Emmanuel900:
The truth is most of these women never love their husband in the first place.

They just settled for them because they have the fattest pocket and are able to fill the role of provider they need, so when they get to UK with more opportunities for women to make more money and empowerment, their husband become useless to them and they just want to bail out.

Lalami3232:
My boss will always say "don't ever take your wife abroad". Now I see his reason for always advocating for people not to take their wives abroad.
Give some woman power and you go regret!!! The only woman that genuinely loves you irrespective of your flaws is your mother. Aside her, bro forget this campaign of "empower our women" oooooo. A woman wey you even train for school go tell you to your face say you're not her class tomorrow.
A woman was complaining of how she has been feeding her family since her husband fell sick for the past 3months. I just shook my head, I stood up and walked away. If you can come out and broadcast such a thing, only God know the shege wey the man go don receive for house.
Weather you like it or not, women are not meant to be leader. They're meant to train, raise and groom leaders.
What do I even know sef aside enlightening my fellow men nationwide with the good news

Oga if you no meet your wife as a virgin, oga go for DNA test oooooo and don't take her abroad.

condensedmilk:


After chasing your husband away just because you brought him to the UK, you then breed kids that are a threat to their own self and the society.

ukaface:

Can a Nigerian woman take her husband to uk?
Abi na only Nigerian men Dey take wife to uk?

ukaface:

First answer
Shey make women carry man go? Yes or no?

richie240:
Good point!
But btw u and me, compare d ratio of men taking their women to obodo oyibo to women doing so with their men!

43Ronin:
They never loved their husband's. The men were just a quick scheme to get out of poverty. When they reach abroad & both the men & the women realise they both need to work hard to make ends meet, it begins to pain the women. They now want to dissolve the marriage so that the man can work harder and send them more funds so that they can ball. Men you sef be wise. Put cctv codedly in ur house. Record when she assaults you and beats ur children like naija people do. I can bet you if you take a video recording to court of your wife beating your children, you will gain custody and she will work to also pay child support. Na because of naija women abroad men no dey buy house. Dem go rent till dem die

nedekid:

Bros, the bottomline is not if she loved you, the issue is never be in a position where your wife earns more than you, handles more responsibility. Oga once that happens, be her Mary magdaline or pastors daughter, her real colour will show. Let your wife pay school fees for once and see her tell people at work say na she de carry the whole responsibility for house. My guy that has been running his home, as he lost his job, wife paid rent and school fees, na so shege start. She went as far as kicking him out. He wanted to leave with his car, she seize key say na she get both cars now as the rent and school fees she paid pass the value of his car. She said na only him cloths be him property. Lol

ukaface:

Can a Nigerian woman take her husband to uk?
Abi na only Nigerian men Dey take wife to uk?

Calitoscassius:
Really? US police gave this advice?

Segzy19:
Truth! My friend's wife got warned by the police to stop calling them again for her husband... This was just few months ago....

She had called police for her husband like 4 times...

advanceDNA:
They should hit the nail on the head and stop sugar coating it..... same thing happened in the US..
..the police told them straight up in to stop using the police to create false pattern of abuse against their husband that they will weaponize later to gain their husband's properties or government benefits...

concho:
Reminds me of my 3-month relationship with Njideka . Was like an episode of *Game of Thrones*—minus the dragons, but with plenty of drama. A little war, a little adventure. Being my first relationship, I was out here trying to make it work, but I was also doing a PhD in jealousy and insecurity. Not because I didn’t trust her, but because, you know, I didn’t want another guy sampling my all-you-can-eat buffet.

One cold evening, I was walking back from my favorite football viewing center, dodging Oga Oke’s shop like a ninja because I still owed him for a beer I bought for my friend the night before. Just as I was about to give Mama Nkechi, the food vendor, a wave (bless her heart, her beans were like magic), I saw the love of my life, Njideka, holding hands with some random dude.

Now, I didn’t wait for an explanation. Nope. I unleashed a slap on her face with the confidence of a man who’d just conquered a kingdom. The guy took off faster than I could say "run," and Njideka stormed off in the opposite direction. Feeling like I’d just won a small war, I swaggered into my apartment, full of pride and misplaced victory.

Little did I know that her younger brother is a Soldier Yep, the one who had been fighting Boko Haram for five years. On getting to my apartment with Njideka , he beat me like I was a piñata at a birthday party. I guess he mistook me for Turji Bello or one of the bandits Sambisa . Bless the men in our compound who rescued me that night , bless my Caretaker whom I didn’t know was a retired soldier and thank God for giving me the opportunity to testify to this in person

My relationship with Njideka didn’t end that night , but I did learn how to control my anger that night

Calitoscassius:
Really? US police gave this advice?

nedekid:

Bros, the bottomline is not if she loved you, the issue is never be in a position where your wife earns more than you, handles more responsibility. Oga once that happens, be her Mary magdaline or pastors daughter, her real colour will show. Let your wife pay school fees for once and see her tell people at work say na she de carry the whole responsibility for house.
My guy that has been running his home, as he lost his job, wife paid rent and school fees, na so shege start. She went as far as kicking him out. He wanted to leave with his car, she seize key say na she get both cars now as the rent and school fees she paid pass the value of his car. She said na only him cloths be him property. Lol

advanceDNA:


Yes naaa...the police raised the issue through churches ...it was fvnny

idahme:



Look around you if you ever have anyone who traveled with family abroad 90% of the time it's the Nigerian men doing that but that doesn't mean Nigerian women aren't going abroad by themselves but bringing a man from Africa is like a war for them

1stGenAmerican:


Your friend is lying.

1stGenAmerican:


Never. Same with UK police—never.

advanceDNA:


Yes naaa...the police raised the issue through churches ...it was fvnny

holaruc:
The only solution to the problem is if U.K/US government can deport Nigerian Man and Woman from Thier country and ban them from returning after several reports, or granting divorce without sharing property 50/50 with that the women will calm down... But since any report makes the man at the loosing end they will continue to cause their husbands troubles so has to make man's life miserable

cococandy:

The police went to the church and told the pastor to want his congregation?

Please

advanceDNA:


Who is this one.....??

Beremx:
UK police are tired of Nigerian women and reporting.

Nigerian women in UK right now... Another dimension

1stGenAmerican:


Lies. UK police have spokespersons and can get on the news whenever they wish. They’d never waste time giving messages through churches. It’s the lying pastor’s way to keep toxic couples together so his offering can remain fat.

cococandy:


Tell us exactly what the police told your pastor.

What does who I am have to do with it?

advanceDNA:
They should hit the nail on the head and stop sugar coating it..... same thing happened in the US..
..the police told them straight up in to stop using the police to create false pattern of abuse against their husband that they will weaponize later to gain their husband's properties or government benefits...