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Re: Should I Confront Him Or Walk Away Quietly? by adorable29(f): 8:24am On Feb 26, 2015 |
searching4love: Hahaha! Look at who is talking. I want to think you are on NL as a troll or something and that ur post are just for fun. Its hard to believe that someone as "IMBECILE_ic" and moronic as you are can access the internet. Sincerely , from the bottom of my heart, you need to be admitted in a psychiatric ward if your post are real. PM me. I can help you. |
Re: Should I Confront Him Or Walk Away Quietly? by Nobody: 8:24am On Feb 26, 2015 |
Melahou: lolz, you are the one nagging |
Re: Should I Confront Him Or Walk Away Quietly? by IYANGBALI: 8:25am On Feb 26, 2015 |
2 used condoms = 2 sweet rounds of hot sex.kai me I no go gree o,I must retaliate with his driver,mai gauard or gardner,so that my own go pain am pass and na four rounds I go do,with four condoms |
Re: Should I Confront Him Or Walk Away Quietly? by Etruth: 8:26am On Feb 26, 2015 |
Meringe:is that true? |
Re: Should I Confront Him Or Walk Away Quietly? by UjSizzle(f): 8:27am On Feb 26, 2015 |
Olaone1:Lol wasn't aware I'd already been married off But God willing, I'll marry a honest man. 2 Likes |
Re: Should I Confront Him Or Walk Away Quietly? by davimiles(m): 8:28am On Feb 26, 2015 |
pwerrymansion:run to where.. the next guy that might be worse. let me tell u, even ur pop man might be guilty of this when he was agile... #justsaying |
Re: Should I Confront Him Or Walk Away Quietly? by pwerrymansion(f): 8:28am On Feb 26, 2015 |
kraftsta:mr kraftman I wonder what my moniker has got to do with ur suggestions,my moniker is actually my name if translated in my local language. I find it denigrating 4 u to attribute to sounding whorish.am sorry to dissappoint you, I still maintain my grounds that d OP should flee. FYI, marriage is to be enjoyed not managed. If for just few days she travelled, the guy started sleeping around and even being so careless to leave some in d trash bin. What will happen if eventually they do get settled and OP travels for even 1yr? In relationship what actually matters is respect and that has worked for me for 10yrs! And stop justifying infifelity and casting aspersions on people's Identity youngman! |
Re: Should I Confront Him Or Walk Away Quietly? by rman: 8:28am On Feb 26, 2015 |
Nairaland romance section is full of hypocrites. I have noticed everyone just seems to be perfect. They don't cheat and seems to have partners that do not cheat. Cheating should not be condoned but it is how you handle the situation when it pops up in your relationship that will define how successful your relationship will be. Reality is men and women cheat, A LOT! Unless, people on nairaland are not a true representation of what is out there which makes majority of the advice posters get to be rubbish and impractical. I also want to assume many of the dump him, he is the devil are either not in a serious relationship or they are actually dating the perfect cheat. 1 Like |
Re: Should I Confront Him Or Walk Away Quietly? by Meringe(m): 8:29am On Feb 26, 2015 |
Etruth:Why change the original comment? |
Re: Should I Confront Him Or Walk Away Quietly? by sheunflexy(m): 8:29am On Feb 26, 2015 |
UjSizzle:you nailed it joor.........kudos |
Re: Should I Confront Him Or Walk Away Quietly? by Ladybluecash(f): 8:31am On Feb 26, 2015 |
Accept my condolences babe lol. It is vry painful indeed bt i tell u d moment u quit na dat time u go see say babes r nt smilin sharpaly dem go grab him one hand.. Except ooo if u no love him so u want tak ds one as excuse or mayb jos mayb u don see anada person... Den u can fire nd sack him 1 Like |
Re: Should I Confront Him Or Walk Away Quietly? by Meringe(m): 8:31am On Feb 26, 2015 |
rman:My brother, that's what I said and some wants to crucify me. |
Re: Should I Confront Him Or Walk Away Quietly? by dipsyguy(m): 8:31am On Feb 26, 2015 |
seseannie: Ny advice is this, if He is guilty when you ask Him, please walk away because nobody can change any man except God. Please pity would not work so that you won't regret in the future.God reveals things like this to US so that we can take the right steps at the right time.God help you 1 Like |
Re: Should I Confront Him Or Walk Away Quietly? by Etruth: 8:32am On Feb 26, 2015 |
hardbody:Utter Crap |
Re: Should I Confront Him Or Walk Away Quietly? by rman: 8:33am On Feb 26, 2015 |
Meringe: You are a realist. |
Re: Should I Confront Him Or Walk Away Quietly? by Olaone1: 8:35am On Feb 26, 2015 |
UjSizzle:I am right here |
Re: Should I Confront Him Or Walk Away Quietly? by OBlaize(f): 8:36am On Feb 26, 2015 |
Meringe:hmm... Tsk... Tsk...tsk... I pity the woman that sees you and runs home to mama and say "mama I've found the man I want to marry" that'll be a collosal error 2 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Should I Confront Him Or Walk Away Quietly? by pwerrymansion(f): 8:37am On Feb 26, 2015 |
Benilily:I bet the guys would be clapping for u for defending infidelity. And don't be brainwashed that 'Men' are polygamous in nature. Women are too but that's y self control comes in.what happens to respect? I bet you wouldn't want to marry a cheating husband. Peradventure u do, come bk and write us your testimony! |
Re: Should I Confront Him Or Walk Away Quietly? by Adiwana: 8:37am On Feb 26, 2015 |
op,forget some useless comments here.INFIDELITY is a sin against mankind and God but our wicked generation finds reasons to justify it. comfront him,ask him about it.marriage no be relationship oo wey be about boyfriend,girlfriend..if he no give you tangible reasons,RUN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! 1 Like |
Re: Should I Confront Him Or Walk Away Quietly? by sexynabila(f): 8:38am On Feb 26, 2015 |
Jackeeh:God will bless u for dis post...d most annoying tin now is dat....d wonen are now d ones creating excuses for men who cheat... 1 Like |
Re: Should I Confront Him Or Walk Away Quietly? by Amhappy(f): 8:38am On Feb 26, 2015 |
What the guy did is gross. The lady just stepped out for a while and he is already doing another girl not in a guest house but in their house. This is not just cheating but also disrespect. Imagine what will happen when she go for the studies proper. For me confronting him is paramount. His reactions will determine your next step. |
Re: Should I Confront Him Or Walk Away Quietly? by sweetcocoa(f): 8:38am On Feb 26, 2015 |
How can you be asking what to do in a situation like this? Are you scared of this man you are about to marry? Why would you just quietly walk away when you are not sure? Seems to me like you already know the answer to why the condom is there. |
Re: Should I Confront Him Or Walk Away Quietly? by adorable29(f): 8:39am On Feb 26, 2015 |
Dear Poster, I know its difficult to realize that the woman you intend to marry next month brought home a STRONG man who bleeped the hell out of her TWICE!!! Please just ask her in a matured and respectful way if she cheated on you. If she apologizes, forgive her and marry her next month. Keep praying for her though cos she will definately continue during marriage! Don't just leave her like that. Let me tell you a secret, 90PERCENT of WOMEN are cheats and whores in nature! Ask NL guys who always emphasis this! Most women cheat on their men. So how are you sure the next woman won't be worse! You should be glad she uses CONDOM and not raw. MODIFIED: Oh, I thought the OP was a MAN. Anyway, No need to re-write! its the same advice I have for HER. Afterall, what is good for the goose Is also good for the gander! 4 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Should I Confront Him Or Walk Away Quietly? by Omogbhollahorn(m): 8:39am On Feb 26, 2015 |
pwerrymansion: Is your BF/Husband Beta ode omo |
Re: Should I Confront Him Or Walk Away Quietly? by mradjoy(m): 8:41am On Feb 26, 2015 |
NemzySeries:wicked guy, ah ah! |
Re: Should I Confront Him Or Walk Away Quietly? by Nobody: 8:44am On Feb 26, 2015 |
seseannie: Give your fiance the benefit of doubt. What if it was his friend who brought a lady over, and he carelessly left the used latex in the kitchen? Isn't that possible? I'll advise you confront him, but be subtle. |
Re: Should I Confront Him Or Walk Away Quietly? by sweetcocoa(f): 8:44am On Feb 26, 2015 |
Ladybluecash:Holy sh1t. Who are these women letting useless men walk all over them? This is nauseating. 3 Likes |
Re: Should I Confront Him Or Walk Away Quietly? by eazydon(m): 8:45am On Feb 26, 2015 |
pwerrymansion: Uloma my sweetheart |
Re: Should I Confront Him Or Walk Away Quietly? by airex(m): 8:45am On Feb 26, 2015 |
[quote author=Meringe post=31081742]Condom might be used for so many reasons. So you don't just conclude. What else is the condom used for Pls? Educate us |
Re: Should I Confront Him Or Walk Away Quietly? by UjSizzle(f): 8:45am On Feb 26, 2015 |
Olaone1:I like to judge people myself |
Re: Should I Confront Him Or Walk Away Quietly? by Etruth: 8:46am On Feb 26, 2015 |
Meringe:Not change per se. More like personalized the comment, in the hope of getting first hand knowledge , if true. |
Re: Should I Confront Him Or Walk Away Quietly? by dBard: 8:47am On Feb 26, 2015 |
pwerrymansion: It's really annoying the kinda rubbish you read on NL... 'all guys cheat, u can't find anyone better, d next mite be worse, hang on since it's bin 2 years....' etc. For all your information...Not All guys cheat. I for one, by God's grace, Don't and am Proud to say it and I know others that don't as well. Any guy that can cheat a month to will probably do so in marriage, and this is Marriage we're talking about, Not a regular relationship. Your fiance is a cheat, the o.p knows it that's y she looked for evidence and found it. The next step is yours to decide, but don't delude yourself with all the bullshit flying about here. 3 Likes |
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