Outside of marriage, pre-marital
or extra marital sex can totally
ruin your destiny if you don’t know
how to deal with your emotions and
sex drives...There are many false
beliefs about sex which this
article will bring to your
knowledge.
1. Sex will make him/her get
committed to you: Sex is not
powerful enough to make anyone get
committed to you in a meaningful
relationship. If he/she isn’t
interested in having a serious
relationship with you, seducing,
manipulating and controlling him/
her sexually will not make them
change their minds.
2. Engaging in sex with the
person you are dating will make
him/her think that you are a
sophisticated and mature person: At
this point, the question to ask is:
what is sophisticated and mature
about sexually transmitted disease,
broken hearts and unwanted
pregnancies? Maturity and
sophistication is the ability to
restrain yourself and say no to
pre-marital sex. The proof of
maturity is really your ability to
control your sexual urges in the
face of temptation, pressure or
emotional manipulation.
3. Having sex with him/her will
break down his/her resistance
causing him/her to open up to you:
Genuine love is the only key that
can open a man’s heart. Giving sex
instead of that can only lead to
misery. If you really want him,
show lots of care, affection and
develop real intimacy with him. A
man who is in love with you and
trusts you will not find it
difficult opening up his heart to
you. Develop trust. Wherever there
are secrets, trust doesn’t exist.
4. He has contributed to your
life financially or materially.
Having sex with him will only show
how much you appreciate this: Lie!
You are not in anyway obliged to do
this. If the help he rendered to
you was designed to enslave you to
later become his sex slave, then
break off from him. If he makes you
think that you are hopeless and
helpless without him, that is a
lie. Don’t give in to sexual
blackmail.
5. You can keep him/her in a
relationship if you are an expert
in bed: You can never have him/her
under your influence through your
sexual ability. Sexual skills does
not stop marriages from breaking
up, remember? It doesn’t stop
infidelity as well. What keeps a
man faithful to a woman is his
commitment to the integrity of that
relationship. Sexual desire fades.
You cannot afford to build your
life based on this emotion because
it is not strong enough to sustain
a relationship.
6. Having sex with the guy/lady
you are dating will make them
forget the other person in their
lives: If you know he/she has
someone else in their lives before
you came along and you still insist
on dating, you are putting your
self esteem to mud. Why should you
settle for second best when you can
find someone who will treat you
with greater respect and honor? No
matter what quantity of sex you
engage in, he/she is an unfaithful
person and will remain so as long
as he/she gets free sex from you.
Ways to control
your sexual drive
1. Acknowledging your sexual
drive is the first step towards
dealing with it.
2. Cultivate quality friendships
with like minded individuals with
whom you share the same values.
3. Get a mentor of the same sex,
to whom your relationship will be
accountable. You should not enter a
relationship that you want to keep
secret. Secrecy always results in
sin.
4. Take control of your
imagination.
5. If you are dating and you
have challenges with your sex
drive, then spend time together in
outdoor activities rather than
locking up yourselves in indoor
activities.
6. Feed your mind on God’s word,
the bible and any edifying
Christian literature...Good luck

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jniran22:
Outside of marriage, pre-marital
or extra marital sex can totally
ruin your destiny if you don’t know
how to deal with your emotions and
sex drives...There are many false
beliefs about sex which this
article will bring to your
knowledge.
1. Sex will make him/her get
committed to you: Sex is not
powerful enough to make anyone get
committed to you in a meaningful
relationship. If he/she isn’t
interested in having a serious
relationship with you, seducing,
manipulating and controlling him/
her sexually will not make them
change their minds.
2. Engaging in sex with the
person you are dating will make
him/her think that you are a
sophisticated and mature person: At
this point, the question to ask is:
what is sophisticated and mature
about sexually transmitted disease,
broken hearts and unwanted
pregnancies? Maturity and
sophistication is the ability to
restrain yourself and say no to
pre-marital sex. The proof of
maturity is really your ability to
control your sexual urges in the
face of temptation, pressure or
emotional manipulation.
3. Having sex with him/her will
break down his/her resistance
causing him/her to open up to you:
Genuine love is the only key that
can open a man’s heart. Giving sex
instead of that can only lead to
misery. If you really want him,
show lots of care, affection and
develop real intimacy with him. A
man who is in love with you and
trusts you will not find it
difficult opening up his heart to
you. Develop trust. Wherever there
are secrets, trust doesn’t exist.
4. He has contributed to your
life financially or materially.
Having sex with him will only show
how much you appreciate this: Lie!
You are not in anyway obliged to do
this. If the help he rendered to
you was designed to enslave you to
later become his sex slave, then
break off from him. If he makes you
think that you are hopeless and
helpless without him, that is a
lie. Don’t give in to sexual
blackmail.
5. You can keep him/her in a
relationship if you are an expert
in bed: You can never have him/her
under your influence through your
sexual ability. Sexual skills does
not stop marriages from breaking
up, remember? It doesn’t stop
infidelity as well. What keeps a
man faithful to a woman is his
commitment to the integrity of that
relationship. Sexual desire fades.
You cannot afford to build your
life based on this emotion because
it is not strong enough to sustain
a relationship.
6. Having sex with the guy/lady
you are dating will make them
forget the other person in their
lives: If you know he/she has
someone else in their lives before
you came along and you still insist
on dating, you are putting your
self esteem to mud. Why should you
settle for second best when you can
find someone who will treat you
with greater respect and honor? No
matter what quantity of sex you
engage in, he/she is an unfaithful
person and will remain so as long
as he/she gets free sex from you.
Ways to control
your sexual drive
1. Acknowledging your sexual
drive is the first step towards
dealing with it.
2. Cultivate quality friendships
with like minded individuals with
whom you share the same values.
3. Get a mentor of the same sex,
to whom your relationship will be
accountable. You should not enter a
relationship that you want to keep
secret. Secrecy always results in
sin.
4. Take control of your
imagination.
5. If you are dating and you
have challenges with your sex
drive, then spend time together in
outdoor activities rather than
locking up yourselves in indoor
activities.
6. Feed your mind on God’s word,
the bible and any edifying
Christian literature...Good luck

mind if I repost this on my blog as a quote intro?

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