I don't believe this story is true.If it is,u married a psycho.
The problem was not the abstinence.I think your man is perverted.

fake but girls why Na. no sex but you no be virgin.

Na wa oh.

*Clears throat*..

your story get as e be.

CC HARDDON u know what to say.

blesie:
so you think i made this up instead of you to pity me.i resumed work this week and i have been running home cos he warns i hv to be home at 6pm. once i get home. kneel to greet him the next tin is rape. even when im cooking. he will come to the kitchen

Na wa oo!

Are u serious

Talk to him through letter or phone call if you can't face him.This sounds unbelievable to me.Lord have mercy!

IF true pls find your way out of that abusive union

blesie:
I just wish to share my honeymoon bitter and sweet experience for you and also get inspiration.

A little Intro to how it all started: So i met this guy during the course of work in my former office and he started chasing me, my colleagues then ask me not to agree that he looks like a player. He looks like one that never get a No for an answer, so me and my colleagues use him to have a good lunch, dinner or whenever we just feel like going to that cinema, he won't ever dissapoint, he'll take us there, a year after i left the company but he kept on chasing, so one day i was passing through some difficult times in my career, i felt like resigning but he came to me and advise me wisely, he told me how to tackle the challenges and when i did, it works perfectly so i started liking him, so i called him that we can date if only he will adhere to my conditions, he asked me to list the conditions and i did as stated below:
1) No Sex
2) No romance
3) No Kissing
Infact no touches.

He agreed with so much pains in his eyes, but after 6 months of dating, we begin to hug anyway and light kisses.

But through out the relationship, i was always walking with shoulders held very high up there, thinking that shebi he's the one begging me, i will scream and always want things done my way.

For a year, i misbehave alot but after i begin to be the girl he would want me to be, i wasnt really shouting or screaming anymore but i was still so full of pride, but i started loving him very well.

On the first week of August he proposed, and we got married over 2 weeks ago, the wedding went well everyone was happy but after all the happiness, dancing, eating and greetings by friends and family, i found out later i was left with him in the car and the driver.

We went into the hotel room that evening and he started answering calls, so i use that opportunity to rush to the bathroom and took my bath, after i finish bathing, lying down on the bed and thinking of how sex will look like, he tapped my leg and said i should come and bath him, i was like, bath you? how na, he said i should not waste his time, i wanted to say something again and he opened his eyes, the way he has not opened it before so i was scared, i jump off bed to the bathroom and started pouring water on him, he ask if i was in my right senses in a very fierce way, i shake my head saying yes, he said he doesnt think so that if i was i will be unclad by now, so i told him i wasnt going to bath him anymore, i left, went to the bed and lie, he completed the bath and came to meet me in the room.

He held me and said, yes i married you, he didnt say anything again he just stared at me, then dragged me closer and started kissing me, then he said i should UnCloth him, what was surprising to me though was that his stuff was now 300% bigger than what i saw while i try to bath him, i thought maybe he had used something on it so i started to shift back, he pulled me back and i never knew how powerful he was until that evening, cos his hands just seem to be pulling me like im an ant, at that point i tried to fight him but he practically raped me, i screamed and shouted my life out but it seems he is enjoying the shout so i started to remain calm and then he said hold me, hold me very tight and i remember my mom telling me, do whatever he says to make him happy, so i grabbed him with two hands very tight to my body and as i did, i also started enjoying the sex so i started calling him baby.

After the first round, it was like i had an accident, i was so tired i couldnt stand up, i couldnt even hold a paper i was breathing fast, it felt like i will die, i ask him to get me lucozade or something to regain my energy, he gave me drink and i just wanted to sleep off, he came waking me up and wanted to start another thing, i screamed at him and he said look at me very well, you see all that up shoulder you use to display while we were dating? you've got to drop it at the wedding reception because if you take it to the wedding, you will just be crying, do you know how many years you make me impotent, should i analyse the insult you gave me and all of that, now respect yourself, stand up and do the needful.

Fear crib me like i have made a mistake, i cried and ran down to the bed to UnCloth he said no way, now i want it standing, i tried to imagine how somebody will stand to have sex but before i could finish thinking, he's dragged me out of bed and there it goes, painful and annoying i was just crying.

After he finished that, i went on my knee to beg him for forgivenness for all the shout and scream i use to shout at him that i was ready to make a new turn, he said fine, that the new turn will mean that i will now respect and do everything he wants me to, i said yes i will do.

Then he said, come on suck this, you won't imagine what he ask me to suck , how in the world can a husband be so wicked

I said not this, he said ok, seems you are not ready to comply, he came for me and i bit him, fought him, he allowed me beat him after i finish beating him, he raped me and its really hurting me like i want to die.

Now everyday he made me suck him, all the bad things one could dream of is what he likes, if he ask me to do something and i refuse he wont beat me, instead he will come for me and rape me.

I am so tired, i don't know why one man will want to have sex up to countles times in a day, i was just wondering.

UNTILL HE CAME TO REVEAL TO ME TODAY THAT HE IS PUNISHING ME FOR WHAT I DID TO HIM OVER THE YEARS.

He finds joy in doing it and im so pained, is he going to change, should i report him to our pastor or my parent?

This is really CRAzy, if you asked me.. End Time Things....
Husbands raping Wives?? Where did all the romance go to??

So sorry... Just take heart.. Let's hope He gets tired.. Pray O!!!!

Why are you complaining because he asked u to suck him?Where u not sucking the people u dated before marrying him?
Now he has told you why he is treating you like this, endure it he will soon change, but before then this is pay back time .

Unfortunately, I have absolutely no problem believing you OP. What I don't understand is why you're asking us what it is you NEED to do?!

You actually knew you punished him ? Why ?

Ask him to forgive your past foolishness. Simple.

I believe he loves you. For a man to stay with you that long without sex. That's true love..

You can not Die.


And OP by the way are you sure yot married a human

Yes now. After all the stress and he made it to the end. You think he will take it easy on you.

I always insist on sex before marriage.

dat was due to paying too much for bride price. say no exorbitant bride price

Things you see on fp these days Pity!

sucking na normal thing nor be punishment, , but you get mind o, you nor dey sleep with am you still dey misbehave join, that guy tryyyyy, it was like he really loved you and you took advantage of him

This should serve as lesson to other hard to get ladies..

Jennimma:
Things you see on fp these days Pity!

Miss Nairaland can you do anything about it

Good story but try and summerize it rather than telling the whole story from genesis to revelation

faithugo64:
Op why do i feel like this story is not true?

Well incase you are telling the truth.please and please you have to report him to your parents and pastor,this is abuse oo,that guy is a beast!
he is bent on making your life miserable and digging a very wide well down there,if you understand what i mean

U really must be high on something. U know full well that the parents and pastors can't do anything there. The deal is done and sealed. They would regard her like the silly little girl she is.

i advice sex before marriage. You will go on with him,he z now ur husband.marriage dy said is for better,for worse.

Seun. These topics should not make front page.

For a moment there I thought I was redirected to a pôrn site...

Dude must have watched too much porn to enable him exert his demonic skills on you the unsuspecting prey.

I would have love to see the look on your face at the sight of the magical 300% mandigo size increase

blesie:
i know it is his right to enjoy me, but he is weird, its either he wants it standing. bending or sucking. and he enjoys it hard and never tired. sometimes he left me breathless and even when i shout he enjous ut the more

madam is like you dont have sexual experience, the style of lying down, mam ontop is outdated, i advise you to start watching blue films and do exercises, let him get tired lol

300% bigger

this story sef! ....at least you enjoyed it and you didnt die!

hahaha: I laff so tey I fall inside gutter... the story might be a fiction but in case its true, hmmmm eleyi gidi gan o. were u a virgin till ur honeymoon? if no, hope he didn't notice you cheated on him during the course of the relationship because it true he's punishing you and he doesn't need the marriage... he'll eventually leave you one day because he doesn't love you anymore, he hates you with passion