Lilamartedi:
Lol. You can curse for Africa

tpiaP:


true.

however, there are actually quite a lot of diasporan ladies on nl and also quite a lot of African men on nl.

unfortunately, this mistrust and reputation of Nigerians for 419 and other unsalacious activities, is making the ladies keep their distance.

but I think non-Nigerian ladies don't mind taking the risk sha.

MissMeiya:
This is hilarious, actually. With the way boys on Nairaland abuse Nigerian women on this website, this thread is actually hilarious.

kobonaire:
LOL, he's always getting banned, yuio33 is the 33rd variant of his original name!

MissMeiya:


Non-Naija ladies don't have anyone to warn them. We've had the message hammered into our heads from the time we completed puberty.

tpiaP:



non-naija ladies might be less strict with their requirements perhaps.

they overlook things which might be considered seriously in naija when it comes to marriage.

its easier to do that if you're from a different culture.

Bamz:


You might need to open another thread for those things you mentioned. This article is purely on the pros. Every marriage surely has its setbacks and what have you not unless you're saying those things you mentioned are peculiar to African men.

niggadee:
Who be dis mumu

MissMeiya:
This is hilarious, actually. With the way boys on Nairaland abuse Nigerian women on this website, this thread is actually hilarious.

MissMeiya:


I'm not sure about that. Diasporans pretty much are from a different culture.

Ive never seen a group of males that are sooooooo obsessed with women like the way Nairaland males are

baybeeboi:
you are a terrorist and fraudster

Sophyrocks:


You couldnt have said it any better. Ive never seen a group of males that are sooooooo obsessed with women like the way Nairaland males are. Just check the romance section. Every topic there is about ladies with streams of males commenting till the threads stretch out to 20 pages. And now these are the same males convincing the same ladies they diss 24/7 to marry them.

If you have to convince your ladies to marry you, that means you know inwardly that you have a lot to work on yourself. As i was reading the hilarious points the Op mentioned, i was just laughing because we all know how some of our men act the very opposite of what the Op is saying. Even the way they curse ladies here is enough proof to tell you that the Op is not being truthful.

eyamensah:
Family and marital dynamics in African cultures are varied and interesting, and the relationship between a husband and wife is sacred. Here are 10 reasons an African man would make a great husband:

1. He will do anything to protect your family:
In most African tribes and cultures, anything that threaten or offends a man’s family is immediately a threat or offense to him. You’ll never feel alone in your battles—your husband will fight them like they’re his own.

2. Your relationship is a building block to him:
In many African cultures, the marriage between a man and a woman is a crucial building block for a man’s life. After being married, in many African cultures, a man is then able to go after other pursuits. Your relationship won’t just be as something “fun” or seen as an accessory: it will be seen as crucial.

3. He has a good relationship with his parents:
In African cultures, men take care of not only their wives and children, but also their parents and even grandparents. If you’re tired of meeting men who don’t have good relationships with their parents, that probably won’t be an issue with an African man.

4. You’ll get a big family:
African families stay very close. An African man feels as obligated to help his third cousin as he does his immediate siblings. When you marry an African man you’ll instantly inherit a large, close-knit and supportive community.

5. He feels responsible for the wellbeing of your family:
In African cultures, the man is the provider of the family. There is no doubt in the mind of an African man that he is directly responsible for the wellbeing and happiness of his family. He’ll think about how all of his decisions affect you, not just himself.

6. He is proud to be a husband:
Whereas in many western cultures, men are taught to see marriage as some sort or prison— something that takes away their freedom — African men see it as a means to new freedom. Others see him as a man now instead of a boy. He is proud to say he has a wife and children, rather than sheepish about it. In African cultures, your success is measured more by how strong and happy your family is than anything else.

7. He’ll be shunned if he gets out of line:
In African cultures, if a man mistreats his wife, the rest of the community tends to shun him and considers him useless. Since one of his most important roles is as husband and father, if he does something bad for the family, his community truly does see him as a failure.

8. He appreciates a home cooked meal:
Western cultures have learned to appreciate endless pasta cards from chain restaurants, great deals on ready-made chicken from the deli and celebrity-run restaurants. And that has turned the homemade meal into something second rate and boring. But an African man really values a good homemade meal.

9. He’s open to learning:
If a man moved directly from Africa to the United States, he already accepts that life will be very different and there will be a lot to become accustomed to, so he will be open to learning from you!

10. Nurturing doesn’t look needy:
Many women from the western world have been taught that being nurturing to a man can look needy—like taking care of him when he’s sick or just being particularly affectionate. But African men are very comfortable with being nurtured, and in fact crave it!

niggadee:
Who dash dis hypocrite visa

MrCork:



...Bro....so u prefa African men with Tribal mark...abi?....wots wrong with we Londoners?

Sophyrocks:


You couldnt have said it any better. Ive never seen a group of males that are sooooooo obsessed with women like the way Nairaland males are. Just check the romance section. Every topic there is about ladies with streams of males commenting till the threads stretch out to 20 pages. And now these are the same males convincing the same ladies they diss 24/7 to marry them.

If you have to convince your ladies to marry you, that means you know inwardly that you have a lot to work on yourself. As i was reading the hilarious points the Op mentioned, i was just laughing because we all know how some of our men act the very opposite of what the Op is saying. Even the way they curse ladies here is enough proof to tell you that the Op is not being truthful.

Kachisbarbie:

lols.
The way they would gang up and come for the females is always classic.
Then when it's on males and females come for them, they are quick to call one a feminist or derogatory names