iamoyindamola:

Sure he will get his help
I just don't like the blow up publicity
This life no balance sha last year mummy zee was praying and led her husband to goodies on x
This year this single mother that don't know her son school fees pushed her husband away and will probably lead him to goodies

If they can help the man pay off the balance of the bus' hire purchase and help him with some funds to rent a decent flat, then I believe he has a high chance of standing on his feet ASAP.

After reading the man's side of the story, I don't really blame the woman like that anymore; women will always be women. Na money I blame.

raumdeuter:


if its a condition both of them agreed to, then no wahala the man can even agree to change his name to his wife if he is satisfied with it

Anyway when Temi Otedola or Dangot daughter come marry me, Watch out for my change of name in center page of all newspaper

We no even know the surname Mr. Eazi is bearing now sef

GloriousGbola:

They're a literal minefield

iamoyindamola:

Sure he will get his help
I just don't like the blow up publicity
This life no balance sha last year mummy zee was praying and led her husband to goodies on x
This year this single mother that don't know her son school fees pushed her husband away and will probably lead him to goodies

And to think the man told him not to post on SM o...the JonDDoe guy no gree, say the matter don already dey public, and he'd post their conversations for the man's good, that SM people are already starting to support the man's wife.

Some of these influencers no go make heaven sha

BlueRayDick:


If they can help the man pay off the balance of the bus' hire purchase and help him with some funds to rent a decent flat, then I believe he has a high chance of standing on his feet ASAP.

After reading the man's side of the story, I don't really blame the woman like that anymore; women will always be women. Na money I blame.

Exactly
The early people should know women loyalty is money the better
I also like how the man takes responsibility for his actions

BlueRayDick:


I had to go through her profile and notice that number one she seem to be all these social media junky that likes social media pass any other thing.

I noticed she only post Herself and her kids; the husband is not always in the picture .

She most likely wishes for a life other than the one the man can give her/is giving her .

To be fair sha , sometimes men too change from what the woman expected to someone else . For example maybe u are an accountant by profession and ur wife likes how u dress and look cool in corporate . A man can decide to venture into selling goods like car battery, Okrika second hand clothes , etc just to increase his income as the family grows.

Such a man will not know he has stopped being the man of her dreams the moment he stopped being an accountant knotting tie and wearing nice suit.

I've heard someone say beware of the social media tycoon.

And every day I see this stuff I am like that nigga was on to something.

I think the mistake men make. You need a woman that's obsessed with you that's willing to go in the foxhole with you. That way it's easier to notice the energy shift than if you're not sure she was ever feeling you all along

The reason you're worried you will stop being the man of her dreams if you change from corporate to rugged is because you're not putting her on her toes.

Look at this guy and how scruffy he looks, you will never know he had that kind of wife or stays for that kin house. All him money she don chop am and now looks like a beached whale (with all due respect)

He never put performance pressure on the woman that's why she's almost thrice his size and has time to be forming single mom on Facebook. A real single mom is too busy trying to survive to even have time.

Single mom but na husband dey pay all bills. That narcissist was what pissed me off. I don't know any good woman that uses those words cos 95% of them apply it wrongly

Theflint1:
And to think the man told him not to post on SM o...the JonDDoe guy no gree, say the matter don already dey public, and he'd post their conversations for the man's good, that SM people are already starting to support the man's wife.

Some of these influencers no go make heaven sha

Man's wife bawo
Are they dull, person that's doesn't know school fees amount
Co-parenting indeed

A40:
I've heard someone say beware of the social media tycoon.

And every day I see this stuff I am like that nigga was on to something.

I think the mistake men make. You need a woman that's obsessed with you that's willing to go in the foxhole with you. That way it's easier to notice the energy shift than if you're not sure she was ever feeling you all along

The reason you're worried you will stop being the man of her dreams if you change from corporate to rugged is because you're not putting her on her toes.

Look at this guy and how scruffy he looks, you will never know he had that kind of wife or stays for that kin house. All him money she don chop am and now looks like a beached whale (with all due respect)

He never put performance pressure on the woman that's why she's almost thrice his size and has time to be forming single mom on Facebook. A real single mom is too busy trying to survive to even have time.

Single mom but na husband dey pay all bills. That narcissist was what pissed me off. I don't know any good woman that uses those words cos 95% of them apply it wrongly

Bros these new generation women will grow out of love once they can't find anything useful with you again no matter how obsessed she was before
Once you lose value opari

BlueRayDick:


The bolded is my issue.

If they don't want to get married it is all fine and good. Being a baby mama or single mother is not a crime and to an extent no longer a big deal in the society.

So it is better to just have a child outside wedlock, call him by whatever name & surname and u will be fine. But entering into marriage and then start giving conditions like refusing to bear ur husband's name is just crazy

This is what I always say. Me I'm not hung up on a woman bearing my last name I just won't legally marry someone who's with that mindset.

Like Raumdeuter said I can make exception for Dangote or Otedola pikin. Not normal civilian

The way I see it. I'm responsible to you for the rest of your life. Long after your father is gone. So making that lifetime commitment. It's foolishness to commit seriously to someone who won't even do you that courtesy

iamoyindamola:

Man's wife bawo
Are they dull, person that's doesn't know school fees amount
Co-parenting indeed

Yea, nobody bin dey support the wife, at best they were saying you don't know what's going on, but baba post that lamba to justify posting their DMs regardless of the man wishes.

iamoyindamola:

Bros these new generation women will grow out of love once they can't find anything useful with you again no matter how obsessed she was before
Once you lose value opari

See that's the problem. Guys are not applying performance pressure on them as well.

Most men nowadays are so emotional more emotional than babes. Just look at that nigga Jonathan Majors and how he was boohoo crying like small pikin for stage

While striving to always be useful you sef demand use from the woman. One thing I know about babes. They hold on tight to anything them don invest on top. A lot of guys are with women that aside from puna they can't really point to any other thing she's added to their lives

When you end up with woman that hasn't brought anything to your table e no go hard for you to lose value to am. Takers don't have limits that's why givers must set em

Vacancy!!!

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God should keep BAT alive till 2027 because this Shettimma might actually be who people say he is..

BlueRayDick:

The guy's mum is probably a Yoruba and his father Igbo.
It's just like how the Adelekes have been marrying Igbos

alright

CrystalTiger:
God should keep BAT alive till 2027 because this Shettimma might actually be who people say he is..

Wetin be this
These guys are not in touch with reality of what Nigerians are going through

CrystalTiger:
God should keep BAT alive till 2027 because this Shettimma might actually be who people say he is..

2027? Abeg make God keep BAT alive forever just incase. I nor trust am, this Shettima dey move like the undead

https://www.nairaland.com/8187359/abdulkabir-adisa-aliu-imports-petrol

After three weeks of Bullshit and conjecture, it seems it is matrix energy and nnpc who have been playing these games.

BlueRayDick:


One thing I’ve noticed about women is once they stop loving u, that’s the end . No matter how they once loved u, once that love flame is dead it is dead. U may try with all ur might to reignite but once it is gone, it is gone .

Whether na lack of funds kill the love , lack of attention, u don’t conform to her standards anymore , etc; once that love is gone u go just Dey try to no avail .

This is true but if you check am. This is mostly the case when you're the one doing the heavy lifting of the relationship.

If you fell back and allow her do the work for most of the relationship you will see that na she go dey do the long paragraph and texts not the other way round. It has always been that way for me at least. The less I do the less I care. Standards no consign me, whether your flame die e no consign me. Na so the tin go

BlueRayDick:


I know one bros currently facing that Challenge. I asked after him from an old acquaintance and he told me how his wife has showed him pepper . Someone that was comfortable enough to buy his wife a car ; now he’s out of job and broke . The wife sold the car and even bought another one while the husband is out of job. She has even told him to his face that she can’t continue to feed him o. Man wey don Dey feed u for over 13 years of marriage before thing spoil. 🤦‍♂️

One of my friends. Younger chap doing pretty well occasionally I tell him to chill with the spending. Them no dey build equity with babes. As you dey drop she see am as her right. Don't attract someone that's just there for the money.

Always seek a woman that will contribute something to your life. Cos unless you be trustfund baby. Hard times go surely show and that's when you will know what you have. This small bearish crypto run don open him eye small. I no wan tell am say I told you so

This bros you dey talk. Why can't the bros feed now? Cos he spent his time of feast feeding a non contributor. He probably has no savings cos of this.

Since I don sabi church. Widowers ministry no dey. E get why. Guys have zero safety net for society so you would think we would be smarter about how we handled these things

Let me tell you an open secret. Babes don't rate what they didn't struggle for. It's not a bad thing or a good thing. It's just how they are. That car your friend bought, if say she hustle for am with your guy she would have more value for it same way she cherishes her degrees and qualifications cos she struggle for am.

That's why as much as us men want to provide for everything. Avoid women wey no wan contribute. Even if you have make her contribute tangible shit. Just off principle

That's how she proves her love, not by opening yansh.

Na 2024 we dey. Anybody wey wan play traditional game with modern babes. Ire oh

CrystalTiger:
God should keep BAT alive till 2027 because this Shettimma might actually be who people say he is..

Lmao. This man looks like wickedness

He who pays the piper

raumdeuter:
He who pays the piper

I Guess he was paid more than $500 for that particular soundbite.

An oligarch will lift Nigeria out of poverty. Just as his cement boosted our construction industry and made us a real Estate power house

Someone should investigate David Hundeyins bank account inflows.

A40:
And wetin dey worry this Ola Aina. Why are you denying Adingra cooked you? Then pretending you didn't know his name. Weak sauce man

Who advised him to do that goofy interview with Iwobi

One of the absolute things I hate most in any sport is when a player or fighter discloses injury after a contest. Especially when they lose. Show the injury before or even during so I can exploit it. Don't lose finish and then tell us you were injured. Nobody wanna hear that

Leave Aina abeg. He didn't play till seasons end after that match, with Forest confirming his injury. Rather blame Peseiro for fielding him. Nigerians usually lack information due to access to data and the daily struggle of life, it's good for him to set the record straight cos I noticed he wasn't called up for Super Eagles in the summer despite being fit, it's like they wrote him off, and some fans are still abusing him online without knowing the full story