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Re: How Do You Define An Independent Woman?. by InvertedHammer: 8:12pm On Nov 08, 2014 |
NobleG1: This is NL. Do you expect people to pander to your emotion? Being the weekend, some are typing after consuming the sixth bottle of big stout. If you cannot take the heat on NL, do not comment. Or better, browse in "guest mode". / |
Re: How Do You Define An Independent Woman?. by mesoade(m): 8:13pm On Nov 08, 2014 |
fulanigirl:She's not his wife. |
Re: How Do You Define An Independent Woman?. by NobleG1(m): 8:17pm On Nov 08, 2014 |
InvertedHammer: Are you the moderator? |
Re: How Do You Define An Independent Woman?. by Nobody: 8:31pm On Nov 08, 2014 |
NobleG1:people who are rich do not make noise, broke guys everywhere, jeez. |
Re: How Do You Define An Independent Woman?. by adconline(m): 8:32pm On Nov 08, 2014 |
fulanigirl:Your BF is not your father or mother to provide u with best things in life! The goodies or gold you are demanding from ur BF should Ve started from u and ur family.. It's not BF job to provide u with luxury and fantasy life your parents failed to give u. |
Re: How Do You Define An Independent Woman?. by Nobody: 8:40pm On Nov 08, 2014 |
freecocoa: Really freecocoa , you'd be willing to share your car with your boyfriend or you're only saying it just to appear benevolent. |
Re: How Do You Define An Independent Woman?. by Nobody: 8:46pm On Nov 08, 2014 |
An independent woman sees what she gets from d man as just a bonus cos she relies solely on herself,though not saying she cant ask things because we can't shy away from giving in relationships.An independent woman won't have the mentality of calling his man stingy because he refuses to give her one of his two cars,giving you his car is a priviledge and should not be seen as a right,and if he doesn't it shouldn't be a big deal. |
Re: How Do You Define An Independent Woman?. by Nobody: 8:49pm On Nov 08, 2014 |
I want to ask all the ladies on this thread a question - Can you date a man who is jobless ? 1 Like |
Re: How Do You Define An Independent Woman?. by jbaby265(f): 8:51pm On Nov 08, 2014 |
chibwike: i love dis one..tnx |
Re: How Do You Define An Independent Woman?. by Nobody: 9:00pm On Nov 08, 2014 |
interesting |
Re: How Do You Define An Independent Woman?. by NobleG1(m): 9:04pm On Nov 08, 2014 |
firstEVA: Rich guys don't makes noise, they only state facts of their wealth when their financial condition is challenged. Which happened to me. If you were following my conversation with that golddigger, you won't make that dumb comment. I'm rich and so what? Don't hate me, hate game. |
Re: How Do You Define An Independent Woman?. by fulanigirl(f): 9:05pm On Nov 08, 2014 |
adconline: When did i state anywhere that it is my boyfriends job to do that. Also I did not once use the word job/responsibility or imply that in my post. Nor did I say I have ever demanded things from my boyfriend. My parents have provided with more luxuries than I can imagine and I as my own person can do the same. I think you should learn to read |
Re: How Do You Define An Independent Woman?. by Nobody: 9:09pm On Nov 08, 2014 |
NobleG1:shhhhhhhhhhhhh The more you rant, the "broker" you sound |
Re: How Do You Define An Independent Woman?. by freecocoa(f): 9:11pm On Nov 08, 2014 |
neoapocalypse:Jesus christ! Haa I'm in shock that you'd ask me such a question. |
Re: How Do You Define An Independent Woman?. by NobleG1(m): 9:23pm On Nov 08, 2014 |
firstEVA: That's all you're after, to know if I'm rich. Here we go again, another golddigger. 1 Like |
Re: How Do You Define An Independent Woman?. by freecocoa(f): 9:47pm On Nov 08, 2014 |
neoapocalypse:I have dated men who were jobless at the time, so? |
Re: How Do You Define An Independent Woman?. by Nobody: 9:54pm On Nov 08, 2014 |
freecocoa: freecocoa I know you're a good girl but can you honestly say the same for other ladies , I believe you have the heart to share with your bf what is yours and wouldn't mind even getting a car for your bf if you have. The thing is most ladies out there don't have that magnanimity , the poster who elicited this thread wouldn't think about sharing with a bf if she has. The mentality out there amongst ladies is if he can't spend on me no coochie for him |
Re: How Do You Define An Independent Woman?. by Nobody: 9:54pm On Nov 08, 2014 |
freecocoa: |
Re: How Do You Define An Independent Woman?. by freecocoa(f): 10:20pm On Nov 08, 2014 |
neoapocalypse:Okay then. |
Re: How Do You Define An Independent Woman?. by Nobody: 10:47pm On Nov 08, 2014 |
neoapocalypse:I am the poster who elicited this thread, and because of 3 sentences you believe I have never shared a thing with him, that's hilarious. If you have any idea what we've both been through, u wouldn't say this. I have said enough about myself. |
Re: How Do You Define An Independent Woman?. by Nobody: 10:53pm On Nov 08, 2014 |
firstEVA: My dear I no know say na you , accept my apologies if you find it insulting |
Re: How Do You Define An Independent Woman?. by Niteezy: 10:55pm On Nov 08, 2014 |
mesoade:yet he can bang her when he didn't contribute anything to bring her up and has not put a ring on her finger nt 2 talk of taking her 2 d alter. Smh |
Re: How Do You Define An Independent Woman?. by Pamcrest(f): 11:03pm On Nov 08, 2014 |
My definition - A woman who can carry her own weight n hold her own, earns her living, maintains n sustains her lifestyle, with a high dose of self confidence, self worth n self esteem. But in essence, no one is independent.....we all need someone to lean on! Esp in a relationship, u give up d "I" for "We" My humble submission |
Re: How Do You Define An Independent Woman?. by Nobody: 11:14pm On Nov 08, 2014 |
neoapocalypse:it's fine, I only feel people jump to hasty conclusions. |
Re: How Do You Define An Independent Woman?. by CAMNEWTON4PRES: 2:27am On Nov 09, 2014 |
Seems like the feminazi in chief wants to eat her cake and have it What happened to the i'm a strong woman , I don't need no man blah blah slogans ? Op e b like say you only wear the pants when it benefits u, looking for the day you feminazi will buy cars to your boyfriends (not husbands) Eh Eh 2 Likes |
Re: How Do You Define An Independent Woman?. by CHoccolaTE: 5:17am On Nov 09, 2014 |
Freecocoa; don't get worked up over that car thread because the truth is that what you read on Nairaland is very different from what obtains in real life. Real life relationships; except they are fraught with greed and selfcenterdness, are usually symbiotic. Bf helps gf and vice versa. But online they come here and make noise about how she is not his wife so its very wrong to do anything for her. Start a thread writing of your intention to withhold financial assistance from your poor boyfriend and watch them scream for days about how you are a liability because you don't improve his life. That's just the way of things on this site and I don't know why maybe cos there are so many children or so many introverts online....... Real world is different. 1 Like |
Re: How Do You Define An Independent Woman?. by Spidermon: 6:01am On Nov 09, 2014 |
Basically, a woman who doesn't live like a uni-cellular organism. A woman who mostly can do without parasitism, symbiotism and other dependent behaviours mostly seen in disease causing organisms. Make I flex, make she flex then make we flex together. No be say she go dey clingy or dey bill me like say I be her foster father. |
Re: How Do You Define An Independent Woman?. by 2good(m): 6:23am On Nov 09, 2014 |
Niteezy:Is she not also banging him? Did he put gun in her head before banging her? And why do women always want marriage even when they have nothing to offer? |
Re: How Do You Define An Independent Woman?. by ice234: 7:14am On Nov 09, 2014 |
So he isn't sharing his body, his time, his brain, his energy with you? The question is what are you bringing to the table. If it just your body, then ..... Think of something else to offer other than your body, cause anyone can offer it as well. Be an asset and not a liability. freecocoa: |
Re: How Do You Define An Independent Woman?. by ice234: 7:32am On Nov 09, 2014 |
FirstEva case was way off it, she tagged him selfish for not sharing. You see she has already judged him. She might be his side chick,. freecocoa: |
Re: How Do You Define An Independent Woman?. by freecocoa(f): 7:42am On Nov 09, 2014 |
CHoccolaTE:My dear, just too many hypocrites everywhere it's actually disgusting. 1 Like |
Re: How Do You Define An Independent Woman?. by CHoccolaTE: 8:58am On Nov 09, 2014 |
freecocoa:Majority of men are just noise makers and braggarts. Take what they say seriously at your own peril ![]() |
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