@Ibkaye

6ft04", 220 lbs and less than 10% body fat. If you know what i mean .

He will think he's been hit by a truck.

@Sweet T
I have my very own Nairaland personal bodyguard! Thanks Hun!

@Ibkaye

Who is this your Body Guard? Iice?

@Sweet T
lol no you silly

Well my ex husband slapped me twice. Didnt hurt me though. Seriously but i made him believe that he did. The following weeks he was a new man when i was finished with him. Now lets say a man really slapped me! I mean slapped me hard and actually hurt me, that would be his last slap. He would leave the house one of two ways. In a police car or in an ambulance! No lie. I wasnt raised to let a man beat me. Ever see the movie, the burning bed? Im not playing.

Im Gonna do nothing. . .Ima be quiet and the walk out immediately. . .
Im pretty sure she would highly regret her action later on

chinda3:

@topic

Devil bless him if he lays a finger on me,na when him dey sleep i go use cutlass casterate am

hahahahahaha - perfect

Hmmmm, sly - you want to kill the girl? Will you take her back after that kind of hot slap?

Hmmmm, sly - you want to kill the girl? Will you take her back after that kind of hot slap?

Im i gonna divorce her just because she slapped me and No im not gonna touch her! . . sum lil drama would do the trick!

extremely disgusted with all the women who said they would forgive their husband of slapping them after he apologises and all will be well, That is why there are so many abusive relationships in Nigeria! Rubbish, By the time the guy renders you a quadraplegic maybe your eye will open. Nonsense,

_{A man who slaps a woman is not even half a man.}

Well its obvious that most pple who reply to this thing never experience am before, I am a guy and I have. Back in school there use 2 b dis gal wey i like very well, she has slapped me 3 dif times before my eyes open wey i come realise say, its best to walk away from somethings ie, say bye bye. I loved her so much but i realise the such act is due to lack of respect and sensitivity. thank God i left her cos if i marry the girl, someday I will find myself beating her up against my own wish.

I av a woman now who respects me, I cant imagine raising my hands against her. A BOYFRIEND OR GIRLFRIEND slapping you without a later TRULY REPENTANT, DEEP SENSE OF REMORSE and REGRET? Pls walk away.

if na husband or wife, then it should be handled differently, its easy to say u dey walk away as most pple don talk am ie that nothing happens afterwards just a simple im sorri. me i take such issues seriously oooooo

Walking away is d right thing but avoiding him 4 2weeks only depends on d level of relationship.

In another possible scenario, if it happens once and the guy realises it and repents,apologises and makes it up to u, then u fit give am another chance. but if u are in a relationship and this thing has happened to u more than once, common dont be stupid.

Nva being in dis position. so i dnt kw wat to say.

sometimes i do things on impulse so i cannot really say what i will do but i think i am shifting slightly to giving him one back & maybe just walking out before it escalates to body damage.

ElDee style now, slaaap am, give am punch! lmao

seriously though, if my boyfriend slaps me? i wont say anything, but the arguement is overrrr, il just get up and go!! when he comes to his senses and realizes what he has done, theeeeen we can talk, but its not likely that il continue the relatonship, what will happen the day he is feelin like Jet li??

wel, as for me i always like to act spontaneously, i'll plant a rough kiss on her lips and rod her like neva bfore, then multiply the slap by 5ive and just walk away.

lmao @ what Dutty said, original, but the slap multiplication?? shaaa

[size=30pt]I will kindly return the slap [/size]

Mr. Chima slapped me on my booty many times is that abuse?

ummm if your fiance gets upset with her man and puts her hands on her man and she has told him in every aurgument to either slap her or hit her, would it still be expected for the man to have slapped her?

After a year and a half and having a son, while she was pregnant she tried cheating and getting with her ex and the man was very faithful and still is.

delarontus:
A slap is a prelude to a punch and much more. That relationship is over for good. If its a husband, leave the house for a break.

hmmm

Cadet:
Truth be told, I'll be speechless and freeze in one place. Later on, I'll think about something. Never been in this kind of position, and not thinking about getting in one, so no advice here

do you enjoy shouting at your man..... yelling at him even when you are convinced that you are in the wrong?

Ajebota:
extremely disgusted with all the women who said they would forgive their husband of slapping them after he apologises and all will be well, That is why there are so many abusive relationships in Nigeria! Rubbish, By the time the guy renders you a quadraplegic maybe your eye will open. Nonsense,

_{A man who slaps a woman is not even half a man.}

really?

Seun:
So, please, boyfriends and husbands, violence is not an option. Remove violence from your bag of relationship tools and the world will be a better place.

like you practice this

walk out on him.....or hug him and cry...

Divay22:
walk out on him.....or hug him and cry...

why do women let things get this bad

NgcoboP:
why do women let things get this bad

Things bad....HOW

Divay22:
Things bad....HOW

nag and provoke

Dat will b d end of the relationship o