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Re: Marrying A Circumcised Woman by omoharry(f): 8:34pm On Jan 08

My cousin was circumcise due to her promiscuity,this was in the late 80s. Omo after the circumcision ceremony ,we think sey na the end of men for her - Omo ,the thing no work on her at all!
Na so she kon even enter gear 3 from gear 1 for men matter. She ended up getting pregnant outside wedlock and the man had to marry her becos of that but the marriage did last becos she cheated on him .
To cut story short , I heard she ended up in Italy and has been there since 2003. Her pekin dey with her mother . That is it .
Some ladies are just gifted with that thing called sexual urge and circumcision does not cure it

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Re: Marrying A Circumcised Woman by okeke6969: 8:36pm On Jan 08

brain54:

Personally to me...

A virgin at 30 with the circumstances you mentioned is already a warning bell.

Is the virginity so important to you to carry out a medical check?

My own is be careful not to go for a person that would frustrate you in the other room o!

Circumcised women don't crave for intimacy much.
In the olden day, they said it reduces promiscuousness.
If a female is circumcised, her vaginity still remains intact.
It is the cap on that area they pee with is been cut off.

Re: Marrying A Circumcised Woman by Samantha125(f): 8:38pm On Jan 08

Next thing when she starts suffering from low sex drive and having complications conceiving, you guys will start blame her...🤦🤦🤦

Ishilove:

It is cultural. Where I come from a woman is circumcised once she gets married

Re: Marrying A Circumcised Woman by Diamond23(f): 8:44pm On Jan 08

brain54:
Not meaning to discourage you...

But it could lead to complications and difficulty during child birth.

Also painful intercourse and disinterest/lack of pleasure in sex totally.

But don't let this discourage you o. If you love your woman go ahead. Even some women that aren't circumcised still experience what I stated.

And she might not experience any of it. Nothing in life is certain.

But test run... Or at least talk to her concerning her reaction towards sex. Has she had sex, and does she enjoy it? Ask questions like that.

That's if you believe in no sex before marriage.

Sexual compatibility is equally important in marriage!

Not to argue with you but your first line is lies from the pit of hell lipsrsealed

Re: Marrying A Circumcised Woman by okeke6969: 8:45pm On Jan 08

Myrepublic:
Are you circumcised? It's not you just being woman. A circumcised lady does feel sex,the way uncircumcised will feel it.

Op one advantage about that type is that ,they don't cheat easily, because she no really first dey enjoy the thing. Except na poverty make her go cheat.

Complications during child birth,not sure about that. But I heard of some in Delta State,when get children.

The major advantage is that slowness to sexual arousal or feelings. You go pre-intimacy tire

All my sisters and my female cousins born in 60s and 70s were ignorantly circumcised, but as God would have it. They all gave birth to plenty children.
Circumcisions has nothing to do with child birth complications.

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Re: Marrying A Circumcised Woman by okeke6969: 8:45pm On Jan 08

Myrepublic:
Are you circumcised? It's not you just being woman. A circumcised lady does feel sex,the way uncircumcised will feel it.

Op one advantage about that type is that ,they don't cheat easily, because she no really first dey enjoy the thing. Except na poverty make her go cheat.

Complications during child birth,not sure about that. But I heard of some in Delta State,when get children.

The major advantage is that slowness to sexual arousal or feelings. You go pre-intimacy tire

All my sisters and my female cousins born in the 60s and 70s were ignorantly circumcised, but as God would have it. They all gave birth to plenty children.
Circumcisions has nothing to do with child birth complications.

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Re: Marrying A Circumcised Woman by Dancebreaker: 8:56pm On Jan 08

ipex:
Virginity isn't a big deal to me but what if she's lying. Hence my resolve to check

Look, some women can lie any how. They will "consent" to anything to get married.
Story can change later.

Hope you won't hear that "riding bicycle or sports broke the rubber".

They use many formats and add crying to look innocent.

Do your checks well.

I don see am before.

Re: Marrying A Circumcised Woman by Real2088: 9:16pm On Jan 08

No be una go dey shout for this forum women this women that,like una no dey near them, where una come dey see all these ones to Bleep/date, Nigerian men now rant pass generator machine

Re: Marrying A Circumcised Woman by DisLifeSha: 9:17pm On Jan 08

She can never enjoy sex

ipex:
Is it advisable to marry a woman who is circumcised?
I need an advice please?

Re: Marrying A Circumcised Woman by fxexperts: 9:28pm On Jan 08

Myrepublic:
Are you circumcised? It's not you just being woman. A circumcised lady does feel sex,the way uncircumcised will feel it.

Op one advantage about that type is that ,they don't cheat easily, because she no really first dey enjoy the thing. Except na poverty make her go cheat.

Complications during child birth,not sure about that. But I heard of some in Delta State,when get children.

The major advantage is that slowness to sexual arousal or feelings. You go pre-intimacy tire

They don't feel any sexual pleasure depending on what was taken from them some had full cut of the clitoris why some had just a trim which is partial cut, now imagine someone cut the muscle that make your penis to erect how will you feel sexual pleasure, majority of the people commenting here knows nothing about female circumsicion.

Re: Marrying A Circumcised Woman by fxexperts: 9:36pm On Jan 08

GeneralPula:
I’ve knacked a couple circumcised girls back in the days and 2 among those girls are not even Nigerians! They’re always very very sweet in bed and their kitten dey everly tight. To enjoy sex with them & to make them enjoy sex, you must be experienced sexually yourself as a guy!

Now, to answer your question… Yes, you can marry her but before getting married to her, give her belle first! And after she don get belle, meet with a professional midwife or obstetrician. They’ll take care of her and let you know the best way for her to deliver!

That’s all. It’s not much of a big deal!

Oga you have not knacked a fully circumcised before in your life, those ladies lied to you full-time. the purpose of the circumcision in the first instance is to make them not desire sex by cutting the clitoris. a lot of our mothers who taught they were circusiced were never circumcised they paid for the circusicion exercise to be faked, I have a lot of auties who did it they were the ones who paid the midwife whatever not to circumsiced them but to lie to their parents that they were circumcised, even the ones that were actually circuscised they do not have any complication during child delivery as a matter of fact they use to give birth to 11-15 children and they always deliver like the hebrew women of old. they are even more fertile than girls who were never circumsied. but female circumsicion is a very bad thing to do. infact it is a crime.

Re: Marrying A Circumcised Woman by fxexperts: 9:39pm On Jan 08

brain54:

Don't just argue for the sake of argument...

Read the link I posted above from WHO.

You saying they find sex pleasurable beats the purpose for which they were circumcised in the first place. Although, Alot is determined by the extent of what was taken. Which differs according to culture.

How can someone get wet when you are even boring them with what you think you are doing?

Dontt mind that guy.

Factcheck0001:
bro

The best advice to give is to avoid circumcized women, they dont like sex n they see it as a task rather than enjoyment

No matter how lit your pre-intimacy game is, once u stroke it in they lose interest n start asking u when u will cum or they start telling u "he never do"

Marrying a circumcized woman will frustrate a man sexually n no matter how well u love them your sex life will always b messed up n u will b forced to seek solace elsewhere

At op, let her go n move on

I dated 2 then n I had to find my way cos d sex life was frustrating, imagine having sex with someone n she's making u feel like u are hurting her

It is really frustrating unless you want a wife who will be totally faithful to you and you can keep side chicks to give you pleasure

Re: Marrying A Circumcised Woman by Osanoghodua1: 9:41pm On Jan 08

Stupid post. In the 19ties, you will be beaten and stripes.

Re: Marrying A Circumcised Woman by fxexperts: 9:47pm On Jan 08

omoharry:
My cousin was circumcise due to her promiscuity,this was in the late 80s. Omo after the circumcision ceremony ,we think sey na the end of men for her - Omo ,the thing no work on her at all!
Na so she kon even enter gear 3 from gear 1 for men matter. She ended up getting pregnant outside wedlock and the man had to marry her becos of that but the marriage did last becos she cheated on him .
To cut story short , I heard she ended up in Italy and has been there since 2003. Her pekin dey with her mother . That is it .
Some ladies are just gifted with that thing called sexual urge and circumcision does not cure it

Your cousin played a fast one on all of you and her parents, she was never circumsized, who followed her into the maids room to confirm her clitoris was actually removed, she probably bribed the maid that was supposed to circumcise her, two of my aunties did same when they were teenagers they were circumsied but they are still promiscuous and one of them later opened up on the secret. know this now.

Re: Marrying A Circumcised Woman by Nnamdipapa(m): 9:49pm On Jan 08

I honestly do not understand why people think genital mutilation is a cure for female promiscuity. Some of the elders nor get sense at all reason I don't take everything coming from them.

Re: Marrying A Circumcised Woman by DaddyGngeess(m): 9:50pm On Jan 08

99% of our mothers were circumcised, even you asking this question ur mum too, girls from 70s 80s 90s, also, we started learning the bad effects of it from 2000 or late 90s, these ones are mentioned here have they not been living their lives happily? Any small thing una go people bring amnto social medial, there is no manual for living life oo, everyone with his or her own problems solve it the best way you can.

Re: Marrying A Circumcised Woman by IyanAtiEgusi: 9:53pm On Jan 08

omoharry:
My cousin was circumcise due to her promiscuity,this was in the late 80s. Omo after the circumcision ceremony ,we think sey na the end of men for her - Omo ,the thing no work on her at all!
Na so she kon even enter gear 3 from gear 1 for men matter. She ended up getting pregnant outside wedlock and the man had to marry her becos of that but the marriage did last becos she cheated on him .
To cut story short , I heard she ended up in Italy and has been there since 2003. Her pekin dey with her mother . That is it .
Some ladies are just gifted with that thing called sexual urge and circumcision does not cure it

do u have other relations between d age of 18 and 25 that are like her?
I can also manage oldies not more than 35 cool

I have some new bedmatic skills i need to practice on wild free and willing female beings of dis kind cool

Re: Marrying A Circumcised Woman by Myrepublic(m): 9:54pm On Jan 08

fxexperts:
They don't feel any sexual pleasure depending on what was taken from them some had full cut of the clitoris why some had just a trim which is partial cut, now imagine someone cut the muscle that make your penis to erect how will you feel sexual pleasure, majority of the people commenting here knows nothing about female circumsicion.

Well,I personally don't subscribe to such. I am happy they no longer practice the act

Re: Marrying A Circumcised Woman by Segzy19: 9:59pm On Jan 08

Don't ask for advice here.

Both of you should go to a certified O&G consultant ...

Re: Marrying A Circumcised Woman by Bimpe29: 10:09pm On Jan 08

What about it?

Re: Marrying A Circumcised Woman by Kidoi123: 10:11pm On Jan 08

Factcheck0001:
in those days our forefathers cover everything up by marrying many wives so as to swing n balance but if u plan to marry one wife n b faithful, bro a circumcized lady is a "NO" for me

Many commenting knows little about it, just like a poster said above. D only advantage is that she might not cheat cos she doesn't see any big deal about sex

just give them enough pre-intimacy and watch them swing into action.

Re: Marrying A Circumcised Woman by Kidoi123: 10:13pm On Jan 08

Factcheck0001:
in those days our forefathers cover everything up by marrying many wives so as to swing n balance but if u plan to marry one wife n b faithful, bro a circumcized lady is a "NO" for me

Many commenting knows little about it, just like a poster said above. D only advantage is that she might not cheat cos she doesn't see any big deal about sex

Give them enough pre-intimacy and watch them swing into action

Re: Marrying A Circumcised Woman by CaptainGo: 10:35pm On Jan 08

Factcheck0001:
bro

The best advice to give is to avoid circumcized women, they dont like sex n they see it as a task rather than enjoyment

No matter how lit your pre-intimacy game is, once u stroke it in they lose interest n start asking u when u will cum or they start telling u "he never do"

Marrying a circumcized woman will frustrate a man sexually n no matter how well u love them your sex life will always b messed up n u will b forced to seek solace elsewhere

At op, let her go n move on

I dated 2 then n I had to find my way cos d sex life was frustrating, imagine having sex with someone n she's making u feel like u are hurting her

Congrats on dating 2.

I dated 4.

3 of the 4 really loved sex. They got wet easily and were willing to do it anytime.

Only 1 of the 4 was a bit indifferent about sex. She did it mostly to please. And there was a little trick to getting her to orgasm, it did not require penetration.

So, your advice may not be a good one.

Re: Marrying A Circumcised Woman by Eriokanmi: 10:54pm On Jan 08

Samantha125:
That's why I'm saying that if you guys have issues with western culture influencing your people in a very bad way, then give up everything that has to do with it.

I'm also very sure that back in the days when women were being circumcised, men would also wait until they're married to have sex since there wasn't any promiscuous woman back them.

Oh well, the choice is all theirs/yours. Pilfer the whole stuff and pick whichever is considered useful and discard the rest. 60% of my course mates were wearing studs (earrings) back in the days in the US. I didn't join them. I got a job offer with wellsfargo as a graduate trainee alongside 3 of my mates. 1 girl and 2 boys. We met on the interview date. I and the lady were eventually selected while the 2 other guys weren't. They performed very well but due to work ethics, they were dropped. A lady with a pierced nose and visible tatto or either of the 2 can't work with them,likewise a guy with tattoo and ear piercings. Their staff are their identity and image, according to them.

If you feel lesbianism or gay is good for you, go ahead, its part of the western culture but alien to ours. Like you said, men could wait until marriage before sex. No unnecessary or strange urge on the part of women cos of circumcision.Nowadays, you hardly see a 20-year old virgin. But I knew you were being ironic about this by saying none was promiscuous among ladies back then. There were, but say, 1 out of 10 and a lot of factors were responsible. Upbringing and wayward lifestyle were a great factor. Today,it's a commonplace. Most ladies were a call away. Divorce and feminism are common in the west. Now that we're copying them, it's come to stay amongst us. Divorce was like a taboo back then and women hardly died in marriages too. Men saw ladies as jewels but today, they beat wives to stupor. All these used to be alien to us. We pampered our wives and they also wouldn't exceed their boundaries.

All these cultural values helped shape our lives as a people and family. In America, it's so common to see single mothers around you. They got pregnant as early as 17years of age and would have had kids for different men by the time they're 25. We're having them in Nigeria nowadays too. Go on tiktok and you'd see a handful of them. It's risky to copy them verbatim just because we want to westernise. That's why I love Chinese and Indians. They take along their cultural heritage wherever they go.They all teach their children born overseas their culture and language.Hardly would you link any scandals or crime to them as they do, Nigerians and other africans.

Re: Marrying A Circumcised Woman by kessler53(m): 10:59pm On Jan 08

Samantha125:
Why would women get circumcised in the first place?🤔🤔🤔

some people do it in order to reduce the woman sexual drive

Re: Marrying A Circumcised Woman by kessler53(m): 11:13pm On Jan 08

ipex:
She confided in me last night that she is circumcised. I don't know the resultant effect of marrying such person.

How I wish I can meet you in person so that you know what I saying is the truth,but I will still tell you what I discover about women that have been circumcised,the aim is to reduce the woman sexual drive,i.e to make her not to desire sex too much,but I have a friend who has circumcised his three daughters but they still have a bit high libido,cause the first luckily married before becoming pregnant, but the second got pregnant in her father's house,while the last one is here freely flowing with boys. So to me if you want to marry her you can go ahead as the circumcision will not stop her from giving birth, and if they circumcised her properly her chances of remaining faithful to you after marriage is high.

Re: Marrying A Circumcised Woman by Nnamdipapa(m): 11:15pm On Jan 08

omoharry:
My cousin was circumcise due to her promiscuity,this was in the late 80s. Omo after the circumcision ceremony ,we think sey na the end of men for her - Omo ,the thing no work on her at all!
Na so she kon even enter gear 3 from gear 1 for men matter. She ended up getting pregnant outside wedlock and the man had to marry her becos of that but the marriage did last becos she cheated on him .
To cut story short , I heard she ended up in Italy and has been there since 2003. Her pekin dey with her mother . That is it .
Some ladies are just gifted with that thing called sexual urge and circumcision does not cure it

Why would an adult willingly subject herself to such nan-sense?

Re: Marrying A Circumcised Woman by Ubdavis(m): 11:17pm On Jan 08

Samantha125:
Why would women get circumcised in the first place?🤔🤔🤔

It's not out of place. Still happening today

Re: Marrying A Circumcised Woman by Wettoid123: 11:26pm On Jan 08

Okonsbecky:

They never get orgasm and sex is painful and irritating.

Guess u are a female, our mothers were all circumcised but you see the generation of women we have today most of them are not circumcised, believe me they enjoy sex more.

Re: Marrying A Circumcised Woman by Cruzmaster: 11:37pm On Jan 08

My girl is circumcised and feel pain during sex. Na ass we dey run am cheesy

Re: Marrying A Circumcised Woman by firstolalekan(m): 11:44pm On Jan 08

Samantha125:
Why would women get circumcised in the first place?🤔🤔🤔

It's okay for men to get circumcised but not okay women to get it.
Make it make sense
Who makes all these rules?

Re: Marrying A Circumcised Woman by MrCuteAndLoaded: 11:48pm On Jan 08

dkidd:

You sayyy ?!

A circumcised woman is only different from the uncircumcised when it comes to getting orgasms quickly. While one does so easily the other one takes a lot of work. No low sex drive or anything e be like na them like knacking pass sef just that they don't reach their peak easily unlike the uncircumcised females.
Abeg give me her number in case U want run.

I beg to differ ...
I'm currently dating one and she's 33, I notice she does not like sex until I initiate it. The worse part is that she talks like normal during slow love making except when I fire am hard where she give a low moan.

Aside from the look of it which turns me off, know for sure that the privilege to lick plate will no more be there since the clit is gone but the feel will be normal for you the guy.

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