lalasticlala:



hehehehe!!! berem : a case of what's good for the goose is good for the gander-

lwkmh

kemiola89:

You and I both know she's partly the cause of her predicament.
She never loved him and somehow the guy knew this, so he played along until she got carried away. Now is payback time for him. It's not like I'm in support of his action but the guy won't stop until he is satisfied of hurting her...

maclatunji:


He might kill her going at this rate.

EnlightenedSoul:


I made a "who hid my post " comment, but then I saw that the sick bastard I'd replied to was also hidden. So, whatever, I erased it.

This thread and these comments are too sick for me. Adieu KingTom!

blesie:
so you think i made this up instead of you to pity me.i resumed work this week and i have been running home cos he warns i hv to be home at 6pm. once i get home. kneel to greet him the next tin is rape. even when im cooking. he will come to the kitchen

evegran:
Sorry dear, i think you should apologise or simply find a way to start enjoying the sex.

S &M is fun to me tho.

bugativeron:
@blessie (op) you are realy a joker. Dont allow all these nairalanders deceive you to lose your marriage.
you denied a man of sex and romance all through your courtship which I dont have problem with. Now you want to continue the punishment after your wedding. Men when without sex for sometime behave like maniac when they finally get opportunity. So your husband is not abnormal, I guess he expected more from you on your wedding nite after the long break especially if he is a very active fellow sexually before you guys started dating.
In this day sex in marriage is nolonger just missionary position but more. I expected that you should have been well schooled before the nite considering the denial before marriage.
But it is obvious that you planned to dominate your marriage the same way you did during courtship. And he saw through this and he wanted to break you with force.
1. He said have bath with me. What is the big deal? Ok you want him to do things on his own hmmm you will cry tire if he abandons you.
2. He said felatio I.e oral you said no, he said stand rather than sleep like log of wood you said no. Are you a baby or a pretender.
You better go and read some romance books and watch romantic film to learn. Or talk to a mature woman.
my advice hold to your man before he goes to look for it somewhere else.
you are having problem with sex because you keep thinking too much of it sinful.
I dont think your husband is mean and wicked but all men can behave as such if denied what they think is their own.
I will advise you to start loving him sexually all the way. If he had asked for things like anal s*x is when you could say he is crazy.
if after the amendment he refuse to treat yoi nice then you could conclude he is a maniac.
I warn you to hold to your man before some other girls entice him ooooo.

faithugo64:
Op why do i feel like this story is not true?

Well incase you are telling the truth.please and please you have to report him to your parents and pastor,this is abuse oo,that guy is a beast!

You still have a long way to go in this marriage,starting your marriage this way spells doom!

he is bent on making your life miserable and digging a very wide well down there,if you understand what i mean

evegran:



What?

RedBenson:


Abeg make i hear words with this ill-advice. A woman who just got married to a man didnt know how her behaviour and apperance should've been during the night? She made it look like she was forced to have sex. Not like sex must take place on the wedding night though, but a wise woman would be mentally ready for it incase her husband needs it but her own, she was still full of clothes covering everywhere like she was with a stranger. Smh. This is one problem with you ladies, all you do is screaming for a husband to come marry you, but you're not mentally ready to handle the marriage and the husband most importantly. How could a sensible woman be so scared to have sex with a man she just got married to not to talk of bathing him and do other fondly activities? Pls, she's just too unromantic and i myself cant stand such woman as a wife.

ITbomb:
Another reason we always insist on sex before marriage.

A man and woman should be friends and explore each other physically and spiritually before marriage without taking advantage of each other.

You took advantage of him instead of making it a mutual decision not to have sex or have minimal sex.

Talk to your pastor, leave family out if you want peace in your young marriage cos even though family may intervene, it will hurt his ego and lead to further problems.

blesie:
I just wish to share my honeymoon bitter and sweet experience for you and also get inspiration.

A little Intro to how it all started: So i met this guy during the course of work in my former office and he started chasing me, my colleagues then ask me not to agree that he looks like a player. He looks like one that never get a No for an answer, so me and my colleagues use him to have a good lunch, dinner or whenever we just feel like going to that cinema, he won't ever dissapoint, he'll take us there, a year after i left the company but he kept on chasing, so one day i was passing through some difficult times in my career, i felt like resigning but he came to me and advise me wisely, he told me how to tackle the challenges and when i did, it works perfectly so i started liking him, so i called him that we can date if only he will adhere to my conditions, he asked me to list the conditions and i did as stated below:
1) No Sex
2) No romance
3) No Kissing
Infact no touches.

He agreed with so much pains in his eyes, but after 6 months of dating, we begin to hug anyway and light kisses.

But through out the relationship, i was always walking with shoulders held very high up there, thinking that shebi he's the one begging me, i will scream and always want things done my way.

For a year, i misbehave alot but after i begin to be the girl he would want me to be, i wasnt really shouting or screaming anymore but i was still so full of pride, but i started loving him very well.

On the first week of August he proposed, and we got married over 2 weeks ago, the wedding went well everyone was happy but after all the happiness, dancing, eating and greetings by friends and family, i found out later i was left with him in the car and the driver.

We went into the hotel room that evening and he started answering calls, so i use that opportunity to rush to the bathroom and took my bath, after i finish bathing, lying down on the bed and thinking of how sex will look like, he tapped my leg and said i should come and bath him, i was like, bath you? how na, he said i should not waste his time, i wanted to say something again and he opened his eyes, the way he has not opened it before so i was scared, i jump off bed to the bathroom and started pouring water on him, he ask if i was in my right senses in a very fierce way, i shake my head saying yes, he said he doesnt think so that if i was i will be unclad by now, so i told him i wasnt going to bath him anymore, i left, went to the bed and lie, he completed the bath and came to meet me in the room.

He held me and said, yes i married you, he didnt say anything again he just stared at me, then dragged me closer and started kissing me, then he said i should UnCloth him, what was surprising to me though was that his stuff was now 300% bigger than what i saw while i try to bath him, i thought maybe he had used something on it so i started to shift back, he pulled me back and i never knew how powerful he was until that evening, cos his hands just seem to be pulling me like im an ant, at that point i tried to fight him but he practically raped me, i screamed and shouted my life out but it seems he is enjoying the shout so i started to remain calm and then he said hold me, hold me very tight and i remember my mom telling me, do whatever he says to make him happy, so i grabbed him with two hands very tight to my body and as i did, i also started enjoying the sex so i started calling him baby.

After the first round, it was like i had an accident, i was so tired i couldnt stand up, i couldnt even hold a paper i was breathing fast, it felt like i will die, i ask him to get me lucozade or something to regain my energy, he gave me drink and i just wanted to sleep off, he came waking me up and wanted to start another thing, i screamed at him and he said look at me very well, you see all that up shoulder you use to display while we were dating? you've got to drop it at the wedding reception because if you take it to the wedding, you will just be crying, do you know how many years you make me impotent, should i analyse the insult you gave me and all of that, now respect yourself, stand up and do the needful.

Fear crib me like i have made a mistake, i cried and ran down to the bed to UnCloth he said no way, now i want it standing, i tried to imagine how somebody will stand to have sex but before i could finish thinking, he's dragged me out of bed and there it goes, painful and annoying i was just crying.

After he finished that, i went on my knee to beg him for forgivenness for all the shout and scream i use to shout at him that i was ready to make a new turn, he said fine, that the new turn will mean that i will now respect and do everything he wants me to, i said yes i will do.

Then he said, come on suck this, you won't imagine what he ask me to suck , how in the world can a husband be so wicked

I said not this, he said ok, seems you are not ready to comply, he came for me and i bit him, fought him, he allowed me beat him after i finish beating him, he raped me and its really hurting me like i want to die.

Now everyday he made me suck him, all the bad things one could dream of is what he likes, if he ask me to do something and i refuse he wont beat me, instead he will come for me and rape me.

I am so tired, i don't know why one man will want to have sex up to countles times in a day, i was just wondering.

UNTILL HE CAME TO REVEAL TO ME TODAY THAT HE IS PUNISHING ME FOR WHAT I DID TO HIM OVER THE YEARS.

He finds joy in doing it and im so pained, is he going to change, should i report him to our pastor or my parent?

KingTom:
Some have dick but cannot bleep, some can bleep but have no dick, your husband has dick and he can bleep, Glory be to God Amen.

you crazy!

KingTom:
Some have dick but cannot bleep, some can bleep but have no dick, your husband has dick and he can bleep, Glory be to God Amen.

blesie:
so you think i made this up instead of you to pity me.i resumed work this week and i have been running home cos he warns i hv to be home at 6pm. once i get home. kneel to greet him the next tin is rape. even when im cooking. he will come to the kitchen

bugativeron:


What will kill her? Sex? She better become submissive to her husband. Chikena

gabe:

Bro, we v all bleeped women before (don't know abt u sha lol) and unless u r demented, every dude knows d sex is sweetest when she's cooperating fully. It was her honeymoon, she wanted d sex! Why force her? Just some few sweet words n she'd have done all he wanted, even if it wasn't dat nite, but hey, its marriage, they'll be fucking forever. With time, he'll have everything including the love of the woman he 'suffered' for. And oh, the 'suffering' was his choice. Nobody forced him. If he had searched well and wasn't so intent on revenge, he could have gotten a more willing partner.

nikpet2:
. loooolzzzz

mayapop:
you crazy!