@poster, 1stly;ar yu in skool
2ndly;can yu call yurself a man
3rdly;where una meet nd where una dey catch fun
4thly;where yu xpecting d relationship to last 4eva
5;wot xactly do yu want her friendship out of r/ship for


dis nd lots yu need ask yur sef, cos dtruth is d answer lies only in yu!
so man;help yur self nd blow on with life so yu wont get blown away!

very simple, move on with ur life.

HINT HINT, "she smiles nd says HI", meaning shes not intrested im a girl nd i wnt do stuff like dat BUT some girls r idiots man, they take take take nd follow d next big thing, u gotta move on im sure it wnt be easy but forget her man,

Your situation is so touchy that I have to jump in,which I rarely do.Getting over someone you love is probably one of the most difficult things a human can do.I had a similar experience in my college days with a very pretty girl before I moved to states.She really wanted to move on because I was probably not her type,due to some financial difficulties at the time.It really doesn't look good when you begin to see the person you love in company of "friends".That was the warning sign for me but I ignored it.Well,she moved on and I was a wreck! I couldn't really function and I prayed day and night for her to come back but she didn't.When she failed to come back,I concluded that she wasn't meant for me and moved on.I began to focus on a lot of positive things and eventually found myself in the states.The irony of the whole thing is that she eventually got married five years before I did,and I have changed my phone number about three times due the number of calls I have received from her.She still call to tell me how much of a fool she was for passing the love of her life by.She cries and tries to remember the good old days and how her husband is really not the love of her life and stuffs like that.The most touchy but kind of sad thing is that she named one of her sons after me,and still write and cry everyday she managed to hear from me.
   Part Two.There is a pleasure in being mad,of which only the mad man knows.A friend said that to me about twenty years ago I think it makes sense to me.You are the only one who knows what you are missing in that girl and there's nothing we can tell you that could open your eyes.You have the shoes on,and you know exactly where it hurts the most.Everything you have managed to focus on crumbles the moment you set your eyes on her and I bet that's what is going on with you.It is hard to let go,but this is time to do just that.She wins when she feels that you still miss her.It could be that you loved her more than you really needed to do and you must learn your lesson, if I am correct or you will be a sore loser all your life.
We have all spent a great deal of time trying to aid you in this sad process,called moving on.Gather yourself together,soothe yourself with the fond memories both of you had together and let her and the feelings you had for her go.It becomes an obsession if you fail to move on after all these assistance to do just that from us and this may make some us to conclude sadly that the problem may be identified with you and not her.You must move on and focus on greater things.She may or may not miss you as much as you would want her to do and that's a lesson we all learn at one point or the other.
  Finally,take it easy and know that onto every man is given two options, secure or destroy your path.
   Best Wishes.

Omo Chairman move on with uer life. i know it hurts but something that us not meant for u nomattter how hard u try to get it u will neva succed. U dont look back when driving a car els u have an accident. If u get into another relationship dont think of lookn at the past cos that will really mess u up . I will say that u get another gurl that is beta than her in "EVERY" and that will make her know that u worth more than her

@ufobabe

frustratingly irritable. CHINEKE, this one pass cambridge o o,

mr pee:

Your situation is so touchy that I have to jump in,which I rarely do.Getting over someone you love is probably one of the most difficult things a human can do.I had a similar experience in my college days with a very pretty girl before I moved to states.She really wanted to move on because I was probably not her type,due to some financial difficulties at the time.It really doesn't look good when you begin to see the person you love in company of "friends".That was the warning sign for me but I ignored it.Well,she moved on and I was a wreck! I couldn't really function and I prayed day and night for her to come back but she didn't.When she failed to come back,I concluded that she wasn't meant for me and moved on.I began to focus on a lot of positive things and eventually found myself in the states.The irony of the whole thing is that she eventually got married five years before I did,and I have changed my phone number about three times due the number of calls I have received from her.She still call to tell me how much of a fool she was for passing the love of her life by.She cries and tries to remember the good old days and how her husband is really not the love of her life and stuffs like that.The most touchy but kind of sad thing is that she named one of her sons after me,and still write and cry everyday she managed to hear from me.
   Part Two.There is a pleasure in being mad,of which only the mad man knows.A friend said that to me about twenty years ago I think it makes sense to me.You are the only one who knows what you are missing in that girl and there's nothing we can tell you that could open your eyes.You have the shoes on,and you know exactly where it hurts the most.Everything you have managed to focus on crumbles the moment you set your eyes on her and I bet that's what is going on with you.It is hard to let go,but this is time to do just that.She wins when she feels that you still miss her.It could be that you loved her more than you really needed to do and you must learn your lesson, if I am correct or you will be a sore loser all your life.
We have all spent a great deal of time trying to aid you in this sad process,called moving on.Gather yourself together,soothe yourself with the fond memories both of you had together and let her and the feelings you had for her go.It becomes an obsession if you fail to move on after all these assistance to do just that from us and this may make some us to conclude sadly that the problem may be identified with you and not her.You must move on and focus on greater things.She may or may not miss you as much as you would want her to do and that's a lesson we all learn at one point or the other.
  Finally,take it easy and know that onto every man is given two options, secure or destroy your path.
   Best Wishes.

By the time he finished reading this WAEC ESSAY he will end up loving her again

@angelchi
very simple, move on with your life. nice one

@poster;i'll concur to d advice that reads,"move on wit yur life nd dont look bck" no mor no less,time will heal yur wounds!

@mr pee
what a lengthy sermon,you get time oooh.

Too much love will kill you.There is nothing like love,it is about availability,choices and wants,do it while you can and move on when you can't,there is always something out there for someone.

If there is something I've learnt in life, its that you cannot force a person
to love you, more so if they have found someone else, everything you do
becomes an irritation to that person.

So therefore, get over it and move on. count your losses and wait - God will
give you your own one day.

And who said life was fair? Life is full of surprises dear, move on with your life, in time u will find someone better.

meeeeeenn!!! all this info is gonna make the ppor guy dizzy o!!! i bet he's wondering why i go open my mouth sef?

hehehe!!! guy be a man and be hard at all times and not only when u are with a woman!!!

hey yah, make una no kill the boy with advise oh, he will definitely soon get confused

its not easy to say such as good bye, OR say, forget about something you so cherish,,,,,,,,,,, but all the same as you said, she is still young , you should definitely expect such attitude you know, this because she is just entering the university, and ofcourse its a different world with different life style of different people from different background that is of interest in the first place on its own, so friend its not easy, But just try as much as you can to at least pretend to be just friends at church, maybe later she would come back to you, but you can still make friends with other and possibly find someone better than her you know,

I will tell you something, I had a female friend like that, we were just friends but in me i felt something for her, i really loved her but i couldn't tell her anything because she would be leave territory we were very soon for a very long time till date,and i also know she felt something for me too you know, but she was waiting for me to say something, thou she made some moves but, men!, i couldn't, yah, its still hurt me, but i just don't like any heartbreak you know, thou some friends were like, you bleeped up, but i don't like playing with others feelings and heart you know and so mine, thats by the way , friend

i'm sorry if what i said hurts you, its just a suggestion.

my heart bleeds for u, i just hope u r able 2 get thru dis, hw cud sm1 do ds 2 u, i wish i cud find sum1 lyk u u r soooooo nice, buh sum people never knw what they hav till dey lose it!

hey! take heart it happens, such is life move forward or better still u can com and ask me out an intrested oooooooooooo.it has actually happened to me boi but i heard to move forward, now i am my self and am ok wit it.so i advice u to do the same take care.

@ tunilol
hey! take heart it happens, such is life move forward or better still u can com and ask me out an intrested oooooooooooo.it has actually happened to me boi but i heard to move forward, now i am my self and am ok wit it.so i advice u to do the same take care.

Watz ur e-mail add.It's not in ur profile

my email address is talk2shallybabe@yahoo.com

Who said life was fair!!!

Siena, u wan ask tinulol out ? Me tot u were married with kids ? Abeg leave am 4 we boiz jare . . lol

epilogue:
And so Stanlord meets tinulol on nairaland and both get to know each other - leaving their past (and numerous counsellors) behind.
Curtains.

epilogue:
And so Stanlord meets tinulol on nairaland and both get to know each other - leaving their past (and numerous counsellors) behind.
Curtains.

This girl was obviously very young when you met her since she just got into the university now. She has met other guys and she wants to test the waters with them. I will advise that you let her be for now. It's tough, I know but she needs some space. Your heart is obviously broken and you are terribly hurt by her insensitivity. Don't be bitter, forgive her and try to move on as hard as this may be. Look around you, at your place of work, even in the church, there may well be one or two girls who may have been trying to catch your attention. Have some casual female friends and dates(I don't mean casual sexual relations oooo, before I'm misquoted). This will help you appreciate others and set you on the path to recovery. You cannot protect her, so let her go and get her own heart broken, then she will know what she has lost. And maybe by then, you have moved on? Who knows? When you meet in church, be as casual as possible with her iDon't seek her out or go out of your way to her to inquire about her welfare. Give yourself time, you will get over it.

i agree wit her,if shes for you ,she ll cm bac.i hope on hr part is nt late.bc u wuld ve moved on by that tyme.take heart.shit happens.

@stanlord, hmmm!, thot yur heartbroken it takes time to heal o!_{cos i can see advances on tinuola}, i hope dem no go pieces yur shattered heart all over again b warned o!

Hi landers,

just read thru this unserious matter, though painful but GUY, let me tell you something.
for me, i gut no HEART again.

the only girl i had in my whole world wide life took me up and left me to break not the bones but the HEARt, now, its in pieces and i cant help it anymore, rather i have them gumed with ordinary gum

just forget the programme and move along, sometimes this kind of things happen expecially with underage or inexperienced chaps.BONE AM

I am presesntly facing d same experience.I'm bout loosing my 6 year relationship 2 a banker cos i dont have a good job perharps.she is not just understanding wit me any more.I'm ready 4 any thing afterall i wasn't circumsized 4 her sake.I'm about 2 get a banking job by his grace in one of the most respected and well paid banks in d country.dats destiny.Ma Man u'v got 2 believe in urself n be a man (u Lose 2 Gain)!!!!

was just joking when i said that, am not intrested in any guy for now till further notice any guy friend i have now is just my normal friend,nothing attached ok!

stanlord are u a medical doctor?just asking

na only Doctor u go gree marry ?

Don't u worry Stan, I have had that experience once in my love cycle. I know it will hurt, but be thankful that she will one day regret it and its too late to say I'm sorry. For the bible says: "do unto others what u want to be done unto you". Be at peace my brother!! Release that anger and God will be with you. He has a plan for u. Plan to prosper and not to wither. Remember, every rose has its thorn. So long, Moce[Bye]

@tinuola, just jokin;just askin;only God knows wot she'll just be doin nxt hmm!stanlord!stanlord!!stanlord!!! _{he who has hears let him listen}