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Re: 35 Is Not Too Late For Marriage by Drone95(m): 11:22pm On Nov 23
kingbee90:

It's either you are still a teenager or your body-count is not more than 7.
Guy,if you have actually bedded a good number of women regardless of their age bracket but not more than 49 yrs, you'll descover that some ladies of 35 have tighter and creamer pussies than some 19 yr Olds.
Age is not a yardstick for pussy measurement.
the vagina reaches it full maturity stage at 35.
Re: 35 Is Not Too Late For Marriage by naijapikin2(m): 11:22pm On Nov 23
The cycle doesn't suit women.

Omoh... The number of girls I dated that are still unmarried gives me the heeby geebies. Many of them are around that age range.

Chai



Korraf mercy.. (in calabar tongue)

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Re: 35 Is Not Too Late For Marriage by Offpoint1: 11:26pm On Nov 23
Merry100:

Which forefathers are you referring to? Are you talking about the ones who referred to people with sickle cell anemia as "Abiku"? We have advanced significantly beyond our forefathers, and our understanding has evolved.

Most women aged 35 and older have healthy pregnancies and give birth to healthy children; however, the risks associated with childbearing do increase significantly for women aged 40 and above. Fortunately, advancements in technology have enabled women to take proactive steps to ensure healthy pregnancies or to preserve their eggs for future use. This approach is a better option than unplanned pregnancies.

It is ideal to wait until you are capable of caring for children before having them. The welfare of children should always be a priority. In fact, the government needs to take steps to address the issue of irresponsible parenting, as this could even help reduce the crime rate in the country. Many children from low-income families face malnutrition; some live on the streets, and some are even introduced to crime at an early age as a means of survival. In sane societies, children have the right to a safe and healthy upbringing.
There's time for everything, don't start giving birth at the age you're supposed to be resting from birth... Or taking care of kids at the age you're supposed to rest, either as a man or a woman.

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Re: 35 Is Not Too Late For Marriage by OgogoroFreak(m): 11:28pm On Nov 23
35 no too late? Who is she going to marry, me?

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Re: 35 Is Not Too Late For Marriage by Noblemanonpoint: 11:29pm On Nov 23
Merry100:
I advise you to strive for your own financial independence as a woman. Even if you plan to marry a wealthy man, you may still face several disadvantages, as a man can be wealthy yet uncaring and stingy.


For a man, the age is,not bad, but not for a woman.
Don't lead people astray as women become prone to childbirth and fertility complications once they clock 30 years especially if that is their first time of trying to conceive.

Also at 35 years, most men wont even look at her to wife her anymore especially when younger girls will be available except she has some very distinct qualities that sets her apart.

Very very wrong advise, women should marry in their prime (23 - 26).

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Re: 35 Is Not Too Late For Marriage by HappyNigerian: 11:31pm On Nov 23
Akalia:
you are wrong about the part you said "tight pussy gone at 26. Women tastes different.
Take for example, my wife's pussy tastes better than that of my side chick's who happens to be just 21.
So why are you with your SC?

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Re: 35 Is Not Too Late For Marriage by DAramis: 11:33pm On Nov 23
ellizy:

Omo like say she never see children before..
Ans me knw dey like all this things get much better in marriage..
I can aggord to feed a family conveniently but there's more to marriage that the little I have at hand presently
Ohhh, I understand perfectly bro. Sometimes, you don't blame her if you are the only male child or you guys are two male in the family.

The family name is carried by the male lineage hence the probable pressure. And it is every mother's dream to hold the son's child in her own hand.

Anyway, no think am too much. Majority of male folks are also experiencing same pressure. Just that some are in higher level than others.

NB: If your mum is above 50years, I think she is worried she might not be young enough to guide you in looking after the grandchildren especially when they visit.... Hence the pressure to you to get the kids coming.

Early marriage is good especially with the right partner. Better to try and it didn't work out than not trying at all.

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Re: 35 Is Not Too Late For Marriage by Mrwhite09: 11:36pm On Nov 23
I,am 30 Years old, I am depressed cuz I am unmarried make Una help me get married

Make i drop my aza?

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Re: 35 Is Not Too Late For Marriage by DAramis: 11:36pm On Nov 23
HappyNigerian:
So why are you with your SC?
Valid question. Also open to learning from him. I have always assumed most men keep side chick if pussy is denied to them; or the partner is a nagging wife or the slackness of the pussy due to child birth.

But him stating otherwise getting me scratching my head to find the valid reason he is doing it. cry
Re: 35 Is Not Too Late For Marriage by Godsonkemz(m): 11:39pm On Nov 23
I respect financially independent women but their problem is pride and arrogance and they feel that everything could be purchased by money because they control wealth.

Even as a wealthy man, you can purchase as many women as you desire but not love. Even the richer you get, the harder it gets to find real love, not Owerri woman love.

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Re: 35 Is Not Too Late For Marriage by HappyNigerian: 11:53pm On Nov 23
35+ can be challenging for both genders.

For the men, they usually go for ladies in their 20s, the challenge is that those in their early 20s do not desire them (except they are of high status), a lot of those in the mid 20s are either in serious relationship or hoeing. Only a few percent of wife material in their mid and late 20s and desperate 30s (most of whom they don't find attractive) are literally available to them.

For the women, their case is worse. Men in their age bracket are either married or in the process or looking for wife material of 20s. They are however limited to a very minuscule unmarried men of late 30s and 40s. Their other saving grace are men in their 50s that desire second or third wife.

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Re: 35 Is Not Too Late For Marriage by 12345baba(m): 11:55pm On Nov 23
Nonsense write up. Fibroid never deal with you.

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Re: 35 Is Not Too Late For Marriage by kay29000(m): 11:58pm On Nov 23
Tallesty1:
I doubt there’s any 35-year-old who hasn’t met someone who genuinely wanted them at some point.

For men, it’s often during a phase when you’re broke or still in school. These women truly cared, but you weren’t ready. Sometimes they moved on and married someone else because you didn’t value them or acted like an asshole.

For women, it’s usually about having unrealistic standards when they were younger, breaking up over trivial reasons, or friend-zoning the ones who genuinely cared for them.

Majority has at least that one relationship they wish they didn't mess up.

This is so true. I always try to ask girls that are unmarried in their late 30s what happened, and most admit what you just said.

"For women, it’s usually about having unrealistic standards when they were younger, breaking up over trivial reasons, or friend-zoning the ones who genuinely cared for them."

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Re: 35 Is Not Too Late For Marriage by kay29000(m): 12:07am On Nov 24
Padipadi:

Avoid poverty first before thinking of age!
Gather financial security to a comfortable and realistic stage.
It's senselèss to marry in penury. That's what most people worldwide do. Marrying with little resources and rasing kids in hardship. If you don't have multiple birth, poor families have no reason to have 3, 5, 6, 7 kids. Suffer dey sweet una ni?
No award in who sabi born pass naa?

LMAO!
Re: 35 Is Not Too Late For Marriage by kay29000(m): 12:08am On Nov 24
naijapikin2:
The cycle doesn't suit women.

Omoh... The number of girls I dated that are still unmarried gives me the heeby geebies. Many of them are around that age range.

Chai



Korraf mercy.. (in calabar tongue)


grin cheesy grin

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Re: 35 Is Not Too Late For Marriage by CorrectionFLuid: 12:09am On Nov 24
AngelicDamsel:
Advice don too plenty nowadays

Everybody wants everybody to be like them to feel better. Meanwhile,

Interrogation don end naa. Nawa for you o
Re: 35 Is Not Too Late For Marriage by ellizy(m): 12:10am On Nov 24
DAramis:

Ohhh, I understand perfectly bro. Sometimes, you don't blame her if you are the only male child or you guys are two male in the family.

The family name is carried by the male lineage hence the probable pressure. And it is every mother's dream to hold the son's child in her own hand.

Anyway, no think am too much. Majority of male folks are also experiencing same pressure. Just that some are in higher level than others.

NB: If your mum is above 50years, I think she is worried she might not be young enough to guide you in looking after the grandchildren especially when they visit.... Hence the pressure to you to get the kids coming.

Early marriage is good especially with the right partner. Better to try and it didn't work out than not trying at all.
It must work brother, I'm at one of the most confused stage of my life but above all odds I remain focused because I know what I want. The rate at wish woman surrounds me now has never never been all my life. As I write to you, there's one by my side, there's one I'm texting right now booking a space for tomorrow but bro knw be them I want...

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Re: 35 Is Not Too Late For Marriage by Yankee101: 12:11am On Nov 24
Hold yourself from premarital sex
With no abortions and contraceptives messing up your system you have a better chance of getting pregnant later in life


Contraceptive and abortions can give you multiple of of cycle menstruations and the more you have them the more eggs you shed. Remember you have a fixed number, about 4000 as an adult female. Conserve them well and use them well. Wasting them will mean less and less available down the road when you need them. STDs can scar your insides and bring about early menopause.

Also not just promiscuity, avoid stress. They too can make you see up to 2 cycles per month and that’s bad as you’re losing your eggs faster

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Re: 35 Is Not Too Late For Marriage by histemple: 12:20am On Nov 24
Ordinarily, this advice appear harmless on the surface. However, the major challenge with women of 35 years and above is that their options are very limited.

Let me elaborate. Women naturally want to marry an older man and it's difficult to find a CAPABLE man of 38 and above who isn't already committed or even married.

You will usually find that a greater percentage of men in that age bracket are engaged, married, separated, divorced or widowed. So, how many never-married-before ladies fancy getting married to a man already with children?

Now do this!

Look around your area and check how many men of 38 and above that are available and capable.

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Re: 35 Is Not Too Late For Marriage by Lonestar124: 12:27am On Nov 24
12345baba:
Nonsense write up. Fibroid never deal with you.
I swear my brother, the other one was claiming to be nurse but he know nothing.

Some people and ignorance ehh
Re: 35 Is Not Too Late For Marriage by DAramis: 12:42am On Nov 24
ellizy:

It must work brother, I'm at one of the most confused stage of my life but above all odds I remain focused because I know what I want. The rate at wish woman surrounds me now has never never been all my life. As I write to you, there's one by my side, there's one I'm texting right now booking a space for tomorrow but bro knw be them I want...
Sure bro. There is an advice which have gotten repeatedly said but which most people never applied. It is Make sure the woman you are seeing loves you more than you do.

Relationship is not easy. It fails or some of these ladies are only interested in answering Mrs knowing age is fast leaving them on the fast lane.

Anyway, I also prays it works out better for you.
Re: 35 Is Not Too Late For Marriage by cheras1: 12:55am On Nov 24
If you like go marry because pussy sweet

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Re: 35 Is Not Too Late For Marriage by ellizy(m): 1:03am On Nov 24
DAramis:

Sure bro. There is an advice which have gotten repeatedly said but which most people never applied. It is Make sure the woman you are seeing loves you more than you do.



Anyway, I also prays it works out better for you.
Amen
You're a wonderful brother
Let extend our friendship
Zero703four8five87one9

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Re: 35 Is Not Too Late For Marriage by Franzinni: 1:13am On Nov 24
Super33999:
If as a woman you don't have a partner at 34 or 35, just know it's important you have a good job.
You'll make a good sugar mummy if you have a good job.
Obviously, the primary reason men settle down with women is because of sex and the moment you are 26, for a woman, that tight pussyyyy sexual flavour is gone

Its important you use your time wisely
men settle down with women to build a home and raise a family not sex .... I won't be surprised you are not yet married based off your comment.

Op is advising women but secretly she is consoling her old self . At 35 woman is useless to a man, she is definitely going to be a bag of red flags, with Daddy issues, mental problems and hyper masculinity. I mean why else would she not be able to attract a husband when she was useful to humanity ...? At 35 she is a man already.

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Re: 35 Is Not Too Late For Marriage by Chukwudi4naija(m): 1:20am On Nov 24
kingbee90:

It's either you are still a teenager or your body-count is not more than 7.
Guy,if you have actually bedded a good number of women regardless of their age bracket but not more than 49 yrs, you'll descover that some ladies of 35 have tighter and creamer pussies than some 19 yr Olds.
Age is not a yardstick for pussy measurement.
That tight pussy is due to lack of enough water down there. The younger the juicier. Don't be deceived.

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Re: 35 Is Not Too Late For Marriage by chatinent: 2:00am On Nov 24
The court of public opinion should not matter in your life. You are free to marry whenever you wish.

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Re: 35 Is Not Too Late For Marriage by InvertedHammer: 2:02am On Nov 24
Merry100:
I advise you to strive for your own financial independence as a woman. Even if you plan to marry a wealthy man, you may still face several disadvantages, as a man can be wealthy yet uncaring and stingy.

Here are a few steps to take:

1. Avoid all forms of distractions during your youth; success should be your only goal. In fact, don't start dating until you are twenty-four or twenty-five, unless you achieve success before then.

2. Either remain celibate or use very effective contraceptives to avoid pregnancy. No matter what you do, try as much as possible to prevent unplanned pregnancies.

3. Don’t allow anyone to pressure you; wait until you are established and successful enough to get married.

Here are a few disadvantages of rushing into marriage as a woman:

1. While you should be comfortably managing your responsibilities, you will end up viewing them as burdens.

2. Your children will not receive the best care.

3. Your husband might perceive you as a burden.
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It is not too late...but for most women it is.

Why take the gamble of bearing a child with some disorder?

Outside of medical conditions, any woman who chooses not to have kids is living a wasted life.
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Re: 35 Is Not Too Late For Marriage by meobizy(f): 2:02am On Nov 24
Women marry at 39, 50 and even 70. It’s not by force to marry or birth children, however many will experience one or both in their lifetime. Oprah who claimed she’s too broken for marriage has a live-in partner. You may plan to live solo in life. Many will see you as their soulmate and force you into their existence.

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Re: 35 Is Not Too Late For Marriage by luminouz(m): 2:07am On Nov 24
Merry100:

Which forefathers are you referring to? Are you talking about the ones who referred to people with sickle cell anemia as "Abiku"? We have advanced significantly beyond our forefathers, and our understanding has evolved.

Most women aged 35 and older have healthy pregnancies and give birth to healthy children; however, the risks associated with childbearing do increase significantly for women aged 40 and above. Fortunately, advancements in technology have enabled women to take proactive steps to ensure healthy pregnancies or to preserve their eggs for future use. This approach is a better option than unplanned pregnancies.

It is ideal to wait until you are capable of caring for children before having them. The welfare of children should always be a priority. In fact, the government needs to take steps to address the issue of irresponsible parenting, as this could even help reduce the crime rate in the country. Many children from low-income families face malnutrition; some live on the streets, and some are even introduced to crime at an early age as a means of survival. In sane societies, children have the right to a safe and healthy upbringing.
I stopped reading at 'most women overage 35 bear healthy children'... According to what statistics? Are you sure you know what you are saying? The risk increased significantly at 30 and by 35, few women give birth to normal kids.

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Re: 35 Is Not Too Late For Marriage by Suicideboy: 2:23am On Nov 24
I'll never marry

Instead I'll donate my cum to many feminazis, lesbos and married women with cvcked hubbys grin
Re: 35 Is Not Too Late For Marriage by LordIsaac(m): 2:35am On Nov 24
DAramis:

Valid question. Also open to learning from him. I have always assumed most men keep side chick if pussy is denied to them; or the partner is a nagging wife or the slackness of the pussy due to child birth.

But him stating otherwise getting me scratching my head to find the valid reason he is doing it. cry

Spice...variety....boredom....

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Re: 35 Is Not Too Late For Marriage by Miramonica: 2:45am On Nov 24
I cannot even marry a 35 year old woman, either knowingly or unknowingly, consciously or unconsciously.

A woman nearing menopause.

When 18 to 25 litter everywhere like sand. Nawa oo, eh get some kind thing guy man like me no fit do

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