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Re: He Is Punishing Me On Our Honey Moon by lordmayor4(m): 7:57am On Dec 06, 2014
evegran:



Aww thank you! smiley. Always nice to encounter a man who sees well!

He means you are BEATFUL... MEANING. You are good to be beaten lmao
Re: He Is Punishing Me On Our Honey Moon by henrydadon(m): 7:57am On Dec 06, 2014
kiss#team sex before marriage
Re: He Is Punishing Me On Our Honey Moon by Nobody: 7:58am On Dec 06, 2014
Pls don't talk to your pastor he might not understand this. Talk to a shrink, or a younger marriage counselor someone that understand diz typa tinz. And no no parents.

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Re: He Is Punishing Me On Our Honey Moon by Elsquidme(m): 7:59am On Dec 06, 2014
Blesie, ure the one with the problem. remove ureself from pride and do what a loving and caring wife should do. do not tell anyone (if not u have write it here) even people close to you. only say it to your marriage Councillor if you cannot handle it. Communication is the key, sexuall obligation is yours to fulfill in ur marriage. if there is anything u nid him to know, let him understand you by been nice and diplomatic in ur approach dont show pride, arrogance be simple. but when u show that you wont do as he says thats when you continue having problems. two wise men cant stay under the same roof. be wise and diplomatic. it is only you that can solve ur problem not someone outside.

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Re: He Is Punishing Me On Our Honey Moon by lordmayor4(m): 8:00am On Dec 06, 2014
RedBenson:


You'll agree with me that based on her story, the problem is from her. Good, she was trying to play "hard to get" with the guy and to me, there's nothing wrong with that after all, that's what makes a man happy at the end when he finally gets her (that's if he truly loves her) and as a woman, it will even be left for u to start telling him u didnt know he loves u that much such that all she did to him, he was still coming after u and you're ready to reciprocate that love. You can even add you always love him too, just that you're trying to be sure he wasnt just coming to see her your pant and then leave. She didnt do such and any other thing. She expected to still be carrying her shoulder up like before not knowing the game has changed. If she had started telling him what i earlier said e.g. she wouldnt believe he loves her that much and ....., believe me, that alone would've melted the dude even if he had bad intention abt her. She's just boring and unromantic and above all, not mentally ready to handle marriage and husband.

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Re: He Is Punishing Me On Our Honey Moon by Nobody: 8:00am On Dec 06, 2014
Jeeeeeez,I got goose bumps reading this. I don't envy d OP at all. That guy is a beast ,a rapist. Anyone that loves u will not put you thru all that,even seeing u in tears begging without caring. Na wa oh.I once had a boy friend that we used to kiss and smush but no sex. One day he brought out his stuff and said I need to suck. And I told him I won't. He was trying to cajole me by trying to push my head towards it,but I refused,when he saw I wasn't going to do that,he gave up.


I still saw that as tending towards rape,so I ran away from him oh, talk less of someone actually forcing u. It's really bad. I can't advice a married woman to divorce her hubby, they say d best advice is d one u giv urself.so I'm sure u know what to do

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Re: He Is Punishing Me On Our Honey Moon by Nobody: 8:00am On Dec 06, 2014
lordmayor4:


He means you are BEATFUL... MEANING. You are good to be beaten lmao


Oh! I thought he either couldnt spell properly or was simply abbrevating.
*turns and stares in mirror* I am still BEAUTIFUL!

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Re: He Is Punishing Me On Our Honey Moon by thegoodone2(m): 8:00am On Dec 06, 2014
how may time does he have sex with u in a day. u did not tell us. if its not more than 3 time in a day is okay for new marriage .he will reduce it has time go on. he may like sex and u dont like it, two of u will understand each other. when i newly married, i like sex and my wife dont like it but now i have understand her.
Re: He Is Punishing Me On Our Honey Moon by sucess001(m): 8:01am On Dec 06, 2014
All of u saying dis isn't real probably dunno d many bad tins dt happen in marriage.

My advise to OP..tell him u want both of u to see a marriage counsellor.

If dt doesn't work....park to ur parent's house and serve him divorse papers. Ur ground will be irretrivable breakdown of marriage due to cruelty. Perhaps, dt will correct him.


Tell uur pastors...-f possible....video an incident wit a spy camera....


Den if he doesn't change...move on. Ur life's more impt dan ur marriage.

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Re: He Is Punishing Me On Our Honey Moon by DECOtech(m): 8:01am On Dec 06, 2014
Slonge2:

Just be patient, 2yrs stored conji no be beans, his sperm would have turned to frog.
True talk bro!
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Your head dey dia
Re: He Is Punishing Me On Our Honey Moon by rakish(m): 8:01am On Dec 06, 2014
oh pls! Hw did she hurt him? By not agreeing to be his girlfriend in the first place b4 finally succumbing or by abstaining frm sex b4 marriage? I think you should try and get use to the sex positions,even if u dnt enjoy it pretend u do and stop crying. Very soon it wil turn to both of u having sex and nt him having his way,try introduce new methods it wil make him love u more coz it seems his a sex freak and freaks love new things. Sometimes take control,just make him have the impression his nt hurting you anymre,he wil get tired and turn emotional during sex. Also pray fervently,let go any unnecessary pride coz he derives pleasure wen he feast on your pride and it wil hurt u greatly.

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Re: He Is Punishing Me On Our Honey Moon by Christbeauty: 8:02am On Dec 06, 2014
This is what I think, u re married to him and the fact remains he is trying to do all this to get back at u. If he does all those things and u refuse to show hurt like u use to do , he will get tired. This is what I mean, wen he comes, u should even be d one to draw him closer and make advances to wanna have sex, if possible, suck him, cos I discover most guys like thatm so the earlier u begin to like it, the betterm wen he discovers the things he tries to do u hurt u, u call for them, he will get tired.

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Re: He Is Punishing Me On Our Honey Moon by lordmayor4(m): 8:02am On Dec 06, 2014
evegran:



Oh! I thought he either couldnt spell properly or was simply abbrevating.
*turns and stares in mirror* I am still BEAUTIFUL!

Hahaha.... when not spelt right, understanding differs and cases arise.... if in doubt, ask the OP lol... meanwhile lemme check out ya pic
Re: He Is Punishing Me On Our Honey Moon by Christbeauty: 8:03am On Dec 06, 2014
This is what I think, u re married to him and the fact remains he is trying to do all this to get back at u. If he does all those things and u refuse to show hurt like u use to do , he will get tired. This is what I mean, wen he comes, u should even be d one to draw him closer and make advances to wanna have sex, if possible, suck him, cos I discover most guys like that so the earlier u begin to like it, the better, wen he discovers the things he tries to do u hurt u, u call for them, he will get tired.

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Re: He Is Punishing Me On Our Honey Moon by HopeAlive14(m): 8:03am On Dec 06, 2014
ITbomb:
Another reason we always insist on sex before marriage.

A man and woman should be friends and explore each other physically and spiritually before marriage without taking advantage of each other.

You took advantage of him instead of making it a mutual decision not to have sex or have minimal sex.

Talk to your pastor, leave family out if you want peace in your young marriage cos even though family may intervene, it will hurt his ego and lead to further problems.

I disagree with your comments on "sex before marriage". People who call on God should fear, respect and obey Him in all situations.
I however agree with you that she should talk to her pastor about the issue. This story may not be true but readers stand to learn one or two things from it and the godly advices that are given.
Re: He Is Punishing Me On Our Honey Moon by Drdonzeez(m): 8:04am On Dec 06, 2014
pictures or Adonbilivit
Re: He Is Punishing Me On Our Honey Moon by Nobody: 8:04am On Dec 06, 2014
mayapop:
That's nice smiley


Thanks!
You should totally try it sometimes, oh! Low level s&M- we dont wanna get you hurt. smiley
Re: He Is Punishing Me On Our Honey Moon by fadamekus(m): 8:04am On Dec 06, 2014
Nollywood script i don watch am befor na old film
Re: He Is Punishing Me On Our Honey Moon by Montaque(m): 8:06am On Dec 06, 2014
jaybee3:
Dude must have watched too much porn to enable him exert his demonic skills on you the unsuspecting prey.

I would have love to see the look on your face at the sight of the magical 300% mandigo size increase tongue tongue

just what I thought. OP's husby has been watching indecency so much he wants to experiment his new sexual orientation. He is practically on a different sexual page with his wife. Its not revenge,dats what he said to enable him ve access,he has a different understanding of sex. That's a plausible arguement for pre marital sex, but it can be circumvented through sincere communication during courtship... @OP, find a way to his heart.

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Re: He Is Punishing Me On Our Honey Moon by adaxxy: 8:10am On Dec 06, 2014
Divorce his fucking ass cos he will not change
Re: He Is Punishing Me On Our Honey Moon by ejlee(m): 8:10am On Dec 06, 2014
Lessons for the ladies who always play add to get, my dear u will enjoy it have fun n Better still thank your God is not me by now that thin of yours for don they hot after I don take my jehova sharp sharp cool
Re: He Is Punishing Me On Our Honey Moon by Nobody: 8:11am On Dec 06, 2014
chimerase2:
Nitori olorun op next time u re writing dis kind of story u try as much as possible to include morale of the story is very very important undecided
the morale be two things; 1. Do not do shakara or take advantage of your fiance as a lady and 2. Try to indulge in the act once before marriage.. At least she for don know how big e be and that he likes to have it sucked.. Loool.. Yes have it sucked...!

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Re: He Is Punishing Me On Our Honey Moon by contactmorak: 8:12am On Dec 06, 2014
evegran:



Aww thank you! smiley. Always nice to encounter a man who sees well!
it's my pleasure pls!
Re: He Is Punishing Me On Our Honey Moon by Nobody: 8:12am On Dec 06, 2014
@OP, u denied him of sex, and now u are feigning ignorance, so u don't know that some people love it when their wife suck their diik? I am sure u must be very rude too, hence all the sex he is askin for, just to shut ur mouth up.
U will not tell us the things u do at home, u only tell us sex sex sex. Wetin de sex? is it not just to fvck? who doesn't like fvck abi u no get t*t*. Clear road make I de see front.

Babes be formin not likin sex since 0001BC

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Re: He Is Punishing Me On Our Honey Moon by Nobody: 8:13am On Dec 06, 2014
erocorp01:
When did pastors become so important in our lives like dis? If ur story is true u shd sit down wit ur husband,talk to him,beg him for forgiveness, if he doesn't agree divorce his raping ass as fast as u can. Marriage shd b fun n not to hurt u back for wat u did years he doesn't love u. He just wnts u as a prize dat he conquered. Do not talk to any bloody pastor or family. Talk wit him n tell him dat if he cont n mks u unhappy in d marriage dat u hv d option of leaving him.

Bros (or madam), you are one of the few Nigerians with a brain. Wetin concern pastor with this story? Do those advising you expect the pastor to advise him to chop you gently?!!


@ OP. Like someone said, you best start enjoying it. He might be acting out his frustrations from while you were dating but conji cannot last forever. He sef will tire one day.

Just so you know, It is legally impossible for a man to rape his wife so forget lawyer/ divorce etc. My advice? Take the challenge to him. Before he will ask for it, you start disturbing him for it. Once he comes from work, offer to take a bath together. While doing it, stroke his ego by hailing him (baby you're the best', 'you're so big' etc). You will see the difference..

And yes, you will suck it (sorry)..

For those looking for moral, here it is: No make yanga when man dey toast you, cos who dey do anyhow, dey see anyhow...
Re: He Is Punishing Me On Our Honey Moon by Nobody: 8:13am On Dec 06, 2014
contactmorak:
it's my pleasure pls!


smiley
Re: He Is Punishing Me On Our Honey Moon by micoloP(m): 8:14am On Dec 06, 2014
Marc9:


One of the useless advice here!

Don't you get the point? Her husband abuses and rapes her! As in, RAPE! C'mon, that's a beast in human form!

The fact he's her husband doesn't give him the right to impose himself on her, or force her to have sex.

If she was my sister, it's obvious I'll be doing a long time behind the b*rs, cos I'll whack him! I rather make her a wi*ow, than leave her in the hands of a rapist!

A man that doesn't treat a woman like an egg, but abuses her sexually, deserves to be led to the gallows!
if you continue like this i dont think you'll ever get a husband ma!...its not an insult o..because the op isnt a virgin,
she married already and she should also learn to adjust to the husband sex life,if he is aggressive with sex,she should also be aggressive with her sex too,dumping her husband aint a good advice+with the rate of the husbands sex,she should be pregnat by now self(twin)

i dont think anything like "rape" exists in a marriage...thanks
Re: He Is Punishing Me On Our Honey Moon by tconfi: 8:14am On Dec 06, 2014
TO START WITH, I WISH TO CONGRATULATE YOU FOR HAVING A MAN THAT WAS ALL OVER YOU AND FINALLY MARRIED YOU.
ALSO, THANK GOD BECAUSE HE IS NOT 'OKOBO' (MEANING- IMPOTENT)
ASSUMING THE GUY IS IMPOTENT, YOU WOULD HAVE SAID HE IS NOT DOING HIS DUTY WELL!
NOW, YOU MUST UNDERSTAND THAT. WE HAVE THREE CATEGORY OF SEX PARTNERS: A. DONT LIKE SEX AT ALL. B. AVERAGE LOVE FOR SEX. C. SEX IS NO 1 PRIORITY. YOU SHOULD UNDERSTAND THAT YOURHUSBAND IS INCATEGORY C AND PROBALLY YOU ARE IN CATEGORY A. YOU NEED TO ADJUST. YOUR HUSBAND CANT CHANGE OOO! AT ANY RATE, I SO MUCH APPRECIATE YOUR FICTION(YOU ARE A GOOD WRITER) I AM SURE YOU JUST IMAGINED IT... LET US TALK 2B52E633, I AM ALSO AN AUTHOR! GOD BLESS YOU!
Re: He Is Punishing Me On Our Honey Moon by Nobody: 8:15am On Dec 06, 2014
U gon have to kill that n1gga grin




Wallahi na so I dey plot my exes,if dem venture marry me pere na fuvk till u die things tongue.



NB: just incase una dey nairaland,I like to be sucked
Re: He Is Punishing Me On Our Honey Moon by lilmax(m): 8:17am On Dec 06, 2014
Nairaland is the worst place to get advice
Re: He Is Punishing Me On Our Honey Moon by jeje123(m): 8:18am On Dec 06, 2014
Sorry i believe dis wud serve as a lesson for other ladies that fun of making jess of a man. It will remain only YOU wen it works out d way u dont expect. Sorry once again.
Re: He Is Punishing Me On Our Honey Moon by EngrUch(m): 8:18am On Dec 06, 2014
The title of this article is "THE REVENGE MISSION".I feel he's gona leave after completion.

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