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Re: UK Woman Urges Nigerian Wives: Stop Reporting Husbands To UK Police by advanceDNA: 4:27pm On Sep 09 |
IdeasYapayaski: Oga cal down naaaa...which one is die |
Re: UK Woman Urges Nigerian Wives: Stop Reporting Husbands To UK Police by 43Ronin: 4:30pm On Sep 09 |
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Re: UK Woman Urges Nigerian Wives: Stop Reporting Husbands To UK Police by descarado: 4:30pm On Sep 09 |
1stGenAmerican:Actually, it's true but I don't think it happened this year. It was a hot topic here once. I had to look for it as I watched the video then and contributed to the debate. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xysRT4AwZbk?si=UoAvWjY780IVpLor 1 Like |
Re: UK Woman Urges Nigerian Wives: Stop Reporting Husbands To UK Police by descarado: 4:34pm On Sep 09 |
That same time, met police were looking for yoruba speakers to join the police specifically for this. It was too much then. Little matters that can be handled by family we're always taken to the police where police has bigger cases to handle and it was like tagged wasting tax payers money on frivolities. Police looked for Nigerians who are fluent in yoruba in Peckham if I can remember. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: UK Woman Urges Nigerian Wives: Stop Reporting Husbands To UK Police by emmaodet: 4:34pm On Sep 09 |
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Re: UK Woman Urges Nigerian Wives: Stop Reporting Husbands To UK Police by 1stGenAmerican(f): 4:40pm On Sep 09 |
descarado: This is just a video recorded inside a church. If this man was really a police officer, I’m sure he was sacked very soon after he told this lie. This was done in church to fearmonger and keep the pastor’s offering fat. No police force in the universe would condone this because of the liability involved. 3 Likes |
Re: UK Woman Urges Nigerian Wives: Stop Reporting Husbands To UK Police by confydoedowaye(m): 4:45pm On Sep 09 |
Zonefree: Not gullible men ooo. Even the smartest of man can be deceived by a sweet, calm, loyal, respectful, and hardworking girl. You know what? |
Re: UK Woman Urges Nigerian Wives: Stop Reporting Husbands To UK Police by 1stGenAmerican(f): 4:47pm On Sep 09 |
bukatyne: No source that’s credible, only videos and word of mouth. Lies and fear mongering. 3 Likes |
Re: UK Woman Urges Nigerian Wives: Stop Reporting Husbands To UK Police by advanceDNA: 4:48pm On Sep 09 |
descarado: Oga why u dey explain...nor dey shàlàyè too much give woman....it's of nor use....they will still tag ur explaination as lies......once their gender starts doing shameful BS....they will always call it lies and bashing when they get called out.... Na saint them be....they don't ever do evil.... ![]() ![]() |
Re: UK Woman Urges Nigerian Wives: Stop Reporting Husbands To UK Police by descarado: 4:48pm On Sep 09 |
1stGenAmerican:Babe, rest. You don't know more than them and how they work. You looked for evidence which you got and now you are saying the man should be sacked. 2 Likes |
Re: UK Woman Urges Nigerian Wives: Stop Reporting Husbands To UK Police by descarado: 4:53pm On Sep 09 |
advanceDNA:I am not oga. I am a lady. I live in uk and yes our men can drive you mad but there are so many instances where our women run to the police for some stupid things you have in every family including the brits. The men are not helping matters at all and cos of freedom to finally complain to who will hear them out once, they tend to overdo it. That's the message the met police was passing across. 1 Like |
Re: UK Woman Urges Nigerian Wives: Stop Reporting Husbands To UK Police by 1stGenAmerican(f): 4:53pm On Sep 09 |
cococandy: That’s the gist of it, really. The men are accustomed to beating on women and ‘resetting their brains’ so instead of leaving that behavior behind in Nigeria, they bring it to the West with them. They want to bully and abuse their women while taking all of her earnings, trying to control the finances, wasting it on what he pleases. The women gets fed up and the next time he attempts a brain reset, she calls the police and he’s arrested and sometimes deported. The man then lies, saying how the woman kicked him out of his own house for no reason—-sometimes a house where he hasn’t paid a bill because he’s been busy forming big boy with his own money while she’s been paying the bills with hers. Same goes for children. They don’t correct, they abuse and commit horrendous acts on children, beating them like animals, then act shocked when they’re carted away to jail. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: UK Woman Urges Nigerian Wives: Stop Reporting Husbands To UK Police by 1stGenAmerican(f): 4:57pm On Sep 09 |
descarado: You showed me a video of a man talking in what looks like a church, that doesn’t count as evidence. But thanks anyway. 3 Likes |
Re: UK Woman Urges Nigerian Wives: Stop Reporting Husbands To UK Police by cococandy(f): 4:58pm On Sep 09 |
1stGenAmerican: Bingo 1 Like |
Re: UK Woman Urges Nigerian Wives: Stop Reporting Husbands To UK Police by advanceDNA: 5:01pm On Sep 09 |
descarado:So women cannot be oga?? Okay I take the oga back...sorry Me I am not even saying a woman shouldn't complain to the police as many times as she likes.... As long as it's not an attempt at creating false pattern of abuse to use against the man later.....because some women do it specifically for that... 1 Like |
Re: UK Woman Urges Nigerian Wives: Stop Reporting Husbands To UK Police by cococandy(f): 5:02pm On Sep 09 |
advanceDNA: The person you’re even quoting is a woman. Look at how misogyny makes you people act. Dishing blanket insult to anyone you perceive to be a woman. I’m sure if you knew she was a woman even though she was trying to corroborate what you were saying, you’d have still found a way to insult her ![]() 3 Likes |
Re: UK Woman Urges Nigerian Wives: Stop Reporting Husbands To UK Police by Emmanuel900(m): 5:04pm On Sep 09 |
nedekid: The crust of the issue is still because those women settled because they see the man as just a provider and that's what they value most from them, they didn't settle for them for other things like being handsome, honest, bold, strong etc so when the person they settled for because he can provide lose the ability to be able to provide, they will lose all respect for him and won't be able to cope with him. If these women are not getting married solely because the men can provide they won't quickly discard them when they lose that ability because that's not even why they settled for the men, what could make a woman like Rihanna settled for ASAP rocky or Nicki minaj settled for that her husband ? of course it was not because they can provide so if they are going to dump them it is never going to be because they are not providing. Poverty and bad economy in Nigeria has make being a provider the highest value a man can have in Nigeria so most Nigerian women just settled for the better provider they can get just to survive and when these men lose the ability to provide the women lost all interest and just can't cope with them. 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: UK Woman Urges Nigerian Wives: Stop Reporting Husbands To UK Police by Cousin9999: 5:07pm On Sep 09 |
Some of the men crying in here should stop to think about why these women switch up. It's not because "wOmEn DoN't LoVe aNyBoDy." It's because they were or felt so royally screwed over by the economy and society back home that they adopted a survival mentality, or they just became bitter. You blame them, but not the sexists. 3 Likes |
Re: UK Woman Urges Nigerian Wives: Stop Reporting Husbands To UK Police by advanceDNA: 5:09pm On Sep 09 |
cococandy: yawn!! Insult?? Misogyny.?? ......everything is insult and misogyny.. U called it lies...another person gave evidence yet .... u are all over the place still foaming in the mouth.....madam go and rest 1 Like |
Re: UK Woman Urges Nigerian Wives: Stop Reporting Husbands To UK Police by Calitoscassius(m): 5:09pm On Sep 09 |
advanceDNA:Very interesting. They must have had enough and fed up of Naigeerian women wasting their time. 1 Like |
Re: UK Woman Urges Nigerian Wives: Stop Reporting Husbands To UK Police by Calitoscassius(m): 5:12pm On Sep 09 |
1stGenAmerican:I wondered, that was why i asked, i mean, it doesn't matter how many times a female calls the UK police over a domestic violence or an abuse, they would still turn up. i don't know about the US though. 2 Likes |
Re: UK Woman Urges Nigerian Wives: Stop Reporting Husbands To UK Police by cococandy(f): 5:14pm On Sep 09 |
advanceDNA: 1) Yes you dished a blanket gender insult in your response to her not knowing she was a woman. You thought it was a man so he could join you in insulting women. 🙄 2) I’m sorry I said you were lying. My impression is that you were saying something you were told first hand not something you saw on the internet. My Apologies. Usually when I’m saying something, I distinguish how I got the information and that removes the burden of it being true or false from being my responsibility 3) I just saw that video and I’m pressed to believe there’s any police department in the world that would stand behind that statement seeing as a death from domestic violence in that district can be held against them for discouraging people from coming forward. I’m going to research when this happened and see what police department this is and if they actually sent this man to act on their behalf 5 Likes |
Re: UK Woman Urges Nigerian Wives: Stop Reporting Husbands To UK Police by cococandy(f): 5:15pm On Sep 09 |
Calitoscassius: Or male. At least in the USA. Police will definitely answer at any time whether male or female and no matter how many times. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: UK Woman Urges Nigerian Wives: Stop Reporting Husbands To UK Police by JovialJune(f): 5:23pm On Sep 09 |
Lol the advice is always for wives never for husbands, cause and effect, action and reaction, a woman wouldn't react irrationally to her husband if there wasn't provocation, simple common sense but no, it is always the women's fault Nigerian men have the hearsay of the law in Nigeria due to patriarchy, so they use it well at the detriment of wives, but because the west value women more due to equality, these men will capitalise on it and paint Nigerian women bad, they hate to get exactly what they dish out lol I keep saying it, if you want to continue to subjugate and dominate your wife with a touch of assault and violence unhindered, migrate to a country that supports such, don't migrate to the west and cry blue murder when served a dose of your medicine. 2 Likes |
Re: UK Woman Urges Nigerian Wives: Stop Reporting Husbands To UK Police by nedekid: 5:26pm On Sep 09 |
Mariangeles: From Google search: The proverb in Yoruba is: Bi omode laso bi agba, ko le lakisa bi agba. Literally interpreted as: No matter the clothes a child has, it can never match the old (used) clothes of the elderly. Meaning: no matter the experience garnered by the young, it can never match that of the elderly. 1 Like |
Re: UK Woman Urges Nigerian Wives: Stop Reporting Husbands To UK Police by BareFacedLies(m): 5:26pm On Sep 09 |
JovialJune: My offer is still on the table sugar, anytime you're ready I will fúck your brains out cos you really need it ![]() |
Re: UK Woman Urges Nigerian Wives: Stop Reporting Husbands To UK Police by JovialJune(f): 5:30pm On Sep 09 |
BareFacedLies: You should do well to check my previous comments to know that you can't stand a chance in a million years, Try mating an orangutan though, it will suit you perfectly. 1 Like |
Re: UK Woman Urges Nigerian Wives: Stop Reporting Husbands To UK Police by JovialJune(f): 5:35pm On Sep 09 |
Sparrk007: So with oyibo women, you'd be able to dominate them while they are submissive to you? What exactly will be different with oyibo women? |
Re: UK Woman Urges Nigerian Wives: Stop Reporting Husbands To UK Police by idahme(m): 5:36pm On Sep 09 |
43Ronin: Nice one, if u dull for abroad na sorry be your name oo no cap. Women when Dem want run u street na zero feelings Dem get I dey laugh people wey say women dey emotional ![]() 1 Like |
Re: UK Woman Urges Nigerian Wives: Stop Reporting Husbands To UK Police by idahme(m): 5:38pm On Sep 09 |
ukaface: Ur small mind tell u say na only nurses dey go abroad? How many nurses dey travel ? Na small number compared to those wey dey travel abroad if u like argue with ur fingers na u sabi |
Re: UK Woman Urges Nigerian Wives: Stop Reporting Husbands To UK Police by 1stGenAmerican(f): 5:38pm On Sep 09 |
Calitoscassius: Same. They have a legal and civic obligation to show up—it’s their job. They’d never advise women against calling them because if anything happened to a woman as a result, they’d be liable for her life. 2 Likes |
Re: UK Woman Urges Nigerian Wives: Stop Reporting Husbands To UK Police by advanceDNA: 5:39pm On Sep 09 |
cococandy:how is thinking shes a man and insult..? It's just an error .....My statement to her was to let her know further explanation is not needed....and I was right..someone else still tried to invalidate the video I have two separate videos about this issue but why would I bother myself trying to prove to strangers ...if strangers think I'm lying , well thats their kettle of fish cococandy:madam, apology not accepted.. ![]() ![]() ..everything is an insult, everything is misogyny once we mention ur genders BS,u think we are bashing ...madam its not my fault ur gender does alot of BS ooooo.....if I tell you children also create false pattern of reports against their parent, and more common a step parent they dont like you will still call me a liar... cococandy: Madam...situations in different locations call for different approach....that's why laws are differents in states even in same country..as high as statutory rápe is in the US...the consenting age in some states of United states was reduced to 16... Will u accuse the govt for trying to make statutory rápe increase? ... So just because there are domestic abuse now means the authorities cannot address a sinister pattern they have noticed..?? I mean, this is just small community awareness and u already feel they are silencing ur gender... Okay ooo. 1 Like |
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