khiaa:



Why would you say that, Masonz has been on this website for years and has always confessed to being gay, this story has nothing to do with surveys or getting reactions.

Thank you Khiaa.

Surveys and reactions indeed. They've left the main issue put up to be looking for where there's no issue.

smh

khiaa:
Masonz, I moved out of my parents home when I was 20 with no regrets.
Enjoy your new found freedom.

That's great. No regrets so far from my end also, just the whole sadness of my parents regarding it all. I just hope they let it slide with time.


Hope you're doing fine gal

ikechukwu354:




my guy not gay tho, but admire the courage tho it's useless in this type of country... buh its also gud u stay alone... creates more respect from ur parents...just saying tho

Thanks bro.

I had to move out at 20, with nt to hold on to but a dream, didn't even know where I was going. Its funny that in less than a year I've been able to secure my own apartment and even help others.
I'm still working on that dream. Oluwa thank you.

babyosisi:


I think you should tell them yourself.
I speak as a mother.It won't be cool for your parents to learn of this anywhere else but from you
I can't tell you they'll be delighted though.

From the reactions of parents to certain conversations they must have held with their child/children, the child will either feel comfortable tabling his/her issues/fears/worries/excitements/plans, etc, or they'd rather back out and deal with it on their own. This has been the case with me and my parents.

Right now they don't seem to me like the understanding type, and while i'm not entirely concerned about it, I just wouldn't wanna cause too much commotion or bring that much attention to myself, before someone will blame me for giving them a heart attack. Abeg.

So, for now, I'm chilling.

I get your point though, and thanks for it.

emmadejust:
there is never too early or late to move out from family home .....

but e bad say naa d money u start seeing at early age leads u to being gay.......

fame and fortune can be the destruction of some people life and destiny....

LMAO @ money making someone gay.
If you came into a large amount of money would you then turn gay?
lol Think before you post.

khiaa:



LMAO @ money making someone gay.
If you came into a large amount of money would you then turn gay?
lol Think before you post.

Some comments are dead on arrival.

GodMode:


Been gay is a crime against humanity...

I'm just knowing from your comment that he has since confessed about his deadly preference.

Ok, fair enough, if you didn't know, you didn't know.

Kolade354:
why will you be gay? There are some sin that cant destroy not only you but a whole nation. Repent and turn to a new leaf.

If homosexuality is such a dangerous sin why did is there homosexuality in the animal kingdom? seriously you Christians should start reasoning.

@ 75 because buhari is still living with his parent. lol

DesChyko:


Well, I have to say your presentation is quite complicated. The 'gay' part was unnecessary if actually your problem is with your parent's resistance. You drew attention to yourself instead and that is leading everyone to reflect on that 'unorthodox' element of you. That s by the way.
Naturally, every parent should be proud of their 'millionaire' son at such a cute age. Your progress should be their joy. However, since they're being negative about your decision, it may stem from the following guesses.
1. They probably don't believe you have enough cash to live alone yet.
2. They probably don't trust your decision-making yet. Review your activities while living with them.
3. You probably have unfulfilled obligations/responsibilities towards siblings or themselves and you are 'running out of reach' already.
4. They think you need a partner to help you manage or a family to 'utilize' the finances (before the tough times come, they fear)

About the marriage part, it would seem you aren't interested in the opposite sex (yet?). Don't expect any favours or consideration when you finally break the ice. Expect NONE at all. If you get some, just take it as a plus. But before you do, put your HOME in order since you're financially equipped. Make sure the needs of your siblings especially are not straining your parents. They may cut you off when you tell them you're (hehehehe).

Wish you luck! You need lots of it

Thank you. Well, the gay part was seriously also one of the reasons I moved out..so I had to put it all in.

1. Yes they may feel so, but at what point does someone start having "enough" cash? "Enough" is relative, which is highly dependent on the savings culture of the person in question, in comparison to the spending. I feel I even spent more when I was still with them. Now I can save better knowing I'm totally on my own. Not like I've been the type to ask for help anyway.

2. Actually they do, and this may be one of the reasons they don't want me out. Even my elder siblings come to me to seek advice on some occassions. I've always been the "go-to" person in the family.

3. Yes I do understand that I have obligations, family-wise, but nothing stops me from fulfilling those obligations from wherever I am. Even people living abroad still help their relatives back home when in need.

4. Sorry I don't understand your last point.

5. I'm not sexually interested in the opposite sex. As usual with gay people who have been pressured into marriage by their families (whether they know about their sexuality or not), and who still go to see their BFs behind the wife's back, I may be pressured into marriage...but I'm just not thinking about that now. A lot of things to achieve before then.


Thanks a lot for the input though

khiaa:



Ok, fair enough, if you didn't know, you didn't know.

Doesn't make a difference... Now I know and it's out of place...

Cos NL has started promoting gay threads...

Dolemite:


If homosexuality is such a dangerous sin why did is there homosexuality in the animal kingdom? seriously you Christians should start reasoning.

What animal kingdom

I'm atheist... Homosexuality is a crime against humanity... Its worse than sin...

masonkz:


That's great. No regrets so far from my end also, just the whole sadness of my parents regarding it all. I just hope they let it slide with time.


Hope you're doing fine gal

Don't worry about the sadness, all parents who love their children react the same way, they miss you right now but with time they will get over it.
Invite them over for Sunday dinners, or make sure they see you atleast once a week, make those phone calls 2 or 3 times a week, not every day because the goal is to get them independent of you much like getting a baby independent of his bottle, I'm sure you get the picture. Let them know that you love them and you needed to make this move for your personal growth and it has nothing to do with them.
By the way, I'm doing fine.

khiaa:



Don't worry about the sadness, all parents who love their children react the same way, they miss you right now but with time they will get over it.
Invite them over for Sunday dinners, or make sure they see you atleast once a week, make those phone calls 2 or 3 times a week, not every day because the goal is to get them independent of you much like getting a baby independent of his bottle, I'm sure you get the picture. Let them know that you love them and you needed to make this move for your presonal growth and it has nothing to do with them.

Finally the most reasonable comment. Thanks dear

Definitely gonna start applying this.

Am just Surprise,why no one is talking about u been gay,I stayed in England 4 Yrs. I still don't get why people I mean humans wanna do something God don't want ,or go opposite . Go to U village and tell them U gay,U hit a man in his anus.. I don't know what to say just try using the next hospital 4 mad people. U sick

Jfrezzy:
Am just Surprise,why no one is talking about u been gay,I stayed in England 4 Yrs. I still don't get why people I mean humans wanna do something God don't want ,or go opposite . Go to U village and tell them U gay,U hit a man in his anus.. I don't know what to say just try using the next hospital 4 mad people. U sick

Next!

khiaa:



LMAO @ money making someone gay.
If you came into a large amount of money would you then turn gay?
lol Think before you post.

is that what you understand about my message?

what my msg mean is that the little touch of cash he started handling at early age without morality guidance, self discipline, fear of God, and psychological directions in what will fit his future personality , lead him to being gay.

Oh Nigerians, my people.
Why are we so ignorant? So he said he is Gay! Kini big deal?? All of you who are criticizing him are no better. Some of you are even quoting scriptures, like you lead exemplary religious lives.
Oh please shut up you lots!!!
Mason, please quit worrying about your parents, you are a young man and on the right track. You must learn to say NO to them, and stand by your NO. Your parents will come around surely.

emmadejust:


is that what you understand about my message?

what my msg mean is that the little touch of cash he started handling at early age without morality guidance, self discipline, fear of God, and psychological directions in what will fit his future personality , lead him to being gay.

You must be an ignoramus. Moronic statements like this actually churns my stomach.

emmadejust:


is that what you understand about my message?

what my msg mean is that the little touch of cash he started handling at early age without morality guidance, self discipline, fear of God, and psychological directions in what will fit his future personality , lead him to being gay.

And you assumed all these from what i narrated. you know nothing about me. So leave it that way and either focus on the questions I asked, or leave the thread. Thanks

emmadejust:


is that what you understand about my message?

what my msg mean is that the little touch of cash he started handling at early age without morality guidance, self discipline, fear of God, and psychological directions in what will fit his future personality , lead him to being gay.

Your message is still foul, I don't care how much money a person makes at a young age, I repeat, MONEY DOES NOT MAKE A PERSON GAY!!!
Now you are disrespecting his parents insinuating that they brought him up with the lack of moral guidance, self discipline, The fear of God, and you got all of this from one paragraph that he wrote.
YOU DO NOT KNOW HIM!!

See comments,as expected

u need deliverance 4rm ur feelings...change d words u hear,the way u think n hw u feel(emotions). I knw d real u is nt gay...

Op
U mean to say guy or gay?

guy just reduce the number of bulala available to our female folks by one and denial one or more girl(s) happy-ever-after

masonkz:


i actually haven't told them about that yet, which is another reason I moved. I want to be at a safe zone when i do tell them eventually, and not be sent "parking".

Do you need to tell them that you are gay? You sure know it will drain them. Why not use this space and retrace your steps.
Goodluck.

guy just reduce the number of bulala available to our female folks by one and denies one or more girl(s) happy-ever-after

masonkz:


Finally the most reasonable comment. Thanks dear

Definitely gonna start applying this.

You are most welcome.

hidee20:
guy just reduce the number of bulala available to our female folks by one and denies one or more girl(s) happy-ever-after

And how many millons of men are there in Nigeria?
With so many men I'm sure there will be no woman left behind.

Jfrezzy:
Am just Surprise,why no one is talking about u been gay,I stayed in England 4 Yrs. I still don't get why people I mean humans wanna do something God don't want ,or go opposite . Go to U village and tell them U gay,U hit a man in his anus.. I don't know what to say just try using the next hospital 4 mad people. U sick

Read the title of the topic and continue from there.

Woged2005:
Once he becomes a 'Man'. Then the question is who is a 'Man'? Not all humans with 'ball's standing on two legs are men.

"And for this reason a 'Man' shall leave his mother and father and join his wife and they two shall become one"

By wife do you mean another feminine guy? Last I checked, this dude is GAY and proud of it.... @ OP, praying for you to have yet one more acheivement........ To begin to love to have "female women"... The dick is meant to go into the veejay(entry point) and not the a-hole(exit point)...