I don't understand what the op is trying to say .

Cooking is no guarantee a man will marry you but at the same time I dont get the reason for your militancy.


These days when various substances are flying around and being freely peddled, its probably better for everybody to watch what goes into their mouths in any case.

nomabeeee:
and it seems u wil hv issues with understanding ur future wife..odiegwu ooo

Akan me kake magana¿

TahariX:
I personally will not cook for anyone I'm not married to. I can cook for you if you're coming over to visit but going to someone's house and cooking for them is just a no-no. I'm not your wife bruh.

abi,sm gals sha.

simpleseyi:


This is why you are still single and seriously searching.

see yuh..am not single and definitely not searching cos I love my man...doorhhh

I see no biggy in it. If I go to my boyfriend's house I will cook. Even my best male friend, whenever I go to his place I cook for us both to eat. If the house is dirty we clean-up together. However, the day I don't feel like doing anything I will sit and cross my legs and we will sort ourselves out by buying boli and groundnut or something else if he cannot cook

nomabeeee:
see yuh..am not single and definitely not searching cos I love my man...doorhhh

Love is also no guarantee a man will marry you.

Gloria3389:

Yes.... getting a boyfriend's heart is not by cooking bro....anyway, we have different pple with different principles....the adage myt apply to u but not everyone.......may I ask if u are married??

So anytime you're in his place, you don't cook?
I'm not married.

pasqal09:

So anytime you're in his place, you don't cook?
I'm not married.

....we have different pple with different ways of life....he won't even allow me....
but if he comes to my place,I cook for him very very well....he prefers coming to my place to eat than allowing me to cook in his place....

Gloria3389:

....we have different pple with different ways of life....he won't even allow me....
but if he comes to my place,I cook for him very very well....he prefers coming to my place to eat than allowing me to cook in his place....

He cooks for you? Hmmm.... Strange man

pasqal09:


He cooks for you? Hmmm.... Strange man

I never went to his place cos of food in the First place....he didn't cook for me oooo

don't worry baby, by the time you are 30+, you will not only cook for him, you will cook for his friends, you will also do the dishes, clean his house, wash his clothes and feed his dogs! Lol.
And for the records, I don't like ladies cooking for me, am an excellent cook, I cook ma own food and I enjoy cooking. I have great culinary skills.

Gloria3389:

I never went to his place cos of food in the First place....he didn't cook for me oooo

so how do u guys eat when you're at his place?

pasqal09:
so how do u guys eat when you're at his place?

is eating part of visit ...
apart from my place....most times we eat outside...

Gloria3389:

is eating part of visit ...
apart from my place....most times we eat outside...

Well since he doesn't want you cooking at his place. That's probably the way he likes it even though I find it weird. But there's no way my gf will be at my place and we'll eat out or I be the one doing the cooking.

pasqal09:


Well since he doesn't want you cooking at his place. That's probably the way he likes it even though I find it weird. But there's no way my gf will be at my place and we'll eat out or I be the one doing the cooking.

different pple, different principle

Sapphire86:


Yes! She is still a guest after all.

well said!
Ladies for the love of God,stop giving boyfriends husband benefits.

The ladies will say no sex, don't cook, etc for him if you're not married. Then I ask, what is your function in the relationship?


Worwor Girls forming Jadon

Gloria3389:

different pple, different principle

Yeah, but there are some that are better than others.

pasqal09:

Yeah, but there are some that are better than others.

that's your opinion

Gloria3389:

that's your opinion

Yes it is. Its not all principles that are correct.

pasqal09:

Yes it is. Its not all principles that are correct.

OK sir...

Gloria3389:

....we have different pple with different ways of life....he won't even allow me....
but if he comes to my place,I cook for him very very well....he prefers coming to my place to eat than allowing me to cook in his place....

Dats what we're saying!!
Better pickin

mascot87:


See her mouth yanyanyan
Na people like u go cook 3 times a day for ur bf when u visit him.You go even dey kneel down dey give him d food self, you come dey make mouth for here.Abegi go sleep it's getting late

werey oo shey u dey vex nii ooo?

Y'all seem to be making a whole big deal outta what's supposed to be no issue at all... If you cook, nor be two of una go chop the food Abi? Na wa!
And who says you two cannot do the cooking together? Well, as far as I am concerned, understanding is the keyword here.
#PEACE!!

Fraih:


Dats what we're saying!!
Better pickin

lolzz

I think d reason they won't agree 2d idea of cooking 4 ur guy is simply because some of these ladies can't cook. They dnt wanna cook 4 thr boyfriends yet they'll keep collecting money as if they're wife. Thank God anyway 4 my fiancée

Godmother:
I see no biggy in it. If I go to my boyfriend's house I will cook. Even my best male friend, whenever I go to his place I cook for us both to eat. If the house is dirty we clean-up together. However, the day I don't feel like doing anything I will sit and cross my legs and we will sort ourselves out by buying boli and groundnut or something else if he cannot cook

So apart from boy friend,there is best male friend.Na wa i fear who no fear girls.

geophysics:
So apart from boy friend,there is best male friend.Na wa i fear who no fear girls.

So because I'm dating someone I should cut off from every male? Incase you must know, my male best friend is engaged to be married soon. We've been friends since we were both 17. I'm not going to cut off from him just because I met a guy.

And also there is and has never been anything shady btw us. A male and a female can be platonic friends, you know

pasqal09:

Then how would she graduate to become a wife?

So cooking for a guy is a criteria to 'graduate' to become a wife

all these feminist on nairaland are the reason i will find one responsible small girl in her early 20 to marry after chopping their kpomo

Klare:
werey oo shey u dey vex nii ooo?

Ugly girl like u dey want my attention,u missed it big time