AlphaDibia:
This is an utterly wacky and nonsensical piece of writing. So many issues. First it lack of good judgment: How can you just meet someone online and instantaneously want to meet with them? Ah ah.. also asking a girl for her hobby and what she loves to eat is a turn off? ARE YOU KIDDING ME? Seun needs to intervene

I tried to ignore this but I couldn't. Guy face reality a lot of guys do itm simply cos u don't doesn't mean it's not happening so don't be quick to say alll dat. If u have close female friends ask.....

SwagForce1:


Hey, what's up?

am good, hw u doing?

scarr:
Normally I just put up a good pic of me with an expensive item, she'll be d one doing d interview!!!no time for iranu...money speaks better than being a nice guy
.This happend to me real life, got a girls pin from a friend
Me: hey ms
She: who are you
Me: my name is xxxx, just wanna be friends
She: ok
As a guy that doesn't like nonsense I turned off my good boy attitude and let d other side take control
Added her on my other bbm, this time my dp was a pic of me dining in Eko hotel and suites
Me: hey you
She: hello cutie
Me: how's u?
She: I'm good o just bored at home
And d rest is history

All dese chicken brain girls forming james bond for broke guyz and dropping dere pants thrice a night for rich guys....God is watching yall
Advice to ma niggas out dere, makes some money and dese unloyal farm animals would be d ones begging u

time tells the story best

kaboninc:


These mentions on Nairaland sting like bees. So when I get mentioned, I feel that sharp pain and jerk up. Yours in particular.....

hahahhahahahahhahhaha! U r addicted den

Mzflexydeeva:
y wud u be chatting with a bitch in d 1st place She's a girl yea!

what is Dam?

Mzflexydeeva:
hahahhahahahahhahhaha! U r addicted den

No am not!

I just use it to keep myself informed. That's all!

correctguy0900:



who chats like dis

No one does atleast no sane person, owk?

Mzflexydeeva:
hmmmmmmmmmmm

I thought we're through with this

Mzflexydeeva:
do you know how irritating this statement can be " I want to know you better" sometimes In a good conversation, things just flow. If you chat up a girl & she's giving attitude u let her be. Stop forcing it.

lol.. The question is that why do the wrong guys keep coming your way, that should also have some things to do with girls, and I mean what is “I want to know you better” that's one of some guys many conversation flaws, I mean, by talking are we not getting to know one another already, never u used that line. All the same, u have been meeting wrong dudes, a correct guy won't put up such cos they are not idle enough, to always be stalking one geh on bbm, when they chanced they holla, even me as a guy, if u message too much, or your convo no get end .. I may choose to ignore, understanding is key

Mzflexydeeva:
don't you think that's an indirect way of saying "free me" some guys will keep pushing like they can't read in between the lines.

exactly!! Its like trying to make a magnet opposite poles to connect, like I said I am quick 2 study peeps, if @ the moment she is not in a good mood, I can give time and see, if she got the k,ait and shi as her slogan, the delete button is always there for me. Its not everybody u can connect with

Mzflexydeeva:
wen a mature guy is chatting u'll know. A Lot of guys who chat up girl they got their pin online already hace this "cheap girl" mentality.

80 percent true,

thronekid:

No one does atleast no sane person, owk?

thought as much

Mzflexydeeva:
for me there's more maturity when u just tackle her instead of calling names. At that point
Guy: how was your day?
Girl: nothing just normal.
Guy:


If she's interested @ dis point an apology will come in and d chat progresses. If not U lock up.

okay.. You made sense but you and I both know the ego of Nigerian dames. Even if she's interested in you or likes one so much -- I don't think she will wanna reply if any guy sends her this--- would it kill you to ask how I am doing too? I can see you are not interested in the conversation bye.

hehehe .. I doubt... the chances of she replying that is very very low... I know Nigerian girls very well

Mzflexydeeva:
you welcome

pls i have i very disturbing qtn dat all a female can ans.wat if after pouring out ur feelings but online and physically,she still didnt break,and she never said no to u or yes...

Just here t drop my 2 cents.
This thread seemx great, it deals with reality, not just fantasy.
. I conjure wif the OP's point of view based on first time chats. I always endeavour to leave a good impression on my first time chat with anyone, nt just galz coz 'first time impression, they say lasts longer'. I do take my time with galz for a week irrespective of d way u chat. I think its nice just to play cool with her for the 1st week of chatting and honestly i do and i normally keep it on if she turns out to be mature.
. But most girlz happen to have the 'i am d female here, all he's after is my pants' mentality, hence the reason most of them always expect u to initiate d convo first, even after that, they expects u to try your utmost best to keep d convo alive, are thingz done that way? C'mon, you'l agree wif me that'x a one-sided ish, right?.
. So, after the first week nd it stil seemz like i'm trying to make her chat against her will, then, i act but that doesn't means declining her, i just kip her there buh then, i'l ignore her cmpletely cuz i myself loathe being deleted or declined, hence, my reason for that.
. I sincerely feel our gurlz nidz to be cured of this mentality, u knw if they get cured, we guys would be d main beneficiaries, THANKZ!
'
. @ Op, this topic too make sence, thankx for dz!
.
Lyk i said ealier, just my 2 centx, no one should hold anything against me, atleast no sane person should.
THANKZ

Mzflexydeeva:
am good, hw u doing?

Oh, I am terrific. I think I agree with your post. Are you a dating expert or something?

correctguy0900:


thought as much

Yeah

1stola:


what is Dam?

that's NL auto replace 4 the word BI-TCH

kaboninc:


No am not!

I just use it to keep myself informed. That's all!

Okay

Hi guyz, i was nominated as one of the best newcomers in the literature section, u can read my stories via my signature and if afta dat, u feel i am, u cn go to thz thread to vote:
https://www.nairaland.com/1804027/free-n5000-writer-here-every/42#29686991
'
. Thankz and God bless!
. No vex@ op, didn't mean t derail d thread!

Mzflexydeeva:
Am great & u?

Am good!

Just imaging were u have taking this thread to OK, I am waiting till when it get to page 30.

Mzflexydeeva:
in dis kindda conversation, it's obvious she's done wit d chat. But in a situation like
Guy: hey wats up am george

Girl: K

Wat do u say? Also note that some ladies use "K" wen there really nothing to be said.

'some' of them jxt love doin it, dunno y

Mzflexydeeva:
y r u sounding angry? It was not ways to chat better..... lots of people r getting the concept rong....... it's all good though

Mzflexy, I understand your concept perfectly - how to get a gal to be interested in chatting with you (familiar or not familiar) - am I right

if a gal can't take you serious on your rules you just stated, shld a guy take you serious? I don't think anybody shld. but what am saying is, there are no rules to this chatting of a thing. you are in the best position to chat up a gal if she knows you. it is only the exciting, lively and matured ones that will give you the confidence to continue with them in a chat even if you are the "totaliest" stranger, starting a chat with the most unconventional introductions. online chat is a medium where u can express urself however you like, so what is the use of rules. BTW, am not angry, I don't just like the fact that you people come here to portray galz like they are from another planet; this is planet earth!

iamord:
lol.. The question is that why do the wrong guys keep coming your way, that should also have some things to do with girls, and I mean what is “I want to know you better” that's one of some guys many conversation flaws, I mean, by talking are we not getting to know one another already, never u used that line. All the same, u have been meeting wrong dudes, a correct guy won't put up such cos they are not idle enough, to always be stalking one geh on bbm, when they chanced they holla, even me as a guy, if u message too much, or your convo no get end .. I may choose to ignore, understanding is key

ehen! Now i'm listening.......trust me I no get time oooooo

iamord:
exactly!! Its like trying to make a magnet opposite poles to connect, like I said I am quick 2 study peeps, if @ the moment she is not in a good mood, I can give time and see, if she got the k,ait and shi as her slogan, the delete button is always there for me. Its not everybody u can connect with

true!

Darkrebel:


okay.. You made sense but you and I both know the ego of Nigerian dames. Even if she's interested in you or likes one so much -- I don't think she will wanna reply if any guy sends her this--- would it kill you to ask how I am doing too? I can see you are not interested in the conversation bye.

hehehe .. I doubt... the chances of she replying that is very very low... I know Nigerian girls very well

you never know it could work. It has happened to me. The next thing I start laughing

2kris:
pls i have i very disturbing qtn dat all a female can ans.wat if after pouring out ur feelings but online and physically,she still didnt break,and she never said no to u or yes...

Guy no need to kill yourself over a girl who can't make a decision.

thronekid:
Just here t drop my 2 cents.
This thread seemx great, it deals with reality, not just fantasy.
. I conjure wif the OP's point of view based on first time chats. I always endeavour to leave a good impression on my first time chat with anyone, nt just galz coz 'first time impression, they say lasts longer'. I do take my time with galz for a week irrespective of d way u chat. I think its nice just to play cool with her for the 1st week of chatting and honestly i do and i normally keep it on if she turns out to be mature.
. But most girlz happen to have the 'i am d female here, all he's after is my pants' mentality, hence the reason most of them always expect u to initiate d convo first, even after that, they expects u to try your utmost best to keep d convo alive, are thingz done that way? C'mon, you'l agree wif me that'x a one-sided ish, right?.
. So, after the first week nd it stil seemz like i'm trying to make her chat against her will, then, i act but that doesn't means declining her, i just kip her there buh then, i'l ignore her cmpletely cuz i myself loathe being deleted or declined, hence, my reason for that.
. I sincerely feel our gurlz nidz to be cured of this mentality, u knw if they get cured, we guys would be d main beneficiaries, THANKZ!
'
. @ Op, this topic too make sence, thankx for dz!
.
Lyk i said ealier, just my 2 centx, no one should hold anything against me, atleast no sane person should.
THANKZ

so so correct. Patience too has a role.

SwagForce1:


Oh, I am terrific. I think I agree with your post. Are you a dating expert or something?

am not a dating expert oooooo. Just observe & speak.

thronekid:
Hi guyz, i was nominated as one of the best newcomers in the literature section, u can read my stories via my signature and if afta dat, u feel i am, u cn go to thz thread to vote:
https://www.nairaland.com/1804027/free-n5000-writer-here-every/42#29686991
'
. Thankz and God bless!
. No vex@ op, didn't mean t derail d thread!

no wahala....we go support U but when u win no forget us oooo

LewisO:
Am good!

Just imaging were u have taking this thread to OK, I am waiting till when it get to page 30.

waiting with U

zleemshaddy:
'some' of them jxt love doin it, dunno y

find out