I and my girl have been going out for more than a year now and she is the sweetest soul I have ever met. Recently I mistakenly saw a text message from an unknown number declaring foolish exhortations of love and when I checked further I saw she had replied the guy, telling him in clear terms to keep off. I brought it to her attention and she laughed it off and told me it was some random guy and I should forget about it which I kind of did.

Three days ago we were talking when her phone rang and she cut the call. It rang again and I became suspicious when she put her phone off. So I probed and she said I shouldnt worry but I insisted she put it back on and eventually she did. Sure enough, like 15mins later this guy calls with same mysterious number and she put it on speaker. It was then I realised he's my friend at work! He was smooth talking her and she warned him once again that she wasn't interested, even went so far as to insult him and finally cut the phone. The guys last words with his fake american accent was 'P*** baby, don't be like this..."

She has assured me that there is nothing going on between them and I believe her but what is really pissing me of is this guy is my friend at work. If we are talking rank he is a junior colleague. I've tried to be matured about it and forget the matter but seriously anytime he walks by my desk I feel like giving him a serious beating. I'm wondering wether to confront him about it or let it slide. Seriously if it were somebody else I think I would have given good advised but now it's happened to me I'm severely confused. I want to beat him up.

Don't lose your job because of a snitch

Tell him to stop propositioning your babe AFTER You are sure there is nothing between them

Beat him up already

5minsmadness:
I and my girl have been going out for more than a year now and she is the sweetest soul I have ever met. Recently I mistakenly saw a text message from an unknown number declaring foolish exhortations of love and when I checked further I saw she had replied the guy, telling him in clear terms to keep off. I brought it to her attention and she laughed it off and told me it was some random guy and I should forget about it which I kind if did.

Three days ago we were talking when her phone rang and she cut the call. It rang again and I became suspicious when she put her phone off. So I probed and she said I shouldnt worry but I insisted she put it back on and eventually she did. Sure enough, like 15mins later this guy calls with same mysterious number and she put it on speaker. It was then I realised he's my friend at work! He was smooth talking her and she warned him once again that she wasn't interested, even went so far as to insult him and finally cut the phone. The guys last words with his fake american accent was 'P*** baby, don't be like this..."

She has assured me that there is nothing going on between them and I believe her but what is really pissing me of is this guy is my friend at work. If we are talking rank he is a junior colleague. I've tried to be matured about it and forget the matter but seriously anytime he walks by my desk I feel like giving him a serious beating. I'm wondering wether to confront him about it or let it slide. Seriously if it were somebody else I think I would have given good advised but now it's happened to me I'm severely confused. I want to beat him up.

you should have talked when he called, before your girl cut the call. Then you feel free to go to work. He might even stop coming to work because of you. But as e be now, confront him and free your mind.

Nothing to say just passing by

Just wait until he calls again then pick d call urself and talk to him and I assure u, dat will be d last tym he'll call her again.

emeraldoe:
Just wait until he calls again then pick d call urself and talk to him and I assure u, dat will be d last tym he'll call her again.

I wonder why he had to bring it to nairaland.

5minsmadness:
I'm wondering wether to confront him about it or let it slide. Seriously if it were somebody else I think I would have given good advised but now it's happened to me I'm severely confused. I want to beat him up.

something isn't adding up here.....
how did your friend at work get your babe's number?

tpia6:


I wonder why he had to bring it to nairaland.

Cos I felt talking about it would make me feel better.

coogar:


something isn't adding up here.....
how did your friend at work get your babe's number?

We are a circle of friends. Everybody has everybody's number. Probably the reason he used a new number cos he didn't want me to find out.

My annoyance is, why didn't she telll me immediately he started this poo?
Av been irritable since Thursday.

5minsmadness:

We are a circle of friends. Everybody has everybody's number. Probably the reason he used a new number cos he didn't want me to find out.

My annoyance is, why didn't she telll me immediately he started this poo?
Av been irritable since Thursday.

Question for d gods

5minsmadness:

We are a circle of friends. Everybody has everybody's number. Probably the reason he used a new number cos he didn't want me to find out.

My annoyance is, why didn't she telll me immediately he started this poo?
Av been irritable since Thursday.

she's a woman!
they tend to enjoy the attention they get from the opposite sėx - it gives them the assurance they are still valuable in the dating market.

coogar:


she's a woman!
they tend to enjoy the attention they get from the opposite sėx - it gives them the assurance they are still valuable in the dating market.

oniranu.nkan tama rie si na niyen

Your co-worker hates you but that's normal.

A co-worker is not a friend.

Does he know the lady as your woman?

If yes,then confront him,if no,tell him.

SAMBARRY:
oniranu.nkan tama rie si na niyen

sambarry, you are here again?
shouldn't you be at tejuosho market - with a dozen shopping bags & sweat all over your face like a sallah ram?

5minsmadness:

We are a circle of friends. Everybody has everybody's number. Probably the reason he used a new number cos he didn't want me to find out.

My annoyance is, why didn't she telll me immediately he started this poo?
Av been irritable since Thursday.

Hehehe
somebody is jolos

As a Caveman that you are, you better find all those spears and rocks cavemen use in those days and beat the hell out of that guy. Cavemen prove their manhood that way.

On a more serious note, confront that guy whenever he calls her again and tell him to back off.

Even with millions of girls all over the place guys are still fighting over girls. Im out.

amtheone:
Even with millions of girls all over the place guys are still fighting over girls..

gbam.

op you too find someone to call you and have your girlfriend pick the call.

5minsmadness:

Cos I felt talking about it would make me feel better.

ok

You should give him the beating of his life
He's a bastard

amtheone:
Even with millions of girls all over the place guys are still fighting over girls. Im out.

With the way i'm feeling and with his scrawny form it won't be a fight, I assure you.
***shut the door on your way out.***

tpia6:



gbam.

op you too find someone to call you and have your girlfriend pick the call.

She'll probably just laugh and shrug it off. Not a jealous bone in her body. And besides it looks kinda childish to do that.

@OP:

She should be able to handle it herself and tell you for information purpose.

However, as it stands, tell him to stop disturbing your girl if you are sure there is nothing between them and cut off all ties with him.

Goodluck.

5minsmadness:

With the way i'm feeling and with his scrawny form it won't be a fight, I assure you.
***shut the door on your way out.***

Ok then, but ur girl will fill so happy. Hope u understand what I mean?

bukatyne:
@OP:

She should be able to handle it herself and tell you for information purpose.

However, as it stands, tell him to stop disturbing your girl if you are sure there is nothing between them and cut off all ties with him.

Goodluck.

Assuming i'm single and a guy ask me to stop talking to a particular girl, I will really feel so sad about his life.

Abeg beat him up and get it out of your system jare.

Somehow I smell trouble - don't confront the fellow, smile/work as if nothing happened cos any form of talks/conversation can make a good story of "Jealous, over-bearing, are you sure she's even Ur babe, guy park well" headline

Don't dwell on it.......simply accept her assurance.

**actually I have lost a girlfriend to a friend that way#smile

She claim they were fellowship members , little did I know he has telling her to leave me and come with him

They are married now

The things that threaten 5minsmadness never look but on his back and when they see his face,they will varnish.

DWJOBScom:
Somehow I smell trouble - don't confront the fellow, smile/work as if nothing happened cos any form of talks/conversation can make a good story of. "Jealous, over-bearing, are sure she's even Ur babe, guy park well" headline

Don't dwell on it.......simply accept her assurance.

**actually I have lost a girlfriend to a friend that way#smile

She claim they were fellowship members , little did I know he has telling her to leave me and come with him

They are married now

Jesu ,ur friend gan gan?