hahaha ha. my dear go and load up on energy drinks and lubricants..I m sure the guy is on smthng dts y he has dis kind of energy. ...u must av realy hurt him for him to plan dis kind of revenge for u...my advise step up to d plate...anystyle he wants give it to him..when he realizes dt his form of revenge isnt working..hel calm down...dont listen to those saying leave him ooo...

ITbomb:
Another reason we always insist on sex before marriage.

A man and woman should be friends and explore each other physically and spiritually before marriage without taking advantage of each other.

You took advantage of him instead of making it a mutual decision not to have sex or have minimal sex.

Talk to your pastor, leave family out if you want peace in your young marriage cos even though family may intervene, it will hurt his ego and lead to further problems.

Keep telling lies.

@blessie (op) you are realy a joker. Dont allow all these nairalanders deceive you to lose your marriage.
you denied a man of sex and romance all through your courtship which I dont have problem with. Now you want to continue the punishment after your wedding. Men when without sex for sometime behave like maniac when they finally get opportunity. So your husband is not abnormal, I guess he expected more from you on your wedding nite after the long break especially if he is a very active fellow sexually before you guys started dating.
In this day sex in marriage is nolonger just missionary position but more. I expected that you should have been well schooled before the nite considering the denial before marriage.
But it is obvious that you planned to dominate your marriage the same way you did during courtship. And he saw through this and he wanted to break you with force.
1. He said have bath with me. What is the big deal? Ok you want him to do things on his own hmmm you will cry tire if he abandons you.
2. He said felatio I.e oral you said no, he said stand rather than sleep like log of wood you said no. Are you a baby or a pretender.
You better go and read some romance books and watch romantic film to learn. Or talk to a mature woman.
my advice hold to your man before he goes to look for it somewhere else.
you are having problem with sex because you keep thinking too much of it sinful.
I dont think your husband is mean and wicked but all men can behave as such if denied what they think is their own.
I will advise you to start loving him sexually all the way. If he had asked for things like anal s*x is when you could say he is crazy.
if after the amendment he refuse to treat yoi nice then you could conclude he is a maniac.
I warn you to hold to your man before some other girls entice him ooooo.

Report him to the police. Lol

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Jennimma:


Lolz...sweetheart,i don't think so. I blame the supermods tho. S.eun should talk to them about this. It becoming annoying by the day.

No wahala.

all of una wen dey complain say d story is not true need to re wire ur brains;when she was packin her friends to eat lunch breafast and even dinner( just d way a typical naija girl wil do) una no see anytin wrong wit that,now he is having his pound of flesh una dey claim he is psycho.i believ dis story complete,
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madam,relax,everythin will normalise very soon.na initial gra gra just d way u had urs

,oh ye grey shade readers whatever happened to the B&M?,lol

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Tymax:
You hurt his pride. You hurt him so bad that he planned his revenge patiently. Chai. Some guys are psycho.

This is too much torture for any woman. Only God can save you from him. Only God.

He might kill her going at this rate.

mayapop:
Why would a man wanna go all Spartacus on his woman during their honeymoon, hmmm if your story is true, you need to leave him, jeez!

Spartacus? Na HULK na.

Husband and wife matter. Absolutely none of my business. But errr,make sure he sucks your pusssssy too. You can't keep sucking his dicck and he won't do same to you. That's cheating!

blesie:

After the first round, it was like i had an accident, i was so tired i couldnt stand up, i couldnt even hold a paper i was breathing fast, it felt like i will die

Sister mi ..... Y'u complaining na........... :-p ........... After u've made him spend n waaaaaAaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaait............... Well......... Sorry sha..... I'ld_hv 2 reserve my advice .....

mayapop:

What?

erocorp01:
When did pastors become so important in our lives like dis? If ur story is true u shd sit down wit ur husband,talk to him,beg him for forgiveness, if he doesn't agree divorce his raping ass as fast as u can. Marriage shd b fun n not to hurt u back for wat u did years he doesn't love u. He just wnts u as a prize dat he conquered. Do not talk to any bloody pastor or family. Talk wit him n tell him dat if he cont n mks u unhappy in d marriage dat u hv d option of leaving him.

Before I say this, I must tell you I'm muslim faithful, but base on your advice I think you mixed some things up. If the guy love her he won't be ra*ping her everytime. And if the woman should divorce it simply means the man has just won the game,to me the guy is just showing the lady how horrible it has been for him for the past year. I would like to plead with the guy to forget about his revenge, if the lady can get the pastor that the guy trust so much I think the problem will be solved. #mysimplemind

If your story is actually true, your sexual right has been grossly abused.

Black man, when una mentality go change sef. Don't you guys know the meaning of 'rape'? Rape is having sex with somebody against his/her wish. Yes! there can be rape in and out of marriage.
Back to the matter, the guy doesn't love you. What stupid revenge is he taking? You dump him and dump him fast. That is if the story is not a fiction. How can a guy go to the extreme level of committing into marriage just to 'punish' you. And what happens after the punishment, divorce. So, be the one to discard him, first.



Ifa is saying that this your story Na wash

berem:
Husband and wife matter. Absolutely none of my business. But errr,make sure he sucks your pusssssy too. You can't keep sucking his dicck and he won't do same to you. That's cheating!

hehehehe!!! berem : a case of what's good for the goose is good for the gander-

lwkmh

Damn! Is this story for real? Let's assume it is.Op pls, it is not normal and you need to do something fast.Only a masochist will enjoy such union and you hav shown you aint one. I will refrain frm giving my opinion on ur husband but pls dont mind those saying you shld sit tight or brace up to d task. For God sake, we are talkin abt marriage.If you dont enjoy ur honeymoon,then i wonder wat lies ahead. Irrespective of ur past, you dont deserve this.

Nonso23:


Why do you even bother?
You should have seen the comments that littered the thread before it was 'cleaned up'.
Someone even suggested that the man tied up the O.p with chains and torture her with sèx until he was satisfied.
Soo gross.

Imagine people asking if she didn't enjoy it... Even small? Others are saying 'endure' .

Smh for some Nigerians..

....i don't have any atom of sorry for you.
Remember when you were using the guyz money to quench your taste with your so called friend.
However,i don't have any problem with a lady deciding to be chaste during relationship but you have to do that with a right cause and not that you'll be doing it and be eating the guys money at any given time.
Your bobo felt insulted and direspected....Pray that God'll help make him forgive you.
Lemme giv a piece of adviz,alwayz be the one to ask for the sex even at odd places and he'll get tired of it someday.Maybe he is seeing it as your weakness and taking the advantage.

Is this a sex story on FP. OP, that story is a lie probably. Plus your English is terrible

Call Him To Table, Have A Good And Mutual Conversation With Him As Regard The Way He Play Sex With You. Ask Him, Am I Your Wife Or Slave? His Response Will Tell You What Next To Do, If The Two Of You Could Not Reach A Reasonable Conclusion Then It May Involves Parents And Pastor.

Amefrica:


Are you serious right now? She should brace herself up for more 'rape'?

You and I both know she's partly the cause of her predicament.
She never loved him and somehow the guy knew this, so he played along until she got carried away. Now is payback time for him. It's not like I'm in support of his action but the guy won't stop until he is satisfied of hurting her...

You r so enjoying the non-stop raping, or u would have left by now...

This story is not true, how can u claim u dnt hv an idea abt sex, my dear evn if u've never done the practical u must knw the theory nau Haba! Hw dare u pretent u dnt knw dat *sucking* exist

Anyway if u are saying the truth, report him to all reportable, infact take him to court and ask for Divorce ASAP



I still can't beliv ur story sha

AASSUMING YOU GUYS HAVE UNDERSTOOD YOURSELVES IN THE PLACE OF SEX BEFORE MARRIAGE, ALL THESE WONT HAPPEN......ITS A LESSON TO LADIES...IN COURSTSHIP/RELATONSHIP WHICH U RE SURE WILL RESULT TO MARRIAGE, NEVER PRETEND. COME OUT STRAIGHT

You married a pervert! Perverts ain't deserve to live. One of these three things is what you have got to do, and do real fast:
1. Leave the dickhead
2. Get a good gun and blow his head off
3. Get otapiapia in his food

Ignore my advice at your own peril.

evegran:



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. ............ bonjour ma dame, je défile via votre
profil de nairaland et je ai été stupéfait
par ce que je ai vu ......... euh Mme Eve si
je peut demander êtes-vous vraiment un
Nigérian?

I'm a realist,leave your pastor out of this.Your beast husband is using sex enhancer to punish you.No body on earth can help you except God and yourself.The only recipe now is to save your life first before any other thing.If you don't do the needful,then,be ready to face the music.The man doesn't like you rather he wants to balkanize your pussy and go for another pussy.