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Re: Separation Is Imminent In My Marriage. by onyichick(f): 9:00pm On Jan 04, 2015 |
donmalcolm21:who us dis one opening his dirty gutter to spew trash,wat can u do sef.nonsense. 1 Like |
Re: Separation Is Imminent In My Marriage. by miredia(m): 9:00pm On Jan 04, 2015 |
chuksfor13:Spiritual head..... ![]() ![]() ![]() 2 Likes |
Re: Separation Is Imminent In My Marriage. by krypton: 9:01pm On Jan 04, 2015 |
elantraceey: Most times courtship is not a guarantee that you know your spouse very well. There is a lot of pretense during this period. You can't blame OP on this, a lot of marriages are also in crisis. I feel separation for a while would help in this case. Get you financial position back as quick as possible to avoid insults in this area. Pray my brother if all still does not work out, God will surely direct your steps. 2 Likes |
Re: Separation Is Imminent In My Marriage. by Nobody: 9:01pm On Jan 04, 2015 |
BABANGBALI: What is the meaning of this Mohammed d1k scribble? 2 Likes |
Re: Separation Is Imminent In My Marriage. by Nobody: 9:02pm On Jan 04, 2015 |
Adufetohposh: Very wicked response. She control be that bad na. |
Re: Separation Is Imminent In My Marriage. by ronalmagic10(m): 9:04pm On Jan 04, 2015 |
@OP, I think you need to see a good marriage counselor as soon as possible. It seems like you made a mistake posting your issue here judging by the comments of many nairalanders. Imagine some dummies berating you for telling your wife(not gf or sister o) not to wear butt pad. Rubbish!!! Well, you can only do one of two things: continue with the marriage or divorce her. If you feel your differences are irreconcilable, you guys are incompatible and that you don't love her anymore then waste no time in divorcing her. It's not a bad idea judging from all you have said about her. However, if you still wanna continue with the marriage then try to get to the root of the matter and deal with it. You said it yourself that she has a bad mouth so those talk of her threatening to kill you and other curses may just be empty threats. Though if I were in your shoes, I'll go with divorce cos you can't be certain she won't do worse next time. All the best. |
Re: Separation Is Imminent In My Marriage. by miredia(m): 9:05pm On Jan 04, 2015 |
morbeta:Most eventual become born- again after reality dawns on them. 2 Likes |
Re: Separation Is Imminent In My Marriage. by Nobody: 9:05pm On Jan 04, 2015 |
cococandy:Idiiot. How is your comment relevant to the post you quoted? If you have nothing good to say, shut up and go to sleep. Mumu 6 Likes |
Re: Separation Is Imminent In My Marriage. by miredia(m): 9:07pm On Jan 04, 2015 |
WombRaiders:Your tribal bigotry isn't impressionable, the only sense you have spoken is the analogy of "bad parents, good parents" |
Re: Separation Is Imminent In My Marriage. by donbenie(m): 9:07pm On Jan 04, 2015 |
teemanbastos:Fvck this talk to your Pastor and marriage is till death do us part shi.t..Pastors that cannot even manage their own stinking marriages?and if you want to die in an ABUSIVE marriage be my guest,just don't encourage others with your archaic believe. 3 Likes |
Re: Separation Is Imminent In My Marriage. by Nobody: 9:08pm On Jan 04, 2015 |
miredia: Breed, they say is greater than pasture. Most Yoruba homes are dysfunctional breeding dysfunctional kids who will later continue the cycle of dysfunctional. Ever wondered why, a man seeking a woman in marriage must know her parents and family? It is to ascertain her upbringing to know if it fits with that of his and the family he intends to start. Never make a wh0re a house wife. Yoruba women are narsistic sluts who never understand that marriage comes first above their owambe humping and partying. 2 Likes |
Re: Separation Is Imminent In My Marriage. by BABANGBALI: 9:10pm On Jan 04, 2015 |
WombRaiders:ضفثبثرسكك يليعفهقه صتصتث سلثاثع بتفتبهب يلياباب ساسهبهبل سلسلسرءكياياامخل شلسابافععقاقا |
Re: Separation Is Imminent In My Marriage. by miredia(m): 9:11pm On Jan 04, 2015 |
benodic:Good gracious... Lots of clowns lurking. Death is involved here and you are here saying baloneys... What mastery? Complexities guised to be simplicities. I hope you gain mastery of death chants. 1 Like |
Re: Separation Is Imminent In My Marriage. by miredia(m): 9:13pm On Jan 04, 2015 |
Re: Separation Is Imminent In My Marriage. by Nobody: 9:14pm On Jan 04, 2015 |
BABANGBALI: I did a google translate and it just gave me gibberish crap. If you must claim diversity then stop using inbred language. Daft Arab c0ck sucker 3 Likes |
Re: Separation Is Imminent In My Marriage. by miredia(m): 9:14pm On Jan 04, 2015 |
donmalcolm21:You going on a rampage dude. ![]() |
Re: Separation Is Imminent In My Marriage. by BABANGBALI: 9:15pm On Jan 04, 2015 |
WombRaiders:يقفلغاع عهتالبي |
Re: Separation Is Imminent In My Marriage. by delishpot: 9:15pm On Jan 04, 2015 |
coogar: Gbam. |
Re: Separation Is Imminent In My Marriage. by miredia(m): 9:16pm On Jan 04, 2015 |
idu1:True that is. You can't help attraction to beauty though.. ![]() ![]() |
Re: Separation Is Imminent In My Marriage. by Nobody: 9:17pm On Jan 04, 2015 |
BABANGBALI: You just wrote : Allah sucks greatest c0ck You slanderous kaffur. I shall behead thee and feed your rotten corpse to pigs. 2 Likes |
Re: Separation Is Imminent In My Marriage. by Austin234(m): 9:19pm On Jan 04, 2015 |
This is a pathetic case. I sympatise with u if all u wrote is anytin to go by. My advice is dat u adopt d folowing steps: 1. Do not repay her evil for evil 2. Treat her wit much love 3. Steer clear frm sin. Dont engage in extra-marital sex 4. Pray and fast 4 ur mariage 5. Read same Psalm 61: 1-end every day 6. Live righteously 7. Be patient 8. If all these personal efforts fail, report to ur pastor if ur pastor is gud in mariage counselling 9. As much as posible do not all third parties in to ur mariage aside frm a spiritual mentor in d person of ur gud pastor and invariably, the church 10. The church may now determine if separation cud be d next option. May God help u out of dis marital unhapines in Jesus name 2 Likes |
Re: Separation Is Imminent In My Marriage. by ArabianPrince: 9:20pm On Jan 04, 2015 |
@Op. How old is your baby? Was it a planned pregnancy? Are you working? Was your marriage sponsored by her family?. If you don't feel comfortable and secured in your home...You need to take a break for your safety amd mental well being. You shouldn't have forcefully removed the yansh pad. You both seem to be aggressive. Probably if she is footing bills...then they must have seen you as a burden based on what she has told her family. Some ladies will help and it won't be an issue...while some will help and announce to whole family...third party involvement. What I see here is two aggressive couple cohabiting. Am sure if we hear her own story...there will be finger pointing both ways. Ensure your safety first....have one on one discussion with her with no third party involvement...I know she is not insane....you both should talk things out and show each other some respect and avoid third party involvement both ways. If its not working...then its not worth it. 3 Likes |
Re: Separation Is Imminent In My Marriage. by patgenius: 9:20pm On Jan 04, 2015 |
I would have loved to pity u but I must say that the essence of courtship before marriage is to study and know each other better and be able to decide if u can really stick out ur head for a life time with each other. According to u, u dated her for 2yrs and even had an arguement and quarrels with her few months to ur marriage and she said aborminable words to u. Having seen and known all these things about her even before marrying her, the question now is "WHO IS TO BLAME FOR YOUR PREDICAMENTS" |
Re: Separation Is Imminent In My Marriage. by miredia(m): 9:20pm On Jan 04, 2015 |
Fit2Rule:I strongly believe she doesn't want him dead, perhaps divorced. She wants him submissive to her will and most likely a penchant for subtle promiscuity which his presence stalls. 1 Like |
Re: Separation Is Imminent In My Marriage. by chingydaboss(m): 9:20pm On Jan 04, 2015 |
Com to chosen.. God will heal ur marriage Divorce is nt an option. God hates divorce. Mal 2;15-16 |
Re: Separation Is Imminent In My Marriage. by miredia(m): 9:24pm On Jan 04, 2015 |
Galaxydon1:Where do you live? |
Re: Separation Is Imminent In My Marriage. by chronique(m): 9:27pm On Jan 04, 2015 |
Those of you asking him to divorce her,are in a way wicked. Have you people forgotten that some of us are still single and looking for wives? Do you want us to go and use head to carry this type of bad market that OP wants to throw away? @ OP: pls whatever you do,do not divorce her. Find where to tie that thing to. But if you must send her away,pls let me have a picture of her so that where ever I see her,I can run with my two legs. But on a serious note,this is scary. You are in a deep problem. Your best bet is total separation from her. That thing aint a wife. 10 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Separation Is Imminent In My Marriage. by Nobody: 9:28pm On Jan 04, 2015 |
elantraceey:. maybe she was desperate to ans MRS..... Op if you are quitting the marriage,better take your child along with you. there is every tendency that she won't cater for the baby. but am still baffled, so there are ladies that can be so foolish. 1 Like |
Re: Separation Is Imminent In My Marriage. by MrPearce(m): 9:29pm On Jan 04, 2015 |
cytochromeC: am sure it was modified to attract more traffic ![]() 1 Like |
Re: Separation Is Imminent In My Marriage. by hedonistic: 9:30pm On Jan 04, 2015 |
Rep042:Do you mind telling us where this woman is from? As in the state and the town? |
Re: Separation Is Imminent In My Marriage. by Nobody: 9:30pm On Jan 04, 2015 |
chingydaboss:. even in the face of death. I know this same bible advocates separation. |
Re: Separation Is Imminent In My Marriage. by Nobody: 9:30pm On Jan 04, 2015 |
miredia: All that glitters is not gold. You could end up with shinny gold sprayed aluminium crap. On most accounts beautiful people are highly bad mannered and selfish. I don't see the beauty of a vile woman. Being extremely handsome and a sex god myself I find myself dating girls for their knowledge, depth, spiritual balance and reservations. I have dated a lot of supposedly fine girls because of my looks but i could not stand their b1tchiness and wh0re flirting. Beauty can be a magnet but their character is what makes me stick around. My current babe is average and a far cry from the narsistic cun.ts I dated in the past and she is definitely a keeper on all levels. To me she is a beauty only thing is that all the scars I got from those b1tches on my heart make it difficult to completely lose myself with her or any woman. I am praying to GOD to make me love again and her in particular. Only problem is that she views my looks as a sign that I am a potential cheat in the making which I am not. This is the disadvantage of being handsome or beautiful you make your spouse unnessary jealous. 2 Likes |
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