I find this very interesting to discuss here..and I will go straight to the point..I don't think its advicible for a lady to always cook for the man she's dating anytime she's visits him.if you visit him 5 times,u can cook two times or once for him..its important that we ladies should know our place in our man's life..if you are his friend,you act like his friend..if you a re his girlfriend ,you act like one and if you a re his wife..you also act like one..A woman is meant to be explored..if am dating/courting you and during the course of that I cook all my delicasies for you,..what threat wil I give you when we get married?hmmm I can't find myself loitering around a man's kitchen when am not his wife..whats ur opinion ladies?men are also free to air their opinions too...reasonable comments please..thanks

So what's the girlfriend suppose to do when she visits? Balance on his bed while he cooks for her?

pasqal09:
So what's the girlfriend suppose to do when she visits? Balance on his bed while he cooks for her?

Yes! She is still a guest after all.

I personally will not cook for anyone I'm not married to. I can cook for you if you're coming over to visit but going to someone's house and cooking for them is just a no-no. I'm not your wife bruh.

pasqal09:
So what's the girlfriend suppose to do when she visits? Balance on his bed while he cooks for her?

Of course!!

Sapphire86:

Yes! She is still a guest after all.

TahariX:


Of course!!

Ok, she'll keep remaining a guest while another lady will become the wife.

pasqal09:
So what's the girlfriend suppose to do when she visits? Balance on his bed while he cooks for her?

so who cooks for u when u wia not dating me?and read my post again..I said should not ALWAYS cook..

Look at what girls of this days are turning into.Imaging you went to your BF house and you met him cooking and instead of taking over the cooking from him you sit and watch him do the cooking and still serve you.Even the whites which you guys are emulating have not started doing this.

nomabeeee:
so who cooks for u when u wia not dating me?and read my post again..I said should not ALWAYS cook..

Not that you're dating him you should, beside what difference does it make if you don't cook always or if you cook every time you're available?

I concur. I don't subscribe to playing the role of a wife when you're just a mere girlfriend

TahariX:
I personally will not cook for anyone I'm not married to. I can cook for you if you're coming over to visit but going to someone's house and cooking for them is just a no-no. I'm not your wife bruh.

thought I was the only lady who had that policy... my male friends Don abuse me tire...if u come to my place I'll cook for you but coming over to cook in your Place is a NO for me.....

pasqal09:



Ok, she'll keep remaining a guest while another lady will become the wife.

So it is by that u determine ur wife material? If u want to eat, go to her house and she would entertain but expecting such in ur house is laughable! It's like u neva jam marriage hungry girls before!

pasqal09:



Ok, she'll keep remaining a guest while another lady will become the wife.

Lmao. You do realize she is not under any sort of obligation to cook for her boyfriend, right? You probably think cooking is a "feminine thing" anyways.

TahariX:
I personally will not cook for anyone I'm not married to. I can cook for you if you're coming over to visit but going to someone's house and cooking for them is just a no-no. I'm not your wife bruh.

See her mouth yanyanyan
Na people like u go cook 3 times a day for ur bf when u visit him.You go even dey kneel down dey give him d food self, you come dey make mouth for here.Abegi go sleep it's getting late

Princecalm:
Look at what girls of this days are turning into.Imaging you went to your BF house and you met him cooking and instead of taking over the cooking from him you sit and watch him do the cooking and still serve you.Even the whites which you guys are emulating have not started doing this.

not husband.....

Princecalm:
Look at what girls of this days are turning into.Imaging you went to your BF house and you met him cooking and instead of taking over the cooking from him you sit and watch him do the cooking and still serve you.Even the whites which you guys are emulating have not started doing this.

What kind of low mentality is this?

Sapphire86:


So it is by that u determine ur wife material? If u want to eat, go to her house and she would entertain but expecting such in ur house is laughable! It's like u neva jam marriage hungry girls before!

No, but its a criteria for getting a guy to fall completely. Guys hate ladies that aren't submissive.

pasqal09:

No, but its a criteria for getting a guy to fall completely. Guys hate ladies that aren't submissive.

Congrats to your bride then!

TahariX:


Lmao. You do realize she is not under any sort of obligation to cook for her boyfriend, right? You probably think cooking is a "feminine thing" anyways.

In a way, yes. How can I cook when she's around? That's just not right.

Gloria3389:

thought I was the only lady who had that policy... my male friends Don abuse me tire...if u come to my place I'll cook for you but coming over to cook in your Place is a NO for me.....

I bet ur bf got no class,no be by mouth o but with people like me, na u go dey beg to cook for my house even while dating

TahariX:


What kind of low mentality is this?

so you with high mentality this is what you practice.what non-sense.

Jennyluvluv:
I was here

Ok, we séé u

mascot87:


See her mouth yanyanyan
Na people like u go cook 3 times a day for ur bf when u visit him.You go even dey kneel down dey give him d food self, you come dey make mouth for here.Abegi go sleep it's getting late

Lmao. Eyah I guess your tiny brain cannot process the fact that a girlfriend isn't the same as a housemaid.

pasqal09:

No, but its a criteria for getting a guy to fall completely. Guys hate ladies that aren't submissive.

Some of us don't want guys that'll love us for being submissive (whatever that means). I actually stay away from those kind of guys.

How does cooking make her a maid?

pasqal09:


In a way, yes. How can I cook when she's around? That's just not right.

Is she your house girl?

TahariX:


Lmao. Eyah I guess your tiny brain cannot process the fact that a girlfriend isn't the same as a housemaid.

Lwkmd, girl my tiny brain is far far better than ur big brain...lol
Anyway, u are still naive & I am 100% sure u have never dated a guy b4 so u can spill trash about what u've never experienced... lol

TahariX:


Is she your house girl?

No, more like the potential madam of the house.

TahariX:


Some of us don't want guys that'll love us for being submissive (whatever that means). I actually stay away from those kind of guys.

Being submissive doesn't mean being a slave you know.

Deefuray:
I concur. I don't subscribe to playing the role of a wife when you're just a mere girlfriend

Then how would she graduate to become a wife?