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He Is Punishing Me On Our Honey Moon by blesie: 6:56pm On Dec 05, 2014 |
I just wish to share my honeymoon bitter and sweet experience for you and also get inspiration. A little Intro to how it all started: So i met this guy during the course of work in my former office and he started chasing me, my colleagues then ask me not to agree that he looks like a player. He looks like one that never get a No for an answer, so me and my colleagues use him to have a good lunch, dinner or whenever we just feel like going to that cinema, he won't ever dissapoint, he'll take us there, a year after i left the company but he kept on chasing, so one day i was passing through some difficult times in my career, i felt like resigning but he came to me and advise me wisely, he told me how to tackle the challenges and when i did, it works perfectly so i started liking him, so i called him that we can date if only he will adhere to my conditions, he asked me to list the conditions and i did as stated below: 1) No Sex 2) No romance 3) No Kissing Infact no touches. He agreed with so much pains in his eyes, but after 6 months of dating, we begin to hug anyway and light kisses. But through out the relationship, i was always walking with shoulders held very high up there, thinking that shebi he's the one begging me, i will scream and always want things done my way. For a year, i misbehave alot but after i begin to be the girl he would want me to be, i wasnt really shouting or screaming anymore but i was still so full of pride, but i started loving him very well. On the first week of August he proposed, and we got married over 2 weeks ago, the wedding went well everyone was happy but after all the happiness, dancing, eating and greetings by friends and family, i found out later i was left with him in the car and the driver. We went into the hotel room that evening and he started answering calls, so i use that opportunity to rush to the bathroom and took my bath, after i finish bathing, lying down on the bed and thinking of how sex will look like, he tapped my leg and said i should come and bath him, i was like, bath you? how na, he said i should not waste his time, i wanted to say something again and he opened his eyes, the way he has not opened it before so i was scared, i jump off bed to the bathroom and started pouring water on him, he ask if i was in my right senses in a very fierce way, i shake my head saying yes, he said he doesnt think so that if i was i will be unclad by now, so i told him i wasnt going to bath him anymore, i left, went to the bed and lie, he completed the bath and came to meet me in the room. He held me and said, yes i married you, he didnt say anything again he just stared at me, then dragged me closer and started kissing me, then he said i should UnCloth him, what was surprising to me though was that his stuff was now 300% bigger than what i saw while i try to bath him, i thought maybe he had used something on it so i started to shift back, he pulled me back and i never knew how powerful he was until that evening, cos his hands just seem to be pulling me like im an ant, at that point i tried to fight him but he practically raped me, i screamed and shouted my life out but it seems he is enjoying the shout so i started to remain calm and then he said hold me, hold me very tight and i remember my mom telling me, do whatever he says to make him happy, so i grabbed him with two hands very tight to my body and as i did, i also started enjoying the sex so i started calling him baby. After the first round, it was like i had an accident, i was so tired i couldnt stand up, i couldnt even hold a paper i was breathing fast, it felt like i will die, i ask him to get me lucozade or something to regain my energy, he gave me drink and i just wanted to sleep off, he came waking me up and wanted to start another thing, i screamed at him and he said look at me very well, you see all that up shoulder you use to display while we were dating? you've got to drop it at the wedding reception because if you take it to the wedding, you will just be crying, do you know how many years you make me impotent, should i analyse the insult you gave me and all of that, now respect yourself, stand up and do the needful. Fear crib me like i have made a mistake, i cried and ran down to the bed to UnCloth he said no way, now i want it standing, i tried to imagine how somebody will stand to have sex but before i could finish thinking, he's dragged me out of bed and there it goes, painful and annoying i was just crying. After he finished that, i went on my knee to beg him for forgivenness for all the shout and scream i use to shout at him that i was ready to make a new turn, he said fine, that the new turn will mean that i will now respect and do everything he wants me to, i said yes i will do. Then he said, come on suck this, you won't imagine what he ask me to suck ![]() ![]() ![]() I said not this, he said ok, seems you are not ready to comply, he came for me and i bit him, fought him, he allowed me beat him after i finish beating him, he raped me and its really hurting me like i want to die. Now everyday he made me suck him, all the bad things one could dream of is what he likes, if he ask me to do something and i refuse he wont beat me, instead he will come for me and rape me. I am so tired, i don't know why one man will want to have sex up to countles times in a day, i was just wondering. UNTILL HE CAME TO REVEAL TO ME TODAY THAT HE IS PUNISHING ME FOR WHAT I DID TO HIM OVER THE YEARS. He finds joy in doing it and im so pained, is he going to change, should i report him to our pastor or my parent? 83 Likes 27 Shares |
Re: He Is Punishing Me On Our Honey Moon by veave(f): 7:05pm On Dec 05, 2014 |
so sorry baby... I really do not now what to say to you. we all make mistakes in life. just count this as one of them... I pray you both find forgiveness and peace.. 23 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: He Is Punishing Me On Our Honey Moon by ITbomb(m): 7:06pm On Dec 05, 2014 |
Another reason we always insist on sex before marriage. A man and woman should be friends and explore each other physically and spiritually before marriage without taking advantage of each other. You took advantage of him instead of making it a mutual decision not to have sex or have minimal sex. Talk to your pastor, leave family out if you want peace in your young marriage cos even though family may intervene, it will hurt his ego and lead to further problems. 165 Likes 7 Shares |
Re: He Is Punishing Me On Our Honey Moon by faithugo64(f): 7:08pm On Dec 05, 2014 |
Op why do i feel like this story is not true? Well incase you are telling the truth.please and please you have to report him to your parents and pastor,this is abuse oo,that guy is a beast! You still have a long way to go in this marriage,starting your marriage this way spells doom! he is bent on making your life miserable and digging a very wide well down there,if you understand what i mean 82 Likes 1 Share |
Re: He Is Punishing Me On Our Honey Moon by iceberylin(m): 7:12pm On Dec 05, 2014 |
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Re: He Is Punishing Me On Our Honey Moon by Nobody: 7:16pm On Dec 05, 2014 |
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Re: He Is Punishing Me On Our Honey Moon by Nobody: 7:19pm On Dec 05, 2014 |
Well,report to his family member,they should be able to help. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: He Is Punishing Me On Our Honey Moon by chimerase2: 7:21pm On Dec 05, 2014 |
Nitori olorun op next time u re writing dis kind of story u try as much as possible to include morale of the story is very very important ![]() 32 Likes |
Re: He Is Punishing Me On Our Honey Moon by Highflyer3(m): 7:22pm On Dec 05, 2014 |
You married a maniac 8 Likes |
Re: He Is Punishing Me On Our Honey Moon by ROZZAYY(f): 7:27pm On Dec 05, 2014 |
faithugo64:Hmmm I also think dis story eeeh. 8 Likes |
Re: He Is Punishing Me On Our Honey Moon by unibenstudent1(m): 7:29pm On Dec 05, 2014 |
I hate long posts,somebody should sumarise this 4 Likes |
Re: He Is Punishing Me On Our Honey Moon by kelvinmuffins3(m): 7:33pm On Dec 05, 2014 |
Punish him by getting another dick.. Wasted kitty-cat ain't allowed in the game. |
Re: He Is Punishing Me On Our Honey Moon by Tallesty1(m): 7:40pm On Dec 05, 2014 |
But this is not true blesie: Ok.... You gotta do this, report him to your pastor, I mean the one that officiated your marriage. Tell him/her what you are passing through, I believe he will be able to do something to your man. And.... You must be honest with him.(your husband) Tell him you love him and love having sex with him, but having it in such a manner disgusts and irritates you Marriage is about respect and understanding. If rough sex is a problem to you, it’s his problem too and he must learn to respect you and your body. Apologise to him but if he fails to forgive you then you demand for what is your right. BTW what kinda man punishes his wife that much? I mean you are his happiness and reason for living. Sit him down and talk to him, if he comes for a rough sex, resist him. If he rapes you again then file a case. It is that simple. He said he is punishing you so there is even a possibility that he may divorce you later. I mean how is it possible to live happily with him when he is done with his punishments? I can't see it happening. 45 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: He Is Punishing Me On Our Honey Moon by OohMpa: 7:42pm On Dec 05, 2014 |
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Re: He Is Punishing Me On Our Honey Moon by Hazardd(m): 7:55pm On Dec 05, 2014 |
,I hope you will give us another update today[ 10 Likes |
Re: He Is Punishing Me On Our Honey Moon by akinsadeez(m): 7:59pm On Dec 05, 2014 |
Wetin person no go read for this romance section ![]() ![]() Anyways, The man seems like a sadist n might soon graduate to hitting you. You av to make a stand now at d beginning of d marriage. Marriage shouldnt be hellish n If you put up with this now, u will continue to be miserable as it will only get worse. 18 Likes |
Re: He Is Punishing Me On Our Honey Moon by Nobody: 8:03pm On Dec 05, 2014 |
Why would a man wanna go all Spartacus on his woman during their honeymoon, hmmm ![]() 19 Likes 1 Share |
Re: He Is Punishing Me On Our Honey Moon by Smurfette(f): 8:07pm On Dec 05, 2014 |
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Re: He Is Punishing Me On Our Honey Moon by Medunah: 8:08pm On Dec 05, 2014 |
This story get as e be 9 Likes 1 Share |
Re: He Is Punishing Me On Our Honey Moon by Nobody: 8:18pm On Dec 05, 2014 |
Honestly, I don't believe this story one bit. 10 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: He Is Punishing Me On Our Honey Moon by baralatie(m): 8:21pm On Dec 05, 2014 |
mayapop:all Spartacus eh! she won't be if she was true in the first place! 1 Like |
Re: He Is Punishing Me On Our Honey Moon by Oduduwaboy(m): 8:24pm On Dec 05, 2014 |
Funny & foolish story . Anyway , if the story is true, i will advice you to start enjoying the s3x now...whatever type or position . Your real problem will start when you make him begin to detest you; by then you are a goner . Well, reporting your husband to a pastor because of his private sexual life is one of the ways you can bring hatred from your husband to your head. 49 Likes |
Re: He Is Punishing Me On Our Honey Moon by Mprex(f): 8:35pm On Dec 05, 2014 |
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Re: He Is Punishing Me On Our Honey Moon by Nobody: 8:48pm On Dec 05, 2014 |
At op, it is his fundamental human right to enjoy you in whatever capacity, place, time and position he likes. When you were doing yanga for him, shey you were enjoying it. Don't deprieve him of this opportunity to seek retribution for your prior actions and inactions, when he is done venting his pent up dissatisfactions, things will normalise. Just be patient, 2yrs stored conji no be beans, his sperm would have turned to frog. 134 Likes 13 Shares |
Re: He Is Punishing Me On Our Honey Moon by erocorp01: 8:52pm On Dec 05, 2014 |
When did pastors become so important in our lives like dis? If ur story is true u shd sit down wit ur husband,talk to him,beg him for forgiveness, if he doesn't agree divorce his raping ass as fast as u can. Marriage shd b fun n not to hurt u back for wat u did years he doesn't love u. He just wnts u as a prize dat he conquered. Do not talk to any bloody pastor or family. Talk wit him n tell him dat if he cont n mks u unhappy in d marriage dat u hv d option of leaving him. 59 Likes 1 Share |
Re: He Is Punishing Me On Our Honey Moon by salbis(m): 8:59pm On Dec 05, 2014 |
Pathetic situation. Sorry! 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: He Is Punishing Me On Our Honey Moon by blesie: 9:30pm On Dec 05, 2014 |
i know it is his right to enjoy me, but he is weird, its either he wants it standing. bending or sucking. and he enjoys it hard and never tired. sometimes he left me breathless and even when i shout he enjous ut the more Slonge2: |
Re: He Is Punishing Me On Our Honey Moon by blesie: 9:38pm On Dec 05, 2014 |
so you think i made this up instead of you to pity me.i resumed work this week and i have been running home cos he warns i hv to be home at 6pm. once i get home. kneel to greet him the next tin is rape. even when im cooking. he will come to the kitchen Tallesty1: |
Re: He Is Punishing Me On Our Honey Moon by Tymax(m): 9:55pm On Dec 05, 2014 |
You hurt his pride. You hurt him so bad that he planned his revenge patiently. Chai. Some guys are psycho. This is too much torture for any woman. Only God can save you from him. Only God. 38 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: He Is Punishing Me On Our Honey Moon by kuinny: 10:08pm On Dec 05, 2014 |
hu in dis world doesnt knw abt sex in d standing position n MouthAction.....biko edit ur gist its fake 12 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: He Is Punishing Me On Our Honey Moon by chymystique(f): 10:13pm On Dec 05, 2014 |
I find it hard believing this your story sha........ Anyways your husband is a SADIST aka SadoMasochist ie he loves ROLE PLAY; ![]() ![]() IMO, what you should do is after the sex ve a heart to heart talk with your hubby. Find out his sexual orientation cause to me this has nothing to do with your abstinence during courtship. Sometimes ToTAL abstinence before marriage aint really ideal............ Pele 14 Likes 1 Share |
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