I just wish to share my honeymoon bitter and sweet experience for you and also get inspiration.

A little Intro to how it all started: So i met this guy during the course of work in my former office and he started chasing me, my colleagues then ask me not to agree that he looks like a player. He looks like one that never get a No for an answer, so me and my colleagues use him to have a good lunch, dinner or whenever we just feel like going to that cinema, he won't ever dissapoint, he'll take us there, a year after i left the company but he kept on chasing, so one day i was passing through some difficult times in my career, i felt like resigning but he came to me and advise me wisely, he told me how to tackle the challenges and when i did, it works perfectly so i started liking him, so i called him that we can date if only he will adhere to my conditions, he asked me to list the conditions and i did as stated below:
1) No Sex
2) No romance
3) No Kissing
Infact no touches.

He agreed with so much pains in his eyes, but after 6 months of dating, we begin to hug anyway and light kisses.

But through out the relationship, i was always walking with shoulders held very high up there, thinking that shebi he's the one begging me, i will scream and always want things done my way.

For a year, i misbehave alot but after i begin to be the girl he would want me to be, i wasnt really shouting or screaming anymore but i was still so full of pride, but i started loving him very well.

On the first week of August he proposed, and we got married over 2 weeks ago, the wedding went well everyone was happy but after all the happiness, dancing, eating and greetings by friends and family, i found out later i was left with him in the car and the driver.

We went into the hotel room that evening and he started answering calls, so i use that opportunity to rush to the bathroom and took my bath, after i finish bathing, lying down on the bed and thinking of how sex will look like, he tapped my leg and said i should come and bath him, i was like, bath you? how na, he said i should not waste his time, i wanted to say something again and he opened his eyes, the way he has not opened it before so i was scared, i jump off bed to the bathroom and started pouring water on him, he ask if i was in my right senses in a very fierce way, i shake my head saying yes, he said he doesnt think so that if i was i will be unclad by now, so i told him i wasnt going to bath him anymore, i left, went to the bed and lie, he completed the bath and came to meet me in the room.

He held me and said, yes i married you, he didnt say anything again he just stared at me, then dragged me closer and started kissing me, then he said i should UnCloth him, what was surprising to me though was that his stuff was now 300% bigger than what i saw while i try to bath him, i thought maybe he had used something on it so i started to shift back, he pulled me back and i never knew how powerful he was until that evening, cos his hands just seem to be pulling me like im an ant, at that point i tried to fight him but he practically raped me, i screamed and shouted my life out but it seems he is enjoying the shout so i started to remain calm and then he said hold me, hold me very tight and i remember my mom telling me, do whatever he says to make him happy, so i grabbed him with two hands very tight to my body and as i did, i also started enjoying the sex so i started calling him baby.

After the first round, it was like i had an accident, i was so tired i couldnt stand up, i couldnt even hold a paper i was breathing fast, it felt like i will die, i ask him to get me lucozade or something to regain my energy, he gave me drink and i just wanted to sleep off, he came waking me up and wanted to start another thing, i screamed at him and he said look at me very well, you see all that up shoulder you use to display while we were dating? you've got to drop it at the wedding reception because if you take it to the wedding, you will just be crying, do you know how many years you make me impotent, should i analyse the insult you gave me and all of that, now respect yourself, stand up and do the needful.

Fear crib me like i have made a mistake, i cried and ran down to the bed to UnCloth he said no way, now i want it standing, i tried to imagine how somebody will stand to have sex but before i could finish thinking, he's dragged me out of bed and there it goes, painful and annoying i was just crying.

After he finished that, i went on my knee to beg him for forgivenness for all the shout and scream i use to shout at him that i was ready to make a new turn, he said fine, that the new turn will mean that i will now respect and do everything he wants me to, i said yes i will do.

Then he said, come on suck this, you won't imagine what he ask me to suck , how in the world can a husband be so wicked

I said not this, he said ok, seems you are not ready to comply, he came for me and i bit him, fought him, he allowed me beat him after i finish beating him, he raped me and its really hurting me like i want to die.

Now everyday he made me suck him, all the bad things one could dream of is what he likes, if he ask me to do something and i refuse he wont beat me, instead he will come for me and rape me.

I am so tired, i don't know why one man will want to have sex up to countles times in a day, i was just wondering.

UNTILL HE CAME TO REVEAL TO ME TODAY THAT HE IS PUNISHING ME FOR WHAT I DID TO HIM OVER THE YEARS.

He finds joy in doing it and im so pained, is he going to change, should i report him to our pastor or my parent?

so sorry baby...
I really do not now what to say to you.
we all make mistakes in life. just count this as one of them...
I pray you both find forgiveness and peace..

Another reason we always insist on sex before marriage.

A man and woman should be friends and explore each other physically and spiritually before marriage without taking advantage of each other.

You took advantage of him instead of making it a mutual decision not to have sex or have minimal sex.

Talk to your pastor, leave family out if you want peace in your young marriage cos even though family may intervene, it will hurt his ego and lead to further problems.

Op why do i feel like this story is not true?

Well incase you are telling the truth.please and please you have to report him to your parents and pastor,this is abuse oo,that guy is a beast!

You still have a long way to go in this marriage,starting your marriage this way spells doom!

he is bent on making your life miserable and digging a very wide well down there,if you understand what i mean

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Well,report to his family member,they should be able to help.

Nitori olorun op next time u re writing dis kind of story u try as much as possible to include morale of the story is very very important

You married a maniac

faithugo64:
Op why do i feel like this story is not true?

Well incase you are telling the truth.please and please you have to report him to your parents and pastor,this is abuse oo,that guy is a beast!
he is bent on making your life miserable and digging a very wide well down there,if you understand what i mean

Hmmm I also think dis story eeeh.

I hate long posts,somebody should sumarise this

Punish him by getting another dick..



Wasted kitty-cat ain't allowed in the game.

But this is not true

blesie:
so you think i made this up instead of you to pity me.i resumed work this week and i have been running home cos he warns i hv to be home at 6pm. once i get home. kneel to greet him the next tin is rape. even when im cooking. he will come to the kitchen

Ok.... You gotta do this, report him to your pastor, I mean the one that officiated your marriage. Tell him/her what you are passing through, I believe he will be able to do something to your man.

And.... You must be honest with him.(your husband) Tell him you love him and love having sex with him, but having it in such a manner disgusts and irritates you

Marriage is about respect and understanding. If rough sex is a problem to you, it’s his problem too and he must learn to respect you and your body.

Apologise to him but if he fails to forgive you then you demand for what is your right. BTW what kinda man punishes his wife that much? I mean you are his happiness and reason for living.

Sit him down and talk to him, if he comes for a rough sex, resist him. If he rapes you again then file a case. It is that simple.

He said he is punishing you so there is even a possibility that he may divorce you later. I mean how is it possible to live happily with him when he is done with his punishments? I can't see it happening.

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Wetin person no go read for this romance section Your husband is r.aping and manhandling you everyday. How can I give a meaningful advice to a story that sounds outlandish
Anyways, The man seems like a sadist n might soon graduate to hitting you. You av to make a stand now at d beginning of d marriage. Marriage shouldnt be hellish n If you put up with this now, u will continue to be miserable as it will only get worse.

This story get as e be

mayapop:
Why would a man wanna go all Spartacus on his woman during their honeymoon, hmmm if your story is true, you need to leave him, jeez!

all Spartacus eh!
she won't be if she was true in the first place!

Funny & foolish story . Anyway , if the story is true, i will advice you to start enjoying the s3x now...whatever type or position . Your real problem will start when you make him begin to detest you; by then you are a goner .
Well, reporting your husband to a pastor because of his private sexual life is one of the ways you can bring hatred from your husband to your head.

Sorry

At op, it is his fundamental human right to enjoy you in whatever capacity, place, time and position he likes.

When you were doing yanga for him, shey you were enjoying it.

Don't deprieve him of this opportunity to seek retribution for your prior actions and inactions, when he is done venting his pent up dissatisfactions, things will normalise.

Just be patient, 2yrs stored conji no be beans, his sperm would have turned to frog.

When did pastors become so important in our lives like dis? If ur story is true u shd sit down wit ur husband,talk to him,beg him for forgiveness, if he doesn't agree divorce his raping ass as fast as u can. Marriage shd b fun n not to hurt u back for wat u did years he doesn't love u. He just wnts u as a prize dat he conquered. Do not talk to any bloody pastor or family. Talk wit him n tell him dat if he cont n mks u unhappy in d marriage dat u hv d option of leaving him.

Pathetic situation. Sorry!

i know it is his right to enjoy me, but he is weird, its either he wants it standing. bending or sucking. and he enjoys it hard and never tired. sometimes he left me breathless and even when i shout he enjous ut the more

Slonge2:
At op, it is his fundamental human right to enjoy you in whatever capacity, place, time and position he likes.

When you were doing yanga for him, shey you were enjoying it.

Don't deprieve him of this opportunity to seek retribution for your prior actions and inactions, when he is done venting his pent up dissatisfactions, things will normalise.

Just be patient, 2yrs stored conji no be beans, his sperm would have turned to frog.

so you think i made this up instead of you to pity me.i resumed work this week and i have been running home cos he warns i hv to be home at 6pm. once i get home. kneel to greet him the next tin is rape. even when im cooking. he will come to the kitchen

Tallesty1:
But this is not true

You hurt his pride. You hurt him so bad that he planned his revenge patiently. Chai. Some guys are psycho.

This is too much torture for any woman. Only God can save you from him. Only God.

hu in dis world doesnt knw abt sex in d standing position n MouthAction.....biko edit ur gist its fake