Emmanuel900:
The truth is most of these women never love their husband in the first place.

They just settled for them because they have the fattest pocket and are able to fill the role of provider they need, so when they get to UK with more opportunities for women to make more money and empowerment, their husband become useless to them and they just want to bail out.

You think a woman is capable of love?


Dey play you hear

bad behaviour always shows itself

advanceDNA:
They should hit the nail on the head and stop sugar coating it..... same thing happened in the US..
..the police told them straight up in to stop using the police to create false pattern of abuse against their husband that they will weaponize later to gain their husband's properties or government benefits...

Really? US police gave this advice?

They never loved their husband's. The men were just a quick scheme to get out of poverty. When they reach abroad & both the men & the women realise they both need to work hard to make ends meet, it begins to pain the women. They now want to dissolve the marriage so that the man can work harder and send them more funds so that they can ball. Men you sef be wise. Put cctv codedly in ur house. Record when she assaults you and beats ur children like naija people do. I can bet you if you take a video recording to court of your wife beating your children, you will gain custody and she will work to also pay child support. Na because of naija women abroad men no dey buy house. Dem go rent till dem die

Reminds me of my 3-month relationship with Njideka . Was like an episode of *Game of Thrones*—minus the dragons, but with plenty of drama. A little war, a little adventure. Being my first relationship, I was out here trying to make it work, but I was also doing a PhD in jealousy and insecurity. Not because I didn’t trust her, but because, you know, I didn’t want another guy sampling my all-you-can-eat buffet.

One cold evening, I was walking back from my favorite football viewing center, dodging Oga Oke’s shop like a ninja because I still owed him for a beer I bought for my friend the night before. Just as I was about to give Mama Nkechi, the food vendor, a wave (bless her heart, her beans were like magic), I saw the love of my life, Njideka, holding hands with some random dude.

Now, I didn’t wait for an explanation. Nope. I unleashed a slap on her face with the confidence of a man who’d just conquered a kingdom. The guy took off faster than I could say "run," and Njideka stormed off in the opposite direction. Feeling like I’d just won a small war, I swaggered into my apartment, full of pride and misplaced victory.

Little did I know that her younger brother is a Soldier Yep, the one who had been fighting Boko Haram for five years. On getting to my apartment with Njideka , he beat me like I was a piñata at a birthday party. I guess he mistook me for Turji Bello or one of the bandits Sambisa . Bless the men in our compound who rescued me that night , bless my Caretaker whom I didn’t know was a retired soldier and thank God for giving me the opportunity to testify to this in person

My relationship with Njideka didn’t end that night , but I did learn how to control my anger that night

No tell them. Useless good for nothing prostitutes

See una life outside.

Beremx:
UK police are tired of Nigerian women and reporting.

Nigerian women in UK right now... Another dimension

what da fork?....

She makes sense

Trust Nigerians women to always want to abuse privileges

tiswell:
You think a woman is capable of love?


Dey play you hear

Make he dey play! Lol

Madam God bless you, my advice for any guy living abroad pls if you want to settle down marry oyibo woman forget all this 9ja babes they are all useless. Na manage we dey manage dem here

wait wheres this

Beremx:
UK police are tired of Nigerian women and reporting.

Nigerian women in UK right now... Another dimension

She makes sense. One can easily identify some of these troublesome new comers. Especially their smelly armpits. Wearing their care job uniforms on the streets as a show off, instead of putting them in their handbags after attending their shifts. Then, the loudly chewing gums. A bunch of irritants. Tell me about it!

Zonefree:
When they're approaching the "wall", they talk with sense hoping to attract and deceive gullible men.

God bless you bro.

Why are women avoiding this thread?

with time, many Nigerian men will stop bringing their women to UK

The way Nigerian women treat their maids and anyone working for them will tell you a lot about them. Majority of them are mean and wicked

the ones wey good nor reach 1%

advanceDNA:
They should hit the nail on the head and stop sugar coating it..... same thing happened in the US..
..the police told them straight up in to stop using the police to create false pattern of abuse against their husband that they will weaponize later to gain their husband's properties or government benefits...

so pathetic

It is important to study a woman’s traits before giving her the ring. From their utterances and reactions to simple tests, you will see the red flags already.
I had some girls in my life whom I could have married earlier but I saw the traces of this madness in them hiding behind those their beautiful faces and fake love. Thats why men are gifted with wisdom, use that wisdom to decipher the truth and unmask that pretty lady you want to make your wife.
As for me, it’s all going well and good with my own woman

Emmanuel900:
The truth is most of these women never love their husband in the first place.

They just settled for them because they have the fattest pocket and are able to fill the role of provider they need, so when they get to UK with more opportunities for women to make more money and empowerment, their husband become useless to them and they just want to bail out.

Bros, the bottomline is not if she loved you, the issue is never be in a position where your wife earns more than you, handles more responsibility. Oga once that happens, be her Mary magdaline or pastors daughter, her real colour will show. Let your wife pay school fees for once and see her tell people at work say na she de carry the whole responsibility for house. My guy that has been running his home, as he lost his job, wife paid rent and school fees, na so shege start. She went as far as kicking him out. He wanted to leave with his car, she seize key say na she get both cars now as the rent and school fees she paid pass the value of his car. She said na only him cloths be him property. Lol

Even my friend that married his wife since 6 years... Just 1 year in UK marriage scattered

datola:
Nigerians can misuse opportunity!

One man brought his wife and kids to Nigeria for a holiday, all on a one-way ticket. The following week, he traveled back without informing her, leaving her and the kids behind.

She found out later when he reached, though I can’t recall whether it was the United States or the UK.

The reason for this was that the wife was seriously abusing him and taking advantage of the western system to her benefit.

I think the story was on Nairaland too if I am not mistaken.

9ja women no go like this line oh... Truth is bitter sha.. bring dem back to 9ja

Truth! My friend's wife got warned by the police to stop calling them again for her husband... This was just few months ago....

She had called police for her husband like 4 times...

Any man who desires to bring his wife under his leadership and control in the home should not in any way consider taking his wife abroad for both to start living as husband and wife because the system of the west empowers the women to misbehave and work against the men.

Mek una wise up, Men

Emmanuel900:
The truth is most of these women never love their husband in the first place.

They just settled for them because they have the fattest pocket and are able to fill the role of provider they need, so when they get to UK with more opportunities for women to make more money and empowerment, their husband become useless to them and they just want to bail out.

It's not about that. It's the realization that western world gives women higher priorities over men. Women then abuse the system.

Sparrk007:
Madam God bless you, my advice for any guy living abroad pls if you want to settle down marry oyibo woman forget all this 9ja babes they are all useless. Na manage we dey manage dem here

Lol oyinbo no dey submissive

Don't follow woman with love or emotions. It makes her see you, the husband as a little boy whom she can control and not submit to.

richie240:
Wrong advice.
No need appealing to them, they'll never listen.

The right advice na to tell nigerian husbands to quit elevating their nigerian spouses from the village to uk.

A belligerent spouse in nigeria can never bcum a reasonable/submissive spouse in uk/us; it will only get worse.

Can a Nigerian woman take her husband to uk?
Abi na only Nigerian men Dey take wife to uk?

Okortor:
Nigerian women are very wicked and heartless...... Na man carry u go there but u went there and make his life a living hell .if he hadn't carried you there, you will claim he's wicked and prolly has a side chic or another wife over there.

Na only Nigerian men Dey carry wife go there?
Wife no Dey carry husband go there?

ukaface:

Na only Nigerian men Dey carry wife go there?
Wife no Dey carry husband go there?

After chasing your husband away just because you brought him to the UK, you then breed kids that are a threat to their own self and the society.