miztola:
well said!
Ladies for the love of God,stop giving boyfriends husband benefits.

idomalord:


wow. Its like u lyk having ur way.

Sanguine:
Y'all seem to be making a whole big deal outta what's supposed to be no issue at all... If you cook, nor be two of una go chop the food Abi? Na wa!
And who says you two cannot do the cooking together? Well, as far as I am concerned, understanding is the keyword here.
#PEACE!!

Sanguine:
Y'all seem to be making a whole big deal outta what's supposed to be no issue at all... If you cook, nor be two of una go chop the food Abi? Na wa!
And who says you two cannot do the cooking together? Well, as far as I am concerned, understanding is the keyword here.
#PEACE!!

Ntananke:
if you are a girlfriend and you don't cook for your man, how do you expect to proceed to fiancee or even Wife? That's a sound decision if you are having a fling and not in a relationship.

Sapphire86:


Congrats to your bride then!

delors:

You know mother Theresa? Yes, you go old for market so tey nobody go gree buy u even if na free.
So, you are my gf and you come visiting at my apartment you wouldn't cook for me? No wahala, na there you go dey wey another sweet porero go enter, prepare nice egusi for me. Sokoyoto,..... lo l'oko (fill in the gap)

neoapocalypse:


I think he meant women who don't show wifely attributes and not submissiveness. If you don't show me how good a wife you can be while we are dating how do I know you'll be a good wife when we get married. A man will marry a woman out of a bunch if he sees she has good mothering qualities , good home keeper , great cook , gives less trouble ( I think this is where submissiveness comes in ) , has a great business acumen and is career/goal oriented. The physicals come way after all these have been met or at least has a good blend of all ( willingness to take one or two compromises ). Some guys do get it wrong and marry for other reasons , as long as he can live with it and her , who am I to complain.

MaziOmenuko:
The responses from the girls on first page is ridiculous. Its obvious you girls are still young.

@topic, girl dey come spend weeks for my house, na who go dey cook during those weeks

Lol.

TahariX:


I don't even know what all this trash you wrote means.

TahariX:


I hate that word. I hate that being with someone means I have to lose myself. Regardless of whether I'm dating or married, I'm still an individual with opinions and principles that may be different from my SO's. The idea of submissiveness means -to me- that I no longer get to be a person. I'm just supposed to be okay with whatever my SO says or does.

And I cannot picture myself living like that.

opesweet:
Taking into consideration the word "dating" and recent events that have occurred to me...

I would say ladies in the early stages of their relationship should not stress themselves for any guy... Let him do the cooking, or spend his money going to restaurants....

That's how I stressed myself few weekends back and I did not even get any appreciation in return..

Maybe when you guys are getting really serious sha...you can start showing your cooking skills but as for me o, i no dey stress myself ontop any man stomach at the early stages again.

ohaleoghene:
I personally do not see anything wrong with cooking for your boyfriend,only that let it me that you want to because you like to ,or saw a need to.but not so that he will make you his wife. if a guy do not want you,no matter how frequently you cook,he still won't want you. for me,I cook when o go to visit,that is because I like to cook,not to impress or hook him. Do whatever is right for you,do not let society set your standards. and yes is so sexy when I am cooking and I have to send me on errands *baby get the salt*

Gentiejag:
If you truly love him, you would do anything to make him happy, even if it includes cooking for hours....

It does not make you a slave neither does it guarantee your "graduation" to a wife, it only leaves an imprint of the kind of woman you are in the guy's heart if you end up with him or not.

zoe123:
my experience: met this guy in my 1st year in sch.loved him like mad.wen am in his house which was like always, I will cook, clean do laundry n of course fvck am, 3yrs down d line I discovered his screwing my Bestie n she's pregnant. everyone told me to leave it to God everything has a reason.1.5yrs later bros died in a car crash, my friend is now a young widow.but I learnt a lesson a man won't marry u cos ur doing all those stuff for him.if he no love u he no love u.my policy now, if u dey my house I go give u food if I dey ur house u can either cook or we eat out.

sapien:
One of my ex don put salt inside indomie for me before! I be like WTF!

Na kick I kick her comot for my kitchen that day!
I tell her say if she dey find who she go kill, make she go kill her papa or brothers for house!