Chivalry is d act of showing respect nd courtesy to a lady. Every woman's dream is to find a guy who still believes in chivalry. Even if u don't, I bet she secretly admires dat guy who'll never stop opening doors for his gf n wonders y u can't do same
So let's look at those chivalrous habits that could attract any lady
1 . A gentleman opens doors for a lady :
As far as a gentleman is concerned, all women and girls should be treated as ladies. Opening d door for her shows courtesy.

2.A gentleman walks outside the sidewalk :
The idea being to protect her from the traffic, cars, etc..

3.A gentleman gives her his jacket :
Especially when it's raining. When she's cold, she's cold. Just take ur jacket off.

4.A gentleman is punctual:
If u ain't early, ur late. Respect her time. Never keep a woman waiting.

5.A gentleman rises when she enters the room:
Again, a sign of respect. At a meal, u rise when she excuses herself. Even a partial rising shows gentleman manners.

6.A gentleman gives compliments sincerely and often:
The first words out of ur mouth wen u meet a woman in a date should be along the lines of "you look stunning".

7.A gentleman gives up his seat :
On the bus, in the waiting room, it doesn't hurt. And when u c a pregnant woman or an elderly lady, ur first instinct should be to immediately stand and offer ur seat.

8.A gentleman says please and thank you:
A simple please and thank you can go a long way.

9.A gentleman is never rude:
Being offensive is ill mannered and makes u look like an a**. Treat people as you would like to be treated.

10. A gentleman pays the bills :
Whenever on a date.....
11.A gentleman gets her safely to the door :
Her safety, comfort and well being are your priority. After a date, meeting, whatever... Make sure she gets home safely.
12.A gentleman keeps his word and a secret :
When u are entrusted a secret, guard it as closely as u do ur own. There's no breakup, fight or argument dat absolves u from diz responsibility. Live and die with the secret entrusted to you.
13.A gentleman never hits a woman....ever:
No matter what, u never hit a woman. There's no excuse.

14.He goes out of his way to let her know he cares . every single day:calls, texts, flowers. Show ur affection every day.
15.A gentleman cares about ur opinions
and shows respect:women know when they are being taken seriously. Listen to what she has to say with respect.

16.A gentleman helps her to be seated :
Pull the chair out for her.....
17.A gentleman calls when he says he'll call :
When a guy says he'll call 5:30pm and actually calls 5:30pm,he's a gentleman.

Do you love chivalry? is it dead?

Jonzing as usual

Must you go through all this gentlemanly chivalrous habit to attract them . . . .when you can attract them just by making some dough

mention me whenever the counter thread z available.....

typing......

Whats this poo about different lists of something on Nairaland these days

zico18:
Must you go through all this gentlemanly chivalrous habit to attract them . . . .when you can attract them just by making some dough

actually not all ladies are like that. Buh I bet you 90% could be attracted by this habits

Movesz:
Jonzing as usual

lol.. No be jonzing oh

18. A gentleman doesn't exist

Oga OP.. Dis ur chivalry ve nofin to do with nigerian galz.
Stop copying sh1t online for 9ja galz consumption.

My queshion;
*Which 9ja gal go look ur face wen hunger dey hammer u..
*Open door? Nah danfo door u wan open 4 d gal.
*Compliment? Any 9ja gal u compliment is already reasoning dis guy wan toast mii..
*jacket? Comot ur suit jacket wear 9ja gal mk she ask u weda nah her heat go kill.
*give up ur seat? Then she has got a story to tell her fwend about d mugu she met.

*d guy goes out his way bah? Dat guy don finish cous nah u go pay her sibling skool feez

Abeg I go stop here..
Chilvary ko chidi nii..



In Igbo land chivalry is called Ego...

ULSHERLAN:
18. A gentleman doesn't exist

they actually do...

A gentle man will nak apako

Not here in Nigeria will you see a man doing these.

They are bossy and unromantic in nature

sanbells:
they actually do...

Not all ladies will appreciate all that. Cheat is, know what your girl likes and give it to her. Some of you ladies are confusionist

menix:
Oga OP.. Dis ur chivalry ve nofin to do with nigerian galz.
Stop copying sh1t online for 9ja galz consumption.

My queshion;
*Which 9ja gal go look ur face wen hunger dey hammer u..
*Open door? Nah danfo door u wan open 4 d gal.
*Compliment? Any 9ja gal u compliment is already reasoning dis guy wan toast mii..
*jacket? Comot ur suit jacket wear 9ja gal mk she ask u weda nah her heat go kill.
*give up ur seat? Then she has got a story to tell her fwend about d mugu she met.

*d guy goes out his way bah? Dat guy don finish cous nah u go pay her sibling skool feez

Abeg I go stop here..
Chilvary ko chidi nii..



In Igbo land chivalry is called Ego...

very funny. Buh the fact still remains... SOME girls still believe and respect guys who practice it

sanbells:
very funny. Buh the fact still remains... SOME girls still believe and respect guys who practice it

Madam datz afta u mst weighed d guyz pocket.

diddydiva:
Not here in Nigeria will you see a man doing these.

They are bossy and unromantic in nature

Don't generalize yet

ULSHERLAN:

Not all ladies will appreciate all that. Cheat is, know what your girl likes and give it to her. Some of you ladies are confusionist

well I give it... 90% of ladies will appreciate this... Unless she's a local breed

sanbells:
well I give it... 90% of ladies will appreciate this...Unless she's a Nigerian

You are right with the bolded

menix:


Madam datz afta u mst weighed d guyz pocket.

... They don't really have to weigh the guys pocket to determine this.... Well depends on the kinda girl shaa

Akdegreat:


Don't generalize yet

hmmmmmmm

if you say so

on my point tho

ULSHERLAN:


You are right with the bolded

abeg oh. Not all 9ja girls

sanbells:
abeg oh. Not all 9ja girls

Well maybe you are not one of the good ones

I'm okay with all except #10 & #14. And the compliments, if excessive, may become annoying.

sanbells:
well I give it... 90% of ladies will appreciate this... Unless she's a local breed

Wicked!!!

I don't really care about all these, seriously

But u see no. 6, 13, And 14, its a must for my own gentleman
I appreciate them alot

sanbells:
... They don't really have to weigh the guys pocket to determine this.... Well depends on the kinda girl shaa

Yes!! especially not 9ja galz.
Cous I know I was more than chivalry wen I was a student nd no chick look my face.

Ok o, incase sha.

«--------------------------------- fllw this path n you will get to where you belong @ OP

menix:


Yes!! especially not 9ja galz.
Cous I know I was more than chivalry wen I was a student nd no chick look my face.

perhaps ur FACE didn't go with the chivalrous habit.. Maybe it scared them away.. Kinda

sanbells:
perhaps ur FACE didn't go with the chivalrous habit.. Maybe it scared them away.. Kinda

Maybe..
Buh wiv dat same face 2day I can't remember wen last I had to go thru d rigorous stage of toasting d opposite sex..

menix:


Maybe..
Buh wiv dat same face 2day I can't remember wen last I had to go thru d rigorous stage of toasting d opposite sex..

well then I guess things changed. Ur FACE too