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My Girlfriend 4 Over 5yrs Has Just Given Me 3 Months To Be A Man Or Loose Her (2) (3) (4)
So Once Again Where Do You See Yourself In 5yrs? by Nobody: 12:31pm On Feb 02, 2015 |
YoungLadies.......where do you see yourself in 5yrs? Where do you see your future going? Whether you see yourself married or single with a career, what you do now will determine how comfortable you'll be. A woman must have goals, she must see herself more than a wife, you are a soul that came to earth for a reason, your life also has a purpose.. A woman must be independent, you must learn to stand on your own two feet, not for oppression or for competition with a man, but for survival.... A woman that have no dreams will become, her friends errand girl, you will be that one friend amongst them that everyone calls whenever they need someone to send back and forth, while they are at work or in their business place....because they know you are always available, you have no life, no future, always available... A married woman that totally depends on her hubby for everything is building resentments, a man will respect you when you have something you can bring to the table.....even if he is well to do, his respect for you will multiply, not because he want your money, but because you are representing him well in public...... In this day and age, no man wants a liability for a wife, they want an independent woman, they want your support, they want a mate that they can borrow her mind when it's time to make decisions..... You are inviting abuse and resentment if you wait on a man for your total well being, if he's feeding, clothing and doing it all.....eventually he will want to control you, matter of fact he owns your, you are his property, because if he says no.....no is no, you will have no opinion, if you disagree, you will not get what you want from him.....if he says sit you must sit or no money, no food, no clothing.....for your self respect, have your own, for your dignity, have your own....you won't have a say in your own home.... Eventually you will start to resent him, more importantly, you will start to resent and hate yourself.......you will lose respect of people.... So once again where do you see yourself in 5yrs? start to look at what you can do today to better your tomorrow....do you need to go back to school, it's never too late, what do you need to do to make that happen? do you prefer to learn a trade? How will you make it happen? Your future and the future of your children depends on it......your hubby may decide to leave or God forbids he dies, where would you be? Wake up, think on this....yes you are a woman, but your purpose here is not to be a bystander.....you are also capable of leading........ There's nothing wrong if you lend or even give your hubby money to start a business.... NOTHING! Those days of them saying female children are worthless are over........... OVER! STAND UP!!! |
Re: So Once Again Where Do You See Yourself In 5yrs? by DeeBoiyy: 12:49pm On Feb 02, 2015 |
In five years i see you in kirikiri |
Re: So Once Again Where Do You See Yourself In 5yrs? by iceberylin(m): 1:08pm On Feb 02, 2015 |
Swearing into office.. President things #BELIEVE |
Re: So Once Again Where Do You See Yourself In 5yrs? by KingTom(m): 1:23pm On Feb 02, 2015 |
I see myself married to Sarimah, with 20 children, and also President of the Nigerian Medical Association(NMA) as well as Chief medical Director (CMD) in my hospital |
Re: So Once Again Where Do You See Yourself In 5yrs? by Nobody: 1:34pm On Feb 02, 2015 |
In five years from now I see dangote being by driver |
Re: So Once Again Where Do You See Yourself In 5yrs? by Sarimah(f): 1:41pm On Feb 02, 2015 |
KingTom:I like your faith |
Re: So Once Again Where Do You See Yourself In 5yrs? by KingTom(m): 1:44pm On Feb 02, 2015 |
Sarimah:Shebi 20 children is not too much |
Re: So Once Again Where Do You See Yourself In 5yrs? by Sarimah(f): 1:53pm On Feb 02, 2015 |
KingTom:Nah...why not make it 40? |
Re: So Once Again Where Do You See Yourself In 5yrs? by KingTom(m): 1:55pm On Feb 02, 2015 |
Sarimah:Okay, the more the merrier, shall we try 60? |
Re: So Once Again Where Do You See Yourself In 5yrs? by Nobody: 1:57pm On Feb 02, 2015 |
maybe I should go and ask T.B. Joshua |
Re: So Once Again Where Do You See Yourself In 5yrs? by Sarimah(f): 2:01pm On Feb 02, 2015 |
KingTom:u aff craze finish |
Re: So Once Again Where Do You See Yourself In 5yrs? by KingTom(m): 2:02pm On Feb 02, 2015 |
Sarimah:No I still get small uncraze with me |
Re: So Once Again Where Do You See Yourself In 5yrs? by Sarimah(f): 2:05pm On Feb 02, 2015 |
KingTom:I doubt |
Re: So Once Again Where Do You See Yourself In 5yrs? by KingTom(m): 2:31pm On Feb 02, 2015 |
Sarimah: |
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