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Re: I Like Sex But My Wife Doesn't, Please Advice by stevecantrell: 3:52pm On Oct 20, 2014 |
tolu4you: Somebody is telling u to self-service...and you want to know more ? |
Re: I Like Sex But My Wife Doesn't, Please Advice by 2CatWoman: 3:56pm On Oct 20, 2014 |
Were you having sex with other women befor you married your wife? |
Re: I Like Sex But My Wife Doesn't, Please Advice by imurboss: 4:01pm On Oct 20, 2014 |
Keep showing her love, one day she will surely change seeing the kind of love you have for her 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Like Sex But My Wife Doesn't, Please Advice by blessedindeed: 4:20pm On Oct 20, 2014 |
It takes two to tango. Remember the two shall not walk/work together except they agree. It seems to you that intimacy start from outside to inside (ie. pre-intimacy to sex) no it should start from inside. Start from telling her things her ears needs to hear always, touching, showing her care and value always n reassuring her of her beauty always on bed hv sexual discussion n no critics no matter how naive she may sound but tell her how u wish it could be. If only you will be patient enough to groom her the result will be spendid for both of u. Hv n mind that hooking up with a side chic to make up will only cos u unbearable pain at the long run. Be wise marriage is for men and not for boys. 2 Likes |
Re: I Like Sex But My Wife Doesn't, Please Advice by cococandy(f): 4:32pm On Oct 20, 2014 |
tolu4you:So why did you marry her? Were you 'hoping' she would change? |
Re: I Like Sex But My Wife Doesn't, Please Advice by xynerise: 4:36pm On Oct 20, 2014 |
You need to improve in your sex fantasy |
Re: I Like Sex But My Wife Doesn't, Please Advice by steppin: 5:05pm On Oct 20, 2014 |
tolu4you:No offence bro, but you're simply not good in bed. There's nothing like a woman being frigid when it comes to good sex, unless she's a lesbo. I once had a gf who was always afraid of sex and because of that, hated sex. It took a lot of patience and skill before I could get her to love sex, even more than I did then. No woman would be eager to have sex if she ain't gonna be satisfied, unless she's into it for some benefit. This is why some married women cheat. When they sleep with someone else and get the satisfaction they've always craved for, it's hard for them to stop. You have to learn how to get to her. Be patient. Lots of pre-intimacy before and after sex can help. Your release time also plays an important role. |
Re: I Like Sex But My Wife Doesn't, Please Advice by eyeon(m): 5:15pm On Oct 20, 2014 |
Go ahead and have sex with her... If she likes, let she not have sex with you... *in Ichie Nwosu's voice* "Simpulu and shoortu." 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: I Like Sex But My Wife Doesn't, Please Advice by Mznaett: 5:27pm On Oct 20, 2014 |
![]() I've tried letting my fiance know how much i detest having sex but he would'nt understand... 1 Like |
Re: I Like Sex But My Wife Doesn't, Please Advice by Waspy(m): 6:17pm On Oct 20, 2014 |
Does Viagra work on females? ![]() ![]() |
Re: I Like Sex But My Wife Doesn't, Please Advice by Nobody: 6:27pm On Oct 20, 2014 |
[quote author=steppin post=27304491] No offence bro, but you're simply not good in bed. There's nothing like a woman being frigid when it comes to good sex, unless she's a lesbo. I once had a gf who was always afraid of sex and because of that, hated sex. It took a lot of patience and skill before I could get her to love sex, even more than I did then. No woman would be eager to have sex if she ain't gonna be satisfied, unless she's into it for some benefit. This is why some married women cheat. When they sleep with someone else and get the satisfaction they've always craved for, it's hard for them to stop. You have to learn how to get to her. Be patient. Lots of pre-intimacy before and after sex can help. Your release time also plays an important role.[/quote]This is soo lyk my sugar..*i really cnt imagine having sex wt any1 else* |
Re: I Like Sex But My Wife Doesn't, Please Advice by tolu4you: 7:01pm On Oct 20, 2014 |
cococandy:She promised to change |
Re: I Like Sex But My Wife Doesn't, Please Advice by Nobody: 7:08pm On Oct 20, 2014 |
romance her bubble bath,nice dinner,slow music... let her feel she is your Queen of the night make her want you so badly ![]() body oil massage... 2 Likes |
Re: I Like Sex But My Wife Doesn't, Please Advice by cococandy(f): 8:46pm On Oct 20, 2014 |
You were naïve to believe that. Sex urge/libido isn't something that can be turned on and off like a switch. Anyway I don't think I've anything new to say that hasn't been said on this thread. Just be strong and work with her. Find ways to make love to her than she's never been loved before. You might be surprised to have a different reaction. If all fails,take it to the Lord in prayers and encourage her to follow you to counseling. Remember adultery is a sin. No one will advice you to go that lane but in the end,it's your life. Your decisions. tolu4you: |
Re: I Like Sex But My Wife Doesn't, Please Advice by edwife(f): 8:56pm On Oct 20, 2014 |
tolu4you: Another thing i wanted to ask:Are you the type that will go straight to the point without any pre-intimacy? Because,i know when one is frigid,the only thing that can work is spooning(cuddling,kiss..tc) So,let her be in the mood.Take her out,and don't expect anything other than smooching around,hold yourself! From there,she will be warm and might want to carry it to the next level,be very patient. But,my offer still stands:become frigid if nothing changes. ![]() |
Re: I Like Sex But My Wife Doesn't, Please Advice by Talon05: 9:03pm On Oct 20, 2014 |
xynerise:Like seriously dude needs to up his game. OP, dont just go jacking off, there is what they call pre-intimacy, work on your woman's body then go on your kneels, say the Lord's prayer and then eat her cookie, eat that damn thing so well she begins to shiver, like convulsion sorta thing but be sure not to bite it, do this before ramming your co*k inside her. Sex is like a skill, like learning how to drive or playing a piano, it takes time to be a pro but I assure you if you work on doing those things, soon she will become a nymphomaniac. All the best. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Like Sex But My Wife Doesn't, Please Advice by LagosBoi2(m): 9:40pm On Oct 20, 2014 |
I usually don't comment on this ''advise me thread'' but i have to comment on this one because i am in the same situation. I love sex so much but my wife doesn't at all, She is preety but she does not see anything sweet about sex, we have a boy and a girl together so it's not that she has any problem, she bluntly told me recently that whenever i ask her for sex, it's like asking her to go to market for me at the midnight. Meanwhile it's the secrete of not sharing my wife with anybody, unlike other women who get honey for sex and have multiple sex partners, I had to accept my fate and carry olosho with strong protection sometimes when i want to have full action and fun, am not telling you to copy me. I have stopped disturbing my wife for sex, rather enjoy my happy home without having to worry about infidelity, It's a blessing for me anyway. |
Re: I Like Sex But My Wife Doesn't, Please Advice by major466(m): 10:42pm On Oct 20, 2014 |
Her negative reaction to sex must be psychological. Take her to a Psychologist or Doctor. 1 Like |
Re: I Like Sex But My Wife Doesn't, Please Advice by mujiboy(m): 10:57pm On Oct 20, 2014 |
get to talk to her how important sex is...maybe she needs to watch decent adult movies to make her Hot.. blah blah |
Re: I Like Sex But My Wife Doesn't, Please Advice by Nobody: 10:58pm On Oct 20, 2014 |
Re: I Like Sex But My Wife Doesn't, Please Advice by soulglo: 11:19pm On Oct 20, 2014 |
Making love to your wife does not start when the lights are out. Did you spend time with her during the day, did you tell her what a good job she's doing with the baby, did you tell how how beautiful she is, did you tell her how hot you still get for her or did you jump into bed at night and said "madam, assume the position" |
Re: I Like Sex But My Wife Doesn't, Please Advice by Nobody: 11:22pm On Oct 20, 2014 |
AgapeCharis:close,ur mouth..wuld u please?? |
Re: I Like Sex But My Wife Doesn't, Please Advice by Nobody: 11:33pm On Oct 20, 2014 |
Annypie: ![]() |
Re: I Like Sex But My Wife Doesn't, Please Advice by Nobody: 11:52pm On Oct 20, 2014 |
AgapeCharis:haha,see wahala o,am just tellin u to close a mouth u left open..dats all! ds boy again sha..its lyk u want another argument o |
Re: I Like Sex But My Wife Doesn't, Please Advice by Nobody: 11:55pm On Oct 20, 2014 |
Annypie:bia nwanyi.. Eheen B4 I 4gt..how did d meeting go last night? |
Re: I Like Sex But My Wife Doesn't, Please Advice by Nobody: 12:02am On Oct 21, 2014 |
AgapeCharis:hmm.nwoke,i went late oo a whole executive lyk me,dey sha give me small fine sha btw,we are still on ur case o,its lyk ur CHI is with u |
Re: I Like Sex But My Wife Doesn't, Please Advice by Nobody: 12:05am On Oct 21, 2014 |
Annypie: ![]() Wen una finish,, lemme knw..hw was ya day? |
Re: I Like Sex But My Wife Doesn't, Please Advice by jayedu108: 12:07am On Oct 21, 2014 |
Annypie:what part of africa are u from?are u from sambisa or chibok? |
Re: I Like Sex But My Wife Doesn't, Please Advice by Nobody: 12:12am On Oct 21, 2014 |
AgapeCharis:lool..we cnt fit finish ds one oo..my day was easy,and lazzzy too,urs? |
Re: I Like Sex But My Wife Doesn't, Please Advice by Nobody: 12:14am On Oct 21, 2014 |
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Re: I Like Sex But My Wife Doesn't, Please Advice by Nobody: 2:31am On Oct 21, 2014 |
If she doesn't like sex, look for someone else to fvck.... if she complains, tell her to fvck off.... She shouldn't have a problem with you fvcking someone else ideally since it isn't ur fault dat she doesn't like it.. you can't have your cake and eat it... |
Re: I Like Sex But My Wife Doesn't, Please Advice by tolu4you: 9:02am On Oct 21, 2014 |
njokusboy:is this the solution? |
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