Georgia in 2020. They voted for Governor and President at the same time. The Democrat governor candidate was a Black woman. You should take a look at the data, it looks like the main reason she lost is Black men refused to vote for her than expected for a Democrat.

https://www.npr.org/2022/11/04/1133358607/black-men-a-key-voting-bloc-leave-georgia-governors-race-an-open-question

Thanks for bringing that up. You see, within the last decade or thereabouts, there has been an astronomical rise in so-called Internet culture wars whether on gender, religion, education, employment and marriage. Regarding gender, we have had a 4th wave of feminism which has turned many young men away resulting in a breakdown of basic friendly relationships between young men and young women. This has had electoral effects in South Korea where young men voted for the current leader because he promised to stem the tide of feminism. Politicians there blame the country's abysmal birth rate on feminism.

The Democratic Party and its cohorts all over the world are the major supporters of these attacks on young men, in the US' case, especially White men. The thing is, you cannot continue to attack young white men endlessly yet expect them to reason with you. You don't force these things on people. Recently, there has been a curtailing of DEI initiatives because advocates pushed it so hard and openly in a way young white men believed their economic chances were ruined or limited. I follow Reddit/MBA sub and there is no day I don't see the commentators there lamenting no jobs and limited economic opportunities. Also, they narrate how "seemingly easy" it is for women and ethnic minorities to get a leg ahead. These men see these things.

In a recent publication by the FT, one of the reasons outlined why Donald Trump is loved is because of masculinity. In fact, it was the number one reason. Many men have had their masculinity attacked by social justice warriors within the past few years. It is why any man who comes up to proffer hopes of masculinity gets a throng of supporters. From Andrew Tate to Wizarab10 on Twitter to Donald. There cannot continue to be "men are bad" rhetoric yet you expect the same men to see such people in a good light. You cannot continue to attack young white men, yet expect their votes. If the person like, make him shout or whine sExIsT from today to yesterday, these men will remember how they were vilified simply because they are men.

This is why I applaud Trump's choice of JD Vance as a VP candidate - young, refined, from the working class, elite education with an Indian wife. Many men will be drawn to his personality, covertly or overtly. On that note: should the Democratic Party nominate Harris as its candidate, I write that Trump will win. What I wish/hope/pray for is for the result to be thorough, convincing, and comprehensive. I want the GOP to defeat Harris in a such way they will shed tears for life. I want to see a catastrophic defeat of the Democratic Party. Provided the GOP does not do the following:
A) Outrightly attack her gender
B) Outrightly attack her racial background.

The United States needs a strong leader, and most importantly based on human reasoning, should the US get its first female president, it has to be a White woman. White men, whether young or old, would not want to have a biracial woman as America's first female president. They want someone who looks like their mother. Even black men would rather have a white woman as America's first female president before a black woman, ditto for Latino men. As you stated, even in Georgia, one of America's states with a high black population, the GOP won because black men voted for its candidate rather than for a black woman. Critics will cry miss ogini, but this is real life, not the usual lovey-dovey simulation they are used to.

Did you also know that Republicans are now more popular in racially diverse states and localities while Democrats now perform best among affluent Whites?

They should maintain the momentum. It is refreshing to see.

"Companies drop DEI targets from bonus plans on pressure from conservatives" - FT.
"A new global gender divide is emerging" - FT.

I usually get banned by the anti-spam bot whenever I insert FT links. Screenshot of the gender divide.

AmazonTopaz:

Trump will still lose.

Roger! We will be here

folake4u:


You are very petty.😂

I asked myself, what would Donald Trump do.. 😂

kkins25:


I asked myself, what would Donald Trump do.. 😂

Lol. Are you for Trump or Harris?

LordReed:


The Republicans, if it wasn't clear enough.

Biden would have been piled on even without the debate.

Democrats and Republicans lie alot.. The fact that American media reported the gun shot as some form of disturbing, while foreign media were reporting real news, i realize that America is indeed a cooperation.

folake4u:


Lol. Are you for Trump or Harris?

I like Trump.. Ever since his debate with Hillary... "why doesn't she change the tax laws"

🤣 🤣

kkins25:


Democrats and Republicans lie alot.. The fact that American media reported the gun shot as some form of disturbing, while foreign media were reporting real news, i realize that America is indeed a cooperation.

basilico:


You live in a cocoon. All those democrat shenanigans last few years and you say republican are worse? Including impeaching Trump for wanting to know why Hunter was being paid by Ukraine. Yet democrats are doing everything to eliminate Trump in an election year.

Tell me 5 lies Democrats have told in the past 4 years.

folake4u:


You are very petty.😂

I nor even get him time on top election when Trump go still lose.

kkins25:


I like Trump.. Ever since his debate with Hillary... "why doesn't she change the tax laws"

🤣 🤣

Oh okay. Why'd you like him though?

AmazonTopaz:

I nor even get him time on top election when Trump go still lose.

Omooo!! Fingers crossed mehn.

LordReed:


Tell me 5 lies Democrats have told in the past 4 years.

Project 2025.
Jan 6 insurrection
Joe Biden health
Hunter Laptop
Russia hoax
Children in cages by Trump but was Obama's invention.

Just watch MSNBC. Everything is a lie.. uncountable.

LordAdam16:


Don't jinx him any harder, mate.
He may yet have to resign to give Harris a push by making her 47 if the party does not respect his endorsement of Harris for the nomination.

-Lord

Why are you trying so hard to make sense?

LordAdam16:


If you can't bring a pre-debate comment saying Biden had no chance, I don't want to hear a word from you.

You guys cheered while JFK was ushered out of the party to make way for an uncontested Biden primary run.

Now the guy who 14 million Americans voted for in the primary has been bullied away from his rightful nomination.
Under the guise of frailty and eroding mental acuity that YOU ALL KNEW HE HAD for months now.

You guys are clowns, taking Americans for a ride, and will get your comeuppance in November.
We will leave nothing to chance and dunk on whomever is unfortunate to become your nominee.

-Lord

From my pal George Conway

Donald Trump is too old, too convicted, too indicted, too impeached, too much of a rapist, and too much of a psycho to run for president.

The Republicans really should have a conversation amongst themselves to choose a new nominee.

///

Couldn't have said it better

Gerrard59:

Any species which produces enough testosterone MUST demand a continuous supply of sexual pleasure. Thus, adultery or however it is called will continue to thrive.

Surprised to read all this and see no mention of the effects of oxytocin on males and female sexuality. Humans have limited agency but their hubris is unlimited.

Nature governs all. There are differences among humans dictated by biology that can't be EASILY overcome and as such there's little expectation that the USA National Basketball Association will have a majority of Asian players any time soon.

It's likely the most consequential invention in sex relations is contraception and the next one will be artificial wombs or incubators.

Good Luck to Nigerians.

basilico:


Project 2025.
Jan 6 insurrection
Joe Biden health
Hunter Laptop
Russia hoax
Children in cages by Trump but was Obama's invention.

Just watch MSNBC. Everything is a lie.. uncountable.

What was the lie in any of what you posted, state it clearly.

If anyone here still insults President Biden, you are just a silly hateful person. What he's done for America is phenomenal, convicted felon trump will never match it.

Talking to you black man hater and basilico loco. Look in the mirror and find the old man who is also a convict and a rapist before you type with your dirty mind fingers.

LordReed:


What was the lie in any of what you posted, state it clearly.

Why you think they are not lies?

Obrigardo:
If anyone here still insults President Biden, you are just a silly hateful person. What he's done for America is phenomenal, convicted felon trump will never match it.

Talking to you black man hater and basilico loco. Look in the mirror and find the old man who is also a convict and a rapist before you type with your dirty mind fingers.

Why are his numbers low if he is the next best thing since sliced bread?

basilico:


Why are his numbers low if he is the next best thing since sliced bread?

What numbers? Well, no need for that shit now. Convicted felon and rapist trump is now the oldest man running for office. Will the shameless republicans ask him to step aside? Oh there's no republican party anymore.

Obrigardo:


What numbers? Well, no need for that shit now. Convicted felon and rapist trump is now the oldest man running for office. Will the shameless republicans ask him to step aside? Oh there's no republican party anymore.

Joe Biden was running till yesterday. Was he old then.
His polling numbers are under the bridge

basilico:


Joe Biden was running till yesterday. Was he old then.
His polling numbers are under the bridge

Why are you still hurting yourself? I don't need to get Into that trash talk. Face the present. Convicted felon trump should drop out. America is not ready for any old president and one with lots of criminal entanglement and hate all around the world.

Obrigardo:


Why are you still hurting yourself? I don't need to get Into that trash talk. Face the present. Convicted felon trump should drop out. America is not ready for any old president and one with lots of criminal entanglement and hate all around the world.

The conviction will be overturned, tjen you eat crow.
If he wins all those judges and prosecutors will have their day in court

basilico:


The conviction will be overturned, tjen you eat crow.
If he wins all those judges and prosecutors will have their day in court

Well, will and if are not present terms right? Seems you still sleeping, hey, wake up.

LordReed:


What was the lie in any of what you posted, state it clearly.

Look at this blatant 2021 lie by Kamala Harris. Just an example of their lies everyday.

Another lie promulgated about cages being built by Trump.

Obrigardo:


Well, will and if are not present terms right? Seems you still sleeping, hey, wake up.

I bet you my testicles that Merchan won't sentence Trump.He allowed witness testimony covered under presidential immunity to be heard in court Judge Cannon dismissed the cases, Judge Chutkan has no choice.

Only leaves Georgia non starter case with so many flaws and lies to court Plus the two New York cases under appeal which will be thrown out by SCOTUS

I've always had this overarching conspiracy theories even from the days I was a nutjob before these maga idiots, that Democrats are the actual power chosen to run things.
What if the old man Biden campaign in the media was to create this eventual outcome: everybody now thinks felon trump is too old and outdated. 😅

basilico:


Look at this blatant 2021 lie by Kamala Harris. Just an example of their lies everyday.

Another lie promulgated about cages being built by Trump.

What is your issue with the border? How does it affect your life? So your lord felon trump is the one that always says the truth.

basilico:


I bet you my testicles that Merchan won't sentence Trump.He allowed witness testimony covered under presidential immunity to be heard in coirt

To be fair to you, the damage has been done. President Biden dropping out has tipped the scales in a degree you'll never comprehend.

Obrigardo:


To be fair to you, the damage has been done. President Biden dropping out has tipped the scales in a degree you'll never comprehend.

Wait till we hear about the truth about a 20 year old coder and gamer who has no social media presence.

Obrigardo:


What is your issue with the border? How does it affect your life? So your lord felon trump is the one that always says the truth.

I have no issue at all. Biden reversed every policy, increased illegal immigrants and now blames congress for not passing a law.
I don't think all Americans save for those purple haired Karen's to not see there is something wrong with open borders.