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| My Wife Just Told Me She Has A Boyfriend And That There Is Nothing ℓ̊ Will Do by Nobody: 9:58pm On Oct 12, 2014 |
My wife just told me now that she has a boyfriend that sleeps with her and that there is nothing ℓ̊ am going to do. ℓ̊ had earlier suspected she is sleeping with her doctor and one of the parent in her sch. She confirmed to me tonight that she os cheating cos cheating is fun! What do ℓ̊ do Now before Ɣøû comment,let me give Ɣøû a little background to our issues. ℓ̊ was involved with other ladies at some point in our marriage,of which she knew and ℓ̊ confessed to her. ℓ̊ don't do that anymore but she said she want to cheat so that ℓ̊ can feel what it feels to be cheated upon. Now she is sleeping around and tell it to my face that she is cheating and will continue without hiding it and there is nothing ℓ̊ can do! Nlanders what do ℓ̊ do? 27 Likes 5 Shares |
| Re: My Wife Just Told Me She Has A Boyfriend And That There Is Nothing ℓ̊ Will Do by coogar: 10:02pm On Oct 12, 2014 |
to be fair to her, she's correct! you cheated once, it's only fair you get your comeuppance. don't worry yourself too much - she's done the deed already. dust yourself up & pretend everything is a dream. 120 Likes 3 Shares |
| Re: My Wife Just Told Me She Has A Boyfriend And That There Is Nothing ℓ̊ Will Do by Nobody: 10:06pm On Oct 12, 2014 |
coogar: Thank Ɣøû! 11 Likes |
| Re: My Wife Just Told Me She Has A Boyfriend And That There Is Nothing ℓ̊ Will Do by EfemenaXY: 10:08pm On Oct 12, 2014 |
egbedore: If you really are married, then take it from me that you married too soon. You obviously weren't matured enough to handle the very adult responsibilities that come with marriage. Anyway, with that being said and done, be grateful that "your" wife has been totally honest with you. So you either accept that your relationship is now an open one, or you end the union. Either way, you both should go screen yourselves thoroughly for STD/STIs and any other ss.exual nasties you've both exposed yourselves to. 108 Likes 6 Shares |
| Re: My Wife Just Told Me She Has A Boyfriend And That There Is Nothing ℓ̊ Will Do by coogar: 10:12pm On Oct 12, 2014 |
egbedore: is it a continuous thingy for her or its a one-off thingy? if she keeps going back to her boyfriend, i think you should also call your ladies....you are the man here, never let her outscore you in this game. get a lawyer & sign an open marriage contract with her.  82 Likes 3 Shares |
| Re: My Wife Just Told Me She Has A Boyfriend And That There Is Nothing ℓ̊ Will Do by pickabeau1: 10:12pm On Oct 12, 2014 |
Do u have kids 6 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: My Wife Just Told Me She Has A Boyfriend And That There Is Nothing ℓ̊ Will Do by Nobody: 10:14pm On Oct 12, 2014 |
@OP what you should do is GET A PROPER TASTE OF YOUR OWN POISON. 28 Likes |
| Re: My Wife Just Told Me She Has A Boyfriend And That There Is Nothing ℓ̊ Will Do by MissSlimbody(f): 10:16pm On Oct 12, 2014 |
Two wrongs can never make a right. What you did,is in the past, since you've repented of ur deeds, I see no reason why she should engaged herself in such a shameful act. Your wife is not morally sound, I must say. That a man cheated on me is not reason enough 2 turn me to a cheat. What to do  Miz my coli you're needed here. Abeg, wetin make him do? 267 Likes 8 Shares |
| Re: My Wife Just Told Me She Has A Boyfriend And That There Is Nothing ℓ̊ Will Do by Greatchance: 10:16pm On Oct 12, 2014 |
She is a fool by using your stupidity as a criteria to set your matrimonial home ablaze. Meanwhile she is telling the truth, there is nothing you can do. U open the door for the calamity 57 Likes 2 Shares |
| Re: My Wife Just Told Me She Has A Boyfriend And That There Is Nothing ℓ̊ Will Do by EfemenaXY: 10:20pm On Oct 12, 2014 |
This thread isn't real jare. What full blooded male - a Naija brother for that matter - would take this on the chin with such a sheepish attitude? @OP is just seeking some fun entertainment this Sunday Evening. 203 Likes 4 Shares |
| Re: My Wife Just Told Me She Has A Boyfriend And That There Is Nothing ℓ̊ Will Do by Tallesty1(m): 10:21pm On Oct 12, 2014 |
Start bringing women home. Tell her to sleep at the boy's quarter or guest room when your gf visits Or better still sacrifice her to the gods of your village. BTW this is nairaland not Egypt So stop writing in codes. But on serious note@OP. I don't advice you to do anything to safe your marriage. To cheat on a man is a big crime and to speak it to his face and dare him is another serious offense. Bundle her back to her parents before she kills you. 106 Likes 3 Shares |
| Re: My Wife Just Told Me She Has A Boyfriend And That There Is Nothing ℓ̊ Will Do by Nobody: 10:23pm On Oct 12, 2014 |
Tallesty1: BWAAAAAAAAAAH!!!!!! 2 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: My Wife Just Told Me She Has A Boyfriend And That There Is Nothing ℓ̊ Will Do by Nobody: 10:24pm On Oct 12, 2014 |
D story don't sound real to me 46 Likes |
| Re: My Wife Just Told Me She Has A Boyfriend And That There Is Nothing ℓ̊ Will Do by Nobody: 10:26pm On Oct 12, 2014 |
pickabeau1: Yes. A five year old girl and a 3 year old boy. 1 Like |
| Re: My Wife Just Told Me She Has A Boyfriend And That There Is Nothing ℓ̊ Will Do by Nobody: 10:27pm On Oct 12, 2014 |
EfemenaXY: ℓ̊ married at 27 and my marriage will be 9 years by April,2015(few months time) 2 Likes 2 Shares |
| Re: My Wife Just Told Me She Has A Boyfriend And That There Is Nothing ℓ̊ Will Do by coogar: 10:28pm On Oct 12, 2014 |
egbedore: show no emotions.... let the kids go spend some time with their grannies - then put yourself to task & bring exotic ladies into the house. different ones per week. 17 Likes |
| Re: My Wife Just Told Me She Has A Boyfriend And That There Is Nothing ℓ̊ Will Do by Nobody: 10:30pm On Oct 12, 2014 |
EfemenaXY: Its a pity that this is true and its happening to me. Though its unbelievable but that's the situation ℓ̊ am as ℓ̊ type this 6 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: My Wife Just Told Me She Has A Boyfriend And That There Is Nothing ℓ̊ Will Do by pickabeau1: 10:32pm On Oct 12, 2014 |
egbedore: Well..she's a deliberate one n she is honest Its all about payback but rather than being discreet...she's doing it in ur face. What do u want to do |
| Re: My Wife Just Told Me She Has A Boyfriend And That There Is Nothing ℓ̊ Will Do by Nobody: 10:33pm On Oct 12, 2014 |
Hope55: 2 Likes |
| Re: My Wife Just Told Me She Has A Boyfriend And That There Is Nothing ℓ̊ Will Do by okotv(m): 10:33pm On Oct 12, 2014 |
coogar stop.... op please is this story real, its high time you visit a marriage councilor or else you would leave rmto regret this decision of your wife. 5 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: My Wife Just Told Me She Has A Boyfriend And That There Is Nothing ℓ̊ Will Do by Nobody: 10:35pm On Oct 12, 2014 |
coogar: 19 Likes 2 Shares |
| Re: My Wife Just Told Me She Has A Boyfriend And That There Is Nothing ℓ̊ Will Do by Nobody: 10:36pm On Oct 12, 2014 |
pickabeau1: ℓ̊ don't even know! 1 Like |
| Re: My Wife Just Told Me She Has A Boyfriend And That There Is Nothing ℓ̊ Will Do by Nobody: 10:40pm On Oct 12, 2014 |
Any female single medical psychologist here? Or a lawyer. ℓ̊ need to talk to one. If there is any,just quote me here and send your contact so we can talk. ℓ̊ am running nut |
| Re: My Wife Just Told Me She Has A Boyfriend And That There Is Nothing ℓ̊ Will Do by pickabeau1: 10:43pm On Oct 12, 2014 |
| Re: My Wife Just Told Me She Has A Boyfriend And That There Is Nothing ℓ̊ Will Do by Nobody: 10:44pm On Oct 12, 2014 |
egbedore: bro, the only reason you are writing the above is because you are DESPERATE for toto, NOT because you are truly sorry for what you did or understand that it was wrong. i mean look at what you posted only yesterday on NL: egbedore: and yet you expect your wife to be sorry for your cheating self?! we all know what type of "friend" you are looking for..... 160 Likes 4 Shares |
| Re: My Wife Just Told Me She Has A Boyfriend And That There Is Nothing ℓ̊ Will Do by Kanwulia: 10:47pm On Oct 12, 2014 |
Do you sleep with someone outside your marriage for revenge, or you sleep with someone because you have the utmost sexual chemistry?  I see you met your match in the game of 'phocking without a sense of purpose'! Awon 'dumb and dumber'!  OP. . . .she is only following the example you have set. You only got 'served'. . . in your own coin! Please, deal with it!  40 Likes 2 Shares |
| Re: My Wife Just Told Me She Has A Boyfriend And That There Is Nothing ℓ̊ Will Do by pickabeau1: 10:47pm On Oct 12, 2014 |
Oh oh |
| Re: My Wife Just Told Me She Has A Boyfriend And That There Is Nothing ℓ̊ Will Do by thorpido(m): 10:48pm On Oct 12, 2014 |
Well,you opened the door for your wife to do this.You can only endure the situation while you try to reconcile with your wife and hope for a change. Is there a matured person your wife can listen to? 2 Likes |
| Re: My Wife Just Told Me She Has A Boyfriend And That There Is Nothing ℓ̊ Will Do by MizMyColi(f): 10:49pm On Oct 12, 2014 |
Your marriage sir, reeks of different, but one purposeful shade of abuse........Revenge. I take it you've blamed yourself enough, I won't add to it. You two need to take some time apart. Abi you wan die prematurely? While at it, a sober reflection and a high resolve to do all it takes to make your marriage work should be your focus. Where all that fails, please take a walk, whatever it takes. I doubt you two'll ever be the same again. Your woman? Well, I've never really been in her shoes, so I better keep mute. I can say two things for sure. - A wise woman builds her home. She is proactive, not reactive. - Now that she has decided to embark on her own journey of revenge, please remind her to dig 2 graves, 4 maybe. 45 Likes 2 Shares |
| Re: My Wife Just Told Me She Has A Boyfriend And That There Is Nothing ℓ̊ Will Do by Nobody: 10:49pm On Oct 12, 2014 |
coogar: You really want to help him ruin his union.........NO, you won't cut off your hhead because u gat ache. @op sit ur wife down wen d kids are not around close doors n windows to avoid making a movie 4 neighbors (nt wen there is no power o) talk 2 her , make her understand that you feel her pain now and honestly promise her you will neva cheat on her again blah blah blah........ If dat conversation goes well u will both weep ,hold each other then sleep off . Forget say u be man(do your best) make peace reign 4 ur house cos u no think dat 1 b4 u start d trouble! 30 Likes |
| Re: My Wife Just Told Me She Has A Boyfriend And That There Is Nothing ℓ̊ Will Do by Nobody: 10:50pm On Oct 12, 2014 |
MRbrownJAY: If ℓ̊ want to cheat,ℓ̊ wouldn't say in the post that ℓ̊ am married,ℓ̊ wouldn't say in the post that ℓ̊ have kids,ℓ̊ wouldn't say the ages of my lovely kids. For the fact that ℓ̊ mentioned that,means ℓ̊ am not hiding anything and ℓ̊ just needed someone to talk to. And when it comes to matter as this,the women folk can be more attentive and knows what to do. 24 Likes |
| Re: My Wife Just Told Me She Has A Boyfriend And That There Is Nothing ℓ̊ Will Do by Nobody: 10:52pm On Oct 12, 2014 |
desire7: Thank Ɣøû. That's what ℓ̊ was actually trying to do before she told me what she's being doing. But ℓ̊ will still try again. 3 Likes 1 Share |
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