blackbeau1:
He who hasn't sinned should throw the first stone. How many ladies has the guy soiled? How many have aborted for him? Those are the questions he should answer. If the answer is none,then he should call off the wedding. If not,he should remember why he wanted to marry her in the first place and go on with the wedding . I know its hard

Babe! Everyone has sinned and fall short, we cant dispute this fact....but some acts are just too daring that they cannot be over looked..but can still be forgiven however!

remsonik:
What she did is bad and she should have even broken up with the guy. It happened to someone I know,her ex was her fiance cousin and they have even done an abortion together. The fiance was even willing to go ahead with the marriage but her father insisted that NO. This girl is wayword and the father knows the kind of daughter she has before she goes sleeping with her husband's cousin

Hmmmm...orishirishi

xtervaganza:
The guy never even yansh her b4? What a loser

But you ladies are wicked ooo

Imagine o...bleeping the living day light of other guys abuna...but starving her husband to be the kittykat

the good thing out of all this is that I ate his wedding rice twice [/quote]

hahahahahahahaha, Ole

neoapocalypse:


Happened to a neighbour , his first wife almost pushed an illegitimate child unto him. He was dating this banker girl for like two years before going abroad to do a six month course , two months after getting back she informed him she was pregnant and that they needed to tie the knot before she gives birth , my guy was overjoyed and made plans to do the introduction and marriage proper. A date was fixed and wedding took place , a month after the wedding she went into labour and gave birth , that was where the katakata come bust , according to calculations she wasn't due till the 3rd month after the wedding , my guy was puzzled initially and had to inquire if the baby was premature but the doctor assured him that the baby was carried to full term and not a premature birth. You had to see the wife , she was swearing with everything she had that the baby belonged to my guy but he just wouldn't have any of it. Eventually when the guy threatened that he would go to any length even if it means taking the child abroad to do a paternity test that she opened up. While my guy was abroad she was having a no strings attached affair with a colleague of hers at the bank. Needless to say my guy divorced her and is married to another lady , the good thing out of all this is that I ate his wedding rice twice

hahahahahahahahaha, Ole..

Ilekeh:


People have several legible reasons which is none of your business to question, but could understand.


Financial, personal, etc

And after knowing the reasons?

jamesbridget13:
if na me dem do dat kind thing. hmmm na only God know sha. because if d guy continue d trust will not be there. n he wont be hapi with her. my thought though

That is it O!

Reiyvinn:


the thunder that will fire you is still taking tramadol

Hahahahaha...calm down bros!

Maamin:



Imagine o...bleeping the living day light of other guys abuna...but starving her husband to be the kittykat

no mind dem bloody hypocrites.




Dem never born babe wey I go date wey I no go kpansh.



The relationship will be over b4 it even started

AreaFada2:
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Sure not true where people marry as virgins typically.

Otherwise genetic labs have proven this.
Also, 30% of all kids don't belong to their supposed biological dad.

In cities like Lagos, PH etc, the kids belong to client that deposits money, neighbour, pastor, work colleague, husband's best friend, maiguard, driver, old boyfriend, old sugar daddy. The list is endless.

As for first born, many girls have unprotected sex with two to three guys, sometimes until wedding night and beyond.

Poverty and greed are major reasons. Brazilian hair, iPhone, BB, Dubai trip, school fees, rent etc.

In about 10 years, DNA test kits will be available cheaply in pharmacies.

Wind go blow fowl nyansh well well. Men should brace themselves.

Hmmmm..looks like we are all in for this cruise..issokay! We still got to learn though!

xtervaganza:
no mind dem bloody hypocrites.




Dem never born babe wey I go date wey I no go kpansh.



The relationship will be over b4 it even started

take am easy O

Fairgodwin:


hahahahahahahahaha, Ole..

See you wey dey talk , na una dey collect extra plate join

Maamin:


Na u enjoy pass O..chai! I dey like wedding rice ehn!!

My brother the rice make sense no be small

neoapocalypse:


See you wey dey talk , na una dey collect extra plate join

Hahaha, na lie o.
Jokes apart, I'm not a party person and I'm not really a people person.

emmyrichie:
Wait until the wedding day when people are gathered, grab the mic, narrate the whole tale and walkout of the venue. Na the stigma go haunt am till she gets to the threshold of hades.

Guy u wicked

denko:
if you love her forgive her and go ahead,

4giv fire..

neoapocalypse:


My brother the rice make sense no be small

When I go come chop ur wedding rice too?

meforyou1:
just go ahead with the marriage plans. it's her past life.

The op said she recently had a abortion and the groom never touched her sexually, would you still continue with the plans?

This your story, I know say na tales by moonlight but just in case there's a possibility of it happening, I wan ask, wetin make dem no do am?! Woman wan bang, man dey dia de form christ embassy, he got served!

Maamin:


When I go come chop ur wedding rice too?

See your longer throat , as I dey see you so you go finish the rice on that day

Maamin:


Is that coming from your church mind?

yes.

neoapocalypse:


See your longer throat , as I dey see you so you go finish the rice on that day

Na just two plates I go chop..

Well,never turn a ho' to a house wife. Enough said

sauceny:
If truly he was a qualified doctor,he should have understood the "patient doctors confidentiality"

If i were the lady in question, i would drag him to court & ask his license be revoked with effective immediately.

The Doctor is church designate. They will tell what they find to the pastorate.

rotimilax:
Well,never turn a ho' to a house wife. Enough said

Coz Ho' dont act right...these ho's are ho-rrible

*in ludacris voice*

Nuezha:


The Doctor is church designate. They will tell what they find to the pastorate.

Haha..abii O

kai una women ehh, una deeds nowadays is so dark....

ammyluv2002:
Cancel the wedding ASAP

men like you are a disgrace to manhood, so you re not even greatful how ur fellow man was saved from almost signing his own death warrant unknowingly..may God give u such a wife in future and doctors will conceal her evil act from you in jesus name,say amen...

sauceny:
If truly he was a qualified doctor,he should have understood the "patient doctors confidentiality"

If i were the lady in question, i would drag him to court & ask his license be revoked with effective immediately.

GOD too luv this man, he is inoccent and he was saved at the last minute from signing his own death warrant unknowingly...haba hearts of women are so dark...

My guy no need to continue with marriage ooh.aha DAT Nah question self. just tell am say baby its over.......imagine few days to marriage she dey do abortion ahaaaaaaa DAT one mean say Nah skin she dey give all dem Nigga since Ooooh. Thank God say u never do the Gurl if not I for advise you to go do test

Edusouls:
men like you are a disgrace to manhood, so you re not even greatful how ur fellow man was saved from almost signing his own death warrant unknowingly..may God give u such a wife in future and doctors will conceal her evil act from you in jesus name,say amen...

No mind the eeediot

lastpage:


You are right... but like all whistle-blowers, he did it for "the good of the Society"........ which far outweighs any other consideration we might think of.

Just put yourself in the shoes of that man.... (even if you are a woman, just imagine that someone knew your husband has impregnated woman and was with her some days before you accepted his proposal for a wedding.... and did not inform you? ...or if you are the Mother of the man that is about to start life "being duped"!)
...... marriages founded on such deceitful pedestals are the ones that produce broken homes and broken families/children.

Now, she is FREE! She can go and marry the man she really loved, who impregnated her...
..and the man too can reset his life from gear One! Its never too late to do it "right".

Lastpage!

This actually happened to a female relative. Two weeks to wedding, her fiancé's relatives broke the news to her that another girl was close to delivering a baby for the dude.
They told her as soon as they knew, not to be party to concealing that situation.

She asked me what to do. My advice was simple. It's up to you. If you love him enough such that if he had impregnated a lady 5 years into your marriage, you would forgive him, then go ahead.

If you'd walk out of the marriage even with kids in tow, no point going into the marriage.

She went ahead and they are happy together.

What makes a woman's case different is the possibility of bringing another man's child to you the husband.

The other aspect of female infidelity is that they can be manipulated by their lover to harm you, even kill you especially if you're rich.
Men have the programming to juggle several women under one roof. King David and others did it.