LIES
BIG FAT LIE !!

erocorp01:
When did pastors become so important in our lives like dis? If ur story is true u shd sit down wit ur husband,talk to him,beg him for forgiveness, if he doesn't agree divorce his raping ass as fast as u can. Marriage shd b fun n not to hurt u back for wat u did years he doesn't love u. He just wnts u as a prize dat he conquered. Do not talk to any bloody pastor or family. Talk wit him n tell him dat if he cont n mks u unhappy in d marriage dat u hv d option of leaving him.

Correct

blesie:
i know it is his right to enjoy me, but he is weird, its either he wants it standing. bending or sucking. and he enjoys it hard and never tired. sometimes he left me breathless and even when i shout he enjous ut the more

If he enjoys it when you are shouting, then it is not a matter of him punishing you, he just enjoys domination sex. There are people who are twisted like that. They don't like conventional sex. You need to take him to a psychologist.

Oduduwaboy:
Funny & foolish story . Anyway , if the story is true, i will advice you to start enjoying the s3x now...whatever type or position . Your real problem will start when you make him begin to detest you; by then you are a goner .
Well, reporting your husband to a pastor because of his private sexual life is one of the ways you can bring hatred from your husband to your head.

The weed in u is speaking I guess,u expect her NT t report wat she is passing through BC of hatred?u are a beast f saying this

Life na turn by turn hahahahaha. U get luck say u no even die u fr no even ryt anytin[code][/c

I find several sections of this post extremely hilarious .

Rather callous...I know.

blesie:
I just wish to share my honeymoon bitter and sweet experience for you and also get inspiration.

A little Intro to how it all started: So i met this guy during the course of work in my former office and he started chasing me, my colleagues then ask me not to agree that he looks like a player. He looks like one that never get a No for an answer, so me and my colleagues use him to have a good lunch, dinner or whenever we just feel like going to that cinema, he won't ever dissapoint, he'll take us there, a year after i left the company but he kept on chasing, so one day i was passing through some difficult times in my career, i felt like resigning but he came to me and advise me wisely, he told me how to tackle the challenges and when i did, it works perfectly so i started liking him, so i called him that we can date if only he will adhere to my conditions, he asked me to list the conditions and i did as stated below:
1) No Sex
2) No romance
3) No Kissing
Infact no touches.

He agreed with so much pains in his eyes, but after 6 months of dating, we begin to hug anyway and light kisses.

But through out the relationship, i was always walking with shoulders held very high up there, thinking that shebi he's the one begging me, i will scream and always want things done my way.

For a year, i misbehave alot but after i begin to be the girl he would want me to be, i wasnt really shouting or screaming anymore but i was still so full of pride, but i started loving him very well.

On the first week of August he proposed, and we got married over 2 weeks ago, the wedding went well everyone was happy but after all the happiness, dancing, eating and greetings by friends and family, i found out later i was left with him in the car and the driver.

We went into the hotel room that evening and he started answering calls, so i use that opportunity to rush to the bathroom and took my bath, after i finish bathing, lying down on the bed and thinking of how sex will look like, he tapped my leg and said i should come and bath him, i was like, bath you? how na, he said i should not waste his time, i wanted to say something again and he opened his eyes, the way he has not opened it before so i was scared, i jump off bed to the bathroom and started pouring water on him, he ask if i was in my right senses in a very fierce way, i shake my head saying yes, he said he doesnt think so that if i was i will be unclad by now, so i told him i wasnt going to bath him anymore, i left, went to the bed and lie, he completed the bath and came to meet me in the room.

He held me and said, yes i married you, he didnt say anything again he just stared at me, then dragged me closer and started kissing me, then he said i should UnCloth him, what was surprising to me though was that his stuff was now 300% bigger than what i saw while i try to bath him, i thought maybe he had used something on it so i started to shift back, he pulled me back and i never knew how powerful he was until that evening, cos his hands just seem to be pulling me like im an ant, at that point i tried to fight him but he practically raped me, i screamed and shouted my life out but it seems he is enjoying the shout so i started to remain calm and then he said hold me, hold me very tight and i remember my mom telling me, do whatever he says to make him happy, so i grabbed him with two hands very tight to my body and as i did, i also started enjoying the sex so i started calling him baby.

After the first round, it was like i had an accident, i was so tired i couldnt stand up, i couldnt even hold a paper i was breathing fast, it felt like i will die, i ask him to get me lucozade or something to regain my energy, he gave me drink and i just wanted to sleep off, he came waking me up and wanted to start another thing, i screamed at him and he said look at me very well, you see all that up shoulder you use to display while we were dating? you've got to drop it at the wedding reception because if you take it to the wedding, you will just be crying, do you know how many years you make me impotent, should i analyse the insult you gave me and all of that, now respect yourself, stand up and do the needful.

Fear crib me like i have made a mistake, i cried and ran down to the bed to UnCloth he said no way, now i want it standing, i tried to imagine how somebody will stand to have sex but before i could finish thinking, he's dragged me out of bed and there it goes, painful and annoying i was just crying.

After he finished that, i went on my knee to beg him for forgivenness for all the shout and scream i use to shout at him that i was ready to make a new turn, he said fine, that the new turn will mean that i will now respect and do everything he wants me to, i said yes i will do.

Then he said, come on suck this, you won't imagine what he ask me to suck , how in the world can a husband be so wicked

I said not this, he said ok, seems you are not ready to comply, he came for me and i bit him, fought him, he allowed me beat him after i finish beating him, he raped me and its really hurting me like i want to die.

Now everyday he made me suck him, all the bad things one could dream of is what he likes, if he ask me to do something and i refuse he wont beat me, instead he will come for me and rape me.

I am so tired, i don't know why one man will want to have sex up to countles times in a day, i was just wondering.

UNTILL HE CAME TO REVEAL TO ME TODAY THAT HE IS PUNISHING ME FOR WHAT I DID TO HIM OVER THE YEARS.

He finds joy in doing it and im so pained, is he going to change, should i report him to our pastor or my parent?

Dear you are paying back in hard currency...
You ladies thinks you know it all.
Anyway my advice is that keep praying for him so that the beast that possessed him will free him.

blesie:
i know it is his right to enjoy me, but he is weird, its either he wants it standing. bending or sucking. and he enjoys it hard and never tired. sometimes he left me breathless and even when i shout he enjous ut the more

Even if you are married, your body is still your body and not his. He cannot do with you as he desires. When you hurt and shout then something is wrong. This is abuse, not love making. Some people like it rough but that does not mean that everyone does and everyone has to.

Everything is allowed as long as BOTH ADULTS consent to it.

I have the feeling that you married a big piece of bush meat. Every gentleman knows that women, especially inexperienced women, need it to be tender and gentle to open up and learn to enjoy the process.

I think, you need to take good care of yourself. He has no right to hurt you and use you as he pleases. You are his wife, not his slave.
Don't listen to backward people.

It is right when it feels right and it is wrong when it doesn't feel right.

If you feel uncomfortable or bad, then something is wrong. Don't let people tell you that you must endure it. Respect yourself or nobody else will!

The problem here is no communication. you punished him before n he is trying to revenge, fine. but your inexperience n lack of knowledge about sex and sexuality is doing greater harm. it wouldnt have been this bad.
my first advice is get a good book of sex or educational sex video, NOT porn. those things he asks you to do to him are normal things that even your pastor may be enjoyin from his wife.
Second, after you learn a little, surprise him one day by initiating sex n giving him a good lead that blows his mind off.
Third, after your surprise, talk things over with him and make him understand you really want to enjoy him but he needs to do the exact things that give you pleasure. also make him know you are ready to give it to him the way he loves it.

i find the story a little ridiculous though, but you guys r married only a few weeks. he is a man and will get tired soon, but you need to set things straight early enough.
there is nothing like rape in marriage! you made vow to commit ursef n ur body to him. no court will grant divorce becos of too much sex, not even in USA!
i must admit he may not really love u. men are known to do anytin to sleep with a woman, marriage is one of those tins, and when he has had enough he starts cheating on u. just pray that doesnt happen; and that is why you must make him enjoy u n to keep coming back for more.
Involving your Pastor or parents is not good, to early for such. you guys shd learn to resolve ur own issues internally if you want ur marriage to last.
pray. seek personal counsel from older women in marriage.

M4gunners:
Why are you complaining because he asked u to suck him?Where u not sucking the people u dated before marrying him?
Now he has told you why he is treating you like this, endure it he will soon change, but before then this is pay back time .

An entirely stewpid, pointless and meaningless contribution ever

Na so you go dey copy and paste...

blesie:
I just wish to share my honeymoon bitter and sweet experience for you and also get inspiration.

A little Intro to how it all started: So i met this guy during the course of work in my former office and he started chasing me, my colleagues then ask me not to agree that he looks like a player. He looks like one that never get a No for an answer, so me and my colleagues use him to have a good lunch, dinner or whenever we just feel like going to that cinema, he won't ever dissapoint, he'll take us there, a year after i left the company but he kept on chasing, so one day i was passing through some difficult times in my career, i felt like resigning but he came to me and advise me wisely, he told me how to tackle the challenges and when i did, it works perfectly so i started liking him, so i called him that we can date if only he will adhere to my conditions, he asked me to list the conditions and i did as stated below:
1) No Sex
2) No romance
3) No Kissing
Infact no touches.

He agreed with so much pains in his eyes, but after 6 months of dating, we begin to hug anyway and light kisses.

But through out the relationship, i was always walking with shoulders held very high up there, thinking that shebi he's the one begging me, i will scream and always want things done my way.

For a year, i misbehave alot but after i begin to be the girl he would want me to be, i wasnt really shouting or screaming anymore but i was still so full of pride, but i started loving him very well.

On the first week of August he proposed, and we got married over 2 weeks ago, the wedding went well everyone was happy but after all the happiness, dancing, eating and greetings by friends and family, i found out later i was left with him in the car and the driver.

We went into the hotel room that evening and he started answering calls, so i use that opportunity to rush to the bathroom and took my bath, after i finish bathing, lying down on the bed and thinking of how sex will look like, he tapped my leg and said i should come and bath him, i was like, bath you? how na, he said i should not waste his time, i wanted to say something again and he opened his eyes, the way he has not opened it before so i was scared, i jump off bed to the bathroom and started pouring water on him, he ask if i was in my right senses in a very fierce way, i shake my head saying yes, he said he doesnt think so that if i was i will be unclad by now, so i told him i wasnt going to bath him anymore, i left, went to the bed and lie, he completed the bath and came to meet me in the room.

He held me and said, yes i married you, he didnt say anything again he just stared at me, then dragged me closer and started kissing me, then he said i should UnCloth him, what was surprising to me though was that his stuff was now 300% bigger than what i saw while i try to bath him, i thought maybe he had used something on it so i started to shift back, he pulled me back and i never knew how powerful he was until that evening, cos his hands just seem to be pulling me like im an ant, at that point i tried to fight him but he practically raped me, i screamed and shouted my life out but it seems he is enjoying the shout so i started to remain calm and then he said hold me, hold me very tight and i remember my mom telling me, do whatever he says to make him happy, so i grabbed him with two hands very tight to my body and as i did, i also started enjoying the sex so i started calling him baby.

After the first round, it was like i had an accident, i was so tired i couldnt stand up, i couldnt even hold a paper i was breathing fast, it felt like i will die, i ask him to get me lucozade or something to regain my energy, he gave me drink and i just wanted to sleep off, he came waking me up and wanted to start another thing, i screamed at him and he said look at me very well, you see all that up shoulder you use to display while we were dating? you've got to drop it at the wedding reception because if you take it to the wedding, you will just be crying, do you know how many years you make me impotent, should i analyse the insult you gave me and all of that, now respect yourself, stand up and do the needful.

Fear crib me like i have made a mistake, i cried and ran down to the bed to UnCloth he said no way, now i want it standing, i tried to imagine how somebody will stand to have sex but before i could finish thinking, he's dragged me out of bed and there it goes, painful and annoying i was just crying.

After he finished that, i went on my knee to beg him for forgivenness for all the shout and scream i use to shout at him that i was ready to make a new turn, he said fine, that the new turn will mean that i will now respect and do everything he wants me to, i said yes i will do.

Then he said, come on suck this, you won't imagine what he ask me to suck , how in the world can a husband be so wicked

I said not this, he said ok, seems you are not ready to comply, he came for me and i bit him, fought him, he allowed me beat him after i finish beating him, he raped me and its really hurting me like i want to die.

Now everyday he made me suck him, all the bad things one could dream of is what he likes, if he ask me to do something and i refuse he wont beat me, instead he will come for me and rape me.

I am so tired, i don't know why one man will want to have sex up to countles times in a day, i was just wondering.

UNTILL HE CAME TO REVEAL TO ME TODAY THAT HE IS PUNISHING ME FOR WHAT I DID TO HIM OVER THE YEARS.

He finds joy in doing it and im so pained, is he going to change, should i report him to our pastor or my parent?

Nothing like rape in marriage.Sex is sex,either willingly or otherwise.Take note .

evegran:
Sorry dear, i think you should apologise or simply find a way to start enjoying the sex.

S &M is fun to me tho.

Teach me French please

Op, he has told you d reason why he is doing that. So do not involve a 3rd party, suprise him. Takke time to remeditate on your love for him. Then give him a suprise dinner look sexy and be ready to make love. Tell him you want it to be special. Obviously he likes it rough so be well greased and think of scenes that makes u Hot.
Its clear d more u resist and fear him, d more painful d sex is. But when u embrace him and work with him to do d needful den both of u will start enjoying urselves. Pele

Too many sick answers.

blesie:
I just wish to share my honeymoon bitter and sweet experience for you and also get inspiration.

A little Intro to how it all started: So i met this guy during the course of work in my former office and he started chasing me, my colleagues then ask me not to agree that he looks like a player. He looks like one that never get a No for an answer, so me and my colleagues use him to have a good lunch, dinner or whenever we just feel like going to that cinema, he won't ever dissapoint, he'll take us there, a year after i left the company but he kept on chasing, so one day i was passing through some difficult times in my career, i felt like resigning but he came to me and advise me wisely, he told me how to tackle the challenges and when i did, it works perfectly so i started liking him, so i called him that we can date if only he will adhere to my conditions, he asked me to list the conditions and i did as stated below:
1) No Sex
2) No romance
3) No Kissing
Infact no touches.

He agreed with so much pains in his eyes, but after 6 months of dating, we begin to hug anyway and light kisses.

But through out the relationship, i was always walking with shoulders held very high up there, thinking that shebi he's the one begging me, i will scream and always want things done my way.

For a year, i misbehave alot but after i begin to be the girl he would want me to be, i wasnt really shouting or screaming anymore but i was still so full of pride, but i started loving him very well.

On the first week of August he proposed, and we got married over 2 weeks ago, the wedding went well everyone was happy but after all the happiness, dancing, eating and greetings by friends and family, i found out later i was left with him in the car and the driver.

We went into the hotel room that evening and he started answering calls, so i use that opportunity to rush to the bathroom and took my bath, after i finish bathing, lying down on the bed and thinking of how sex will look like, he tapped my leg and said i should come and bath him, i was like, bath you? how na, he said i should not waste his time, i wanted to say something again and he opened his eyes, the way he has not opened it before so i was scared, i jump off bed to the bathroom and started pouring water on him, he ask if i was in my right senses in a very fierce way, i shake my head saying yes, he said he doesnt think so that if i was i will be unclad by now, so i told him i wasnt going to bath him anymore, i left, went to the bed and lie, he completed the bath and came to meet me in the room.

He held me and said, yes i married you, he didnt say anything again he just stared at me, then dragged me closer and started kissing me, then he said i should UnCloth him, what was surprising to me though was that his stuff was now 300% bigger than what i saw while i try to bath him, i thought maybe he had used something on it so i started to shift back, he pulled me back and i never knew how powerful he was until that evening, cos his hands just seem to be pulling me like im an ant, at that point i tried to fight him but he practically raped me, i screamed and shouted my life out but it seems he is enjoying the shout so i started to remain calm and then he said hold me, hold me very tight and i remember my mom telling me, do whatever he says to make him happy, so i grabbed him with two hands very tight to my body and as i did, i also started enjoying the sex so i started calling him baby.

After the first round, it was like i had an accident, i was so tired i couldnt stand up, i couldnt even hold a paper i was breathing fast, it felt like i will die, i ask him to get me lucozade or something to regain my energy, he gave me drink and i just wanted to sleep off, he came waking me up and wanted to start another thing, i screamed at him and he said look at me very well, you see all that up shoulder you use to display while we were dating? you've got to drop it at the wedding reception because if you take it to the wedding, you will just be crying, do you know how many years you make me impotent, should i analyse the insult you gave me and all of that, now respect yourself, stand up and do the needful.

Fear crib me like i have made a mistake, i cried and ran down to the bed to UnCloth he said no way, now i want it standing, i tried to imagine how somebody will stand to have sex but before i could finish thinking, he's dragged me out of bed and there it goes, painful and annoying i was just crying.

After he finished that, i went on my knee to beg him for forgivenness for all the shout and scream i use to shout at him that i was ready to make a new turn, he said fine, that the new turn will mean that i will now respect and do everything he wants me to, i said yes i will do.

Then he said, come on suck this, you won't imagine what he ask me to suck , how in the world can a husband be so wicked

I said not this, he said ok, seems you are not ready to comply, he came for me and i bit him, fought him, he allowed me beat him after i finish beating him, he raped me and its really hurting me like i want to die.

Now everyday he made me suck him, all the bad things one could dream of is what he likes, if he ask me to do something and i refuse he wont beat me, instead he will come for me and rape me.

I am so tired, i don't know why one man will want to have sex up to countles times in a day, i was just wondering.

UNTILL HE CAME TO REVEAL TO ME TODAY THAT HE IS PUNISHING ME FOR WHAT I DID TO HIM OVER THE YEARS.

He finds joy in doing it and im so pained, is he going to change, should i report him to our pastor or my parent?

My advice is it has not gotten to that extent of inviting a party to this issue, or where use not adviced against third party in your marriage by your elders/parents during the marriage process?

Reporting this issue to third party may make hime feel ashamed which would lead to hatred and anger against you. I said this from my mind because this is what such situation can lead me to, please avoid it.

Now, what you should do is, when he is settled and calm seat close to him and politely tell him how you feel and how you intend to improve to meet his desire but he should try and take it easy with you as you are not use to it the way he want it that he should teach you to cope.

This is happening because the marriage is still fresh and all what he imagine/desire of you is still in flame, ok. Its just a matter of time his desire would reduce, don't forget by the time responsibility from children, house upkeep, parents, office workload starts stressing him his manhood would hardly come out of his trousers. Goodluck.



Mm

carefreewannabe:


So he married this woman to take revenge on her? This is sick.

Exactly my sister. Let me break the story down a bit:
While they were in school ( same university), they dated and after a while d lady broke up with d guy.
They later started dating again after NYSC and d guy made up his mind to punish her for breaking up with him while on campus.
Like i said, u cannot imagine what an un-renewed mind can do. Trust me its unimaginable to say d least.

What kind of story is this?
Thank God I saw it late.

You two should go to YABA LEFT!

Ha ha ha...

I know this is not funny but the question now is, how can I make myself to stop laughing after reading this?

Baby sorry o, you hear? It's just a honeymoon process, okay?

One of you will soon get tired of it.

Put it in prayer, okay? I'm sorry I don't have any other practical advice for you.

Ha ha ha...

Oh wait, if it would help, you can read Fifty Shades of Grey to get yourself ready because from what I can see now, it will surely get worse before it gets better...

Ha ha ha...

Indeed, marriage is NOT a bed of roses- for some folks, as we've seen from this account...

anthoniaz:

Na wa oo!

Are u serious

Talk to him through letter or phone call if you can't face him.This sounds unbelievable to me.Lord have mercy!

That was exactly what I was planning for you.

But, Oooops ! I just spilled the beans...

wow...you really bear it all truthfully....to be sincere i feel you should just relax and take the bad he does to him. Kill him with sex, be the bad girl. That his method wil stop. Watch Indecency to get an idea of wat to do. Stop being the ''good girl''. Spoil his game. Next is abt relationship. Ladies word of advice , you can never know who he really his so just be yourself catch some fun.

Modified....
I just want to use this oppurtunitu to thank papa God, that he made me a male, a man, becos if i was a woman, i dont think i can take half shit of wat they take. Oooo shey.

Chai! End time chicks U realli take advantage of dat man cuz he loved you, And two yearz courtship without no sex Ah ah! thats too much nah
My last bullet
You can't say it with all your mouth that Another guy isn't banging u within that two yearz..

mayapop:
Why would a man wanna go all Spartacus on his woman during their honeymoon, hmmm if your story is true, you need to leave him, jeez!

abi ooooo, before she go far, before elastic got his limitations

JAZES:


Exactly my sister. Let me break the story down a bit:
While they were in school ( same university), they dated and after a while d lady broke up with d guy.
They later started dating again after NYSC and d guy made up his mind to punish her for breaking up with him while on campus.
Like i said, u cannot imagine what an un-renewed mind can do. Trust me its unimaginable to say d least.

This guy has serious issues. This is so sick.

Didn't the lady notice something was wrong with him? There must have been signs.

Two wrongs can never make a right.U made a mistake with d affirm NO SEX.Dat is sheer wickedness n also with u walking abt with high shoulder.It shd av been a mutual thing between d two of u. Now, he is paying u back however, he is making a mistake too.Try to find out one of d days he celebrate joyful, on such day, call him 4rm ur office to meet u sumwhere with u keeping d detail a secret 4rm him till he comes around, celebrate such day with him,den beg him n seek 4 his 4giveness. Hopefully, he will 4give u.Den get a hotel or head home n give him d finishing wallop by taking d sex to him now.Starting 4rm d pre-intimacy with little or no rush pls.

Haywhymido:
Two wrongs can never make a right.U made a mistake with d affirm NO SEX.Dat is sheer wickedness n also with u walking abt with high shoulder.It shd av been a mutual thing between d two of u. Now, he is paying u back however, he is making a mistake too.Try to find out one of d days he celebrate joyful, on such day, call him 4rm ur office to meet u sumwhere with u keeping d detail a secret 4rm him till he comes around, celebrate such day with him,den beg him n seek 4 his 4giveness. Hopefully, he will 4give u.Den get a hotel or head home n give him d finishing wallop by taking d sex to him now.Starting 4rm d pre-intimacy with little or no rush pls.

How was it a mistake to not have s*ex before marriage?

Is it by force now to have s*ex before marriage?

Honestly, you deserve more than that punishment from your husband op.
You kept your husband at the waiting room for a long period making him to think you have something special to offer during wedding, whereas you were having fun with other guys.

So, why your husband is acting such is that, you have been disvirgin for so long and the hole is something else. Your husband is currently passing through some emotional and psychological imbalance because he met you in a way he didnt expect both breast and down.
Your courtship time was not well spent and lot of pretence at that process, from my little observation. Why trying to cover things up when such things will still be revealed at the apppointed time.

In a real sense, no man would spent such amount of time waiting and money on big wedding with much expectation, and at the end NOTHING ORIGINAL again(all the spare parts have been terribly affected)
You have cheated that guy so much....

PS: Keeping yourself from all sorts of immorality gives you more respect frm your husband.

Op you just won the biggest lie of the year

100Cents:


That was exactly what I was planning for you.

But, Oooops ! I just spilled the beans...

You are trespassing

OP! Were you a virgin until you got married? The period you were dating, did not have sex with another man? I just feel you sidekicked on him. For the guy to be constantly raping you is not right since he is your husband. I think you are new to sex and it is so sad you are married to sex maniac. I will suggest you have a discussion with him about sex. I think he will change and you too should improve. Don't be selfish about it. The size of his thing will not kill you, just improve and I believe the two of you will have quality sex life.

anthoniaz:

You are trespassing

Oh sorry...

jaybee3:
Dude must have watched too much porn to enable him exert his demonic skills on you the unsuspecting prey.

I would have love to see the look on your face at the sight of the magical 300% mandigo size increase

Its called Bamboo !