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Re: How Do You Define An Independent Woman?. by 2good(m): 4:54pm On Nov 08, 2014 |
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Re: How Do You Define An Independent Woman?. by Nobody: 4:58pm On Nov 08, 2014 |
With due consideration for contextand reality, an independent woman is one who does not consistently depend on others for her survival, particularly when such Independence confers a status of authority on the provider |
Re: How Do You Define An Independent Woman?. by edogho(m): 4:59pm On Nov 08, 2014 |
too many definitions. buh who is really independent? mi answer is - NONE. one way or d other, whether its in a relationship or not, all living things that have life is dependent one way or d other on something/someone. d word independent as i see all this mi good friends' comments above mine defining it, is totally delusional. its high time we started facing reality lest we end up like d giant of africa (NB: mean no harm for i'm a citizen of that giant of africa too). |
Re: How Do You Define An Independent Woman?. by DollyParton1(f): 5:03pm On Nov 08, 2014 |
freecocoa:She is a lady who actually does not need the help of her boyfriend, fiancé or husband. But she has willingly decided to let him take care of her and has come to rely on the guy. Notwithstanding if the guy slack or drag feet small she go just pick up the slack and take care of things excellently. |
Re: How Do You Define An Independent Woman?. by DollyParton1(f): 5:06pm On Nov 08, 2014 |
Lordabas: ![]() |
Re: How Do You Define An Independent Woman?. by Konjour(m): 5:06pm On Nov 08, 2014 |
Who the hell on earth is 'Independent'? If you think having money to pay bills makes you independent, why not eat, drink, and bathe in the money? Why purchase goods and services with the money? None bar none is 'Independent'. I understand the context with which the OP is talking about 'Independent women' but even then its all a status symbol. If you wanna be really Independent, go create your own country, live there alone, build your own house yourself, build your own car yourself, plant your own food, create your own business and patronize yourself FFS. Show me someone who claims to be an Independent person and I'd show you an ungrateful person who simply disregards the contribution of other people in his/her life. |
Re: How Do You Define An Independent Woman?. by Nobody: 5:08pm On Nov 08, 2014 |
freecocoa: Wow that's cool so we can share the car you bought all by yourself , I knew you have a good heart. Bless your soul , your guy is one lucky bastaaard. |
Re: How Do You Define An Independent Woman?. by Nwanneluv(f): 5:34pm On Nov 08, 2014 |
Konjour:Nice! Well said! |
Re: How Do You Define An Independent Woman?. by adconline(m): 5:47pm On Nov 08, 2014 |
freecocoa:So your boyfriend giving u one of his cars is love?? Then it's the responsibility of your parents to buy a Ferrari or they don't love u. Why is it OK for ur parents not to allow to drive their cars, but it's expected that your BF is supposed let you have his car?? Has your BF bought a car for his parents?? It seems you don't know the BIG difference a GF and a Wife ![]() 1 Like |
Re: How Do You Define An Independent Woman?. by freecocoa(f): 5:54pm On Nov 08, 2014 |
neoapocalypse:Why can't we? I can share my car with my friends let alone someone I share my most intimate thoughts with, I must be from another planet with what I'm reading on this thread. |
Re: How Do You Define An Independent Woman?. by UjSizzle(f): 5:56pm On Nov 08, 2014 |
Misogynist2014:Fear? Lol more like mild irritation ![]() 1 Like |
Re: How Do You Define An Independent Woman?. by 1miccza: 6:03pm On Nov 08, 2014 |
She's a woman that knows how to sing Neyo's "Miss independent" |
Re: How Do You Define An Independent Woman?. by Stephxoblessed(f): 6:05pm On Nov 08, 2014 |
An independent lady is a lady who earns by engaging in something genuie using the outcome to pay her bills.thats who i aim to be. |
Re: How Do You Define An Independent Woman?. by freecocoa(f): 6:07pm On Nov 08, 2014 |
adconline:Who told you it's ok for my folks not to allow me use their car? Matter of fact, my siblings and I use it if need be. One thing with NL, is that most people just love to argue for the sake of it, not that they actually mean or even know what they are talking about. I don't know why you are bringing his parents into this, the thread that prompted this one made it clear that the car was parked, if his parents needed it, it's more than ok for him to give it to them, what I'm talking about is how I can be in need and him being able to help without helping so I don't know what you are getting at, the car was only used figuratively by me. |
Re: How Do You Define An Independent Woman?. by NobleG1(m): 6:18pm On Nov 08, 2014 |
freecocoa: The man also shares his body, his time, his brain, his energy etc with you too. That he's your boyfriend doesn't mean he's responsible for you? Before you call yourself an independent woman, go check the meaning first on a dictionary. If you're truly independent, you won't be expecting a man to buy or give you a car, buy or give you a house or pay your rent, buy your clothes or pay for your jewels etc. An independent woman has diginity and attracts more respect and admiration from men because she takes care of herself and pays for her stuff and don't sits and expects or waits for a man to do anythiny for her. That your boyfriend has two or more cars doesn't make it mandatory that he must give you one. In fact, his relationship with you is not even mandatory. You're not his wife and he's NOT responsible for you. Any thing he does for you is just a gift at his own will. The golddigger mentally most Nigerian women have is very pathetic. Having a boyfriend, to them, is about getting someone who can pay for their rents, give them money and buy them stuff. Marraige to them, is about getting a permanent fool they can extort money and get material stuff from all their lives. After school the next thing on their list is marriage NOT a career. The only "gift" they give their men is normally one cheap t-shirt or st*upid tie they bought with your money. But they always demand you give them expensive gifts. There are very few independent women in Nigeria while others pure golddiggers and you, OP, are one of them. 4 Likes |
Re: How Do You Define An Independent Woman?. by adconline(m): 6:28pm On Nov 08, 2014 |
freecocoa:Problem with u, is that u thrive in fantasy and delusion while most of us see it with realistic prism. You believe that your body entitles you u to man's possesion and you are not backing down on it. It's what you bring to the table outside S3X that endears to the man. So if the man has another house/apt, his gf gets a key to the house? The man shares his ATM pin and bank account with his gf?? Only women like u come with nothing and demand to have equal possession of a man's sweat... Smh. That's what wives are for not GFs.. |
Re: How Do You Define An Independent Woman?. by freecocoa(f): 6:31pm On Nov 08, 2014 |
NobleG1:I've kept my cool on this but for you I make an exception so I say feck you for calling me a gold digger, just what is it with you people and claiming to know everything? Did you check the meaning of the word 'independent' before spewing the gibberish you just did? Since you obviously did not, I urge you to read further down this thread and find where it's been explained for dumb heads like you, try take a look at it and then realize that no one is actually independent and as for the context we are discussing, understand people's pov before rushing to insult them. If I said I share things including my body with him, does that not automatically tell you his body is in the mix? Please do well to show me where I said a boyfriend should be responsible for his girlfriend,y'all talk as if, if you were in need and your woman could help but wouldn't, that you wouldn't feel any disappointment, if you must know, I don't believe in leeching on someone but we all depend on each other one way or another in life, like you didn't read the part where I said the man can also ask his woman for help if she can render it, bunch of crazy mofos, feck you again, cheers ![]() |
Re: How Do You Define An Independent Woman?. by danchuzzy(m): 6:33pm On Nov 08, 2014 |
Matthewbriggs: #aroundofapplause who's this guy ![]() ![]() 1 Like |
Re: How Do You Define An Independent Woman?. by freecocoa(f): 6:40pm On Nov 08, 2014 |
adconline:My God! Please just go already, arguing with you is a colossal waste of time, no disrespect please, but even after all the back and forth you still choose to avoid the obvious, then it's really no use. You clearly didn't see the other things I mentioned alongside the body ofcourse, typical of you people to grasp at straws instead of facing reality. |
Re: How Do You Define An Independent Woman?. by adconline(m): 6:47pm On Nov 08, 2014 |
freecocoa:My dear, other things you mention are secondary and hide under the pretext of s3x.. S3x takes precedence over other things u mentioned.. If u didn't have s3x with the guy, would u have the guts to ask him to give u his other car?? 1 Like |
Re: How Do You Define An Independent Woman?. by freecocoa(f): 6:52pm On Nov 08, 2014 |
adconline:For starters I've explained why the car instance was used, I'd like to think you read the OP, seriously mister it's becoming irritating, isn't it obvious from your comment that you guys are the ones who attach so much importance to $ex? If you know me in person you'd really feel stup1d for asking me that question, nuffsaid. |
Re: How Do You Define An Independent Woman?. by NobleG1(m): 7:15pm On Nov 08, 2014 |
freecocoa: Let me remind you (you probably forgot). Your post was about supporting a woman who was upset that her boyfriend didn't give her one the two cars he owns. You know, Golddiggers defend other golddiggers. I called you out on it and now you're trying to cover your tracks. You have no clue what "independent" means because if you did, you wouldn't create this thread. You can throw any curse word at me but it won't hide the obvious that you're golddigger. I feel sorry for any man who would have any sort of "relationship" with you. Cheers and enjoy your golddigging spree. 4 Likes |
Re: How Do You Define An Independent Woman?. by freecocoa(f): 7:19pm On Nov 08, 2014 |
NobleG1:Aren't just just a very fine hediot? I bet you also did not see the part where I said I only wondered because people made it look like a crime for just even thinking she can use his car, my man? Oh please he is the luckiest man alive and he knows it, so take your dumb head outta this place and go play with your miserable self. See how you conveniently couldn't even counter any points I've made, yeye dey small, biko run along make we see road, ezi. |
Re: How Do You Define An Independent Woman?. by NobleG1(m): 7:25pm On Nov 08, 2014 |
freecocoa: You've no other points for me to counter. You're a golddigger, that's the point you made! 2 Likes |
Re: How Do You Define An Independent Woman?. by fulanigirl(f): 7:26pm On Nov 08, 2014 |
mesoade: I see nothing in what she said!! The guy had two, why can't he help someone he claims to love. If I was in excess of something my love needed why wouldn't I give it to him? I wouldn't even hesitate. You men are constantly talking about how you want women to support their men but complain about a man supporting their woman. I'm not talking about support as in taking full responsibility of a person but little things. Would it kill him to let her use one? If it was the other way round half of you wont be saying the same thing!! I'm sure she would see no issue in him using her car. E.g. If he asked her for money and she doesn't give it to him would you guys comment, is she your wife? Would you say get your own and stop being a liability? You guys ruin your relationships before it even gets anywhere by assuming the worst in a person! Always trying to avoid being the "maga" rather than just loving each other and trusting your partner. Him letting her use his car is called kindness and being a gentleman. 1 Like |
Re: How Do You Define An Independent Woman?. by freecocoa(f): 7:30pm On Nov 08, 2014 |
NobleG1:Oya go na, have I dug any gold from you? Do you even have any gold to start with? Nwoke'm zuzuru gi si ebe a puo, it's not in any way my fault that you lack comprehension skills. Broke ass niggas be crying like babies whenever money is mentioned, coming on NL to talk as if you have anything to say when in reality you pay for $ex, ozu re re ere ![]() 1 Like |
Re: How Do You Define An Independent Woman?. by InvertedHammer: 7:39pm On Nov 08, 2014 |
/ There is no such thing as an Independent woman. It is a phrase coined to fulfill a certain purpose but has been overflogged by militant feminists. One who is able to fulfill her financial obligations is successful but not Independent. Successful Woman? Yes! Independent woman? The target audience are the baby mamas of African-American descent and other White-trash likes mothrrs that depend on the system and child support payment for survival. A break out from the system (a la deadbeat or incarcerated dad) and being able to live well without any input from the system is seen as a great achievement and a celebration of independence. Someone who can pay her rent, buy a car and other stuff, yet lives paycheck to paycheck will be the first to remind you that she is Ms Independent. Lol. Among the successful and educated women group, such phrase do not exist. / |
Re: How Do You Define An Independent Woman?. by NobleG1(m): 7:49pm On Nov 08, 2014 |
freecocoa: ![]() I'm f*ucking rich! |
Re: How Do You Define An Independent Woman?. by InvertedHammer: 7:54pm On Nov 08, 2014 |
NobleG1:/ Calm down. Zuckerberg does not talk like this. \ |
Re: How Do You Define An Independent Woman?. by NobleG1(m): 7:59pm On Nov 08, 2014 |
InvertedHammer: That golddigger (freecocoa) upsets me. |
Re: How Do You Define An Independent Woman?. by freecocoa(f): 7:59pm On Nov 08, 2014 |
NobleG1:Ofcourse you are rich on NL na, who isn't? Enyia go and keep paying for $ex and leave me be. |
Re: How Do You Define An Independent Woman?. by NobleG1(m): 8:03pm On Nov 08, 2014 |
freecocoa: I can pay 500 of you for sex at once if I want. Just don't get me started. |
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