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Reasons Ladies In Diaspora Should Marry African Men by eyamensah(m): 6:36pm On Jan 17, 2015 |
Family and marital dynamics in African cultures are varied and interesting, and the relationship between a husband and wife is sacred. Here are 10 reasons an African man would make a great husband: 1. He will do anything to protect your family: In most African tribes and cultures, anything that threaten or offends a man’s family is immediately a threat or offense to him. You’ll never feel alone in your battles—your husband will fight them like they’re his own. 2. Your relationship is a building block to him: In many African cultures, the marriage between a man and a woman is a crucial building block for a man’s life. After being married, in many African cultures, a man is then able to go after other pursuits. Your relationship won’t just be as something “fun” or seen as an accessory: it will be seen as crucial. 3. He has a good relationship with his parents: In African cultures, men take care of not only their wives and children, but also their parents and even grandparents. If you’re tired of meeting men who don’t have good relationships with their parents, that probably won’t be an issue with an African man. 4. You’ll get a big family: African families stay very close. An African man feels as obligated to help his third cousin as he does his immediate siblings. When you marry an African man you’ll instantly inherit a large, close-knit and supportive community. 5. He feels responsible for the wellbeing of your family: In African cultures, the man is the provider of the family. There is no doubt in the mind of an African man that he is directly responsible for the wellbeing and happiness of his family. He’ll think about how all of his decisions affect you, not just himself. 6. He is proud to be a husband: Whereas in many western cultures, men are taught to see marriage as some sort or prison— something that takes away their freedom — African men see it as a means to new freedom. Others see him as a man now instead of a boy. He is proud to say he has a wife and children, rather than sheepish about it. In African cultures, your success is measured more by how strong and happy your family is than anything else. 7. He’ll be shunned if he gets out of line: In African cultures, if a man mistreats his wife, the rest of the community tends to shun him and considers him useless. Since one of his most important roles is as husband and father, if he does something bad for the family, his community truly does see him as a failure. 8. He appreciates a home cooked meal: Western cultures have learned to appreciate endless pasta cards from chain restaurants, great deals on ready-made chicken from the deli and celebrity-run restaurants. And that has turned the homemade meal into something second rate and boring. But an African man really values a good homemade meal. 9. He’s open to learning: If a man moved directly from Africa to the United States, he already accepts that life will be very different and there will be a lot to become accustomed to, so he will be open to learning from you! 10. Nurturing doesn’t look needy: Many women from the western world have been taught that being nurturing to a man can look needy—like taking care of him when he’s sick or just being particularly affectionate. But African men are very comfortable with being nurtured, and in fact crave it! 16 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Reasons Ladies In Diaspora Should Marry African Men by naturally: 6:37pm On Jan 17, 2015 |
African men are strong 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Reasons Ladies In Diaspora Should Marry African Men by MrCork: 6:40pm On Jan 17, 2015 |
eyamensah: ![]() 10 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Reasons Ladies In Diaspora Should Marry African Men by MrCork: 6:41pm On Jan 17, 2015 |
eyamensah: ...Bro....so u prefa African men with Tribal mark...abi?....wots wrong with we Londoners? ![]() 3 Likes |
Re: Reasons Ladies In Diaspora Should Marry African Men by MrCork: 6:43pm On Jan 17, 2015 |
...not sure if we agree wit this thread coz clearly....all females prefa us Londoners (no ofeinse) ![]() 7 Likes |
Re: Reasons Ladies In Diaspora Should Marry African Men by Ewizard(m): 6:51pm On Jan 17, 2015 |
I dey talk say post long person cum still dey quote dsame post add... don't seem to understand what's wrong wif diz loserz mehn! Bleep it! 11 Likes |
Re: Reasons Ladies In Diaspora Should Marry African Men by motherlode: 6:57pm On Jan 17, 2015 |
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Re: Reasons Ladies In Diaspora Should Marry African Men by Nobody: 7:03pm On Jan 17, 2015 |
naturally:define strong? |
Re: Reasons Ladies In Diaspora Should Marry African Men by eyamensah(m): 7:04pm On Jan 17, 2015 |
MrCork: Londoners can't satisfy their women...if u doubt ask John Terry! 5 Likes |
Re: Reasons Ladies In Diaspora Should Marry African Men by DeCritique(m): 8:28pm On Jan 17, 2015 |
Some points sound quite true... Overall, the average African man protects his family with his life... Therefore they make very good husbands!! Shout out to all African Men!! 9 Likes |
Re: Reasons Ladies In Diaspora Should Marry African Men by ichidodo: 8:29pm On Jan 17, 2015 |
It isn't every thread i must comment on...is it? 3 Likes |
Re: Reasons Ladies In Diaspora Should Marry African Men by Maczeelly(m): 8:29pm On Jan 17, 2015 |
Hmmmmmm |
Re: Reasons Ladies In Diaspora Should Marry African Men by DickDastardly(m): 8:29pm On Jan 17, 2015 |
Oya where unu dey? |
Re: Reasons Ladies In Diaspora Should Marry African Men by PerfumeRepublik: 8:29pm On Jan 17, 2015 |
Ewizard: Lol 1 Like |
Re: Reasons Ladies In Diaspora Should Marry African Men by DollyParton1(f): 8:29pm On Jan 17, 2015 |
Bullshit. Who says a non African man does not posses all these qualities. Op u have no idea what u are talking about. Its about individuals and not a race thing. You need to see all these London boys, u will change ur tori. 20 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Reasons Ladies In Diaspora Should Marry African Men by timmydavids(m): 8:30pm On Jan 17, 2015 |
How true are all these hypotheses and are they proven yet? 2 Likes |
Re: Reasons Ladies In Diaspora Should Marry African Men by jmoore(m): 8:30pm On Jan 17, 2015 |
Some not all. 2 Likes |
Re: Reasons Ladies In Diaspora Should Marry African Men by Ana234(f): 8:31pm On Jan 17, 2015 |
Gbam!!! |
Re: Reasons Ladies In Diaspora Should Marry African Men by eedris07(m): 8:32pm On Jan 17, 2015 |
Thumb up 4 we African men jaree.. 2 Likes |
Re: Reasons Ladies In Diaspora Should Marry African Men by Nobody: 8:33pm On Jan 17, 2015 |
Op some na big fat lie oooo anyways #proudly african#. 4 Likes |
Re: Reasons Ladies In Diaspora Should Marry African Men by manny4life(m): 8:34pm On Jan 17, 2015 |
Good to know.. When will I see [size=16pt]Reasons Men in Diaspora should NOT marry African women? ![]() 2 Likes |
Re: Reasons Ladies In Diaspora Should Marry African Men by fijiano202(m): 8:34pm On Jan 17, 2015 |
Best thread on FrontPage today...am tired of all those political news and junks |
Re: Reasons Ladies In Diaspora Should Marry African Men by Nobody: 8:34pm On Jan 17, 2015 |
Bullshit 4 Likes |
Re: Reasons Ladies In Diaspora Should Marry African Men by nicflame(m): 8:35pm On Jan 17, 2015 |
I hope they heed |
Re: Reasons Ladies In Diaspora Should Marry African Men by adedayourt(m): 8:35pm On Jan 17, 2015 |
Cateris Paribus |
Re: Reasons Ladies In Diaspora Should Marry African Men by Nobody: 8:36pm On Jan 17, 2015 |
Nneka123... I'm only commenting here because I waaaaaant to troooooooll yooooooooouuu. Lol... So what have you counted today? |
Re: Reasons Ladies In Diaspora Should Marry African Men by duni04(m): 8:36pm On Jan 17, 2015 |
Lol. He'll be shunned if he gets out of line, he's open to learning, you'll get a big family and craves nurturing. Na husband or dog u dey find? ![]() 1 Like |
Re: Reasons Ladies In Diaspora Should Marry African Men by fijiano202(m): 8:37pm On Jan 17, 2015 |
manny4life:check new topic am sure it's there.... Nairalanders are good with anything counter-related 1 Like |
Re: Reasons Ladies In Diaspora Should Marry African Men by asodeboyede(m): 8:37pm On Jan 17, 2015 |
naturally: |
Re: Reasons Ladies In Diaspora Should Marry African Men by baybeeboi: 8:38pm On Jan 17, 2015 |
African wat? here in Cleveland,we see African Men as Terrorists and Fraudsters 1 Like |
Re: Reasons Ladies In Diaspora Should Marry African Men by Psittacus(m): 8:39pm On Jan 17, 2015 |
Advertico:As if u don't already know. |
Re: Reasons Ladies In Diaspora Should Marry African Men by Joskiro50: 8:39pm On Jan 17, 2015 |
Hmmmn diz one wey I just dey enta FP well well nowadays.......... Well back to business. Thumbs up @ op. This write up is very very true. But how bout us in France?? |
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