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Re: How Do You Define An Independent Woman?. by xynerise: 11:08am On Nov 08, 2014 |
Caracta:An independent woman still needs help dear |
Re: How Do You Define An Independent Woman?. by jaybee3(m): 11:08am On Nov 08, 2014 |
An independent woman is simply a determined selfless woman with true values. |
Re: How Do You Define An Independent Woman?. by thernee: 11:12am On Nov 08, 2014 |
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Re: How Do You Define An Independent Woman?. by freecocoa(f): 11:12am On Nov 08, 2014 |
chibwike:You know I'll ask you to, so no run o. ![]() |
Re: How Do You Define An Independent Woman?. by Nobody: 11:12am On Nov 08, 2014 |
lilmax:not true. asking is different from relying. you can ask for a little help because no man is self sufficient, but expecting him to assume a parental role isnt advisable. mumumugu:until then...... |
Re: How Do You Define An Independent Woman?. by Nobody: 11:13am On Nov 08, 2014 |
independent woman is not real in a domain male & female species cohabit. It is a false/fake ideology by some modern day women whose dreams of being loyal & loved have unfortunately been defiled by circumstances. 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How Do You Define An Independent Woman?. by Nobody: 11:14am On Nov 08, 2014 |
xynerise:true, no human is self sufficient. we can't survive on our own, everybody will cetainly need help at some point. |
Re: How Do You Define An Independent Woman?. by lilmax(m): 11:15am On Nov 08, 2014 |
3cycle:just imagine,a little help.... Smh |
Re: How Do You Define An Independent Woman?. by Caracta(f): 11:17am On Nov 08, 2014 |
xynerise: Yes she can. However, she can still stand her ground if help doesn't come. That's my point. |
Re: How Do You Define An Independent Woman?. by StealthyMe(m): 11:17am On Nov 08, 2014 |
freecocoa: lol...i can understand your point. In a relationship,both partners are dependent on the other for certain things...but i think what piques my male folk is the unwillingness of some females to work hard and achieve their success instead claiming that which their partner has - especially material things ( when he's just the bf). To some people,some things are giveable while to others they aren't An advice to the ladies - work hard,achieve success...trust me you'll be respected and then you can get what you want without relying on any man. |
Re: How Do You Define An Independent Woman?. by Nobody: 11:20am On Nov 08, 2014 |
lilmax:i used "little" so we can know that there are limits to what you should ask for. |
Re: How Do You Define An Independent Woman?. by xynerise: 11:20am On Nov 08, 2014 |
Caracta:Stand her ground financially? |
Re: How Do You Define An Independent Woman?. by Caracta(f): 11:24am On Nov 08, 2014 |
xynerise: Yes. There are ways to survive. Some don't need to beg for money. They just need to be smart and hardworking. |
Re: How Do You Define An Independent Woman?. by UjSizzle(f): 11:26am On Nov 08, 2014 |
Hmm I didn't know we had so many dictionaries on Nairaland o ![]() How do you define an independent woman, when no one is really 'independent'? ![]() |
Re: How Do You Define An Independent Woman?. by jaybee3(m): 11:28am On Nov 08, 2014 |
UjSizzle:In the context of relationships miss independent ![]() |
Re: How Do You Define An Independent Woman?. by jaybee3(m): 11:28am On Nov 08, 2014 |
I see you caracta |
Re: How Do You Define An Independent Woman?. by Caracta(f): 11:31am On Nov 08, 2014 |
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Re: How Do You Define An Independent Woman?. by UjSizzle(f): 11:32am On Nov 08, 2014 |
jaybee3:Why does a woman have to be independent in a relationship, when relationships are all about interdependence? |
Re: How Do You Define An Independent Woman?. by xynerise: 11:34am On Nov 08, 2014 |
Caracta:A hardworking woman still needs help to succeed. I am talking about capital support 1 Like |
Re: How Do You Define An Independent Woman?. by Nobody: 11:35am On Nov 08, 2014 |
Some people are mentioning beyonce. Beyonce is independent yet JayZ does things for her. When she was about giving birth, jayZ rented a whole hospital. No papparazi or cameras to film anything. He bought a whole amusement park for blue ivy. I am sure there are other stuffs jayZ did for beyonce and beyonce also did stuff for jayz, whether she bought a car or so, someone remind me abeg. So you see, as a man with an independent woman, you still have to do stuff for her to show you love and value her. To show that she is worth it. She does things for you, you do things for her. thats it. I think if we dnt have so many useless married men that are money miss roads that cant keep their diks in their pants, spending on wh0res, ladies in turn would work hard so as not to be totally dependent on a man. I think in this 2014, ladies should strive to be independent. But the fact that they are independent does not mean you should fold your arms or be a parasite as a man. Just saying. 7 Likes |
Re: How Do You Define An Independent Woman?. by Caracta(f): 11:39am On Nov 08, 2014 |
xynerise: I don't get. In terms of what? Everyone needs help...even Dangote. What do you do when help isn't forthcoming? Commit suicide? Blame GEJ? |
Re: How Do You Define An Independent Woman?. by jaybee3(m): 11:41am On Nov 08, 2014 |
UjSizzle:We are still talking about gf/bf type of relationships right? |
Re: How Do You Define An Independent Woman?. by freecocoa(f): 11:42am On Nov 08, 2014 |
Caracta:I'm not talking about shameless, jobless beggars my sister, I used firstEva's case as an instance(although I don't know if she's jobless sha) but I'm talking strong, smart, hardworking sister reaching out to her man who is more than capable to help when you need it who in turn might also need help one time or another, ofcourse it doesn't have to be an everyday affair. The way people go about this stuff makes it look like it's a taboo, hence this thread. |
Re: How Do You Define An Independent Woman?. by UjSizzle(f): 11:42am On Nov 08, 2014 |
jaybee3:Yup. Bf/Gf. |
Re: How Do You Define An Independent Woman?. by xynerise: 11:44am On Nov 08, 2014 |
Caracta:Erm....you can direct these questions at the Op......or we can simply blame GEJ |
Re: How Do You Define An Independent Woman?. by jaybee3(m): 11:44am On Nov 08, 2014 |
UjSizzle:So how then do they have to rely on the other for the relationship to succeed |
Re: How Do You Define An Independent Woman?. by freecocoa(f): 11:45am On Nov 08, 2014 |
StealthyMe:Well said. 1 Like |
Re: How Do You Define An Independent Woman?. by UjSizzle(f): 11:46am On Nov 08, 2014 |
jaybee3:Remind mw again why people bother going into relationships of that nature again? All I ever heard by way of reason was how the other provides "support". Well, people want different kinds of support, ranging from emotional to sexual to financial. How is that not interdependence? |
Re: How Do You Define An Independent Woman?. by xynerise: 11:47am On Nov 08, 2014 |
Sophyrocks:Mr. man just say Xynerise and not some people ![]() |
Re: How Do You Define An Independent Woman?. by freecocoa(f): 11:48am On Nov 08, 2014 |
xynerise:Senior antelope, no come spoil this thread o. Bey tell you say Jay no dey buy things for her ni? |
Re: How Do You Define An Independent Woman?. by Caracta(f): 11:49am On Nov 08, 2014 |
freecocoa: This is Nigeria. Home of hypocrites. I don't know about the lady's case but no boyfriend is OBLIGATED to help a girlfriend and vice versa. It shouldn't be a right but a sense of responsibility. Nobody in a relationship should be forced to help his/her partner. The whole thing should be driven by love, love and love. If you love me and you see me in misery, yet you fold your arms, I would throw the love back in your face BUT I wouldn't hold it against you. Your choice. My life. 1 Like |
Re: How Do You Define An Independent Woman?. by jaybee3(m): 11:50am On Nov 08, 2014 |
freecocoa:Lemme ask you this question cocoa: Would your level of disappointment be on the high side if an equally capable friend of yours decide against helping you. Remember your bf is techically only your friend and as such shouldn't be expected to do things just because you spend a lil more of your time with them |
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